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babyosisi: You must lack understanding
There are many facets to this story just by her own account and her words already betray her
We have not heard from the other side, have we

Is she of age?
Is she mentally stable?
Did she willingly consent ?

If the answers are all yes,she has no issues
That is a good place to start before we start talking about his MOG status
The pastor is a man with blood in his veins before he became an MOG isn't that so?

If you come quoting the Bible i may out quote you
You may have missed the part about being a source of temptation or seduction or causing someone to fall
Open that Bible you call a scam yet quoted from and read it well
The Pastor didn't go to her room remember


SHe took a cab and went to his hotel room
SHe followed him to the room
She accompanied him to the roof
SHe choose to drink alcohol
She walked over and sat on his lap and ended up in bed
And did that over and over and over again un coerced
He didn't put a gun to her head

At any point above she should have walked away but chose to be there and do those things because she had a plan and a motive to achieve fame afterwards
How do we know she didn't initiate them?
Women like men in authority and chase men in authority,that is a known fact,
There are females waiting in the wings to sleep with MOGs and men in positions of power

And when it goes sour they want to destroy those men

lyneetemanna: first you said you met him years ago,then u said six months ago,get it right, when did it happen give dates.Ese you said abuse then an affair,Reading true it is an affair,u consented,and you opened your legs wide open and it was sooo good,u went again daily.your body wanted it,u longed for it.you insulted the manned of God,callinn him a nigga,u shuld re think about who u are.read about Rahab in the bible.what is d correlation with Jesus saves and you sleeping with him.Read your bible daily.

topeliasu: Sister Ese of God i celebrate you,surely there are 2sides to every story, you see ese,theres more to christainity than being a church goer,christainity is a religion,COZA is not a religion,its obvious you got it wrong from the start no wonder you missed it @ d end, The Commonwealth of Zion Assembly is not a church its an Assembly,(i.e a group of pep gathered together in one place for a common purpose) we r not a generation dat plays church(i.e a building used for christain worship, a particular christain org with its own clergy building and distinct doctrines),we r not self righteous, you see this drama you just pulled on, all of this is on u,


Am a part of Coza's workforce, ilorin chapter, though am currently in abuja, n i attend coza abuja,i simply cannot relate with you, coz i keep 1dering if you were a snitch 4rm day 1,if u went through the trainings i went tru b4 n after i joined d workforce,and if you understood what COZA stands for,obviously u dont, i have told people dat being part of a church doesnt automatically qualify you as a christain,neida does being in the workforce am sure u can relate wit dis, coz even afta you supposedly joined d work force, you carried on your way of life, i cant really call it your past coz its your present, in regards to what you said about the fact that we dress on point to outshine each other,well like any other workforce within or outside a religious sect, its made up of humans n most of the attributes of being human is the flare for competition + jealousy, which can not be void even in d house of God, its glaring dat u came to church every sunday n tuesday, enjoyed d mirage of being amongst us,said i celebrate you to a thousand people, sat on 1 of our lovely chairs, enjoyed d spark and ambience of the hall, u cudnt get ur bottom up, and yet u never connected, if u havent noticed coza is not for the saved, its for the fallen, those who seekd to find the grace to stand again, its home to a lot of people,


Lets say there's a truth in all u said, hahaha, so did he point a gun to ur brain, and then due to your history in waywardness we know your wild enough to differentiate,black from white but you kept on going. Back, awwn we all understand what is wrong with u,you obviously wanted more,

Its a pity our society is not an organized 1, else you'll be sued n wen we win, Coza always win, u'll pay till dat your family wealth dries up,

You remember the story of solomon and david, every saint has a past and every sinner has a future, sincerely find jesus ese, and find peace then find your future, donot touch God's annointed,


#proudly COZA

babyosisi: You can chop whoever you want to chop,if the trumpet sounds on that bed or one of you kaput in the act,no be una go go hell faya?
The pastor had a affair with her and she willingly went into it
What is her motive for this other than to pull him down
He must have tried to pull away or did Pull away or she saw him being friendly with someone and jealousy got the best of her
I am a woman so I know how women behave
This has nothing to do with the guilt she says she feels
If she feels guilt,she tells a close friend and her God in prayer ad tirns away from the act
Not publish an article online in an attempt to humiliate the MOG after shehas talked to every one else about the affair and she didn't get the desired result

The pastor is married and most likely will remain married
She is a single woman hoping to be married
Will you advise your brother to marry this person?
Absolutely not

She should shut up and go and heal quietly
Nobody forced her to do anything here

This is a girl over 24 I suppose
This is no spring chicken

rhowly: .
It's a sad thing when people can't "admonish" without insulting the intended. Well I forgive u. Don't forget Mister that God was pleased with the temple Solomon built. You might wanna look it up, read my post and then try to see the implicit not just explicit intended purpose

striktlymi: ...evening came and morning came, the 12th day. Then seun said: mukina, let us create mods in our image and likeness. And so it was...they created mods...3 mods they created...two males and one female...

...the males they called: Obadiah777 and Ajibam while the female they called: HumbledbYGrace...then seun looked at the work of mukina, smiled to himself and said it was good...seun then turned to the mods and commanded:

Go into the religion section like sheep amongst wolves...be fruitful and exercise your powers, to those whose sins you forgive, they are forgiven and to those whose sins you retain, let them be forever banned...

...and on the 13th day...seun and his team rested.

babyosisi: Drama queen
The whole story smirks of nothing but mere showmanship
You chopped pastor,pastor chopped you kwa
Pastor has moved on,she should move on rather than make a fool of herself
The man didn't molest her
She walked in with both feet not an affair
Nobody here is excusing the pastor,he is human and she is a grown female that wanted the affair as well as the pastor
Let them confess quietly to their God and significant others
SHe is very very stupid publishing this nonsense on the internet
Can she sincerely tell us that she hasn't slept with many other men before and after the affair

tomzman: The OP abi Ese or whatever she calls herself needs to be flogged. A man called you to his hotel room, you entered and met him alone. He told you to come and sit on his laps, you did. He told you to kiss him and you did. For Christ's sake what else were you expecting! Some ladies amaze me. Did he force you or did he rape you? Why didn't you run out of his room when he told you to sit on his laps. Now you are here crying. Ese, 70% Of the blame is on you. I put the remaining blame on the 'pastor'

rhowly: I have attended COZA too on several occasions. Can't remember hugging by ushers o or mini skirts. Well u have attended longer. Sure COZA is glamorous n visually appealing but I often curb that critical voice by remembering that if we gotta offer to God then we must give him our best. Remember Solomon's temple?

prologue: Sometimes back, my ex told me she was to travel, dt d pastor wanted her to help with some clerical stuffs. My question was "are u d only gal in d church, dt u will have to travel a couple of hours to meet with a church program? I probed further and discovered dy had been having sex. She said she used to be shy and couldn't sing confidently, and d pastor - 1- openly rebuked her.
2- contacted her privately and encouraged her 3-told her he would remove the "spirit of shyness". When she resisted, he said as her spiritual father, he was in d position to tell her right or wrong... I had to call d monkey. He got angry and I knew d next person he would call was d gal, as I told him I was elsewhere n no longer interested in her. Simple. Encouraged her to maintain been distressed and feel intimidated while d conversation was recorded when he called. What d guy confessed when I told him I recorded his ranting is inadmissible. I told her to always pay her skool fees, as she is his responsibility now...
These things happen every time and her mom got a wind of it, but as usual, hush hush hush, so they won't say their daughter tried seducing pastor and sent by d devil to cause confusion in the house of God. Parents and guardians should not loose guards because the atmosphere is "churchy" no holy brother, just that he is not sufficiently tempted.

kingthreat: To people criticising the pastor.

[size=20pt]If you, your husband, brother and your father is not guilty of fornication or adultery, keep on mocking.[/size]

Corona99: u're an atheist! Who cares? N bsidz on a secnd tot, dz topic z nt meant 4 u... N tnx 4 d insult, i appreciate.

Corona99: hmm..ua a greedy n incompetent fellow...4rm waht u
jst listed..hw many of em av u put in2 practise! If u dnt
give hw else do u xpect 2 geht!

FOLYKAZE: Im greedy? Did I ask for any money or told you I dont
know when to give something to people in need?
Your question should be thrown to christian becaue im
atheist......im if i am fit in this discussion, then your
pastor, you and other foolish ingrates giving your hard
earn money to some men should be blame for not
practising what is laid or twisting it.
And you are so daft.......sorry for this.
#unfollow thread

diamondboa: Seun (Moderator), I suggest you set up a survey point on some serious topics on your platform .This in your own little way will go along way to tell the world the usefulness of such programs by the outcome of such survey .

novicali: I have read with keen interest about commentaries on the activities of the participants in the program called Big Brother Africa (BBA). Though, I have been blessed not to have watched any of the episodes live, it is interesting to read about some of the rotten activities taking place among the participants. Things that is shameful to mention what more when it done and aired for people’s consumption and we see people applauding and promoting such program with huge resources that should have been directed to some meaningful activities that will help humanity.
Actually if we have good leaders such useless, vulgar and anti cultural programs should on no account filter the screen of our electronic media. Let me say this, that there is “freedom and there is freedom to bondage”. What most people are fighting to gain nowadays is freedom to bondage not really freedom. Yes everybody should be free to watch whatever h/she deem fit in his/ her bed room, but one fact we are trying to ignore is that after watching such things they translate in the public life of such individuals, thereby in one way or the other causing moral pollution in the society.
Such vile programs does not in any way help in promoting the real freedom rather directly and indirectly dragging humanity into more shackles of moral dilapidation. Yet we and even our so called leaders celebrate these insanities in the name of modern mores. I was shocked by the gesture of President Jonathan to congratulate a onetime Nigerian winner of this debased program called BBA. Why? Just because he wanted to identify himself with the youths or probably with the current modernization vehicle that is moving in the wrong direction, of which many whose eyes are open but their minds or spirits are in the darkness are promoting.
My people we are fast losing ourselves to these immoral programs and activities surging up here and there in our society today. Our children no longer have their rights as supposed, we no longer respect them as children, and we treat them as adult. It is too bad to see on the walk ways of the major cities in Nigeria that traders and vendors display pornographic movies and magazines while children coming back from school and certain errands watch. Why is there such a sharp decline in our moral life? Where are those norms and societal values that bond our integrity as a people? We are no longer who we are, we are fast becoming other people, which mean that we have lost ourselves…… this is too bad to know.

omajali2003: I don't understand why people will read an article like this and rather than reflect soberly go about writing rubbish. If you have no comment keep quiet. The western world is a moally dead society and they will do anything to see that what is left of morality in Africa is also destroyed. BBA is a means of colonizing our cultural and moral values and it is obvious that some of us here are already slaves of this neo-colonialist agenda. Sad

Van snickers: Fellow Physics Nerds.

If a speed boat travels on a surface of water at a constantly increasing Speed. What will happen to the boat as it approaches the speed of light? Will it start sinking?

Mr anony: 1. You are ranting about something else entirely
2. God is not your genie or skydaddy or anything of the sort. He doesn't owe you anything

Mr anony: In what ways exactly are His laws immoral?

thehomer: How was it a wild unfounded assumption? I see no reason for opening up another thread. This one isn't full.



I started this thread to show you that his laws are immoral so trying to get me to appeal to his immoral laws isn't a good idea.

Paris_Love: It is a con indeed. Otherwise his head would be on the next chopping block for blasphemy.

sexymoma: Nah.... only that he stopped making the calling and when i do, it will ring for almost 6 times before picking it.

sexymoma: Nah.... only that he stopped making the calling and when i do, it will ring for almost 6 times before picking it.

Alfa-B:
Nobody will bring a consensus. The best thing, if Seun would agree, is get those that want to moderate to declare themselves, then he will chose about 3, or 4 or 5 of them that he wants and put up for a vote. The two with the highest votes moderate. That way no one will come to complain because we voted.

Tgirl4real: Hello all,

Firstly, I would like to appreciate everyone who honoured this call.

Secondly, this has turned out to be a futile exercise as Seun is yet to comment nor acknowledge this thread. I did this in good faith hoping it will achieve a positive result (we never can tell though...if you believe, all things are posible. ) and also as my contribution as a mod and also an 'active' member of this section.

So, I apologise for your time and effort at making this right.

As I wont stand and watch while my brothers and sisters are terrorised right under my nose on a site I labour for day and night, I have decided to step down as a moderator and will also withdraw from active participation on this forum. Nevertheless, I will continue to learn from you all.

Nice meeting you guys.