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money doesn't keep oyinbo women because they are not hungry looking for a man to throw dia survival on . but in nigeria, it is d opposite.

Beachqueen59:
my guy says im nt emotionally expressive and that am not caring. ive tried everything and none seems to work.
plz what does it mean to be emotional and how can I change.?
No insults plz.

Wen a man says a lady is not emotional. He meant the lady hardly shows excitement. Dt You are always keeping a stern nd serious face and possibly moody most of the time. you are not cheerful nd playful around him . you dnt know how to receive humor nd give bk humor.

wen u communicate wit him, d tone nd pitch(voice modulation)of ur voice doesn't convey warmth nd frndliness. you dnt express empathy wen tins go wrong.

Light touch, cuddle, hug, embrace , nudge to call or get his attention ,holding his hand , wrapping ur hand round his neck occasionally ,gestures nd body contact nd public display of affection is a form of expression WC you dnt show or do.

mytalentlyng:
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SEND MONEY FOR DATA TO HIM. HE DIDN'T RESPOND AGAIN.
This is his whatsapp image

he is a confirm thief. he Kip's changing names after scamming you. d guy don knack me too

You dis criminal and petty thief. You dnt feel bad stealing from pple disguising as data vendor. you are heaping burning coal on ur head child. Stop this you are doing. I beseech you stop it!

friends, dnt patronize dis dude. He goes around stealing from pple saying he sells data

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FalseProphet1:
That girl has a loads of STDs in her system, any guy who mates with her will be doomed for all eternity.

This I have seen.

You use the word mate is she an animal . it is animals dt mate while human being sex

She made a good description of a quiet lover. Add this to it

Most of them are very real , direct and blunt. They express themselves without any filter.

They are choosy wit their words when they talk. They are not use to saying "I love you to a woman" all the time maybe because they truly understand what they say when they talk and when they say it, they meant it.

Most of them are very principled. Maybe because of their inclination to always be faithful lovers . most of them cn kip just one lover for donkey yrs esp wen they rilly like u.
They dnt like drama in a relationship. It wears them out.

Anything dt is hidden, mysterious nd nt touched evry now nd den is seen as precious. Wt makes a single lady diff from a man physically is the breast nd vagina.

A decent lady tries to kip diz regions private nd won't allow such areas be touched anyhow by a man. Once she gets marid nd dis regions are now consumated by the husband, she tends to relax a bit nd loosen up because DOS regions are wt makes her special. After all, a man hz now seen it wt am I hiding ? DT is wat she says to herself. To dem DT is d climax of dia mysterious self WC is now unveiled.

Romanoff:
This Red pill you people are swallowing, I hope you know the side effects?

People spend so much time during courtship or dating doing irrelevant things like having sex and galavanting all over the place, leaving aside important things that should be discussed like Finances, number of children, splitting of bills and chores, child care, faith, goals and ambitions, etc.

Your wife is earning enough to pay her own rent and as a fellow tailor, there is a maths to how much you charge customers which includes materials, operations cost and profit.

If you know you can't handle the financial burden on marriage, you should have discussed splitting bills with her, how much to save for projects etc.

You didn't discuss it, now she feels it's your right to pay rent for her shop while she pockets her profits and still claims you don't support her.

First error is not letting her know your salary. The positives of a woman knowing your salary outweighs the negatives if you shined your eyes and married a prudent woman.

A woman can better plan her life if she knows how much you earn factoring in your yearly rent, monthly feeding allowance, child care, savings and upkeep for both of you. You earn 100k but refused to tell her. She prolly thinks you earn over 500k and she prolly even earns more than you but since you're both not open about your finances, you're playing the blame game.

Una never know wetin marriage be, if not, you'd both be open about your finances. It's not about having joint account or she submitting her profits to you, it's about planning the little you both earn to benefit your family.

Make adjustments sir.

D tin too wonder me ooo.
wat do lovers discuss during dating?
Guy go take babe go uphill and down hill from.one eatry to anoda den move to elegushi to alpha beach after comb all d suya , asun and pepper soup nd nkwobi joints holding hands cackling nd giggling floating in the euphoria of perfect lovers in the making.


Most DNT sit down and do a serious reality Q n A on their expectations , roles each will play nd plans to do as team in d marriage , aspirations and Wt each will do to make money and increase dia income.

even pple wen talk bfor marriage d tin dey shake Dem not to talk of couple wen no do any talking.

Nwokem, pls take a break from the marriage. Go chill somwer ND change strategy on ow to make it work .

me na military face I go put up ooo

na me go wear d shoe wen d chips are down

Palema007:
You no see her before? . I guess you were one of those : "what are you wearing"? And "when will you visit"? kinda person, when you were supposed to be asking real questions while dating.

Anyways as you don enter am now, oga try to talk to her, set her up. If she refuse to change, then take drastic actions by deliberately cutting down allowances. However be certain it doesn't affect the children.

u no serious. He was distracted. He felt d woman will use her brain to do the needful wen they marry. Talks like dis, u put it to her directly bfor u marry her? Ask her qtns on her goals , her priorities , Wt she will do to also earn money, money mgt skills too. Reduce d smile small ND put up a serious face wen u discuss important issues dt u will mit in DT marriage. Hear from her ND guage her intention.

maybe he was scared he will.loose her dts why he was reluctant to ask her diz important qtns wc most of Dem no like to hear nd discuss with dia husband to be

av bin feeling moody since dis news broke out.

I know his son so well bfor he became a pastor. He was my house prefect back then in school. We shared same dormitory. very discipline . A good leader.

Oh death! , your sting took dis man away so sudden.
Above all God, who can question you? You know beta.

Jeeeesus! Dare is dead! He was my house captain bk den in secondary school. while I was in jss1, he was in ss3.

my house prefect is gone!!!!!
Oooooh! Pastor Dare, may heaven embrace ND welcome you home.

ggoldmine:
What you need is good money management skill. Some earn less and still live just okay. Let me help with some calculations. Using the figures you gave as basis:

Yearly income: #85,000 *12 = #1,020,000
Yearly rent: #140,000
Balance: #880,000
Net weekly earnings: #880,000/52 =~ #16,900
Or
Net monthly earnings: #73,300

You can create a monthly budget around this amount. Consider buying food items in bulk monthly, not in bits. This shouldn't cost more than #40,000 for a decent family. Create a separate account for expenses if you can: this will include monthly rent which is approx. #11,700 and cumulative weekly or monthly expenditures (all subtracted from your salary)

Seriously, I really don't understand how you feel comfortable living on debts when you can easily plan your life around your earnings. If you're considering being a driver, I'll suggest you take driving lessons while doing your current job. Driving is not that difficult.

In addition, I'm not completely in support of you quitting your job, purchasing a car on debt and being a driver. How can you manage debt accrued from running a business with inconsistent income when you haven't been able to manage debt from a recurring income? I'll advise you to think it through. What payback plans have you set in place for your debt? How much will you earn in a month from your driving business (subtracting car expenses like fueling, repairs and maintenance)? Is this earning from your business consistent?

I see a huge turn around for you if you learn how to create budgets and spend within your budget using your salary earnings. You could even save towards a buying a car, then do driving part time. Alternatively, you can seek a high-paying job.

Mr Op, i hope u are reading Tru all d comments dt is trailing ur complain. make e no be like say u throw way complain for here and depression no allow u follow up to read Dem. Both good and bad reply , read all of Dem. no be one place Dem dey look elephant.

Virtually everybody dt commented is towing dt line of you to restrategize ur money mgt skill. dt is Wt u need first bfor u complain abt d figure u carry home as salry.

most tyms, even we dt bears d problem knows wt to do to solve it bt we just like to whine ND cry ,stay on dt same spot without takin action to solve our problem.

If ur in ur late 20's I go forgive you bt if ur in ur late 30's ND 40's ND u complain abt dis , dt means u need to be flogged.

because sm1 in his 30's suppose don dey strong for ground to know ow to budget for family xpenses. Cut dwn xenses ND stop spending money on frivolities.

D 85k is not rilly d big problem. na ur mind. u are tryin to contain all ur financial responsibilities within ur salary. ur salry alone cnt do d magic. change dt mindset. Wt u nid to do is to tink of Wt to do to increase ur cash inflow into ur home. dis means u shud look for anoda source of income to support ur salary.

I earn around same figure wit u bt I had to add 2 oda passive income dt I get money from.

DNT CONTAIN ur financial RESPONSIBILITIES within the confine of ur mntly salary alone.

some persons can be bad tenants / debtors wen it comes to paying Wt they owe. some will have the money bt will want to playsmart. One like dt wen I borrow money unto say he was broke promise to pay BK end of March. Wen I ask him for my money. I shock wetin him tell me wit so much cockiness

"Bro, I will pay u . Na debt I owe you. I go do am"

I just smile and kept my cool. And him dey give gals money wen him neva clear his debt

emitheo:
So, guys I met this girl, she was a cool girl and had very few body counts. She seemed like a good girl.
So, after a couple of hanging out and getting to know each other better, we then had sex.

Fast forward to a few days later. I started developing certain infection symptoms. After spending some money on over the counter antibiotics and getting no results, I went on to do STI test and final test result showed staphylococcus areus infection. I was devastated. Now, I find myself spending a lot of money on treatments.

Now, I think breaking up this relationship is the next course of action.

Am I justified?

And does anyone here have a similar experience with staph areus and what was the most effective cure?

Thanks guys.

staphylococcus aerus is a very stubborn infection to treat.

if u xperience
boil/blister at d bk of ur palm within d fingers dt itches u, rashes around ur thigh dt gives a sweet sensation wen u scratch , boil on ur penis, itching all over ur body particularly at nite wen u sleep den I guess u ar a confirm candidate of dt infection dt wen u treat, it Kip's coming BK running into 2 or 3 yrs or maybe more bfor it leaves ur body

staphylococcus affects ur sperm quality. makes it very watery. gives u weak erection ND quick release less Dan 2mins. affects d size of ur penis

d bacteria dey strong to die ND it flows inside ur bloodstream.

u gatto to take drugs to purify ur blood first bfor u start treating it.

injection will give u a temporary relief bt won't completely treat it. tablet ND injection takes a longer tym to treat staph
As for injection takin, it's goin to be daily ND d injection for staph is very xpensiv.
u fit get one dose of it for as high as 5k nd some maybe more Dan 5k. Lets say ur doctor recommend u take 10doses or more. Multiply 5k by say 10 or 12doses, u shud know ow mch u will withdraw from ur bnk acct to treat ursef. Not to talk of oda strong antibiotics dt will be added to ur injection.

In most cases, herbal treatment dose d magic faster. not all dos #500 goko cleanser and the likes ooo. Dt one no get staph power .

treating staph go chop u money. if u don't wnt it to stay yrs in ur blood stream, start treating it immediately and be consistent in takin ur medication. If u treat,do anoda retreat again even wen d scratching of ur body stops say after few months to kip flushing d residual bacteria in ur blood.

get ready to bcom lanky during treatment because of diz strong bacteria wen u go dey take.

Next tym, wen u do raw sex, go baf immediately ,wash ur penis nd thigh very well wit water. And take an antibiotic after d sex to block d staph bacteria from entering ur blood stream.

beta still, abstain from sex to avoid u spending money u suppose pay for hus rent to treat staph.

I hope I have assisted you passing Tru dis dilemma wit dis info

the Op may not be able to articulate his thoughts clearly bt DO the abstaining, u will be the one to coin ur own xplaination ursef.

sexual immorality get some kind drawback esp d one done outside the confine of marriage.

to some extent he is right. Its nt rilly in a the days or weeks, it is in the abstaining. some may have to stay longer bfor u start seeing result. tins begin to wrk positively in ur direction.
btw last yr sept nd nw av abstained, new investments av come my way. smt av bin worryin mysef ow to go abt it.

rephrase ur request by telling us why ur nt wit d man marid u or the man dt give u belle so we know ur where ur comin frm?

the lady shud have not acted dt way considering the situation that d guy is facing at d moment.

. It's likly d guy wud have bin asked to make his own contribution towards d burial expenses as it is mostly a common practice in most states here in naija wen sm1 in d family dies

siblings nd relatives somtyms contribute as high as 200k or more to support burial rites.

D lady wud have bin more understanding. from the sound of the narrative, d young man is currently broke

He not bin able to give her a reasonable amt of money at d moment doesn't mean he hasn't bin giving her smth good bfor nw or will not give her smth much more beta in a couple of weeks

D burial may be like a burden he is currently obsessing him dt he wants to clear ND not the funfare dt is associated with Christmas the guy wants to drool in

I wonder why pple in a relationship are not quick to resolve issues wen they clash BT see ending d relationship as d solution or divorce as in d case of marriage

the young man is angry no doubt BT he should kip his cool . e Neva reach to brk up.

You have bin with d gal for 2yrs And I am very sure u both must have had a more serious quarrel more Dan dis 10k issue in d past ND u stayed in d relationship. So why ruffle ur feather ova 10k

Bro, sit ur ass in der and solve ur shit in dt relationship. wateva method weda passive or diplomatic or wit body language u want to use resolve it ,pls do

face ur demon ND make peace with ur bae. All d best youngman

most of dis statements carelesly thrown at a man(men) are said by women dt hear such frm all dos Nollywood crap movies and wnt to rehearse it on any man.

Most of Dem use dis statements wen it doesn't even connect to d quarrel or conflict dt happened.

Anoda one they lyk saying is "good riddance to bad rubbish" ask Dem d meaning dey don't know.

An educated female mind don't use jabs carelesly

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It's better to make that kind of money and then realize how useless it is than to be poor and continue to pursue money until death.

deep!

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