PrincessofDSS:


Pained one

Happy Sallah,

I have said what needs to be said.

You don’t have to bring generation into this becuz the campaign of a better Nigeria will favor you more than I cuz my folks, myself and our future generations will only visit Nigeria as our ancestral home and nothing more.

We are only destined to be proud of our ancestral home by proxy and not destined to benefit from the country as we are already citizens else where

C’mon! You don’t have to be pained; just do the right thing and be at peace with your conscience

I wish you what you wish yourself and Nigerians

Once again Happy Sallah

You spoke so well my dear...
These people thought they will be doing us any harm if Tinubu gets the office he is so hungry for. They don't know that they themselves will suffer more than some of us here when Tinubu get the chance to further ruin this country.

MadamVanessa:



Udom really tried for this state. The only fuckup of Udom Emmanuel is trying to imposed the clueless Umoh Eno on the good people of my state.

Exactly my dear...
I lost my respect for Udom the moment he brought that man upon us, and the way he uses state resources to finance his campaign.
How I wish Akan Udofia will be on the ballot.

LoveUdie:
We've been married for two years and have no child. I’m not surprised that we haven’t been able to have a child but what I’m surprised about is my wife’s attitude towards the fact that we don’t have a child.
Yesterday she called me impotent. Some days ago she called me sterile. I warned her, “The next time you call me any other name apart from my name, I will walk out of this mess you call marriage.”

Let me take you back to when we were dating. This girl was very strict when it came to sex. She was the one making the rules. “This month no sex, I don’t want you to be enjoying it every day. We are not married yet.” I won’t fight her about it and she would go ahead and do exactly what she said she would do. Another time she will tell me, “I called you and you didn’t answer. No sex for three weeks.
I didn’t allow those things to bother me. She was a good person. I would have been very wrong to just look at her from that angle and conclude that she wasn’t a wife material. We stayed together for two years before we finally decided to marry.

After marriage, she didn’t stop throwing those rules around. Every new day came with different rules and all of her rules had to do with sex. As I’m writing this, we haven’t had sex for the past three months. What is her reason? She had severe cramps during her menses and according to her, she has never had crumps all her life. She told me, “I spoke to a doctor friend of mine and she said my cramps were due to sex and that if your husband’s joystick is big, it can result in cramps.” I knew she was lying.
I knew she was just looking for another excuse not to have sex. I’m used to that antics so it didn’t bother me.
We are married but we have sex only when she wants and since she doesn’t want sex often, we can go for several weeks without sex. And the annoying part is, she doesn’t want any other style apart from missionary. So, when her goodness comes and she finally opens the way for me to do it, she will tell me, “Just get on with it and leave me alone.

If I kiss her, bue! If I don’t kiss her, bue! “Don’t touch me here. Why are you going side by side, can’t you go straight? Hey…hey…hey, don’t touch my breast, it’s paining me. You’re keeping long, what medicine did you drink?”
She’ll nag throughout the action. Sometimes I don’t even cum. I’ll just get off her and have my peace of mind. It’s been like this for the past two years since we got married. I’m not complaining. Recently, she brought up the topic of childbirth and I told her, “Do you know how many times people have sex before a child can result?

You are here giving me rules and yet want to have a child?” She said, “Alice got married four months ago and she’s pregnant. How many times did they do it? We’ve been doing it for two years and nothing has happened. Go and look for medicine before I give up on you.”
Every marriage has some troubles. She’s my trouble, I understand. What I don’t understand is her attitude towards the problems she herself has caused. I was there one day when she told me, “I spoke to my doctor friend. She said we’ve been having sex unnecessarily that’s why the pregnancy is not coming so we should have sex only when I’m ovulating. From now onwards, you won’t waste your sperms on me. Store them. Grow them. Make them potent so that when you hit one, a child will come. You hear?”

Brothers and sisters, how many times do women ovulate in a month? At least once, right? So why haven’t we had sex for three months? I want an answer so I went to her, “You mean you haven’t ovulated for the past three months?” She said, “I’m tracking it with an app. So far, the app hasn’t said that I’m ovulating.” Eiii! So now it’s an app that’s going to determine when to have sex and when not to?
Dear people of God, that’s my wife for you. No husband will sit and stare while things go wrong in his marriage so I reported the issue to her parents. They called her home and talked to her extensively. Her father called to tell me, “We’ve spoken sense to her. The way I’ve bashed her, I don’t think she’ll come home and do that again.” The day she got home she said, “Shame on you. You ran to my parents and reported me to them? Are you a kid? All because of sex? I thought you are a man. A true man doesn’t need plenty of sex before pregnancy. They hit one, bam! and the child is there.

You want it every day. I can’t.”
Three months. Maybe it sounds very short so let me calculate it into days. I haven’t had sex for over ninety days! I’ve received three salaries without sex, yet she accuses me of not being potent because we haven’t had a child. I’ve reported it to her parents twice and each time, they talk to her. The last time her father told me, “If I have to come and supervise it, I will come there myself. What kind of silly attitude is that?” Even her father is angry on my behalf. At this point, I will be right to take any drastic decision that I want. One day, I will pack her things and send her to her parents. Before she comes back to the marriage, she will sign a bond of good behavior and sign to have sex four times in a week before I will take her back.
A wife doesn’t live her life just to traumatize her husband’s life. Or I should send her packing right away?

Take note of the following:
You ignored a serious red flag... and you mistakenly thought she will change after marriage.

That lady doesn't have any attractive feelings for you. Any lady that desire you cannot restrain herself from you for no tangible reason. Even if she try, she'll fail at it.

You fail woefully in displaying the Alpha male traits through Reward and punishment... If she withdraw herself sexually from you for a week, you punish her by withdrawing your attention and affection from her for a week. If she come back to her senses and behave well, you reward her with your attention and affection.

As it stands now, she will never change. She only want to get pregnant so that she'll have a permanent excuse to deny you sex. Don't fall for that. The greatest mistake you made is marrying a wrong partner. The solution is Divorce! Bitter, but it is the best thing to do in this situation. If she knows you will go this way, she might pretend to change, just to keep the 'Mrs' title, but don't fall for her pretence.

When People blame you for trying to divorce a women who hasn't cheated on you, tell them adultery is not the only biblical reason for divorce.
Deuteronomy 24: 1 says "If a man marries a woman who becomes displeasing to him because he finds something indecent about her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce, gives it to her and sends her from his house..."

Spherica17:
chai all these epistle on top Tinubu presidency? I wonder how you will feel when Tinubu is being sworn in as the next president to succeed Buhari

I won't feel happy, and at the same time, I won't feel sad KNOWING THAT YOU AND I ARE IN THIS MESS TOGETHER.

Spherica17:
that same ancestor is your next president

So?
If he becomes president, will he govern me alone?
Will his failure in office affect me alone?
In 2015, when buhari was dodging presidential debates, I told my friend who is an APC member that buhari might actually be an illiterate as they say he didn't have certificates. The guy answered me in anger: "Yes, you are right. BUT THAT ILLITERATE IS YOUR NEXT PRESIDENT!"
In 2019, when buhari contested again, the guy came back to the village to vote for buhari. He asked me what I am still doing in the village. I told him I started a business, because I don't need any job as people that had jobs are already losing their jobs due to the hardship and bad economy created by buhari's government. He told me he will still vote for buhari because he doesn't want PDP to rule this country again.
Just 3 months after buhari was sworn in for 2nd term, my guy lost his job in the bank. Right now, he is a driver, using somebody's car to run the road in search of daily bread. Early this year when the car engine knocked, the owner of the car gave him money for a new engine. He went to buy it and discover that the price of a new car engine has sky rocketed. He called and asked me to borrow him some money, but I politely turned him down even though I had the amount of money he was looking for. I later told him that the reason for the expensive engine is because the buhari he voted for had closed our borders against people who import vehicle parts even when we don't produce such parts here.
Sorry for boring you with this story, but the point here is that someone who voted buhari twice had suffered twice from buhari's failure in office.
If you have a company that is dying slowly, and you have 4 candidates to hire as manager - Atiku, Tinubu, Obi, and Kwankwaso, you know deep in your heart that you won't hire Tinubu. But because it is Nigeria, you insist that he must rule. Remember that you, your family and your unborn kids are not exempted from ruin and doom that his government will bring. Your children will not forgive you when they grow up to discover that their father supported a bad leader who ruined their future.
Vote your Tinubu into power... Let me waste my vote on Peter Obi.
WE ARE IN THIS ZOO TOGETHER.

LeoDeKing:
Exactly what they do on nairaland is now on twitter.

Be of an opinion not palatable to them, they start following you up and down creating threads tagging all the mods to ban you for being "a hater" and countless allegations. And when mods refuse taking action since you break no rule, they turn to the mods and start accusing seun of uncountable "offences".

Reno has been attacking other tribes, religion and political parties while they clap hands for him. Same Reno is now in a camp different from theirs, kpakam, they are petitioning him to be banned from twitter.

Simply put, they can't take little fraction of what they give.

Good thing is that, no polling units on social media.

I swear these people are super comedians

Omenka, come carry your people.

How does this comment help your ancestor 'entitled' presidential candidate to achieve his lifelong ambition?

helinues:


Same Reno, una once Hero beer when he was singing canary songs for you people then.

Well, una water don dey cook fish, it don tey

How does this comment sell your ancestor 'entitled' presidential candidate to Nigerians?

LordviccoDaGuru:
It's a welcome development terriorst attack started in Nigeria during PDP. So president Buhari can not miss his important trip because of nonsense Ipob terriorst Biafra attack. Shame on enemies of Nigeria they taught Buhari was on the convoy yesterday. Buhari is a strong public figure

The best thing that has ever happened to Nigeria. APC WILL rule Nigeria till the second coming of Christ AMEN.

This info is not complete, after the summit he will jets out for 20days vacation in London

E shock una abi??

Buhari can not kill himself for Nigerians. If the south east wailers like let them vote peter obituary INEC WILL announce Tinubu APC winner.

Vote Tinubu 2023. Vote APC

People like this are the real enemies of Nigeria.

Manny21:
What kind of a country is this, where a presidential aspirant is waiting for graduation in an election year at the age of 75years. What value is that going to add to his campaign?

He just got a masters degree in international relations...
Meaning: He will travel more than buhari if he becomes president. Presidency in Nigeria is now a retirement ground for corrupt, old folks who want to use our money to achieve their dreams of visiting all the countries of the world before they join their ancestors.

I am speaking OBIdiently.

KEVIND:
Peter Obi Sent killed over 1000 of Massob Agitators that campaign for him to become the governor of Anambra state. I WILL NEVER SUPPORT PETER OBI.
- Ralph Uwazuruike.

Meaning... Obi is not Biafra candidate again?
Why una dey talk go forward, talk go backward all in an attempt to discredit one man?
Dem swear for una make una no dey get tired of suffering?

Ban86:
Back in 2015, You voted an incompetent dunce a.k.a Mannequin at 21 years old, by 2023 you will be 29 years old with no meaningful progress in your life. Continue.

If you like vote old cargos with no vision(You know them)

Your 30s will be wasted and at 40 you will have nothing to show for it.

Don't waste your life, don't waste your Children's future... Be warned.

TRUE...
Nairaland Mods should start giving a price for best comment of the month.
This is the best and most reasonable comment I've seen here since we enter July.

buckeyemedia:
To an Ipobian for sure, just like the wailing for Biafra has been abandoned?

I thought I was quoting a reasonable person. From your previous comment, I suspected you to be a tribal bigot. But I ignored my suspicion, and assumed you are not.
With this reply, you've proved me wrong.
Sorry for quoting you. I am from a different tribe, not igbo. But I support Peter Obi. No form of tribal sentiments from bigots can persuade me to change my stand.

Pakute:
Ibo agenda..

Jaruma, Brymo & co could be lynched for supporting their preferred candidates. I can't wait for election caimpaign to start.

If you still have any conscience at all, Check the situation of this country, evaluate the four major presidential candidates, KEEP TRIBAL SENTIMENTS ASIDE, and tell yourself the truth. Who will you see as the best to rule our country at a time like this?

PETER OBI for sure.

gloryhomemaker:


You can say that again ma'am. I have dropped the video for the full details. You guys inspire us to do even more.

Thanks for the video..
Anytime I cook ogbono, the soup no dey draw. I don't really know why.

wis3:
He should go and save the people of Anambra dying everyday in the hands of UGM

Has buhari saved his Katsina people that are dying everyday from bandits attack?
Yet, if the same buhari should be on the ballot again in 2023, you will still vote for him.

SageOfChelsea:
I never liked that Kwakwanso face ever. That said, Obi should consider Emir Sanusi, that's a man with credibility or better still move to a strong candidate from North Central. Let NNPC, PDP and APC share north West 8 million votes. Kwakwanso was only considered because of that hooge vote not because he is competent or a technocrat.

God bless you my blue brother... you said the whole truth. Kwankwaso doesn't have what it takes to help salvage our dying economy, we only consider him because of the votes that might come from the merger with his party.
Sanusi Lamido Sanusi is a former central bank governor, competent enough, and a no nonsense man like Obi. Labour Party should beg that man to become Obi's VP.

ZIAZI:
Did someone just make reference to Kwankwaso as greedy? Like how?

You want him to step down for someone else but you do not want that someone else to step down for him?

Politics is basically about interest and trust me, one would put his interest first before another person's.

Selah!

Anybody that put his personal interest first before collective interest is not worth being a leader.

yuzjet:
What do you expect from a party built on lies and propaganda?

A party that formulate lies to feed lies can't be democratic. This unusual imposition of candidates they prefer over candidates that actually won a primary election happened in every state and levels where election was conducted.

It's a pity we still have people campaigning for this devilish and scoundrels politicians, most especially from this party.

We are not suppose to vote this APC again in 2023.

Wish Peter Obi didn't leave PDP though.

APC = PDP
Peter Obi was right to leave.

tesppidd:
Unfortunately for you, the age of a candidate is among the least criteria that would form my judgement.

Just reading comments from "youths" on nairaland and social media on a day to day basis, has taught me that in terms of character, the youths are just as bad as the old ones like Atiku and Tinubu.

So you people should stop forcing this Peter Obi thing down everyone's throat.

I am still undecided and might eventually vote for Peter Obi.
And if i do vote for Obi, it is not going to be because he is "young."

90 percent of the comments from young people tells you their minds are really really really terrible.

Yes. I agree with you. Sometimes, I wonder why I should share a country with some young people I met here. I agree again that the age of a politician shouldn't be used to judge how he will perform in office, but what about the DESPERATION of a politician? what about the entitlement mentality? What about the "it is my turn mentality?
The difference between Obi and Tinubu is this:
As things stands now, Nigeria needs Peter Obi more than Obi needs the office of the president.
while... Tinubu needs the office more than Nigeria needs him.
I am a PDP member, but the extreme desperation of Tinubu and Atiku is why I am supporting Obi.
If you check all these Presidential candidates, and listen to your conscience, you'll find a better reason to support Obi.

tesppidd:
Even Wike knows that BAT's probablity of being Nigeria's next President is up to about 70 percent;
and frolicking with Tinubu is the surest way of "securing his future".

If you know, you know.

And what is the surest way to secure your own future?
Is it by making sure that old cargoes that has nothing good to offer get power at all cost?
Tinubu says becoming president is his LIFELONG AMBITION.
What is your own ambition?
Is it to ensure that a desperate old man achieve his own ambition? Is this your ambition?

Ginaz:
red palm oil and onions. I'm not playing.

what you gonna do, before going to bed slice one big onion and put in a cup. then boil water and pour into the cup with the onion, add two tea spoons of original red palm oil (not those fake coloured red oil) allow to steam and cool down , then drink.

cures so many general illness like body pain, weakness, low libido, lack of appetite, lack of sleep, gives fuller boobs too.

100% works!

Hey!
There's no magic formula that cures all these issues and still increase your boobs. There are lots of boobs enhancement substances everywhere, but the truth is: 99% of them doesn't work. It is called THE SHORTCUT SCAM used by people who are desperate to sell their products. Don't fall for it.

Your hairstyle though... so cute.
I like creative hairstyles that are NATURAL.

AccessME:
I've been a laughing stock in my neighborhood they refer to me as strenthless even family and friends laugh at me for being too lazy and weak.. I can't do anything involving hardwork cause I get tired easily and starts breathing too fast.

Who tell you that masturbation is responsible for this.

dgr8truth:

Tinubu is BAD, Atiku is good, Kwankwaso is better, but Peter Obi is the best for the future of this country.

This is the TRUTH.

Factcheck0001:
what did he do different as anambra state governor?

What did he do better than tinubu as governor?

You want to know the difference between them?
Here is it:
Nigeria needs Peter Obi more than Obi need the office of president
while
Tinubu needs the office more than Nigeria needs him.
Meaning: Tinubu is desperate to be president, Peter Obi is not.

Dorwadora:
Of course.... That's a cool alternative

But hope it's Iru Ekiti.... My state is prided for having the best Iru in the whole of SW .... I stand to be corrected tho

I served in Ekiti. I used to see this thing, but I can't stand the smell... Oh Lord! It was so nauseating. Anytime I go close to it, I feel like vomiting. Though, I heard it has so many health benefit. If not for the way it smells, I would have love to eat it.

Tianamen1:
Jack005
Edoboy90
Penguin2

Of the 4 presidential candidates, if things remain as there are, it is my belief that Emi lokan will win. Of these four, Peter Obi is by far the most competent. Of these 4, I am supporting Kwankwaso.

What!
Are you sure this is actually what you wanted to type?
That Peter Obi is the most competent? But you are supporting a less competent person(Kwankwaso), and believing the worst among them(Tinubu) to win?

Tianamen1:


The government should also consider reducing the cost of governance by reducing the number of MDA (implementing the Oronsaye report) and reducing public servants allowances and pay.

You have spoken so well...
This is why we need Peter Obi.
He alone can do this for us.

juman:


Virginity can be fixed.
Its cheap to do that.

Tell me how.

Okoroawusa:
Whether Tinubu has a certificate or not...as long as he is on the ballot in the 2023 election I will vote for him.

All these nonsense talks no dey enter my ears.

Exactly the same thing you guys said about buhari in 2015. Now, see where buhari has landed Nigeria. If you like vote in Tinubu who is another form, or perhaps, the worst form of buhari. We are all in this zoo together. The hardship buhari govt has brought upon us, even buhari and APC supporters are also facing it. After voting your Tinubu, if I buy fuel 500 naira a litre, you will buy the same. When we complain of buhari's bad government, his supporters will say we are wailing, but the truth is everyone wails when things get bad. The only difference is that you people will wail silently, while we wail openly.

Geopex:

All of u should stop saying trash. Your peter obi cannot perform well. Pls with what foundation and with what constitution. He will only perform if he is the president and at the same time be the gov, senate , rep, assembly members , councilor and minster. The foundation is wrong. Constitution is wrong. Bring pastor, or Alfa, they will all fail as president.

You are very correct that one person cannot change this country because the foundation is wrong. We are not campaigning for Obi so that he will come and change everything that is going wrong in this country. That will be mission impossible.
It is so painful that despite the decay in every sector of this country, caused by our wrong foundation and wrong leaders, the selfish crooks we have in government still loot the little resources that we have through overbloated and over padded budgets. This is where we need Peter Obi to come in. He will massively cut high cost of governance and stop unnecessary waste of funds. He has done this in Anambra even when we didn't even know him, and can do same for this country. Do you know that every year, about 26.8million naira is budgeted for the president's feeding and transport allowance?
Are you not aware that about $322.5million Abacha loot that was returned to Nigeria was looted by those crooks in government, yet they claimed it was shared to 1.9milion Nigerians? What about the billions budgeted and wasted in a SCAM school feeding program? I just mentioned these cases to prove to you that even though we have a faulty foundation in this country, yet it is not the reason the country is not developed, it is not the reason our University Students are at home. Budgeting is the reason. Money meant to develop the country has been channelled to the wrong programs for ease of looting. You don't blame bad foundation for this, you blame the president because he makes and presents the budget, and sometimes, influence the national assembly to approve it. You cant blame the foundation when a president approve the sharing of $322.5milion to imaginary 'poor people', and will later run to China to borrow huge amounts to fund his padded misguided budgets. If there is any aspirant right now that can help us cut these wastages it is PETER OBI. Nigeria needs him more than he needs the office. If you have any pity for this country's situation, then support Peter Obi.

Brown02:
Hello,good people of nairaland
Please I need to get to Lagos Ikeja for Job interview tomorrow, I’m here in Ilorin, please I need 6k or thereabout to go to and fro, please dear sir/ma I don’t have any means to go there help me get there as no amount is small…. God will increase you as you help me. Thanks so much
024986.83.23 GTB

Sorry bro... Those who brought buhari (without certificate) into power are responsible for your misfortune. Now, they want to bring in Tinubu (without certificate) into power to worsen your situation. You must stop them by remaining OBIdient.

tobore4u:
bro I really need 1k to buy food. hunger is ha ing a field day with me. please

This is why you must be OBIdient. Peter Obi will not give shishi on the election day, but will wipe away hunger from your life for good.
Vote for him.