funkmrflexx: We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .
I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.
Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship
But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out
So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.
My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).
That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her
The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.
So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .
I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)
I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her
So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)
But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .
I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.
My brother u r dating a time bomb n u know it, charity begins at home.. What she's been doing at her own home she exhibited at ur mother's,. Now ur mum knows d kind of girl u r dating... So does everyone else.. They'd kick against the marriage cos they know once u r married she would become a tigress that would control u.. If u love ur property n most esp ur life.. End that toxic relationship now now.. U needed not even come here... U sound matured enough yet u act the other way... Just get outta the relationship... U already know the solution but u keep telling urself a break up is out of it.. My bro.. Na die u dey fraternize with so oo
MrBrownJay1: i can see my post hurts a few of you... let me be clear on something: i make fun of everybody, and if you guys have a problem with that, so be it... but just because people "may" be gay, does not warrant for some kind pass where we can not make fun of you people. just like we may make fun of straight people, Chinese people or dumbaasses, we certainly shouldnt leave gays out the mix.
MrBrownJay1: let me guess: do you wear pink trousers and flowery shirts and/or scream like a woman when you see a needle before an injection... or better yet, do you drink coffee like the dude below?
Wearing pink means u r gay Yall shd stop this rubbish n not pass this idea to the lil generation... Pink is colorful n sexy... I love pink n ain't anywhere near being gay.. Infact I love toto too much
ken711: I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.
From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.
She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.
Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......
She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)
I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....
Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.
The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...
The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........
Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...
Please help!
Oga finish what u started oooo.. Anyways now that ur eyes are opened.. Call it off n stay the Bleep away from her.. Tell her it's over n u don't want her anywhere near u otherwise call the rugged guys in ur area to deal with if she comes to ur apartment to fight or beg u... Be wise... Don't fall her again o.. Take the redpill like some mumu used to say here on nairaland
I never needed to leave South Africa but I always knew one needs a passport to travel.Wena it just seems you were preordained to date numbskulls .How old is she?
flow1759: "Man go put the Igboh for the food before e go done" I whispered to Man as we entered the room.
It was a full house, Pkc was around. He was studying the word of God.
Spagetti and Beans was the Menu.
Spagetti and Beans!! What a combination. When it was Baba jay's turn to cook, we were sure of such combinations as; Rice and Bread, Noodles and soup, Yam and Rice, and Spagetti and Beans.
Man returned from the kitchen with a smile, that meant he had added the whole 500naira Igboh to the food. "wetin you go do for kitchen? Hope say u no go chop small of the food?" Baba jay said to Man. "no, i go drink water" Man replied.
It was time. Time to eat. Time for highness.
Legend has it that Igboh in a food adds sweetness.
"guy dis food sweet oh" Snoop said. "yeah, its very Delicious" Pkc said. At that moment, i felt remorseful for the evil I and Man had done, not to every other person, but to Pkc. The beloved Pkc.
As we continued eating, Man lit a candle to light up the dark room. Brainbox instantly shouted, "up NEPA!!". We laughed an unending laugh. The Igboh in the food had started telling on him, because only such could make one call candle light electricity supply.
As usual, Pkc was eating alone, while the rest of us ate in twos.
I and Tega was eating from the same plate, when all of a sudden, he said, "Flow pepper plenty for this food oh". "na Igboh dey pepper you, no be pepper" I almost said.
Drama was unfolding gradually.
From the corner of my eyes i saw Pkc took off his singlet, and said, "dis place is hot". "e no hot, na Igboh make am hot for you" I almost said. Hot indeed. Hot when the night was cold.
A cloud of Dizziness clouded the room.
Baba jay was first to fall asleep, followed by Tega. Next was Mr Brain, I guessed his brain wasn't strong enough to go any further.
It seemed the Igboh Man added to the food was much. 500naira Igboh was like 1000naira Igboh.
Pkc was still eating. Eating, smiling and at the same time studying the Bible.
I was about taking my last spoon, when i saw Pkc removed his boxers and stood up. He was totally n''aked.
I initially tot he wanted to go take his bath.
But he wasn't walking towards the bathroom, he was walking towards the door.
"make him go baf outside na, wetin concern me" I told myself.
Not until he said, "let me go and preach the gospel to people, i want to tell them the n''aked truth".
"Flow make una come make we hold am oh, him don dey run mad oh" Man yelled as he clung to Pkc.
"make una bring water oh, bring water make we pour for him head" Man yelled.
Snoop joined Man to firmly hold Pkc while i ran to the bathroom to get water.
I wasn't thinking straight, so i grabbed the nearest bucket i saw in the bathroom. And i hurried out without looking at the content of the bucket.
I splashed the content of the bucket on not only Pkc, but Man and Snoop also
Yes, the content of the bucket was water. Bad water and Boxers.
It was the same bucket Baba jay soaked his boxers on. His old rugged boxers.
The water was very dirty wasn't what made me laughed.
What made me laughed was how three boxers hung on their heads.
They were crowned Kings. Crown with boxers. Pkc looked more like Oba of Benin with a brown boxers on his head. Man looked more like Oba of Lagos with a yellowish white boxers on his head. Snoop looked more like Sultan of Sokoto with a Blue torn boxers on his head.
Wow this was written 7yrs ago n am really enjoying it now during this Lockdown I really needed this laugh
JaceBlaze: Sometimes the people we date say a lot about our characters and intellectual capacity as people.Mr Worldwide!! how did you allow yourself to date someone who doesn't know what a passport looks like in this day and age? how did you not see she was a chromosome away from Down Syndrome?
Don't be quick to judge.. My ex wife is an American n she didn't even know she needed a passport n visa to leave USA n visit Nigeria... Not everyone knows this.. We Nigerians knows because of the state of poverty n the ideology we all want to go abroad to better our lives.. Some people in other countries don't even see a need to leave unless it's bout tourism n that when they find out they Need to get a passport.. So stop talking nonsense... Educated olodo
Ravon: MTN Nigeria announced a profit after tax of ₦51 billion in Q1 2020 - a 6% increase compared with Q1 2019. This increase was largely driven by revenue from data subscriptions, which rose to ₦74 billion – a 60% increase compared with Q1 2019. Revenue from data subscriptions is expected to further increase this quarter (Q2 2020) as workers in many parts of Nigeria are working remotely due to the coronavirus outbreak.
- Revenue grew by 16.7% to N329bn from N282bn in the previous quarter. - Profit before tax grew by 8.9% to N76bn. - Profit after tax grew by 5.6% to N51bn. - Net Assets grew by 35.3% to N196bn from N145bn.
Service revenue rose by 16.7 percent year on year to NGN 328.5 billion, driven by voice and data revenue. Net profit increased by 5.6 percent to NGN 51.15 billion from NGN 48.44 billion in Q1 2019 and earnings per share increased by 5.6 percent to NGN 0.025.
EBITDA grew by 15.3 percent year on year to NGN 173.5 billion resulting in an EBITDA margin of 52.5 percent, an increase of 0.6 percentage points. Mobile subscribers increased by 4.2 million to 68.5 million, an increase of 7.4 percent. Active data users increased by 1.7 million to 26.8 million and data revenue grew by 59.2 percent. The performance was achieved against the backdrop of several developments during the quarter. Value-added tax (VAT) was increased in February from 5.0 percent to 7.5 percent, which adversely affected both revenue and costs.
MTN Nigeria said mobile subscribers increased by 4.2 million to 68.5 million, an increase of 7.4 percent.
MTN Nigeria’s Chief Executive Officer, Ferdi Moolman, said data revenue increased by 59.2 percent due to growth in data traffic and the addition of 1.7 million active Internet subscribers to the network during the quarter.
The situation has been exacerbated by upheavals in the global oil market, which put significant downward pressure on oil prices, leading to an exchange rate adjustment by the Central Bank of Nigeria on 20 March, increasing some of the operator's costs. In addition, a series of lockdown measures began being implemented globally in response to the Covid-19 pandemic, resulting in significant operational challenges and supply chain disruptions.
My experience was with some guy called kalio on fb.. I won't put the other name so u guys won't go check up. Met this dude thru my ex gfs brother as par job things, so I met this guy first at luth, we started discussing and he indirectly was telling me about uti being gay, this n that person been gay.. So I said bro I ain't got no prob with ur sexuality oo, na u say pussy decide to like man hole oo.. But no try ur rubbish with me sha... I be AJ boy ooo.. Afterwards I would meet with him at a hotel in 1st Avenue, Festac. Dude is always with guys in d room n he once said he loved me.. And I was guy... Dat thing u dey find I no fit give u... Me na pussy freak oo. I even buy amala go give am one day thinking say all the work level go clique.. Las Las dude na scam jare... U know these guys who always look for business men who will buy crude oil from cargo ships
ChizzyBuna: I'm a vivid lucid dreamer, but recently I have been getting unwanted intrusion of dreams and visions of which I can't control.
I barely know this man or do I give a damn who he is other than he was one of Buhari guys.. But his face keeps reoccurring in my dreams. I keep seeing him begging for help looking like he has been beaten up badly.. With boils on his neck and head..ewww Who is this man to me that I'm dreaming about him.. I dream about dead Relatives but its rare like once in a blue moon.. Looks like he is been tormented by evil forces in my dreams whenever I see him What is wrong with me?? Is it normal to dream such dreams not once but 2 times..
Where else do expect him to be? In a garden with 54 virgins??
See the level of corruption in Nigeria.. Those rice were the ones ceized long ago only to be released to the poor masses.. Who even got this contract shd be hanged
[quote author=SpecialAgent post=88936833]Shame, why is it soo hard for some men to control thier libido. I can stay with a woman for months without touching her & I ain't even married.
Bros better respect urself b4 we read something like this on d front page "Man caught banging his wife's sister in lagos" blames the devil & lockdown [/quote Liar.. Fucking self-servicer
Austine1213: Nigerians are so Jelous of south africa that's a fact
South Africa did 20yrs is what nigeria failed to do in 60 years that's why nigerians are so bitter
SA was built by south africans, Nigeria is getting things wrong, SA, Ghana, Botswana, Morocco, Tunisia, Mauritius, Algeria, Libya, Namibia, seychelles are doing better, have better standard of living than nigeria
Heck even Rwanda citizens are starting to do better
Rwanda is better than South Africa.. Do u kkow that?? And they don't kill foreigners like u lots
Minxie: You are a very bitter person... Look at our conversation, it's a clear indication of who the hateful individual is here. I feel sorry for you... I sincerely do, no sarcasm and no offense but I really just feel sorry for you. Good luck on your future endeavors. peace.
Feel sorry for south Africans.... The bitterness is here.. Come bck home n stop judging from a myopic view.. Fool
Nelso2: Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.
Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.
Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.
The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.
Try hacking her whatsapp.. Cos she has nothing to hide she won't be deleting the msgs.. Hack her whatsapp, get ur proof n send that cheater out of ur home Or better still, use ur wife's whatsapp to send her lover.. Am honey as Bleep msg n ask where he wanna meet her. And give the 54yr old a drilling by area boys
[quote author=Ruby5 post=88942297]See How Covid-19 Dead Bodies Are Buried In Their Places By Ncdc Officials
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NPA3ugX_Lfg[/quote Just imagine 50years from now, that land is sold and they excavate that coffin in d process, the bulldozer broke d coffin.. Will there be another pandemic as the whole body would have been disintegrated
Minxie: Look, i agree with you that South Africans don't travel a lot. That has nothing to do with xenophobia though. South Africans have a history of not moving from their lands. Even in those days of apartheid, they refused to leave the country. It's just a matter of pride and principle.
I also teach in China. It's categorized as a special skill. Of course you can't find a teaching job in SA because there is no shortage of teachers. China has a shortage of English teachers so that's why they take foreigners. If you have a special skill that is needed in SA, you will get a job. Just like a plumber in SA can't expect to get a plumber job or lower skilled job in China. It's simply not a rare field there. Many countries operate like that. You have to provide something that the country needs. And yes, our government needs to provide for it's citizens just like the Chinese give their citizens engineering jobs before they give it to foreigners. We don't hate foreigners. The nationalist sentiment is everywhere in the world. No we can't afford to leave the country because we have lives here. btw I know many teachers here in SA who have regular vacations in Thailand etc. It's how you budget. They own houses and have many benefits. In China, their local teachers are also paid less. Check everywhere in the world and you'll hear teachers and police complain about payment. If you are a special skilled worker, you automatically get paid more. look at the expats in Nigeria, they live a larger life than most Nigerians. The girl you dated probably wasn't that clever about international affairs. You'll be surprised that she's not the only one in the world who doesn't know what a passport is. So there you have it, she was probably happy with her life and trying to work her way up to a better future which is why she never considered going abroad.
I hear you and I realise that you have struggles as foreigners, but you need to understand that there are millions of South Africans who need these opportunities. If the government gives these opportunities to foreigners, The citizens will become third class citizens again. Think about it, are you happy with the fact that there are so many foreigners from Asia in Nigeria with jobs that could be done by your own countrymen?
We don't hate foreigners. This got me laughing in cantonese Indeed ya all don't hate foreigners ryt? Why loot their shops and while burn them.. Why attack Malawi, other foreign nationals who are truck drivers. And u have that audacity to say u don't hate foreigners... It obvious u love them... The reason for the hate, the looting and the killings
MduZA: Surely you will also justify the drowning of your compatriots in the Mediterranean sea through Libya as affordability and tourism shying away from the fact that they are running away from hardships in their native land.
As long as it's not only Nigerians leaving.. Even Syrians n other Arabians are leaving their country to get a feel of Europe.. So look for something else to talk bout..
This is the very hate thats killing you South Africas.. I wonder why u here.. Go build a website like this for ur lots
Dude developed countries use the credit system, Nigeria does not have a sound banking sector
The cost of living in SA is modest that makes it a better country,
Nairaland is not even used by a 1% of people in the world SA don't flatter your self
The very reason a white man categorically said Africans are richer than the west cos we don't live on credits.. Inspite everything is given u your asses free u still complain.. Free education, free bursary... You folks even burn down a university jst cos u r protesting.. U grateful lots
Dude developed countries use the credit system, Nigeria does not have a sound banking sector
The cost of living in SA is modest that makes it a better country,
Nairaland is not even used by a 1% of people in the world SA don't flatter your self
The very reason a white man categorically said Africans are richer than the west cos we don't live on credits.. Inspite everything is given u your asses free u still complain.. Free education, free bursary... You folks even burn down a university jst cos u r protesting.. Ungrateful lots
[quote author=MduZA post=88896183]Xenophobia will never end in SA as long as there are foreigners like you ...just because of dating a mere fnb employee make mockery of poor people confined in your space,poor as we are..we rather die in our country not in the sea
Romance › Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by ghettochild(m): 12:20am On May 18, 2020
.How old is she?
