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where them players at

These days many guys are involved intimately with more than one girl / lady at the same time.

so my question is why did you become a player?
who made you a player ?

Girls too can answer this question

one bottle of star for Op... very accurate

For those of you asking what about violence against the boy child, it is also common and it is a discussion for another day.

However my main focus is on the violence against the girl child because girls are more fragile than boys and the fact that in Africa women are really the ones maltreating and torturing the young girls in their homes.
Why can't many African women empathize and sympathize with young girls, instead of abusing, dehumanizing and torturing girls.

I think we need laws in Africa that will be equivalent to rape when a woman causes emotional abuse and grievous bodily harm to the girl child.

Violence against the girl child

In Africa, as a fact, many men's violence towards the girl child is rape, while many women's violence towards the girl child are assault, emotional abuse & torture and I wonder if not for s.ex, a girl child would be safe in the home of a man but many men are hor.ny so they think sometimes with their pe.nis.

However I really don't understand why a mature woman would want to seriously harm a young girl intentionally for no tangible reason.
A foolish man may rape a young girl because he is hor.ny, so he derives pleasure in the act.
my question is what do women gain In maltreating and torturing young girls.

Just thinking out loud

obembet:
I bought phone for my guy. With nice shirt. But I can't do anymore. Guys doesn't worth it

don't give up

johnkey:
There are many fishes in the river

listen to this advice

Yoruba people many of them are uncivilized, agberos

I just wanna fvck the sh!t out of her and runnn.

will wearing trousers make our country great again ?? mad people evrry where.

for those of y'all who watched Power Series, y'all should tell him what happened between Angela and James St Patrick.

I rest my case

who still does that, nowadays it is come to my crib, not all girls will agree instantly depending... but with constant communication she will come

zero dulling

I read your diary and i liked it, pls continue

Adaowerri111:
Thanks

You welcome, can i get ur whatsapp number ? let's chat

Adaowerri111:
I saw it, I'm writing just incase you change your mind.

Point noted. I checked ur profile picture, you are cute.

Adaowerri111:
Unwise Move, Before involving Money or Gifts, Make sure Both parents have met, Don't do that on your first visit, You don't have to impress anyone Just be yourself and if they think you are broke such thought won't last if you aren't, Time is a good teacher.

if you read to the end, you'll see the part where I said I ain't doing any of that with a reason

just here to read funny comments

blessingsonflee post=8lrt5515312:
Except you are going with your own alcohol. Some in-laws can be difficult and choose to test you in anyway even with your money or how you look before giving their daughter out

let them keep testing... by the time she (their daughter) clock 30yrs and above sense will finally fall on them.

are your parents the type of in-laws that will frustrate their prospective son inlaw? I know why I'm asking.

blessingsonflee:
Lastly, no matter how hungry you are , when your father in-law invites you to eat with him say “NO “! . No go think say dem like you na him maoke he tell you “come chop” . If you do , just know say na your last supper you chop so . Make dem no go tag you as hungry guy-man wey no go fit feed their daughter.

what if he insists ?

when I'm ready to visit my in-laws to be for the first time, I will go with an expensive alcoholic and non alcoholic wine as gifts with an average size cake.

my appearance alone will wow them and they will remove the thought that he is broke.

I Will be prepared, I will charm them with my words and actions.

while leaving i will give her siblings in the house some money and maybe her mother too defending (if I deem it fit) they may love me instantly.

But I ain't doing any of the things mentioned above because i want a baby mama. don't ask me why

pansophist:
1. Where the rich see opportunity, the poor see problems.

2. Where the rich invest, the poor spend.

3. The rich want to be impressed, the poor try to impress.

4. The rich read and are aware of global trend and affairs, the poor do not read and is cognitively limited.

5. The rich buy appreciating assets (properties, business, stocks), the poor buy depreciating assets (newest iPhones, designer clothes)

6. Where the rich invest in themselves through coaching, classes, the poor invest in their ego through material stuff to feel better

7. The rich pay themselves before spending, the poor spend before paying themselves

8. The rich weaponize their body with healthy foods and exercise, the poor eat and drink irresponsibly regardless of the effect on the body

9. The rich think of expanding, entering and breaking into new market, the poor is comfortable and satisfied with his merger state. (Think of uber, or domino pizza without thousands of operations in cities worldwide).

10. The rich think and plan ahead, update himself with technology automate and willing to change, the poor don't even think of such in the first place.

11. The rich employs you, you work for the rich.

12. The rich are responsible, accept failures, and are in full control of their life and circumstsnces. They choose what happen in their life. The poor just let life happens to them.

13. The rich see money as a tool, their money works doe them. The poor see money as a goal, they work for the money.

14. The rich has cash producing assets (eg factories), the poor are the factory workers themselves.

15. The rich are adaptable and formless, the poor are stiff and get irrelevant with time.

leave all these long talk...
do you have plenty money, are you rich ?

In 2020 you are still thinking bout how to please a selfish and uncaring girl-friend.

use your time nd energy to make money and many girls will rush you like flies do to sh!t. this should be your next move and not the ridiculous idea that you want to call ur ex, she's probably going to another niqqas houz tonight to get d D ( if you know )

Man up, stop being a puzzy

iPrevail:
You have involuntarily placed yourself in a difficult situation. A situation of guilty and restless conscience.
How will you drink and laugh with your friend, while you are helping his wife keep her dirty secrets? And if you spill, you may well be the catalyst that will break their marriage.
What would I do? I'd confront the wife about it and make her understand why it'll be better she tells her husband about it before I do.

very wrong move bcus you don't have concrete proof

so grateful for not contacting HIV in 2019 due to unprotected sex but got another std wic I've treated and I'm ok.

No more unprotected sex with any lady no matter how attractive, learnt this the hard way.

women are easy to manipulate. you need to let women chase you.

as a man you need to be hot and cold, nice and mean, be unpredictable, she's gonna fall hard for you.

You are a PSCHO and you need professional counseling.

I only buy already made clothes. zero worries