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She should have been like Ini Edo.

But hey folks, get ready, we are entering the female era of TuFace who popularised baby-mama amongst Nigerian male celebrities. Expect to see a growing number of female celebrities have children without known fathers and/or husbands.

BlueStripper:
Then what else are you saying? Have you seen a Fula girl in her prime?

This is how they look. Slender, Tall, Educated, Exposed, Morally upright, Trained to respect and value her husband, Culturally Conscious of the values of Marriage, Proper Family background, Doesn't care about wealth because she is okay, Not money conscious or Yahoo Yahoo.

What else please?

Which states in Nigeria do we have substantial numbers of Fulani Christians?

bigpicture001:
I dnt like this lady cuz sh is desperate... All sh need is to hook into the Ayeni family...

Sh is the man's daughter classmate who met her father on their convocation day in uniabuja... The Dad was stunned by hr beauty ND exchanged innocent contact with just to knack one or two times... This desperate girl hooked the man when she realized how rich he is.. even severed the good friendship with his daughter... To the extent the Dad sent her daughter packing to lag... Cus they both stay in Abj.. The wife came with a fight, but the Manis far gone into the mess.. he bought her a house in Abj, cars countless trips abroad... During all this time it was war btw her ND his family...It got to the extent the man started to threaten his long staying wife of divorce if sh doesn't leave this jezebel alone.. because if this crises, he was excluded from Atiku abubakar's inner causus men who planned his presidential ambition, cuz Atiku said he doesn't want his crises to Robb off in his candidacy... After about 3-4 years . He got himself... Started to collect the properties he gave her.. including a full office building... He started dissociating himself from her.. but sh was pregnant already, sh wanted to be.. sh started fight for child perternity even before the child was born.. that became another issue.. that even the wife got involved ND followed her o confirm DNA if child by herself... Unknown to his family during his. Mad love for her.. he followed her to her village to marry her.. non of his family members came... He only did what the girl orders him to do then...All this girl need is not peace of mind.. is her share if his wealth.. how can u b forcing urself on a man ND family dat didn't want u at all...

Now u guys realize that Tonto dikeh is a saint..?

The kind juju she used on a bank executive who was in Atiku's inner chamber must have been very strong.

See why vasectomy is good? Make I see where the pikin wan come from.

haybhi1:
Guy. E hard die. Just specialize in AI. Leverage your data analysis to further skill up in data science. ML and DL are key in your growth. Then you'll see jobs swimming your way.


Cc: Tenzaseng.etsu22, Gerrar.d59... your inputs here will be useful

Done. OP has a long way to go. The people reaping the benefits of the tech surge were those who learnt and honed their skills pre-CORONA and those who quickly skilled up during CORONA. I read Americans applying for 100 jobs, yet nothing comot. Sack left, right and centre.

hartson:
Tech jobs are over rated in Nigeria. A country that can't boost of year round electricity supply can't

IT guys across the west dey ball big time.ask anyone close to you that lives abroad. I met a guy at phone repair arena sometime last year.The guy brought a top notch Samsung phone for minor troubleshooting.(Just unlocking and restore)
He signed in and gave the guys in the repair dept the phone after telling them what the problem was.just to use an OEM software to unlock the phone then do factory restore.The only solution the so called IT guys adopted was to flash the phone erasing all the vital files and information in the phone without telling the owner. Meanwhile,The guy told me that he mistakenly locked the phone and it could not boot.He was in dubai then so he went to a repair outlet.He signed in at the outlet. he guys simply plugged the phone to a device and in less than a minute the phone was unlocked and all factory settings restored without loosing a single file.All personal and phone files were intact.He took his phone,signed out and left.It was the same thing that happened while in naiJa unfortunately our NaiJa backyard IT guys flash craze comot for d phone head
No be small matter that day oo

Sorry, but I don't think OP meant this "type" of tech o. Abi phone repair don become software engineering as performed by Stripe or NVIDIA? If you meant hardware engineering, sure, we have a long way to go.

adaperry25:
The noise about tech got into my head and I quit my 8-5 job. Though the 8-5 job was becoming stressful and toxic, I couldn't cope and had to leave.

I had saved some funds and learned data analytics. Now here is where the issue lies.I've applied to more than a thousand jobs and I keep getting rejections. My hope was to get a remote job but I'm not seeing it coming.

Is tech all about noise or it's just saturated?While learning , we were told a data analyst earns 30k USD annually. I'm just getting tired and frustrated

Number one mistake you made is resigning. The best time to look for a job is when you are employed. The chances of getting a new one are higher as an employed person than unemployed.

- The tech industry has witnessed massive layoffs within the last two years and still witnesses retrenchment upon sackings. So, you are competing for limited positions with much more experienced folks who companies are willing to pay less for their wealth of experience than a tyro they have to train.

- As a newbie who wants to change industries and career paths, you don't start with remote roles. Rather, you begin with on-site roles which offer you access to seniors who will guide you through the journey. Also, nothing beats face-to-face interactions, especially during your nascent years.

- Thousands of job applications? How is your CV like? Are they specific to the position advertised abi na anywhere belly face? Which platforms do you utilise the most?

Lastly, data science abi data analyst roles are so cheap and the actual data science jobs require a PhD or MSc with intersnhips. So, it is funny people enrol in three month courses and expect to land plum data science or AI roles. Whereas these fields require folks with advanced degrees in quant heavy fields such as mathematics and physics. Are you sure entry level data analyst remote workers in Nigeria earn $30K per annum?

EmperorCaesar:
Real men 'doesnt' care?
Women know how to put up the most silly defenses for their horrible actions/actions of many of them
Why would the definition of "Real Men" come from a woman? Its like having the a South Korean historian writing about what it takes to be a freedom fighter in North Korea

No sense

Maybe you should do a quick survey on the financial statuses of the men who married your female classmates. Especially if they married immediately after tertiary education.

illicit:
This guy is a useless spoilt brat cultist..

Dey threaten commissioner of police with krf ☠
Any Nigerian artiste that glorifies cultism should be cancelled

You might as well cancel the entire industry.

To most modern day women, "real men" are men who have money. Judging by the calibre of men who my flirtatious female classmates married, I believe her statement that "real men" don't care about a woman's body count when it comes to marriage. Ned Nwoko, TuFace and a host of many Nigerian men are in that category.

grandstar:
The US economy will enter into a downturn by the third or fourth quarter of this year, no thanks to Trump.

The mass deportation exercise is adversely affecting the agriculture and construction industries. Workers aren't showing up for work. Crops are not being harvested and a lot of construction work has stopped. Inflation is rising and the Fed will soon will interest rates.

Anyhow American elites want to run the US is entirely up to them. Africa's so-called intellectual class should focus on how to improve the continent's economy. As it is, the US and South Africa are in a confrontation of sorts. Our business as Nigerians is to see what we can sell to the US. If the US gets to place sanctions on South Africa, that is their business.

We should learn to focus on matters that directly concern us. If the US gets into a recession as a result of Trump's policies - deporting 5BN people, deporting people of colour, accepting only White immigrants, stop funding foreign agencies etc - that is the US' business. End. Of. Discussion.

Afonja007:
nigerians na mumu people i swear dem no dey ask question today again dangote don increase his refinery to 23billion dollars from 19 billion dangote no spend reach 6billion dollars for that refinery

Inflation increased the final cost. Why would he lie especially since he has to repay foreign lenders? Construction costs aren't the same all the time. For instance, Marina Bay Sands proposed extension cost ~$3BN in 2019. Today, it will cost more than $5BN.

The same refinery David Hundeyin said would never come into operation. Cho cho cho never ends well most times.

DeLaRue:
If he crosses a line of inciting violence, he can be arrested and charged.

At this point, he hasn't crossed that line.

Log into Twitter and say the same statement Davido made against the commissioner. Do it to your own commissioner. Let's find out if a line of inciting violence has been crossed.

GeneralPula:
Kindly show me the link

Type "Etche land" on this profile: https://www.facebook.com/xbriandennis/ to read about the terrible experiences of those who purchased lands in that axis.

Alex Otti's: https://www.google.com/search?q=alex+otti+lands+with+dead+bodies&oq=Alex+otti+lands+with+dead+&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUqBwgBECEYoAEyBggAEEUYOTIHCAEQIRigATIHCAIQIRiPAjIHCAMQIRiPAtIBCTE3MzU2ajBqNKgCDrACAfEFevKEmMfy6qY&client=ms-android-samsung-gj-rev1&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8

Afolue:
loosed clothing really need be addressed and looked into especially by our religious organization, schools and parenting... Girls mainly now adays, dress the ways most schools sew their uniforms and sport wears which is in the wrong. It is seriously being abused ! It instigates men committing all manner of crime. Some their, their ambition is to get these girls laid. Let’s leave the married men, that na sure marital problems & most broken homes. Married women have once come out to protest something as this before in the East. Na menace! Now in excess. This is Africa, the white know how to mind their business but in Africa reverse is the case

Bros, there are better ways to go about it, not by sending angry men into the street in the middle of the night o.

tensazangetsu20:
Blood will flow today. Where una Dey. Upon say they Dey pray for my downfall steady still 😂😂😂😂

My Leader! 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

Always loyal to your gofment! You deserve this man! Congratulations!

hkidola00:
goldie of kennis music died february 14th 2013, i saw no post here on little remembrance about her on valentines day,she was a legend in the little time she spent in the music industry modified< to those saying shit about her, goldie was number 1 female artiste during her period, sasha p, kel,kemistry,bouqui av all dimmed as at then..she was number 1 as at that period

How time flies....

She was a big female musician of her time. I imagine how she would have witnessed the rise of our music industry.

pocohantas:
Read your post 4 times and _______
Please assume I am 5yrs old and explain to me how this trivialises the importance of finance in marriage.

Money is important in almost everything in life including relationships/marriage. However, the same women who know this shouldn't try to belittle its importance or deride men who make it a sole focal point of their lives.

That's my stance.

mauchiz:
Exactly, you really know the place,
We need to do something, before this politicians kill everyone in this country.

I just want us to put our heads together here and do something before our loved ones or anyone becomes victim.
Let's not keep quiet, evil prevail when we do nothing to stop it.

Bros,

That area na no go zone even when it comes to land purchases. It's hell and I can only imagine the number of people, especially young women who have been dismembered while going to Owerri or Port-harcourt. The other day, Alex Otti discovered a site where dead bodies were kept after some parts have been removed. The entire axis is an axis of evil and should be avoided at all cost!

pocohantas:
No feminist has told you money isn't important in marriage. It is the reality, not materialism. Your post should be directed at men who are deluded to this fact. Focus on the topic, Gerrard.

Warm Regards
Poco

Not long ago, Ozzyetomi said Nigerian men make money to be the only part of themselves. However, a previous post revealed where she stated "any man who comes to her must come correct or stay back".

That's one of the country's most prolific and popular Ndi ifeminismi.

Yes.

This was because I had already signed the first job offer.

jojo1415:
Money makes u to have anything u want including women

Nothing like a well-to-do man in Nigeria who keeps to one woman. No such man exists except na part of the Ogboni agreement he signed.

Financially comfortable men in Nigeria and elsewhere enjoy as many women as possible. I remembered when I stated this but got dragged.

yen yen yen my husband is rich but he doesn't cheat 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

mauchiz:
Girls/ladies should stop walking about, they should leave men alone, except you are courting someone.

We in nairaland.com should educate our female relatives and neighbours, let's inform them on what is happening in Nigeria now.
They are doing organ harvesting, forest between River State and Owerri, River State and Abia state is full of dead bodies, they sell people's body parts to doctors.
Organ harvesting is the yahoo yahoo in Nigeria, be careful, trust no one, everybody is a suspect.

Let's educate people around us, kidnapping and killing is going on everyday in Nigeria.

Why has Tinubu not sentenced this people to death by hanging, is suspicious, how can a president not do anything to people that are caught with human parts?
We need to impeachment Tinubu for this offence, they should let Nigerians know if they are the ones sending them, if they are not, why are they still alive?
Why has he refused to sign there death warrant.


If Tinubu is not ready to kill this people by firing squad, he should resign.
Why are we quiet over this issue?
Why?
Nobody knows the next victim,
People are kidnapped in River State forest, if parents don't meet up, the victim is killed and there body parts sold.

Nigerians wake up from sleep, there is fire on the mountain, nobody knows who will be there next victim

It's the Etche axis in Rivers state, which is one of the most dangerous places to live in. The elites there and wider Rivers state are in cahoots. They know everything going on there.

Nigerian elites from all walks of life know these happenings and support them.

Let no Nigerian woman, especially the Ndi ifeminismi fellows try to belittle the importance of money when it comes to relationships and marriages.

It's their pretence that pisses me off!

Kelechi009:
Yes, the southern Nigerian women are a combination of women wanting western ideologies specifically to America with a poverty of a 3rd world country. The thing is when you find men with enough finance in Nigeria, women will not let them rest. They will be following you like pack of wolves, so If you are the type of man who has never seen such pack of wolves coming after you before, you will eventually get one lady pregnant. Be overwhelmed by the surge of women coming to you. I know this because I have been there before, once you transition from a guy who doesn't drive to Church in Nigeria to a guy who now drives a Range Rover, the number of women approaching you for silly reasons will astonish you!



See, this may sound strange but that rumour is actually true. If I also tell you why that the pregnancy proves the theory I've had about Nigerian women for a long time.

The theory is simple: there's always a price to pay. Many women come online and deny this reality, acting as if they’ll never have to make that choice. But behind closed doors, they are paying the price. You either choose an older man and enjoy wealth as a concubine / 2nd or 3rd Wife, or you marry a younger man who is still building his life, meaning luxury won’t come immediately.

Take people like Sharon Ooja, for example. Many claim to be with "high-value men," but when you dig deeper and investigate, their partners are often older men in their 40s or 50s. Divorced multiple times. That is why most of them never show their partners.

Nobody can deceive me. Where are these so-called high-value men in their 20s and 30s? What exactly do they do for a living?!

The so-called high value men are older men close to their graves.

With the newest tittle-tattle that Chika Ike had a child for the numero-uno Ned Nwoko, your theory is validated. I will have to believe that Nengi got pregnant for Diri.

So after all the yanga, na Ned Chika born pikin for? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Alpha males on TwitterNG will have a field day!!!! Money is extremely important! Any lady who denies it is a bare-faced liar!

https://x.com/bellathebomba/status/1891317025428930648?s=48

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Nna, going forward, I will do yanga eh! When asked about marriage, I will bluntly state that I'm not interested! Not today, not tomorrow, not anytime soon 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

dynicks:
broaden your mind...then you would know....

Answer the question na...

Winnin009:
Its like when they become politicians, they sign a pact or join a cult. It makes no sense.

How will someone so learned wake up and say women without undies are the priority of the state. Omo.

It has to be. I've had a thought about it. You will have well learned and exposed people turn into something else the moment they hold political power. It surprises, honestly. Because if this is how they - supposedly well educated and exposed ones - behave, then the likes of Uzodinma and Co should be forgiven. Others are Obiano who became a jogger on well tarred roads in the US and Orji Uzor Kalu whose daughter attended an elite preparatory school in the US but destroyed the infrastructural fabric of Abia.

Even in religious affairs, Nigerians display their crude tribalism. This is why I never take the rants of those whining about Donald Trump and Elon Musk to be serious.

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The pastor looks good and well trimmed. Which particular gym branch does he patronise?

lawrenzooo:
Yeah, it might be to bridge the gap but again we cannot rule out the fact that it's because it's cheap. A friend linked me to a Nigerian woman living in the US who wanted me to help maintain her site and she was offering $10.
I declined and later got to know that the person maintaining it for her was charging $100 per month hence the reason she was looking for a cheaper option in Nigeria.

It's exchange rate advantage, else they would've patronised UK based tutors. Other than those who teach ethnic languages, what prevents them from patronising those within?

1Hover1:
Those saying because it's cheaper don't realise that the driver for doing this is the high quality of education in Nigeria. I understand you might not have lived outside Nigeria, so I have no problem with your views.

Most schools abroad encourage mediocrity and non ambitious learning. Many Nigerians see this gap and decide that their own child will not join the bandwagon of mediocrity and so get a teacher from Nigeria who will help push the child better with a Nigerian driven curriculum.

Why do you think Nigerians top classes in UK schools for example?

At the bold, That's because the schools their children aren't the best in the UK. Garbage in, garbage out.

At your last statement, those Nigerians are a minute percentage of the entire school age group of Nigerians in the UK. Also, most attended predominantly black schools and the school famous for churning those results is an elite prep school in London.

cc: sheblayze

Thanks for your reply. Reading through, I can see the clear difference between there and here. Until when/if I am ready, I will know what to do. Talking about the fraud money, our politicians laid the foundation for the malaise. Now, there are just different and many avenues to generate money via fraudulent means unlike the heyday of politics and maybe illicit drugs.

The major solution to most of Nigeria's problems is sustained and high-powered economic growth.

Nothing else.

chinonfelix2:
This is a welcome movement... Come to owerri and see how these guys go almost naked..

This is not how igbos are known
We need to bring back sanity to our states..
Most of you condemning this movement I know say ashawo dey una eyes..

Have you seen traditional Igbo female clothing? Also consider that we live in the tropics that is not windy but highly sunny.