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even the lead aspirants for the duo of Tonto dike and funke Akindele are not serious. Look at the deputy they are pairing up wit.

ThreeEyedRaven:
The list was going well till it got to Rivers and should I also say Lagos
The River’s is a laughable farce
The Lagos is the height of unreadiness

I just dey burst laff for here.

MsJackson:
Hello guys. Straight to the topic. In my eight years of marriage, he has never taken me out. I look good and dress well, i even have toasters outside. I am very faithful to him. I actually envy couples that go to outing, take pictures, create memories with their loved ones, but his own is different. Whenever i bring it up, he starts talking about this responsibility and the other one. I even told him that we should add money together just incase he doesnt have much, but he refused. I want to experience it and also want my 5 year old daughter to experience it too but she has never. He promised me that if i take in, he would take me out. It happened and he gave excuses until i forgot it. He then said wen i put to bed, we will go out. We never did. Even we dont celebrate anniversary because he doesnt want to spend anything. Na by force i dey take buy pepper meat and drink bitter just to mark the day. There was a day his friend offered to take me out in his presence. He didnt say anything. When it was almost evening time and I reminded the friend, if u see the way my husband shouted that i was long throat and that its ojukokoro that will kill me. I was so embarrassed. Now we are not on talking terms since yesterday because I reminded him about this outing issue, he said that with me, he knows he will never progress because I was an enemy of progress. Please i am dying of boredom and I cant go out with another man because he will get angry. Please is this stinginess or wat?
PS : he dishes soup for me because he counts meat in the pot. I dont steal meat ooo

You are nt the only one experiencing such. most introverted husbnd are like dat. they are very calculative as regards spending.
Not that they are stingy but they see spending outside the basic stuff the home needs as wasteful.
Ironically, most of them wil give generously to feedin , school fees payment, huz rent and oda inevitable expenditure for running the family but channeling money for pleasure or fun is not their thing.
A snr colleague at wrk said he hasn't taken his wife out since they got married .weda eatery or beach or any oda fun place.he doesn't celebrate her birthday even sayin it on social media is a no for him. same wit d children. He doesn't take dem out.
when I ask him, why? He said he sees it as a waste of money. I countered him dt it is wrong. He strongly insisted dt he wil not do odawise. I shake my head when he refuse to yield.
As odas have advice, draw happiness from within. take ursef out. leave him at home to his boredom.

madjune:
It's hard for a serious minded lady to trust a handsome guy.

If not handled well, it will prove quite challenging in marriage.

I'm a living experience.

youngman,how true is your assertion? is ur view standing for year 2022 or 1995? are you saying they now catwalk into the arms of an ugly brother. Don't you see them list out "he must be handsome" in the spec.

presently, there is no direct brt bus from ikorodu to festac.
Just take the normal bus from ikorodu to oshodi. Then from oshodi, take a bus to mile2. Before you get to mile2, stop at second rainbow or estate or jakande or fatgbems b/s and from ther connect festac. Na so I dey run the road

22 is her searching age. they are always either 21 or 22 and sometimes 23.

JooEeL:
I don't want to sound condescending but this Edo language is one of the least loved languages by me. It just sounds somehow.

However, I love Edo people.

Who are the panelist dat sits to say which language sweet or wc one no sweet? what indices did you use to conclude your judgement?

Lawan is stylishly accepting the fact that he is not going go get the ticket. But delegates should choose wisely

McKay12:
"In case you feel frustrated at anything and you are airing your frustration here and there, or a transfer of aggression or frustration, the Church is not your place for transferring frustration and aggression. We are willing to help you if you have so much bitterness, so much frustration and so much distraction in your life and you don’t know where to vent it but in situations like this, we can help you"


I don't really think this statement here is necessary, anyway, may her soul rest in peace.

Yea, it wasn't necessary. The tone of this portion of his explanation sounds as if he is directing his disgust and anger at SM1 accusing him of been negligent durin the crisis as her pastor.

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davien:
I'd rather talk on them here bro(learnt a lesson relating with people live)

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Your worries:
1. You are 30yrs
2. Unmarried
3. Unhappy on your job
4. You want to have a career change

If diz are ur concerns, wat abt a female friend that I know that is 47years old, unmarried , doesn't have a job dt also implies there is no career change for my jobless female friend.

The truth is dis,ur not a grateful person.
you are far beta off Dan millions of Nigerians within ur age bracket.
Go and swap position with the 29yrs old guy living wit his 60yrs old father doin teaching job dt earns possibly less Dan 40k let him tell you the meaning of wt it means not to be happy.

Penguin2:
I guess your “little” way is not enough for your wife and her parents except they have something else against you.

Another thing I’m seeing is that you married someone you love and not someone that loves you.

Possibly you were led by her beauty and you sadly ignored the absence of mental connection between the both of you which is what has gotten worse now.

I don’t know what happens between you and your wife from here, but when next you are looking for a wife to settle down with, make sure she’s your gist mate.

Make sure you guys have the same world view; same convictions about life.

Make sure the woman genuinely cares about you and not somebody you chased for years.

Beauty should come distant last.

wt u said is part of the whole reason that led dis man to where he is ryt now. Dt is if he will admit.

He is a nice good man doin all d giving and loving while he was dating her. wheneva she was wrong , na d man go beg her make she stay maybe because she beautiful. He doesn't want to be hard on her nd call her to order the way a MAN shud do over his woman.

He was ignoring and overlooking her idiosyncrasies tinkin if she leaves d relationship, I may not be able to get anoda woman probably he felt I am advance in age to get marid. I dnt want to start all ova lookin for anoda woman.Dt is scarcity mindset.

Anoda reason, he wrongly assume that "I have money so I can control the woman" while he was weak mentally. He wasn't tough. He wasn't hard. He wasn't authoritative. He doesn't understand how to scold a woman in-between loving her. Most women wil succumb to a man if the man has some some of authority ova her. I dnt mean beat her or be harsh on her.

she is deliberately doin ALLL dis to you to see what you will do. How you will react or handle her.
Your leadership skill in d home is not strong. Work on it sir.
Oga, you are d head of dt house. Go back to your home and take charge.!

Your concerns as you claim:
AGE
BODY SIZE
VOICE

All diz are not rilly the issue. Your mind is what you need to wrk on. In summary, you have a low self esteem.

What you need to do specifically.
1. build your confidence level
2. work on ur gait(how you carry ursef wen you walk)
3. take the focus off yoursef. dnt be conscious of how u look or sound.
4. when pple tease you,dnt allow it bother you.
5.be very assertive and audacious when it's necessary.

Even wit dt ur small voice, if ur very articulate and eloquent,pple will want to listen when u communicate.

me writing you actually have a small body frame but na my gait I dey use dey make up. I have pple under me I supervise at workplace.

Emir8:
What of if you proposed and the parents say no. You have to seek the consent of the parents before proposing. This pastor is a fake one. Foolish talk

nooo. You are not seeking the parents consent bfor proposing. It's you and their daughter dt wil agree or not.

we all are raised from diff homes. each family/home we come from have their own principles and values they choose to adopt or follow or the way they do their thing.
For a conservative(strict) kind of family,the pastors opinion maybe right for such type of family as it applies to the way they do things. so dt the family will know who their daughter is attached to. more like security reason and a sense of commitment nd seriousness on d man's side. Dou you can stil take an intendin marriage partner home wit d above reason in mind nd after proposal, it may not still lead to marriage.

While in a liberal(warm and jolly kinda)family, the pastors opinion may not necessarily count. The gal may take the man home as her guy even bfor proposal. since she knows nd understands how her family relate well with visitors.they may welcome the man as human first and as a frnd to their daughter nd may nt necessarily dig deep to ask their daughter if d man Hz propose or not.

They are some ladies dt even invite the guy home even bfor proposal.

The kind of family is wat in most cases determine ow the order should be.

your sack isn't because of what happened. Your boss Hz sown a seed of hatred against you all the while up till the time she used this issue as a front to relieve you of your job.
Thiz could be any of the reasons she laid you off
1. You exude confidence at the office which she interpretes as pride. If it wasn't an healthy confidence,tone it down a bit nd adjust for the next possible job coming bt if it's an healthy sefconfidennce,accept it as part of life.
2. You don't feed her wit office gossip.Most female bosses always like to have one 'spy' and informant in her circle of employees.some male bosses too dey like am
3. She possibly saw you as a threat to her position esp if you are very sound and intelligent.
4. You dint allow her to use you as a puppet in her hand to do som things that you feel is against how the work shud go or be done.
5. You no dey tremble at her feet and do all DOS eye service greetings and pseudo-compliments. You dey give her Mordecai style of relating.

a sack that you don't know anything abt is very painful and mentally disturbing.
accept it dt way as it is and stat thinking of wt to engage ursef wit dt will bring you money. every will be fine few months from now. cheer up!

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It is giving most tenants high BP esp when ur rent is due to pay another huge money on terrible apartment. some landlords wil convert their normal face me I face you tiny room to sefcon and inflate the price to over 300% .

person go leave 3bedroom flat because of high rentage fee for a single room sefcon tinkin he can comfortably afford it after first ur expire . To even renew d rent for the single sefcon room e no easy.
ABI shey na to further downgrade to batcher kinda apartment because e no easy for local Man.

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HenryDion:
At the age of 27, it's as if I've achieved that which many are struggling for daily.

The funny aspect is, I'm not as happy as I imagined it.

This isn't how I envisioned success to be.

Was it overhyped?

I can get whatever I want, and this has made me lose the taste of life in general.

There's no challenge...

Everything now seems too easy and boring


Those who finally became financially free, where did you find your motivation to keep enjoying life?

Especially when there's no thrill, challenges, no hustling?

Have been considering going back to school, for a second degree.

Will it give me that sense of challenge?

How do you enjoy life when you can get whatever you want without looking at the price tag?

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This thing we call beauty is actually a perception thing. D human eyes is impulsive by nature. wen a man sees smth new or a lady for the first time. d visual inside of him immediately sparks Dt butterfly in him.nd passes Dt lady he sees as beautiful or not most esp viewing from afar or wen u Haven't had Dt close contact wit Dt person.

To man A, he judges beauty by having a good skin, good height nd oda externals

To manB, he Judges beauty by abstarcts qualities. WC we call character. Humility, Contentment, not having oju kokoro,d one Dt knows your financial muscle nd won't always put you pressure on you to take her to the moon or make you always spend money wastefully, peaceful et al

To manC, he judges beauty by values and belief.

wt one calls beauty is very diff frm wt anoda calls beauty.

Education Dt is suppose to make som pple more refined and better sometimes makes dem adopt very bizzare belief.

I got a shocker wen a lady I once dated was debating wit me Dt there is notin like the head in a relationship. say the guy nd d gal are equal. And she just finished her MSc recently. If i push for marriage wit her, i wont last long wit her.I had to alight and allow the next guy continue the relationship with her.

What is attractive in this??

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