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Frankcallys:
She was living a double life. Everything about her was a lie, her name, tribe, the family she introduced me to, her sisters, her residence and occupation... all lies. Based on her level on those lies, Lai Mohammed still dey learn work! But I loved her so much.

How I found out about the whole lies... One day, her so called sisters had a problem with some people and she called me to come and rescue them cos they can't even get into her ride and leave. I drove down to Alexandra, like 30 minutes from Johannesburg South, I wanted to drop my car for her in the underground parking, pick up her own in front of the building so that they gonna use mine that got tinted glasses.

At the entrance of the building I met a lawyer friend of mine and after telling him what happened, we went inside to check on my woman/wife to be, but when I called her by her name, my lawyer friend was flabbergasted. He never said anything to me in front of them, but after we left he told me that the name I called my woman is not her real name that I should ask her if am in doubt.

That was when I decided to do a background check on her. I ran her car registration plate on the system and got a total different name, address, status and other personal stuff.

When I confronted her with my findings, she started crying. I left her at home and buy the time I came back home she disappeared. Changed her number, deactivated every account I knew her with and every link I have with her.

I later found out that the sisters, family and place of residence were all fake. Everything was fake except my then unborn child and the way she feels while she's with me. She disappeared with my 4 months old pregnancy and that was in 2014. Till now I've never seen her again or heard anything about her.

Now how about that? The worst thing someone I loved so much did to me and I can never forget because of my son I don't know his whereabout.

Greenbullet:
Mine was very tricky because she she was a smart girl , I had to hack her phone , her text messages and calls to see that she was cheating on me , I summoned her to my house with enough evidence and made a power point presentation , she burst into tears , I acted like I forgave her , i gave her a mad hard knacking , she couldn't even stand well after that I broke up with her the next morning when she went back home , sent her a text message, she called tire , I no pick , she came to my house to look for me , I was staying with a friend , after a month she let me be.

Olatara:
He was cheating on me, so I asked for break up, he said ok. Only for him to call me that he wants us to be friends, I said ok.
Then we started having sex again. The relationship started all over again, with cheating, lets be friends, sex.
Until it gets to the fourth time. I was so mad at myself.
The last time I did, I told him to move on that I need to be in a serious relationship, then I blocked him.
That decision was cool, but I am still mad at myself that I allowed him to use me.

Albinoworwor:
Nigga actually ended it coz I wasn't balanced emotionally after I had a hurtful betrayal but he knew this all along and promised he was gonna ride through with me but after a while he gave up on
After a few month I put my pride aside and reached out to him...guess what :-Xhe did me dirty and threw me to the gutters

I wished I never extended that olive branch and just let everything die

camsyross:
Wasted my time for good 7 months all in the name of relationship. Only for him to tell me one day that it was over between us after banging me for 7 months, the worst part of it he even blocked me on social media. Nero Ogun go kill u anyway u dey !!!!!

Ussycool:
Back in the university days. I was accompanied her back to hostel and we have issue with security men in the entrance gate, and they didn't allowed us in. As a staylite, i know one backyard road to the hostel. Sharply, she agree to follow that bushy road. In the middle of road we started good night kiss that leads to hot sex without even protection.

Nemesis
The following day, i wake up and saw her sms telling me it's over between us. Like play, she avoid me till i graduate. I beg tired and nothing like green light o.
I love that girl die, I swear.

tallerSSS:
I returned from school after my exams and went to cut my hair the next day far from my house only to hear 2guys discussing about my babe, and one telling the other how he fccked her 2rounds and the last condom burst. I didnt even mind what the barber was doing on my head because my spirit had left my body already. The worse of all I questioned her to know the truth later that evening and she was dump founded to my greatest surprise.. she disappeared for days and I started receiving apology text messages from her that I can't respond to till date.

manuelreports:
Well Alpha Male like us don't take any shit from any mother fucking girl who bends to urinate. Mess with me and I will Bleep you till I disfigure your staure and dump you. The guys that are hurt most are all thees Beta males who think it is by been nice. Mehn girls don't need soft hand, they like guys who treat them with Iron hands. One of my girls told me one day after giving her a hot Bleep that she enjoys it most the moment I Bleep and slap her butt.
Who dey he'll be that girl we go break my heart, Dem never bornam well because she will surely miss the hot Bleep.

thesmallgod:
Six years after breakup, she called and told me how she intentionally influenced her wedding date to fall in line with the day I will be celebrating my birthday just to pissed me off . Crazy gal

murphyung:
After we broke up, we agreed to bleep for the last time and after all was said and done, she ended up stealin some of my nice T-Shirts b4 she left.... Crazy Lady

Wizywiz:
Caught her making love in to another guy right in the house i paid for her as a student....

After then she was the only student i ever dated till i got married....she was one experience i hate to remember...loved her so much then...was willing to groom her and marry her...funny part is that the whole area..street even her school knew we were dating..the mum tried to reconcile us but hey aint forgiving any cheating slurt

Shibaraba:
Full blown lesbian. Didn't know till it was too late

darhray:
Started dating this girl when I was working in a company in 2017. She was the secretary and after work we go home to have a nice time and we dated for a year or so before the company shut down.

To cut it short, she was kind of fetish person and I discovered that when I got to work the next morning and I saw her hand cut round, in Yoruba they call it (Osingbere) was amazed how we left office yesterday night and this on your hand this morning. That was the starting gear of our break up. She was the worst choice I have ever made in my life...

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Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

leonard002:
Well, it's funny you asked because I have quite a handful of experiences. Most of which happened during my quest for medical internship.

The first was when I went to Calabar. The internship exam was at UCTH the next day. I took transport from my state without knowing anyone or budgeting for a hotel to sleep. Recent graduate... Where u see money for hotel... lol.

Anyway, it was a 6 hour plus journey. We arrived at Calabar in the evening, and it was getting late. We were still on the bus heading towards the park when I kept wondering what I would do. As we were driving past, I saw a building with the label: UCTH medical students hostel. I told the driver to stop me there.

I came down and met the first guy I saw. I told him that I was to write the internship exam the next day and I didn't have anywhere to sleep. He told me to wait let him call the hostel president. The hostel president came and asked me to show my ID card, license, and other documents. I did and he accommodated me in his room for two days. Very good guy. His name is Frank.


SECOND EXPERIENCE

The same internship travails, lol. Anyway, this time was in Delta state... Warri to be precise. Normally, I've heard about this city, so I was super cautious. I didn't have money for a hotel and didn't know anyone or have anywhere to sleep as usual.

So, when I got to the city, at the park, I asked for a cheap hotel for like 3k or less. They said they don't know of any, that I should get to Effurun roundabout. Hmm. When I got there I met another good guy, Stephen. He sells eyeglasses. I told him what happened and that I needed a hotel to spend the night if he knows any. He said he stays in the barracks and those hotels inside there were like N1,500 or thereabout per night. I said great.

So after the close of work, he took me there and that was how that one went.

I HAVE MORE, but let's do with this for now...

I took risks sha those times.

I wrote about my experiences in my book titled 'PREPOSTEROUS', if you would be interested in reading. Send me a PM.

CollinsWeGlobe:
As my female friends in Nigeria would say 'Saturday is for Owanbe' the current novel coronavirus outbreak: fear and panic has changed the phrase from 'Saturday is for staying at home'.

Amid coronavirus lockdown extension in Greece which will be over soon, I paid a visit to the street market in the country.

I got to the market 9: 00 AM this morning and Police were already standing everywhere like Goodluck Jonathan visit to Lagos in 2015.

Why is there market today when there's a lockdown?

The city doesn't have any patient living with coronavirus, every suspected case are being transferred to Larisa. For instance, the cases in 36 states of Nigeria moved to Abuja & Lagos for treatment, so the government announced yesterday that the market should open.

More than 50,000 people have violated the country lockdown, according to the record.

I will be sharing some of the photos from my today market and the food I ate last week till this afternoon.

Please, I want you to understand that all my thread on Nairaland is a contribution to the platform and they are for entertainment purpose, I am not a rich person neither am I showing off. I am still very jobless here in Europe.

Check out the photos below.

creolehunt:
I just thought about the girls I've been with and noticed a certain trend. This isn't even about the girls themselves who are excellent human beings, but their families.

First girl I dated revealed to me that the dad died of suspected poisoning and her family were chased out of the family house. Her eldest brother is an area boy while it seems things aren't working out for her other siblings.

The next ones dad was late too, one of her sisters is separated from her husband while the first son of nearly 40 has nothing doing.

The other ones history is that her dad is late too. The eldest sister is cohabiting with a man. They have 2 kids already without being married. Her other sisters bride price was just paid after having 3 kids with a man.

For the other one, her dad is late too, died quite early. The eldest sister is in her 30s and unmarried. Her other sister has 3kids for a man who she isn't married to and now they are separated. Things aren't just working for her people.

The one I just met recently told me her parents are late. Lost both of them to suspected poisoning within the space of one year.

I keep wondering if this is some sort of coincidence.

MduZA:
Surely you will also justify the drowning of your compatriots in the Mediterranean sea through Libya as affordability and tourism shying away from the fact that they are running away from hardships in their native land.

Austine1212:
These are limpopo villages

Houses not shanti

Minxie:
Many people in South Africa don't see the need in traveling because they want to develop SA first. I once asked my father if he will come visit me in China and he said no because he'd rather use that money that would be used for a flight ticket to invest in his business to make the business grow and employ more people. Many people don't see the point in selling their last belongings to buy a flight ticket to go "hustle" in another country. The ones who do travel out of SA do so strictly for traveling, business or work. Those who go abroad for work make sure that they have jobs before they leave SA. People take it very seriously because they don't like traveling with no or less prospects. So you may see it as us being stupid or uneducated but we see it as taking pride in what we have. I agree, why should Bianca* go to Malaysia when she just has a random degree and she doesn't even have a job there yet? Why should Dumi* pack up his whole life to hop on a plane to Canada when he can become something better in his own country? You are right, some people here hate flying but that can be said about many people everywhere. Even me, im happy working abroad but I'll be moving back to SA soon to invest in my country. Call me stupid because I choose to develop my country so I can proudly say: i am from South Africa. Yes and the first time I got a passport was when I got a job abroad. is that a sin? is it something to be ashamed of? We love our country and no matter where we are or how little we make, we always choose to better our own country before we better another person's country. Maybe you should take a few tips from those South Africans around you...

ZINIBANKS:
You stand a chance of getting 10k
But the guy that bought mine
We met back then in poly na all this gboy,na hunger 19 make me sell am back then
I doubt if he will still be in niaja
But you will see people who will buy it from you
Contact updateboyz for IG

Blakewilli:
Glory be unto the Lord who sustains us.

If God could make 1 man conquer an army of 150 singlehandedly (Elijah), then who can battle the true children of God?

If a mortal could split a mighty ocean into 2 to create a dry passage for himself and his people(moses), then what obstacles can hinder our mighty destinies?

If an Earthquake could occur just to save the servants of God(paul and Silas), what bondages can keep us down?

If a man who died and even buried could be brought back to life(Lazarus), then can death separate us from Christ's love? Ha!

If water could be turned to wine due to lack, then what necessity cant our father provide us? Chai!
Can God ever go back on his word or change? God forbid!

I recall when I swore to start robbing so I could feed. When the day drew close, I couldn't subdue my conscience to commit such atrocity. I remember kneeling down and begging God to just forgive me for neglecting him. Few days later, God came to me in the form of a family member who just took me to his home and fed me for no just reason!

His grace is ever abounding unto us, we just need to work in his ways and with full faith on him.

Why should you bother about what to eat tomorrow or what to wear on Sunday? He is our only trusted provider!

We give you thanks lord for being who you are unto us.praise the lord! Ha- Ha- HALLELUJAH

Bible references:2nd Kings 1 v 9-15
Exodus 14 v 15-22
Acts 16 v 25-26
John 11 v 34-44
God bless

Blakewilli:
Glory be unto the Lord who sustains us.

If God could make 1 man conquer an army of 150 singlehandedly (Elijah), then who can battle the true children of God?

If a mortal could split a mighty ocean into 2 to create a dry passage for himself and his people(moses), then what obstacles can hinder our mighty destinies?

If an Earthquake could occur just to save the servants of God(paul and Silas), what bondages can keep us down?

If a man who died and even buried could be brought back to life(Lazarus), then can death separate us from Christ's love? Ha!

If water could be turned to wine due to lack, then what necessity cant our father provide us? Chai!
Can God ever go back on his word or change? God forbid!

I recall when I swore to start robbing so I could feed. When the day drew close, I couldn't subdue my conscience to commit such atrocity. I remember kneeling down and begging God to just forgive me for neglecting him. Few days later, God came to me in the form of a family member who just took me to his home and fed me for no just reason!

His grace is ever abounding unto us, we just need to work in his ways and with full faith on him.

Why should you bother about what to eat tomorrow or what to wear on Sunday? He is our only trusted provider!

We give you thanks lord for being who you are unto us.praise the lord! Ha- Ha- HALLELUJAH

Bible references:2nd Kings 1 v 9-15
Exodus 14 v 15-22
Acts 16 v 25-26
John 11 v 34-44
God bless

Lagosfinder:
https://www.thecable.ng/extra-allow-us-heal-covid-19-patients-apostle-suleman-tells-fg/amp

boman2014:
A South African lady known as Zethu Ankosi on Twitter, has lashed out at Nigerian men after narrating her experience with a Nigerian man who slid into her DM.

According to the Ankosi, she and the Nigerian man known as Lawrence Okoro started chatting on Twitter and the conversation was all smooth until she revealed she was in South Africa and could only come to see him if he took care of her flight expenses.

The Nigerian man who wasn't pleased to hear that the lady lives in South Africa, said he wasted his time chatting with her; ''What the hell, you just made me waste time and data on a fruitless journey'' he wrote

To which the South African girl asked if he was used to spending money ''on his cheap Nigerian girls''.

It led to an exchange of words between the pair, and the South African lady posted the screenshots of the chat on her Twitter handle.

''Stupid Nigerian Men with misplaced priorities, go do that with the prostitutes calling themselves ladies in your poor country @LawrenceOkoroTL'' she captioned her post.

See the chats below.

https://mobile.twitter.com/ZethuANkosi/status/1253545454664658945?p=v[/quote]One thing I can authoritatively tell u is that South African generally see all Nigerians as rich folks initially....
I don't know what gave em this idea..
I live in S.A n I know what am saying. Meet a girl online n she's asking u to send money to come meet u even when u haven't even asked...
Na scam dis babe Wan scam d guy... She would eventually ask the guy to send her ticket money so she can buy d ticket here in south Africa...
I swear on my life.. The babe wey dey talk sef no get passport..
95% of South Africans dont have a passport.. Yes cos they see no reason to travel or the average south African can afford travelling.. I leave here n it surprises them that we even get aboard a plane n move to South Africa..
I have lived in 4 provinces n it's the same mentality everywhere..
Have had countless women tell me that they can't get aboard a plane cos they are afraid
That we Nigerians are daring...
One time have been asked... How many days is it from Nigeria to South Africa... I just laughed ooo
Cos the woman prolly tot we always travel by road

BonPatrick:
I thank you all for your advices it really help me a lot. I realize the biggest mistake of my life I am about to enter. I took time reading each comments all day and everyone point at same thing which is THAT IT IS A SERIOUS OFFENCE AGAINST MAN AND GOD. i took a step and told her that it's is over between us. I can't do such a thing and is a taboo. She said she hate me with all her heart that she will never love again.

Badboibipo:
Okay I swear I am about to lose my mind. I have been seeing people with monster dick on pornhub and the likes but I have never seen a man so black with such a huge dick like that in my life. He was walking around ring road completely naked yesterday if you live in Benin, and that penis was extremely big and so black.

Please I want to know, why Tf do mad men who never have sexxx like ever have penis that big and we normal men have something like toothpick?

ZINIBANKS:
Op you no serious 10+ account wetin he still dey do for your hand
My own of 4yrs na 2K I sell am

EXLOVER:
Senseless illiterate area boys. They want to do good road for your community, you guys will be asking for settlement, they want to put street light, you guys will still ask for settlement. They want to fix neat water for your community, you guys will still ask for settlement. Even light wey dey give joy sef. Settlement.

Now una dey ask for settlement for even Corona matter.


Typical Nigeria poor illiterate, always thinking of today, not that they want the money to eat, they just want to smoke and drink kin kin with it.