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eazzzy1:
Good for you for not reacting violently. Now warn her sternly never to repeat what she did to you ever again, also report her to her folks and let them know the next time it happens you would retaliate.

If you do not do this, your wife will hit you whenever you have a misunderstanding, we make acceptable what ever we condone. i must commend you again for not reacting violently, you are a better guy than most of us. If you do not handle it now she will soon start slapping you in presence of visitors and outsiders.

OP take this advice, I will do the same to make it very clear to her in a calm manner that if she tries it again somebody will die. Tell the mother or father they will seriously warn their daughter. I applaud you for not retaliating instantly.

my scam during my university years was much, I collected hundreds of thousands..
I even dey give my friends format too and i get my own cut from their scam too... good old days.

truth is my children too will do the same and i wouldn't be angry

Innobee99:
Thanks alot

you welcome bro

your 21yrs old babe just want your money, she clearly isn't interested in Marriage for now and to be honest with you she isn't ready for marriage she neva mature, to her you are like a sugar daddy with the spending. I'm very confident to tell you she has younger lovers in her life. my advice to you is to remove the thought of marrying her and look for some one a bit more mature 24yrs + .
my brother wise up

Godwithus20:
@Ikennablue


https://www.nairaland.com/1399216/confessions-rough-rugged-n-raw



https://www.nairaland.com/1939489/confessions-rough-rugged-raw-naija

I've been a guest on nairaland for a long while but I never saw this story don't know how but the kind of hype I'm seeing here now I have to read the story from ab initio. @moneysoldier for people to praise you like this then you must be phenomenal, I hail you. keep it up

As a lady do tall guys (boys/men) approach you more for friendship/relationship or short guys (boys/men) ?
and are you tall or short ?

As a gentleman do short girls/women respond well to your advances for relationship or friendship or is it tall girls /women that responds well ?
and are you tall or short ?

NB, just to know the kind of people you attract physique wise

OlaitanAkanbi:
Today I invited a girl we have being chatting for 2years on facebook so we met today I really love this girl no be small but .
This girls once they see you are fresh they will empty you by fire by force with billing

We just met today she came with here friend I took you to my house
She said she was hungry I told her to cook she said No
I took her to buy food for she and her friend almost 1,500naira
She said she won’t to sub I bought card 1,000naira
After eating the food with her friend she said she will be going home soon
She no even use pass 1hour for my house
She then told me I will give she and her friend transport money she just started complaining she want to do hair
I was like which kind wahala be this
And I really like this girl oh
I then give she and her friend 3kfor transport
Can you believe this girl said the money is too small that she and her friend will use ( O-pay) bike home
I give her 5k
She then start asking for money for hair I told her next time she come that am cashlesss
She said ok
Na so she go oh I delete her number instant



Mind my English oh
Is true love real I beg
Every girl out here is always billing

you be mumuu, I hope say you fit just give your fellow guy 5k just like dat for Tp. d babe go still chop your money i know.

I've had one night stand be4 but I'm going to talk about my worst one night stand encounter.

back then in sch there was one girl in my lodge, a very fine young girl, she had a boyfriend in my lodge but he wasn't around (he traveled) and we started talking well and I was flirting with her and she reciprocated, that night I took her out and bought things for her on her request thinking all is in order.

fast forward after flexing her that night she came to my room and I wanted to get into action and when I touched her she brought out knife and she told me that if I try anything stupid she'll use the knife on me.

I tried talking sense into her then I realized she was a psycho, I told her to leave my room and she left, this happen back then in my 300L.

I can never 4get dat experience

currently in a friends with benefits kinda relationship and we clearly know we are not in a real relationship. we just know deep down that nothing everlasting will come out of it, we are age mates too, we just enjoy each others company sometimes, I think

i believe Game lovers knows how Ps2 looks like, mine is the big box and in very good condition.

for those of you interested the price is #12.500

Collison2:
U no even post pictures

I tried posting pictures, don't know why it is not uploading

Fairly used PlayStation 2 in perfect condition with two pads, memory card and flash with multiple games inside for sale.

location: Nyanya, Abuja

Call : 08107528621 to purchase

HannahHitler:
You people sending PM cannot even follow simple instructions. How am I supposed to want to marry you? A man that cannot read and comprehend, is that one a husband material?

I'm straight now o, you people should now allow me revert back to default settings.

I said I will PM you personally if you specify that you're interested. Simple.

from the info i gathered from your diary, you are highly intelligent, sapiosexual and self aware. I think you needing a man now is due to the fact that the law of nature is taking its cause on you finally (I could be wrong). do i want to fvck you, hell yea. marriage is a no but wouldn't mind having you as a friend.

As human beings we make mistakes, we do things, some evil some good and we ask for forgiveness. God that created us, did he not know that we will sin and commit atrocities.

if he did why did he create us ?

if he knows the outcome of his creation from the beginning why should he be angry ?

why should he punish us for our errors when we neva asked for our existence ?

could this all be a game (life) ?

I need answers

Tell her you don't want to see her in your house with a stern face but don't report her to her parents.
I believe many youths if in ur shoes will take advantage of her.

galadima77:
Hello LS,
I need an advice because I feel stuck and I am tired of fighting.
I met Yaya (not real name) in my new place of work. He liked me and started flirting with me, eventually, we had s*x (which I wasn’t proud of because I know premarital s*x is wrong and not an ideal lifestyle for a true Christian and has been abstaining from it) and decided not to indulge in again.
As time went on, he told me he loves me but can’t date me right now because his life is in a mess(so many personal and family issues) which he didn’t divulge to me at the moment.

Yaya and I remained friends at work, went for lunch breaks together and always seen together( we are jokingly called couples)In the space of one month of being close to him, we eventually started dating and I found out a lot of things about him.
I learnt he lies a lot, and that he lied about his age, (he is 28, same age with me but he lied that he is 33 and his reason is that he didn’t want me to dump him because he is my age mate).

Yaya has an addiction for porn, masturbates,(which he is fighting)smokes weed,prefers a s*xual relationship,doesn’t go to church and I hate all of these.
I also found out he has such a good heart, he cant hurt a fly, infact he has the heart of a child. He forgives so easily and cant stand a quarrel, he would always want to talk to me first and make peace with you when we have a misunderstanding,even when I try to ignore him.


Yaya is equally very humble and smart,humane with a very good singing voice…. and all these good qualities I fell for, especially his heart.The problem is, I can’t stand his addictions and I have not been able to love him past his bad side(especially the smoking weed habit).
I have told him how I hated it and would want him to stop and he would promise to but he continues. I have preached and advised him but no avail, I have also stopped talking to him a couple of times because of it but he will always beg me to come back to his life as if his life depends on me and promise to change, which he never does( he is only deceiving me to see if I can accept him that way but I cant)
At a point, I even threatened to report him to his Father but it didn’t help. When I couldn’t stand it anymore, I reported to HR of the company about (though I didn’t mention names) some colleagues smoking within the company premises’
That made the company run random drug test which made Yaya stop smoking for a while and at work so he doesn’t test positive but he still does when he is not at work.I have been patient with him, praying and hoping he would change and become a better man for me but I am not seeing that yet.
He doesn’t want to quit smoking weed,(he doesn’t see anything wrong with it) not even for my sake and yet he professes he loves me so much and would want me to be the mother of his kids.
I love him and I hate him at same time, he is not the kind of man I prayed for(because of his bad sides),he has lured me into pre-marital s*x couple of times (which I regret after each act).
Sometimes when praying and asking God for forgiveness, I ask why He let our paths cross?
Why He let me love trapped with a person with a lifestyle I hate.
It’s not like I can’t break up with him and move on but it will be difficult because we share the same space at work, and he won’t stop trying to get me back which will make it obvious to other colleagues that I am ignoring him.
A friend suggested I ignore his smoking weed habit since he is faithful to me, not a drunkard and cares a lot about me, but what if he graduates to using drugs? I can’t accept a weed smoker as a husband or as the father of my children.
Please ma, how do I get out of this, it’s causing me great concern and it makes me cry, I wish God will bless me with the man of my desire.
I will be expecting your reply.

he loves you that's more important

Pettyprincess:
Are you minding them? Men attract ladies of their type,if your woman offer only sex in relationship then it obvious u also dnt offer nothing else aside sex!! Birds of the same feathers flock together!! Rubbish!!!

wrong
we want sex, for me that's the first thing I'm more concerned about but after the sex i also want to know if you will be a valuable partner.
but then you find out she's mostly interested in what she will benefit from you and you (men) realize she is only good for sex and nothing more.

Eddygourdo:
awon omo sex tape, the porn actors guild member, I hail you pass.

Give me the link to your own sex videos so I watch it and be hypocritical of it as well.

Spoilt brats of this generation. You don't know sex is for inside the room "in private" abi.

Messed up millennials

one day ur mata go cast maybe in a different way and i don't expect people to sympathize with you. but because we all are human beings I still wish you well.

adarayz:
This guy is high on albino grass

Somebody should give him milk.

The schools image got tarnished daddy freeze, I think it's akamu that's in your brain

You guy should understand the situation, the caption on the lead video was "a babcock student" not a dark girl


#be-guided

will the sex tape stop young people from going to babcock, hell no. so why expel her. Oga the expulsion was absolutely extreme

Eddygourdo:
Good job by the school.
Zero tolerance for stupid children of nowadays with decayed morals

Holier than thou, I hail o

I don't think she wants you in her wedding and to be absolutely honest with you, you shouldn't even be thinking of going to her wedding but I can see shame no dey catch you.