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romenna:
it's all abt mind conditioning.
We were born into a world where women r covered up. Our minds have bn conditioned to see covered up so u shud expect a reaction wen the opposite is the case

cruchenutii:
Intimidation also happens when there is too much pressure. What you don't know will not kill you, so stay away from such weddings.

InansBobo:
Since they are both mentees of Idahosa, I guess they might be a cordial relationship between the duo

PUSSYHOE:
oh men should control themselves while you keep dressing like whores? why do you dress like that if not to arouse men? get attention?

Colourich:
How do I overcome not going to church at all? People are already complaining, its not like I care about their opinon anyway.

tunjijones:
My boss. I can't tell u Wia he works nao. It's confidential

MobilityExpress:
I haven’t fasted in donkey years. My schedule is demanding and my stomach just won’t let me .

Xtianvic:
. Do you know that there would be no time and space btw heaven and earth? Go figure

tunjijones:
21 million Naira per month

Taylor430:
This is going to be a long write up but I need help from a matured outsider.

Today is Friday and I'm off work today. I wanted to spend time with my wife and daughter. I married my wife 3 years ago and we have been dating since 2008. We have a beautiful daughter who is 3 years old. I used to think I have it all. A young man who is 25 with a house of his own in Lekki. Two cars one for me and one for her. What else could a woman want!

She used to be my motivation to work hard. I wanted her to have it all. When I held my daughter in 2015. OMG!! It was the happiest day of my life. I said to myself life can't be better than what I'm currently experiencing.

I have found my wife texting dudes and trust me she is a very smart woman. Stay at home mum, so she can always be there for our daughters needs. My wife and I had this issue with a pharmacist in our estate a couple of months ago. They were always texting. Remember I said she was smart. They chat on whatsapp and she always deleted their chat. I couldn't get anything but I knew something was off. I logged on to her whatsapp on my laptop so I could see the chats before they get deleted. She called him pet names and I was so mad. This guy looks at me in the eye whenever I go get prescriptions for my wife, daughter and I.

I told her what I did to her whatsapp and I was impatient. I let the cat out of the bag before I could get anything. She denied ever having an affair and she was mad at me. I apologized. We went for a family vacation in Paris. It was my way of apologizing to her.

Fast forward to today. This unfortunate morning! I told her I would love us to go on a date tonight and she agreed. She is a serving corper. She told me she had an issue with her file and she wanted to sort it out. I knew something was off. I had her iPhone set up on my computer so I could know where exactly she would be.

The tracker on her phone stopped and the location was a nearby hotel just outside the estate. My head was spinning and I was thinking in my head. Do I really want to do this. Do I want to catch her in the act. It's going to change everything I thought.

I waited from 10am at the hotel, she left home by 9AM and I waited at the reception. I texted her where she was and if they are attending to her. She replied told me everything is being sorted. Not knowing I was waiting downstairs while she was having sex with another man. The receptionist didn't want me just sitting at their waiting room and asked me to leave. I told her I was waiting for someone and I paid for a room. I told her I'm waiting for some colleagues and I will only leave the waiting room when my guest arrives. She accepted. I have already paid *smiles*

She texted me by 12 that she was on her way home and I replied Ok. She met me at the hall. I looked at my wife and she saw me waiting. I didn't create a scene. I just wanted her to know that I saw her. I drove home and she called me crying if she could come home I told her why not.

She sat across me and I was tough on her. I told her to tell me the truth or else she would see the beast in me. She confessed they have been meeting for a month now and had sex twice at the hotel. My heartbeat dropped. I thought I was having a heart attack. What else could I have done differently I asked myself. Where did I go wrong?

I don't know what to do. I know for a fact I can never be married to her. This marriage is over. We have been together for since 2008 and I'm just finding out now. My daughter will be a result of separated parents. My worst nightmare.

When you catch someone cheating or telling lies. They don't change they only become smarter at getting caught. I don't think I can ever forgive her. She has to go. I need help!! I can't tell my parent. My mom loves her and they talk more than we do. I can't tell her parents they treat me like their child. Please help!! Matured minds only!!

Peteragan:
Mr Man what i will advise you first is to educate her on the Catholic Faith coz most of the comment here obviously show a shallow knowledge about what the Catholic faith entails and if she will not listen to you then i will advise that you look elsewhere.Also she has little knowledge about the faith from your post and you should not jeopardize your happiness for that flimsy reason.You can also still marry her and allow her to practice her faith if you want to navigate through.Honestly my advise is for you to let her go if she insist on not accepting your proposal because you are a Catholic.My humble opinion.

zinnydan:
She doesn't love you,unless she attends jw

thebigkendo:
Op I can see you don start work

Benz4pimp:
Did you say a long process,I swear he will refund in 2 days if X squard picks him!!!Guys play on people’s intelligence and feel it’s cool?The truth remains its past 3 months and all he paid was 50k?who does that shit!!!Even with his phone number alone,they will fish him out!!!i am really feeling angry about people that make clients feel every one online is ready to scam them!!!I started selling phones online,now I have 3 offices in ikeja!!!This is stealing

Fingerprinter:
See question!

I want to "toast" her.

If you read the description, you would have seen that the work is about prominent women. Doesn't it make sense that a woman should write it?

Joyheritage:
PLS I HAVE 800K LOOKING FOR CAMRY 03/04/05, NAIJA USE.SERIOUS BUYER

Curry30:
Looks like waist trainer experiment gone awfully wrong + some padding

The ratio of boobs to waist to ass is outrageous!

NOT SEXY

Fingerprinter:
I need a female writer to write good content on prominent women that contributed a lot to the world.

I can give you a list of women to write about. You can also come up with your own list, but it has to contain both black and white women. And the women can be those of the early ages like Cleopatra, and can also be modern women, like the convener of the #MeToo movement.


If you can write on the topic. Message me on whatsapp 07087845559. I would request for some samples of your previous works.

gboisgroups:
please I need Naija used Toyota corolla 2003/2004 or Toyota Camry 2003/2004 on an monthly installment payment. My budget range is from #1.3m-#1.6m for the whole package.