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Vikky014:
wht of caring u dnt want a caring man?

Mmmmmmm y didnt dey marry dem

coolscott:
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No wonder several in my family did not marry nigerian women.
Truth be told, I have also felt sorry (in the past) for nigerian women - having to cope with Nigerian men.

Mmmmmm B

MRBrownJ:
no you are not but you have to understand that such guys are very hard to catch, so unless you are at the top of the food chain of your gender, chances are it may be a while before you finally meet such guy (if ever).... so you can A) wait, B) accept that you are asking for too much, and therefore lower your unrealistic expectations or C) sample all the wrong men (out of desperation) until you finally realise in your late 30s that aint got what it takes to catch such man, and ultimately settling for any donkey out there due to body clock etc

Vikky014:
did i hear u say d guy shld nt b handsome and caring

presentable is ok for me

judedwriter:
"...i am just in my early twenties so no pressures on me to get married..." make hay while the sun shines-time waits for nobody. I have seen ladies more prettier than u in their late 30's still searching for a better half. I mean- if your standards r too high...time will elapse

dont worry abt me dear

obinnashady:
I sabi na,na why I talk am.stop f*cking old men,f*ck ur mate..

wah if i like old men dick?

MRBrownJ:
are you saying that any woman having an abortion for a guy, he would never marry her?



so a man that aint ready today, and ask his gf to have an abortion, will never ever be ready (with that said gf)?!



many think they can trap men, and hurry an unplanned marriage, thanks to a pregnancy.

use protection if u dont pregnancy

Dats her fault,she shud have protected herself

drnairalov:
m not even bashing let me just vent my anger or disappointment here..so i ve this friend..and i so much respect this girl cos of i stance with religion..i remember whenever we talk she is always preaching the bible to me or she tells me how is bad for me to be chasing girls bla bla bla. man this girl cud do no wrong in my eye..we ve stopped communicating in a long while tho, but i just saw her right now pregnant i cudnt even look at her in the eye to hold a tangible conversation wit her, just 19yrs old gyal. i felt like m d one pregnant.

why?? when condom dey why wud u let a guy deceive u to dis extent

obinnashady:
I know ur type,Runs gal wanna_be.

na u sabi

Cutehector:
any woman dat says she deserves a rich husband should be worthy of such...

well as guys look 4 a well mannered lady,so do girls look 4 a rich man...i guess d guys shud b worthy of such

firstking01:
Op, well said...bt i will concur wit u on one condition...dat dey will have a lion heart to succeed like us...dey shud graduate, hit d street, go frm one company to anada, if dey job ain't coming imediately, dey shud lay their hands on wateva will bring dem money for d mean time, op it seems u dnt knw wat real hustling is...all those tins i mentioned above, i bet u no nigerian gal can wanna go tru all dat, except for just a handful

well i hope u know hustling doesnt have a gud effect on females,make dem age faster

freakthingz:
Aight i've heard but just curious what do you want from a man?

some one dat is financially and morally stable,caring and with presentable physical features,doesnt need to be handsome

obiorathesubtle:
Werin dy worry this one?

nl guys unneccessary female mocking threads

freakthingz:
Nothing be my own buhafter she find man wey reach her status make she no come complain when konji no reach her status

Honestly i'm indifferent just felt like playing the devils advocate

well,she knows she cant have all from an old man,so she has to determine wah she wants...

flawlesRebirth:
.and must u throw insults see what am talking about

tnx 4 dis reply.....

kilokeys:
When u clock 38... Call us.. U hear..
I'll quote and reply u by then

lolx,i wud b married then

Teempakguy:
Chai . . . see english.

anyway . . . those who bash have their reasons, i guess. but i don't bash. my own philosophy is, if you want a rich man, be a rich woman yourself. there is no free food anywhere.

dats y i said d post is not 4 dose lazying around waiting 4 a saviour

RexKexMilann:
OP, Some Hoes Women Deserve all the "Bashings" They receive.

wah makes u think so? And examples of behaviours dah makes u think so

johnson232:
sheer folly....
must u exhibit how folish n silly u are?

its cos u cant comprehend wah i wrote dahs y u call it sheer folly

freakthingz:
Not up to her status but a 75yr old senator is
izzorai we have heard you

she knows wah she wanted in a man and she saw it in d man,so wat is ya own?

zinachidi:
talk is cheap

waaaaah do u mean?

Growing up,my dad always told me,if you can get the best why settle for less,i am not a popular figure on nl but i actually dont need to be to notice dah most guys that create threads here are just out to bash ladies...i am just in my early twenties so no pressures on me to get married...to all those bashing ladies who want a rich man as a husband,its dier choice respect it,she wants a good life for her and her children,nigeria so far hasn't improved one bit,the poor r still stagnant and d rich are getting richer,some guys on nl will even point to drivers and conductors as husband materials,have you seen how dirty dey look?? In all sincerity wud u want ur sis to bring someone like dah home I for one cant marry a man who lives in a face me i slap you cos dah surrounding is nt gud to raise up kids,no wonder d rich kids fair better....women want a good life not only for themselves but for their children,so stop calling them GOLD DIGGERS...btw this is for women dah are not idle and lazying around waiting for a rich saviour....tnx
Those also claiming that ladies form, note a lady will only form and say no to your advances if she sizes u up and notice u r nt up to her status,even those that can't feed themselves would man up and start wooing a babe,such arrant nonsense.So stop whyning ,there is a woman for everyman...

vizkiz:
it's not easy to change now. Not like there is a button I can just press to activate it

well just try 2 b mellow

Simply hang out more with frnds

vizkiz:
if I woze you ehn

dis is wah u mean by change kwa??

Me want a rich,handsome,caring,romantic,fun to be with guy,am i asking 4 too much

Op,e be like say u don see job 4 nl,u just dey create thread up and dwn

A good reputation is better dan silver and gold

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DGKN:
Saw this post on FB and decided to post it here....



So guys can be this wicked or was I a fool? After destroying the lives of different ladies, they settle down with almost the best. My boyfriend is contemplating ending our six-years-old relationship.

He hasn’t been able to come up with a reasonable excuse but quoted his pastor and I’m 100% certain it is due to the two pregnancies I or we aborted when we were undergraduates.

Of course, I had complications after the second abortion that almost took my life and since then we’ve been having protected sex. He has introduced me to his family and vice-versa but he hasn’t proposed to me.

He told me he can’t continue with the relationship because we are not meant for each other. He said his pastor told him I’m not his wife and our marriage won’t be fruitful but the pastor didn’t see it in his vision that I have once aborted twice for him.

We are still on the issue and I have let him realize he can’t walk out my life just like that! He said his mind is made up besides he has given his life to Christ and he wants a new beginning. A new beginning after destroying my future!

she is a confused fella,doesnt she know dah a guy dah allows u to abort 4 him wont marry her....

brandnew3:
Would you date a male Nairalander and probably go as far as having sex without worries that he might come online to share your escapades.


Over to you ladies.

This one is hard ehn! I know.

i have met only 2 nl guys,i didnt date dem,bt dey r cul,i aint d meeting kinda person

Mmmmmmm no comment

This is an absolute trash