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CelebritiesRe: Ex-BBNaija Star, Nengi Announces Birth Of First Child by Gerrard59(m): 2:33pm On Mar 10, 2025
tosinhtml:
You need to fully understand the complaint before making judgments based on assumptions, no one is lamenting about Sophia. No one is truly concerned about Sophie, what people find outrageous is the expectation of receiving a Lamborghini costing (£191,564) in exchange for a one-night stand. Dangote (Richest Black Man) will not purchase that, he works for every penny his has albeit monopolistic in his business dealings. Unlike politicians who can easily afford such luxuries using stolen funds.
I understand your point, but the blame lies on the person who promised and failed. He was not forced. Maybe it is as a matter of personal principle or upbringing, but I do not promise what I cannot fulfil. So people who promise and fail dishonourably come across as dishonest to me.

Burna Boy has a management team and does not have absolute control over his finances. He cannot unilaterally authorize such a large purchase without management’s approval. He works hard for his money. While Burna Boy did buy a car for his ex GF Stefflon Don, it was approved by his management because she was publicly acknowledged as his partner. This is the reason why the ex GF Stefflon Don termed him a "Mummy's Boy" because he was constantly prevented from wasting his resources on frivolous things.
Good for him then. He deserves to be protected because bros don work tey tey from Port-harcourt.

As for Nengi, she is being dishonest in this situation. If she is proud of it, she should own up to it. She has been seen with this man numerous times, and people in Delta state are well aware of their long-term relationship. She should embrace it just like Regina and others have.
Delta abi Bayelsa? So it is true true she has a child for a politician? Chai! Couldn't she have gotten someone who isn't a politician (married one for that matter) as a one time Wizkid ex did? I think the lifestyle our moneybags shower on these ladies gets them so accustomed that they cannot below what is now the new normal. As beautiful as Nengi lipsrsealed shocked
Foreign AffairsRe: "If It's War That You Want, We Are Ready!" - China Fires Back At Trump by Gerrard59(m): 8:21am On Mar 10, 2025
heniford2:
Can China win in war with USA asin facial war. Am asking because that's how Ukraine was also making noise here
Some of you really underestimate China o. It's China not Canada. Ask yourself, when has China openly cautioned and harshly rebuked another country on social media if not now? Ask yourself, which country in today's world is America's biggest and strongest competitior?

Please don't mention rag-tag Ukraine in comparison to China. The world's manufacturing backyard vs a beggar country looking for armoury and funding.
FamilyRe: How Can A Man Think Of Relationship Or Marriage In This Condition by Gerrard59(m): 4:21am On Mar 10, 2025
Tightpussy2024:
I didn't say broke men don't deserve love. A broke man is rarely in love as money reveals a man character. Alot of closeted gays only found out when they became rich. Have you seen a poor person accused of being gay? Is it men that will sample BDSM when money enter their hand that you want to risk your youth and several abortions for as a woman?
This is hilariously true. Na our men dey practice anal sex and anal rimming when money enter hand. I don't think a vulcaniser is interested in rimming, but many men living in Lekki have had their anus rimmed. grin grin grin

Whatever happens between a broke man and a woman is rarely love(at least from his side). Some will marry out of pity when they make it then keep the women they want as concubine. But ask a man who he wants at 26 sleeping on mat or eating from his mother pot and ask him who he wants again in 6 years time when he has made it. As for getting sex in the confines of a relationship,I condemn both the rich or poor men using relationship as a means to get sex. If he wants sex,there are thousands of women he should get sex from but he wants a 9/10..women don't get who they want and most times settle down,so why can't men make that sacrifice of going for who they can afford to have sex with? Why not take 5000 and go to a remote area,pick a village girl that will jump and appreciate it and have sex with her? Must it be a slay queen on Instagram?
The bold is true because there are other states than the usual Lagos, Abuja and Port Harcourt, but men still want the baddies in those states. I have written here that there are equally good and beautiful women in many relatively unpopular states. No wonder our men later go back to have a romp with these baddies after hitting money.

At the bolded,for some reasons the concubines men keep and lavish on are the girls that would have rejected them when they were poor,so they are taking revenge on no one. imagine buying a house for a girl that will not wink at you if you had no millions.
This is why women hate to struggle with poor men. Just like ubunja used to say,"why be the one to offer commitment when others offered nothing but got free sex?" I will rephrase it to be,"why be the one to build with a man when I can be the one that he will buy house for or phones for?" Will you not prefer to be the one that comes later to enjoy or the one that soaked garri with him and you aren't even guaranteed of a ring? Men commitment is expensive,so should women time and their bodies be expensive.
Fair deal. It is refreshing and actually good to see things from a woman's perspective.

I really don't like to talk about my personal life but my moniker will tell you I was a baddie and I displaced a "good woman" in a long term relationship .That is why I always laugh when these alpha meils are screaming virtue or virgins.if you think women are emotional,then wait for a man in love. I can open an equivalent of redpill knowledge for women but people will think I am trying to corrupt women or make them make my "mistakes".
Please create a thread of such. It is good to hear from both sides so everyone learns, relearns and unlearn.

If men practice what they preach a lot of good girls will not remain in their fathers house in their 30s
This is very true. To be fair though, a large proportion of the "good girls" from my university days have gotten married. But there is something I noticed, women or seemingly good women lament on social media that it is the bad girls that later marry "good men". Does the term "good men" = men with money? It is something I have noticed many women complain - that men say they want good women but would spend heavily on baddies. There is one on Twitter who portrayed the image of a "good lady", but complained how Abuja men spend heavily on "bad girls" buying them houses, cars and funding their lifestyles or later marry them.

It is one of the reasons I say the alpha male rhetoric, while good in some ways, is mostly borne out of lack of money. It is also a major reason the men who lampoon sexually liberal women are those who don't have money. I am yet to see a well-to-do man criticise sexually liberal women unless those who do it for sanctimonious reasons, e.g. pastors.
RomanceRe: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Gerrard59(m): 2:50am On Mar 10, 2025
Ilekokonit:
Tinubu wey dey knack Ashawo no fit arrest his fellow patrons. Only that Tinubu dey carry at least 2 at a time and the 2 of them must smoke Igbo with him before they start knacking. If you don't smoke weed, Tinubu will tell you to go home. Was told this by one babe (runs girl) wey come buy something for my shop around 18 years ago. She was runzed to Tinubu along with one other Olosho but because she no dey smoke Igbo, Tinubu dispatched her but not before she had seen the massive Anaconda that Tinubu had in his boxers.


For UK, Councils dey give disabled men money to take knack Ashawo.

UK councils pay for prostitutes for the disabled.

UK Taxpayers' money is being spent on prostitutes, lap dancing clubs and exotic holidays under schemes designed to give more independence to the disabled.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/health/7945785/Councils-pay-for-prostitutes-for-the-disabled.html
Every man loves sex. It annoys me when I come across men who criticise others for paying for it. Sex is not free. We've seen Dangote's yansh and none of us is wealthier than he is. As seen here, are we wealthier or powerful than British MPs? The sanctimonious attitude of most of our people pisses me off! Diabolical, cruel and hypocritical yet na dem go dey carry religion for head like gala and tie on the head like gele.



To OP and his minions, men, especially well-to-do men, will patronise sex workers and there is nothing you or anyone can do about it. Give the average Nigerian man 100K and he would spend half of it on women.
CelebritiesRe: Ex-BBNaija Star, Nengi Announces Birth Of First Child by Gerrard59(m): 2:44am On Mar 10, 2025
pocohantas:
Why are guys complaining?

Shebi men do not benefit from marriage?
Teambabymama, just have kids and train them.

Some women are playing along and una still dey cry. Congrats Nengi o.
I tire for most of our men. They promoted OS on TwitterNG but started lamenting about Sophia and men who patronise sex workers. These are the same people who campaigned and promoted babymama but now complain that women are deliberately becoming baby-mamas.

The hypocrisy is something else!
FamilyRe: How Can A Man Think Of Relationship Or Marriage In This Condition by Gerrard59(m): 5:06pm On Mar 09, 2025
Tightpussy2024:
I don't have an issue with a man even earning 20k per month wanting gf

The issue is that it is his priority that is wrong.

Broke men hate themselves more than their "suspected hatred " from women.

er to settle for him,there is a problem with her .

@Gerrar.d59
While I agree that "broke" men should focus on their craft rather than love, are we saying these men (most men were once "broke"wink don't deserve to be loved and access to sex within a relationship setting? You know, this is the reason many alpha males say men should have access to many women as they desire when there is money, because they were mockingly denied of the same when they had nothing. It is a vicious cycle.

Additionally, as we know, men hold the ace of commitment. So a man who wants to marry will show genuine and serious interest from the beginning. It is one of the reasons I don't subscribe to relationships that last more than two years. They are a waste of time, especially to women. That could be done while in undergraduate, but not after. Anything more than two years would be so emotionally connected between both individuals.

I forgot to, but since we're here. The recent Sophia and Burna Boy's episode made me recall your statement that men wouldn't mind marrying sex workers if not for societal outrage. This could be a major reason men, especially those with stable finances, spend so much on their concubines and/or later convert them as second wives. Na testosterone cause all this thing sha. grin
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Gerrard59(m): 4:56pm On Mar 09, 2025
jedisco:
Cant like this enough. Chinas emergence is virtually one of the few viable means for Africa to escape the stranglehold of the west

Reason why when western folks start warning about Chinese loans to Africa, my first question is 'why do you care? Ask them that and you'd see their hypocrisy come to the fore. Remember asking same to Z - no answer
All said, I strongly suspect a western sponsored media propaganda using local news media. If not, how can we explain representations below. Why has there been deafening silence on the money we borrowed from the IMF or via eurobonds etal and all the focus has been on China when the little we got from China has been at transparent rates and have been responsible for most significant developmental projects over the last dispensation. I want to see the term of Chinese loans improved on but the western alternative is not the answer. The way world economy works, the the west prints their money out of thin air, distributes it in their economy where it improves living standards and is invariably is accumulated in certain pots- banks, pension funds e.t.c. These agencies now loan this money to developing nations at exorbitant rates. As developing nations cannot print forex, they are forced to see their resorces at cutthroat prices funding western opulence all to meet loan repayment obligations.
How would you explain that in 2020 ish when the average westerner was borrowing at rates of under 2% and some western countries at sub-zero rates, Nigeria was borrowing forex at rates close to 10%? What were these moneys used for and how do we meet these obligations?
Yet the focus of our media and western politicians was to warn us about Chinese loans got at sub 3% rates.Usual caveats re: 'African leaders' e.t.c
Your screenshots remind me of when we conversed that we (Nigeria) and most parts of Africa owe Western-controlled institutions and countries far greater than we owe China. I also linked an article from a prominent Western media organisation - Bloomberg - corroborating the notion. China's economic emergence has been of tremendous benefit to every non-Western country and even the West and its so-called vassals allies. The likes of Australia, South Korea and Japan would have been poorer if not for China's hooge middle class consumption and economic growth. They are just angry that the Chinese have refused to bend their knees to destroy their industries in favour of those in the West, the same way they forced Japan to sign the Plaza Accord.

The initial so-called "debt trap" was from an Indian economist or so, and I won't be surprised he was funded by the now defunct USAID - the then funding agency of so many mumbo-jumbo policies all over the world.

Well, as I keep reiterating, China is not going anywhere and won't be bullied. I am not so certain of the latest results, but once the EUV machines are produced, that is the end. Nothing is going to stop Big Daddy China. Churchrat countries like Canada and Estonia think they can challenge China. grin grin grin grin

I won't lie, the events of the last one month have been of tremendous joy to me. Let them talk down at China, let me see. The tariffs are even opportunities for us - sell to those who have been tariffied and buy at cheaper rates from those who are tariffying. I like what South Africa is doing and I want to believe the Black elites would gradually shift trade towards East Asia/SouthAsia and Southeast Asia AGOA will be a tussle to re-sign.
RomanceRe: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Gerrard59(m): 4:43pm On Mar 09, 2025
Bola4boy:
did he called your father clown? To me, clown is not even an abusive word. But you went all out for his father. You dey bring machine gun for ordinary knife quarrel. Grow up!
Next time, please advise him not to start what he cannot finish. I don't go about calling people names, but anyone who does will receive a backlash from me.

You don't decide what is abusive to anyone. That is your way of life, not everyone's or mine.
RomanceRe: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Gerrard59(m): 1:21pm On Mar 09, 2025
Adexgentle005:
This guy is mentally deranged. If you can abuse your father in public like this, it means you are a very shameless person. I pity your father. He just wasted his sperm. He should have used condom to prevent someone like you coming to this world. Very unfortunate human being.
You called me a clown and expected no strong response? undecided
PoliticsRe: Governor Sanwo-Olu Visits Alaro City (Photos & Videos) by Gerrard59(m): 12:20pm On Mar 09, 2025
Tinubu is a visionary planner o. shocked I cannot believe I'm stating this, but he deserves some accolades.

Those who japa'd should plan to return to take part in these massive developments. grin

jamafa:
No single Igbo man from southeast dey Nigeria top-10 richest man in d country.

Empty barrel makes most noise
The way some of you carry tribalism on your head is surreal. Well, whether southeast or not, Cosmas Maduka, Arthur Eze, Elumelu and Jim Ovia are likely to be included in the top ten richest men in Nigeria.

On one hand, we're told Nzeogwu kaduna from Delta is Igbo but Elumelu from the same Delta isn't Igbo. Delusions everywhere!
RomanceRe: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Gerrard59(m): 12:11pm On Mar 09, 2025
Adexgentle005:
Dude you are a clown. Lol, people pay according to their pocket? Sex is now a commodity.. Do you how many women we have in this country? All women put price on their vaginas? What a baseless assumption. What of women that have high libido? They are so ready to pay men just to cure their konji. Go ahead and pay for sex, that’s your cup of tea.
First, it's your miserable father that is a clown! His sperm produced another big olodo clown!

So, why are you complaining about the men who pay for sex? Is it your preek? Is it your money? What the fvck would you to them? Call Tinubu to arrest men who patronise sex workers? So what do men who cannot woo women because they don't have financial resources? Are ugly? Are disabled? Or have high libido? What should these men do? Rape women?!

Idiot! Cretinous fvcktard!
PoliticsRe: Dangote Refinery Begins Production Of Polypropylene (Pictures, Video) by Gerrard59(m): 12:06pm On Mar 09, 2025
Dangote's refinery is a major game changer. The same refinery cho cho cho David Hundeyin proclaimed would never exist. I wonder what he has to say about the refinery these days.
FamilyRe: Is 200 K Not Enough For Baby Things by Gerrard59(m): 4:53am On Mar 09, 2025
Hopefully this tells you the cost involved in having children and raising them. Going forward, don't have more than another baby.
FoodRe: Which Of These Energy Drinks Is The Original: Picture by Gerrard59(m): 4:49am On Mar 09, 2025
Energy drinks aren't good for the body. They do more harm than good (that is if they do any good at all).

Eat at least two boiled eggs and drink water to regain energy.
RomanceRe: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Gerrard59(m): 4:48am On Mar 09, 2025
Adexgentle005:
You go talk say you never jam person way fit do am. Dem dey na like addict
No man who earns 100K pays 50K to a sex worker. Let's be realistic in our utterances. It is not possible. People pay according to their pockets.

To your question, the demand for sex is very high by men due to testosterone. As a result, they are willing to pay just to cum and go. Women put a price on their vaginas because of this excessive demand. So, what do men who don't have enough resources do if not pay to access pay-as-you-go service providers? Moreover, the majority of these patrons are married men - yes, married men who we've been lied to get easy sex.

Lastly, sex is not free. Every man pays for it.
RomanceRe: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Gerrard59(m): 4:43am On Mar 09, 2025
haybhi1:
But in your response to Samantha125, men just want to cum. And you don't necessarily need sex to do that.
Penetrative sex and masturbation don't offer the same sexual feeling. There is a huge emotional difference.
TravelRe: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Gerrard59(m): 4:40am On Mar 09, 2025
Ontarioo:
It's a choice (if anyone can afford it).
Ask Elumelu cool
Elumelu wanted male children and he was already a bank executive.
TravelRe: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Gerrard59(m): 7:55pm On Mar 08, 2025
Taal17:
Actually 30 is a good age to freeze eggs

Egg reserve starts to drop from puberty and a more significant drop is typically from 35yrs till menopause which can be up to 60s.
Good then. At the end of the day, those who marry late should focus on having fewer children - max two kids. The era of three children should be coming to a close.
TravelRe: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Gerrard59(m): 7:53pm On Mar 08, 2025
maternal:
Only my cousin in Texas. It's actually a she. She demanded the now husband get his green card before talking to her. She's the only person I know who did it. I know some guys in Canada who did it for "alternative reasons" but they don't count. But for a legit marriage ? Haven't seen one in my generation. I also was thinking hard before replying.
But honestly, it is going to be so weird for it to be so rare that no such marriage exists. So, I was surprised at your reply. Such marriages exist. What we should be interested in is the prevalence. That is, do a high number of Black women (born and bred) in Canada marry Black men (regardless of their birth origins)? Do Black women born outside Canada also do the same (when they moved to Canada)? At what rate?

I've been discussing this issue for years. It's very complex. It's not black and white. My direct family is part of this conversation. But I'll keep certain explanation to myself. People here will accuse me of being bitter and angry if they don't agree with my life experiences. Lastly, naija men abroad are in extremely high demand. Thanks to the burna boys shipping the "culture" and music abroad. Then Nollywood of course. Being with a naija man is the thing to do if you're a black woman nowadays
Interesting, and nice to see. I believe that notwithstanding poor governance and poverty, globally, Nigerian men rank very high in desirability amongst Black women. Second only to African Americans. If we were prosperous, I believe we could have surpassed them.

Based on the bold, what about Nigerian women in the abroad? What is the demand like?

Thank you.
PoliticsRe: See The Picture Chatham House UK Used To Symbolise Nigerian Economy (pic) by Gerrard59(m): 7:46pm On Mar 08, 2025
dettolgel:
Very cheap compared to North America?

My point is that the price tag is not worth it. 16k pounds for a MSc, bro move to Western Europe you will get it way more cheaper (at a reasonable price), apply for fully funded PhD in USA or UK thereafter. Why waste money?
North America is actually Anglophone; yes, it is even cheaper in the UK for foreign students compared to the US. Education is almost a commodity across Anglophone countries (US, UK, Canada, Australia/New Zealand and Ireland). Even in countries where English is part of the official languages, it is still pricey for foreigners such as Singapore and Hong Kong.

Yes, running a lowly priced MSc in other parts of Europe is a better deal then maybe a PhD (if need be) in Anglophone nations. But as we know, most of our people did studies not for studying/knowledge, but for relocation.
PoliticsRe: You Died Before Me - David Hundeyin Knocks Doyin Okupe by Gerrard59(m): 2:50pm On Mar 08, 2025
folake4u:
I don't like the late Okupe, neither do I like Hundeyin but this is bottom barrel behaviour.
Well, in David's defence, Doyin accused him wrongly. The United States, at least under the Democrats, will say anything just to despise Russia. Na before person suppose dey believe anything from them hook, line and sinker.
PoliticsRe: See The Picture Chatham House UK Used To Symbolise Nigerian Economy (pic) by Gerrard59(m): 2:47pm On Mar 08, 2025
dettolgel:
You are just consoling yourself. 16k for any MSc anywhere on this planet is over priced. Unless it includes the cost of lab work, flying you abroad for a short scientific visit during the course of the programme. Otherwise, it is not worth it.

I know someone with 3 masters and a PhD from Europe and all three masters didn't even cost him anything close to that amount. While is PhD earned him (200 euros x 38). He has EU passport, currently lives and works in the UK.People should be smart with their money.
I beg to differ. In the Anglophone world, that is very cheap.
PoliticsRe: See The Picture Chatham House UK Used To Symbolise Nigerian Economy (pic) by Gerrard59(m): 2:42pm On Mar 08, 2025
owobokiri:
Obviously a deliberate attempt to malign the state of the countrys economy. Blame your politicians who go to the same Chatham House every election cycle to grovel and yearn for validation. They are the ones who put that organisation on a pedestal from where the operators look down and devalue Nigerias image and international standing.

It started with the APC. If their presidential candidates were not flying to Paris, they would be flying to London, just to take fresh commands from their handlers over there, after every stage of the presidential tussle. It is as if these guys who were born during the era of colonialism are not aware that colonialism has ended. You present yourself so cheaply to others, and folks like this will treat you and your people like you all don't count.
Meanwhile, some of the biggest critics of oyibo colonialism, especially as they lived in the abroad for a long time, on Nairaland fervently support APC.
TravelRe: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Gerrard59(m): 2:39pm On Mar 08, 2025
jedisco:
Hehe.. if you ask why, dem go say na BBC. It's blokes who've not left 9ja though- you no go blame them.
On arrival, dem go understand- accent first, then you talk of life experiences- when folks are talking places they've gone on vac to, guy go dey look. Food nko- on a quick break when folks are asking for different flavours of coffee e.t.c, or in a restaurant, chap would be looking at the menu like it was written in Arabic. I never mention fork and knife wahala. Activities/sports nko- we na mainly football. No talk of swimming, kayaking, camping, skiing e.t.c. Then the elephant in the room which is economic capability. People do date across borders but there's no one there queuing up for us because of BBC.
That is the core reason many won't marry foreign women: while the Nigerian male is building his life in a new land, the foreign lady has already built hers. Whether she is of the same race as the man, but was born and bred there. So she has been assimilated into the society. Cultural differences and how both see life. Small small chats and how they respond afterwards. Honestly, the way these lads yap on Twitter about how easy it is to marry a foreign woman as an immigrant amazes me. Inter-racial marriages aren't that plentiful to mention in the first place.

As for the BBC, I don't think that holds in places with a substantial population of black people. The average Western European lady shouldn't be fazed about a black man's preek any more.

Many blokes/ladies would be single finally. At least as a bloke, if you old reach, u fit enter 9ja, infact relatives would help.
Yes. That one is certain, including in Nigeria and for different reasons. We should expect a cultural norm where people don't eventually get married or have children at all. Even if they do, they have just one - this will become more common in Nigeria since it is already common in the abroad. It is a global phenomenon.

One met a medic who was 29- told me her plan was to freeze her eggs once she crosses 30. I told her e never reach.. she should search harder.
30 is too early. She should also try harder and reach out to friends/family from Nigeria. I know it is not easy. Another thing with marriage should be whether both parties are keen on settling in a particular location for a long time, as marriage restricts mobility to an extent.

Finally, I always wonder but ut seems our physically beautiful ladies still dey 9ja- maybe why folks still go back. Anytime I enter 9ja na so so fine babes I dey see.
The most beautiful Nigerian women are in Nigeria. And for academic reasons, I think this is also due to your "earning power". I am not saying or insinuating that you didn't earn well or you earned poorly before relocating, but the £ has enabled you to broaden the places you visit so you get to meet more people at various places.
RomanceRe: Finding A Good Wife In Nigeria Is Hard; Is Every Pretty Lady Into Runs? by Gerrard59(m):
SmartManJoe:
I am writing this post from the deepest depths of my heart. I am not trying to insult or vilify Nigerian women, I am only speaking from experience.

I returned to Nigeria two years ago after living in the United States for over a decade, and ever since, I have been actively searching for a wife. At first, I was a bit naive, thinking it would be easy, but I have come to realize that most of the beautiful women I meet are either into "runs" or for the streets.

Let me be clear,money is not my problem.
Number one problem. You are already promoting the picture of someone who is ready to buy attraction and as a result, those who are ready to sell it or those who sell it for a living will display their wares to you. Dem no dey buy or negotiate "geninue desire".

I am the head of a major company in Lagos, and I am ready to take care of my wife in every way possible. However, finding the right woman has been a struggle. Many ladies nowadays prioritize the wrong things, and I am tired of meeting the wrong ones. Every beautiful girl I meet is either a low key runs girl or very irresponsible. I don't want to be with a girl that clubs. I don't want to be with a girl that smokes and I don't want to be with a girl that keeps friends who spend nights out partying 3 times a week. I don't want to be with a girl that dresses scantily. I simply want a responsible girl that is good looking. Is that too much to ask?
Where do you meet women? Where do you go to outside work activities? What kind of people do you associate yourself with? The single women in the company nko? Their single friends? Recommendations from close friends and acquaintances you see daily?

That’s why I am turning to my fellow Nairalanders for help. If you know a lady who meets the following criteria, kindly recommend her to me:
Why do you expect recommendations for a life partner from random people on the Internet? Don't you have friends to confide in and with?

Age: 23-30
Looks: Beautiful and not short
Body Type: Slim and preferably busty (I am very attracted to busty women)
Character: Responsible, well-mannered, and properly dressed
Education: Should speak good English and
No be only you want them as well. The demand for such women is huge. Hopefully, the ones you come across are naturally busty. I must say though that some states/regions have such women in abundance. Oyo and Bayesla come to mind.

To encourage serious recommendations, I will pay ₦50,000 for every relevant suggestion.
If you have someone in mind, please contact me via joetheman869@gmail.com
Make sure to include:
-A picture or a link to her social media so I can see what she looks like
-Her phone number or contact info so I can reach out and speak with her
- Your account number so I can send the money to you.

I trust the Nairaland community to help me find the right woman. I am looking for something serious, not games.
You expect a life partner from random people on the Internet? Seriously, how is your social life in reality?
TravelRe: My Cousin Sister Is Traveling To Cairo To Work. by Gerrard59(m): 5:33am On Mar 08, 2025
Goodvibes007:
I rarely see any good story of someone going to Arab countries to work.
This is not entirely true, please. Ask for their professional experience and educational qualifications. A Nairalander got employed by a finance firm in Dubai and later migrated to Canada. He had a CFA qualification while working in Nigeria. There are many Nigerian oil workers in the Gulf States.
TravelRe: My Cousin Sister Is Traveling To Cairo To Work. by Gerrard59(m): 5:32am On Mar 08, 2025
Penguin2:
My young cousin sister just told me she got a visa to travel to Cairo and ‘work’ but I don’t trust this ‘work’ narrative.

The impression I have of these Arab cities ( Cairo, Dubai, etc) is that African girls are trafficked there to go and prostitute for their traffickers. But people who have information about what happens in Cairo can tell me. Do Nigerians genuinely work in Cairo or is my little cousin about to be a victim of traffickers?
Dubai is better if she has professional experience. Even Qatar and Saudi Arabia can be good as well. But being professionally qualified is essential. Those are the best places to work as a Black professional in the Arab World. For those in the oil and gas industry, everywhere in the GCC is fine and good.
PoliticsRe: I Am One Of Those That Put Akpabio In This Problem - Senator Sunday Karimi by Gerrard59(m): 7:04pm On Mar 07, 2025
Savagethe21st:
he made the post today, this afternoon
Na Elon Musk dey push that man. I thought they declined his first offer? Now, another one. Let them leave na. But they won't anyway. To start afresh in a distant land, regardless of it being the US, no easy. Unless a massive war, there cannot be a mass migration of humans from where they have lived for so long.
PoliticsRe: I Am One Of Those That Put Akpabio In This Problem - Senator Sunday Karimi by Gerrard59(m): 5:35pm On Mar 07, 2025
Savagethe21st:
gerrard just bringing this to your attention. I remember when you said people are biased for there own race. See how trump is giving whites in south africa a free pathway to citizenship. But when haitians had crisis, he kept calling for their deportation. Cc pa.nsophist
When did he make that post? Is it recent, like two days or yesterday?

nothing new and it is actually human to do so. You respond to the cries of someone who shares a tribal connection with you before others. Your siblings before your cousins. All things being equal, your cousins before friends. Your close friends before distant ones etc. No be the same way they (Europeans) catered to Ukrainians before Middle Easterners?
PoliticsRe: I Am One Of Those That Put Akpabio In This Problem - Senator Sunday Karimi by Gerrard59(m): 6:50am On Mar 07, 2025
franchasng:
Natasha is a how a Senate President would stoop so low to wanting to bonk his female colleague; a married woman that has given birth, what's romantic or appealing about her? With your influence and wealth as a former Governor, former NDDC Chairman, and now Senate President, you can get any single lady of your dream; be it from Nigeria or anywhere in the world. If your fetish is Caucasian ladies or mixed race chicks or Indian, Moroccan or even Arab ladies, you can assign your Aides to get one for you without you stressing.


Honestly many NIGERIAN men don't know their worth and who they are. Some influential guys like the other mumu music star Burna Boy was even promising a Runs Girl heaven and earth just to have sex with her, a supposed music superstar that ought to have quality hot chicks begging for his attention and time was busy promising a Runs Girl what he cannot afford to give away just to have sex with her, tufiakwa.

All these Nigerian men should please do better. At every point in time, I always remember my worth and who I am even at my small level talk more of these influential and powerful men disgracing their generation because of expired pussies undecided
Akpabio was a governor of an equivalent of a Gulf Emirate yet we never see Arab princes being called out publicly for their sexual rendezvous. The other day Otedola used his influence to ban two baddies sisters from Nigeria. The other day too, we saw Dangote's yansh. Now, we hear a notable Grammy Award winner promising what he couldn't fulfil.

Our men lack love from childhood. E no dey hard to detect. Hopefully more men be like you as time goes on.

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