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JESHAL007:
She must do all the chore even if she's sharing the bills, am I not her husband, did I not marry her and bring her under my roof, does she not bear my surname ,let her misbehave she would be sent packing to her father's house bringing shame and reproach unto her family

What nonsense
Rubbish

pocohantas:
It is not as Poco said or about it being a woman's world. It is simply common sense and fairness. He said in clear words that he doesn't ever want to do chores in his life. I wouldn't know why you are all conveniently ignoring that.

No woman would happily do that in addition to birthing kids and raising them. Any man claiming his wife is doing it happily is lying. She might be doing it because she doesn't have a choice and for the sake of her kids. If that is how their fathers were, my father wasn't like that. Neither is Mine. And that is not to say I don't contribute financially.

emmaodet:
My brother. This is the excat question going through my mind.
While you are there as a man over-suffering yourself all just to be called man of the house....wearing shambles, looking ugly, your wife is there using her own money to take care of herself looking sweet, having excess reserve to start buying land and doing her project (building) or expanding her shop.
When you finally lose your job, she will start disrespecting you anyway while feeding you and because she is always looking beautiful, someone else who can finance her better will snatch her off under the excuse that you are useless and not doing anything for the family.
In a world that is becoming highly expensive and people can barely have any meaniful savings, some are still there raising shoulder for being ''Man of the House''

LordReed:
You have it backwards. Nobody is clamouring for a quota. When a well qualified person is rejected just because they are female then it is not a quota issue but a sexism one.

God1000:
but her husband who is a black man was elected president twice, I think this is not about race, we still have black female governors, mayors, senators and house of representatives in US.

pocohantas:
What is he using his time and energy for since he doesn't want to share chores? You saw them say they don't share bills and some of them clearly said they have no business with chores. Who and who do they use their energies for?

Time is money. He conserves his time+energy, she conserves her money.

wellmax:
Same here but it’s very unreasonable of women.

My woman will rather I go into debt than spend her own money. It’s ridiculous and making me lost every form of love.

pocohantas:
But you don't understand his reason for not wanting to do chores and expecting to share bills?

Blitzking:
I pay house rent 100%(own the house)
Nepa bills 100%
Cable subscription 100%
House cleaning 100%Kitchen equipment she bought all with her money after throwing away the ones I had saying she wanted new stuff
She pays the lawma billsShe cooks soup and stew with her money, buys plantain, potato
I buy a bag of rice regularly, paints of garri and beans and tubers of yam 10 litres of palm oil and groundnut oil, cartons of noodles and spag ,Mayonnaise.. gas ,butter...milk..ovaltine She buys spices..sausages
She buys crates of eggs
She buys tooth paste..detergents..disinfectants .tiles cleaner..mopping stick and tiles broom..bed sheets duvet..
I pay children school fees
She buys children dresses and shoes..occasionally ask I pay for some
We earn around the same and age mates

grandiose4ever:
Hello everyone,

*5b. If you don't share bills with your wife and she keeps 100% of her earnings to herself, what do you think is the purpose of a woman working?

I'd appreciate if the mods can help me get a wider audience by putting on front page. Thanks!

chido20:
I’m planning on traveling to a good African country to do business. Problem is that I don’t know which country is easier and I don’t know any person there

JESHAL007:
I swear you are correct some would say as a man in a relationship you have no business pursuing women for sexual purpose aren't you a Christian aren't you moral aren't you bound by masculine honor code of loyalty and fidelity, why can't you control your libido, why do you lack self discipline as a man, why aren't you behaving like a virtuous Christian and many other religious shaming like you are not depicting righteous living and godliness, some would shame you that you would get STD like HIV as if we are stupid enough not to use contraceptives, what annoys me is that the women telling you all these nonsense were fucking like mad having unlimited raw sex, fornicating heavily in their prime years as if there was no tomorrow, but to guilt trip and shame you not to pursue pleasure at all and rather manage the boredom of one single pussy

JESHAL007:
Western men are fûcked deeply.

Africa, certain parts of Asia and the Middle east are the last bastions of decent masculinity and patriarchy. Sadly, the simping culture is creeping up on our young men. I've seen university boys sacrifice their tuition fees for birthdays of women, do other stupid things as vagina worshippers etc. One of the reasons why it hasn't gain much strong footing here is that men, on a general aren't earning much (weak economy), so women on average (who earn much lower than their men who also earn poorly) have to show traits of submission.

JESHAL007:
100% of Women want to flex their peak SMV to the core, they always want to settle down when they hit the wall and their SMV starts declining.
Sadly, 80% of men want to marry immediately they are about to peak on the SMV, That's why married men tend to cheat a lot... Because they just entered their season of abundance but they've already tied themselves down.

emmaodet:
Well, there is no need to rebel.
The system always have a loophole to take advantage of.
While the man who has hustled is left with a semi-damaged woman, he has the option and power to explore as far as his financials can take him aside his wife.

It is not a crime. Don't let anyone gaslight you or demonize you for having a side chick outside marriage.
Don't let them tell you, you have a wife and stick to her. Why did you marry when you know you won't be faithful to one woman blah blah blah.
Bro, enjoy your life. So many pussies to conquer out there if you want and like

Nchenches:
For Igbo the largest or second largest ethnic group in Nigeria to "stay off national issues" is like placing a stumbling block on the development process of Nigeria.

Nchenches:
Igbo men are least educated compated to Igbo women. he worst politicians are Igbo men.
For example, Igbo politicians do siddon de look Arewa and Yaribawa politicians. If not for Middle belt people who cried out to the Americans over Christians genocide, Igbos would have remained mum.

ariesbull:
Igbo women are noisy a bit.... But a bit opinionated and forward

DiamondsAreFore:
https://x.com/StatiSense/status/1818369697043431734?t=uHDYxpFeWZTqtU0TYQ3wGw&s=19[/quote]Nothing surprising. Christianity supports or leans towards Western culture and education. So Igbos and Ibibios (95%+ Christians) garnering way over 50% is in order. What I am surprised by is how Igbo women are the ones who champion feminism online, but Ibibio women aren't doing the same.

Kelechi009:
You didn't get consumed by it since you left before the consequences arose. The most important thing here is that you selected the right path once things became evident to you and you had evidence.

I believe that many leftists stick to their guns because even when they found out the truth. Admitting the truth would cost them the benefits they receive and the individuals they support.

Being a leftist means Anti-men as well, which is an integral part of the F movement. So that one too.

Cleanmouth:
Political correctness is what is currently destroying Europe.
Sweden use to be one of the happiest nation in the World. They even don't lock the doors of their cars or houses because of very low crime rate. But that happiness has now turned to pain and regrets. Crime rate has skyrocketed.

Due to political correctness they decided to bring in thousands of Arabs into their Country. The Arabs refuse to integrate and began marrying themselves. Their male offsprings are forming ghettos and commiting crime to fund their lifestyles. The females are married off at early age and the breeding continues. Major roads are blocked during Friday prayers leading to heavy traffic. Ordinary Swedish now goes through hell.

Dogalmighty17:
It is just that Palestinians end up attacking whoever helps them. If not, more countries around the world will have given them places to stay.

Egypt tried accomodating them in 1968 but they organised the first terrorist bombing in Cairo and tried to cause an uprising. Jordan too experienced similar. As a reward for the hospitality of the Jordanian king, they tried to overthrow him. Because of Palestinians, Lebanon has never remained the same. Early Palestinian refugee settlers in Lebanon ended up creating Hezbollah and tore that country apart.

As South Africa wan price market so, make dem ready to pay.

Morenikeji090:
So to some of Wack people so you think Nigeria is the only country that train break down right … imagine if it was in Nigeria does plane crash that is happening in American happened in Nigeria that’s how may of you will be yelling rubbish up and down because it is in American now many of you kept mute coz you think American is heaven. sometimes ehn some of our people are just coward lack of exposure is your problem…

Kelechi009:
Gerrard59 previously said on this site that the LEFT consumes itself; since then, that assertion has proven to be correct in numerous occasions. It's like magic.

One thing I believe is that every man or woman, whether in Nairaland or elsewhere, who aligns themselves to the left would get bitten by the same. They're constantly anti-Christian. Anti-normal society. anti-nuclear family. Anything that destroys family structures will be found there. They're also on this forum. It's only a question of time. Everything will end this way.

Unlimitedlucky:
nd I guess it's better I come here and hear from my brothers who has been there.

1. When writing my researching proposal, where do you think I should use as case study and where do I draw my data from in case of methodology application? Eg, I am writing on about Nigeria drawing data from bureau of statistics to justify my thesis in Japan.

2. Do you think is wise applying for multiple schools or just apply for just a school and stay on it? Considering application fee

3. Emphasis has been on getting school outside the Tokyo but I would appreciate some right direction on areas which one has little bit considerably international friendly and helpful too.

LordAdam16:
we will always have id**ts.
but for every soludo, there is an adeboye.
https://www.nairaland.com/8557054/eliminate-terrorists-sponsors-before-us

the northern elites are complicit so why should they be ashamed.
they are proud of the developments.
that they can disarm victims and let the killers roam free and nothing happens

do you think they do not know that they could also make money by solving the issue first in nigeria and becoming the hegemon in the sahel by solving the issue in the region?
are we not in a prime position to solve it with our population and wealth?
and if we do we will be front of the line to reap the benefits that will follow.
from reconstruction to mining to industry to double digit GDP growth
and then that will launch us into the geopolitical stratosphere by being invited to the table whether it is in eritrea, sudan, somalia, libya, central africa, western sahara or even haiti and the caribbean.

do you think they did not see all of that potential and the billions of dollars they can make but instead opt to profit from systematic below-the-radar terrorism and cleansing operations by imported savages.

this is one of the top reasons why i am never ruling out unilateral intervention
if you go to sambisa and find a nuclear scientist there you don't ask if he is there to party
the northern elite that has held the most populous african country hostage for 60 years are corrupt but they're not stupid
everything happening is by design
how can the people that extradited kanu from kenya be telling us that they can't handle bandits roaming in motorcycles right under their nose

and then the so-called northern hoi polloi are telling us to tolerate the killings and the inaction because both christians and muslims are victims. the very same excuse they will give when the scourge becomes unbearable in the south. you can see that from top to bottom, we are dealing with archdemons.

-Lord

Freshandfitpod:
Most big businesses are setting shop in Lagos or Ondo, what is the secret?

pansophist:
Gambia is hella boring.

It’s freaking hot, a tiny economy that revolves mainly around tourism.

Their currency is high, but to make it is harder.

They have beaches, and that’s what draw Europeans there, but Nigerian beaches are better and plenty.

Lots of Nigerians ladies do prostitution there. Infact that’s a trade Nigerian girls are know for.