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bankole200:
This woman is just an attention seeker. Akpabio tried to sleep with you some months ago and you slapped him. Why not cried out when the event actually happened. Why are you just coming out when you guys are throwing tantrums at each other now? There is more to this than meet the eyes. I think the woman needs help.

DON'T MIND HER.
SHE JUST DISPLAYED A CHARACTER OF A FALSE RAPE ACCUSER.

they accuse People of rape depending on the relationship with the person at that particular time.

nzube89:
Nobody lied against Jonathan he is a bad leader like buhari

May God in his unending and abundant Love BLESS YOU FOR THIS COMMENT.

many stupid nigerians are the reason polithiefians are using us till tomorrow. NEPOTISM every where.
I AM PDP OR APC NO MATTER THE CANDIDATE THEY PRESENT, NO MATTER HOW BAD THE ADMINISTRATION IS.

the fact that Buhari's Administration is worse doesn't make Jonathan's good.

23% and 32% are both CARRY OVER

IF U ARE A NIGERIAN AND JONATHAN'S ADMINISTRATION IS WHAT A GOOD GOVERNANCE SHOULD BE TO YOU THEN,
U ARE EITHER AN IDIOT OR A WICKED UNCIVILIZED, POLITICAL, RELIGIOUS AND TRIBAL BIGOT

Sixfeetbelle:
I'm not. Only contesting your initial submission.

Bros the thing is I am tired of seeing endless blame on men. people always look for ways to blame men.

please go and read d comment of the initial guy I quoted.

last week in a thread where a man talked about how his wife caught off his penis, a man, an Idiot instead of CONDEMNING the act blamed him for marrying 2 wives when he knows he can't afford 100k.
a woman harms her husband all she gat to say is, he cheated. some one will say next time he should learn to zip up.
always blaming men.

Sixfeetbelle:
Avoid the rant and answer me honestly.
Are you part of the bandwagon that tag women "gold-diggers" or not?

ARE YOU DISPUTING THE FACT THAT THERE ARE GOLDDIGGERS?

Sixfeetbelle:
See you talking about women marrying a poor man yet you support those that call young girls "gold-diggers" because she doesn't date poor guys. Are you guys always this confused?

did you read the part I talked about quoters like you?
read completely before quoting.

I'm not d type that fall for emotional black mail.

U did not read the part I talked about women. especially in northern nigeria agreeing to become Second or even Third wife of a cobbler.
u also did not see where I Said women should work so as to contribute which will help reduce violence.

just because you want quote u no want reason.

OYA GIVE UR DAUGHTERS AND SISTERS AS HOUSE WIVES (i.e they don't work) TO A MAN YOU KNOW CAN'T PAY BILLS IN THE NAME OF " YOU DON'T WANT THEM TO BE TAGGED GOLDDIGGERS"
idiot

ncpat:
I sometimes wonder how some people will marry knowing you can't take care of the woman and not to talk of the children that comes along.

I also wonder y a woman will decide to marry a pauper.

Northern nigeria is worse. u see a woman happy to become the second/Third wife of a Keke Rider or a cobbler.

BLAME HIM FOR HIS CRIMES
STOP ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WAYS TO ATTACK MEN.

AS IF SHE WAS BLINDFOLDED TO MARRY A MAN THAT CAN'T TAKE CARE OF THE FAMILY. BESIDES THAT'S WHY WE ASK WOMEN TO WORK AND CONTRIBUTE TO THE WELL BEING OF THE HOME. NOT COMING TO FIGHT FOR EQUALITY ONLY FOR BENEFITS AND NOT RESPONSIBILITY.

no dey always blame men.
and for the quoters, before u qoute me please I don't support domestic violence
BUT ALSO ADVICE WOMEN ESPECIALLY THOSE NOT EARNING, THOSE WHO LOVE NAGGING NOT TO MARRY A POOR MAN. POVERTY BREEDS FRUSTRATION AND FRUSTRATION BREEDS VIOLENCE.

J111333:
I saw the news on NBC and I was wowed. The guy did a good catch there.
Nothing can ever be compared to the love and sacrifices of mothers.

Everyone in that incident is a hero.

if it were the father are u saying he wouldn't have done anything possible to save the CHILD? ABI BECAUSE FATHERS DON'T TELL YOU HOW THEY TREKKED TO THE MARKET INSTEAD OF CAB JUST TO MAKE SURE MONEY WAS ENOUGH FOR FOOD U THINK THEY DON'T MAKE SACRIFICES. YEYE FEMINIST

NONSENSE.

U THINK SAY NA EVERY THING NEED OVERHYPED LOVE OF A MOTHER QUOTE? AS IF FATHERS HATE THEIR CHILDREN.

any good person would have done same regardless of the relationship with the child. cut the women this women that crap.
NA HERE WE DEY MOTHERS DEY BEWITCH THEIR CHILDREN

Martinez39s:
If you get their time, you fit change am for dem as e dey hot. If they cross their boundaries, change am for dem. I support this, and it is different from arguing to prove a point or reasoning with a woman. I discourage the latter, but the former is okay. I guess we are on the same page but you are misunderstanding me.

bless up bro. your head get oil

Martinez39s:
I didn't say it's a crime to argue with women neither did I say a man shouldn't argue with women because they are something special and tender. Far from it. You know when women get emotional or are trying to manipulate (as they do all the time), they argue stupidly based on their emotions and sentiments. They even do these deliberately. You can't reason with any woman in this state even if you present evidence against her position. It's best to ignore them like you would ignore a stupid person trying to waste your time. Hope you grab.

I get u boss.

but sometimes e better make we CRAZE together. me self get EMOTIONS

Martinez39s:
I didn't say it's a crime to argue with women neither did I say a man shouldn't argue with women because they are something special and tender. Far from it. You know when women get emotional or are trying to manipulate (as they do all the time), they argue stupidly based on their emotions and sentiments. They even do these deliberately. You can't reason with any woman in this state even if you present evidence against her position. It's best to ignore them like you would ignore a stupid person trying to waste your time. Hope you grab.

I get u boss.

but sometimes e better make we CRAZE together. me self get EMOTIONS

I GET YOU SHA OOO

Xisnin:
This is laughable.
Both men and women insult each other.
But some men often get angrier because they think an inferior specie should not
dare malign them. You can feel the disdain in their demeanor if you have ever witnessed
an episode.

If we are in a society that takes physical assault seriously, most of the egoistic men
will stop assaulting strangers.


Don't change the discussion.
Those who agree with you believe that assault is the best response to insults
because they can get away with it.

SEE HOW BIASED AND HYPOCRITICAL YOU ARE ABI? using INSULTS you said both men and women insult each other. HYPOCRITE have refused to agree that one gender is better at it.
BUT IF NA FIGHT, ONE GENDER GET UPPER HAND ABI?

when a woman hits me first what should I do sir?

men get angry and control their emotions
women get angry, won't control EMOTIONS but want to be what?

Martinez39s:
As in. He should have ignored them. They can shout all they want but he can retaliate brutally if they touch him. Fuçk this nonsense of "never hit a woman," it's the mantra of women and stupid simps.

oga I understand from your comment you are not the type that encourage women ABUSING(words/physical) MEN.

nonetheless, YOUR TYPE IS THE REASON MEN ARE SUFFERING TODAY. u have made them(WOMEN) believe that it's a CRIME for a man to banter words with them.

IGNORE AM NA WOMAN! IGNORE AM NA WOMAN
is the reason a woman will have the guts to hit a man first wen they are in a heated argument. they now believe U ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO EXCHANGE WORDS WITH THEM.

WE SHOULDN'T HIT WOMEN, WE SHOULDN'T EXCHANGE WORDS WITH THEM EITHER.

what do u guys propose we do? always shut up? MEN HAVE FEELINGS TOO.

oodua1stson:
if what you said is true then your people are daft

he's a big liar. I stay in WARRI. UGBORIKOKO(craze arena) to be precised. if girl do anyhow she go see anyhow.

EXCEPT THE GUY FIND TROUBLE. U NO GO HARASS GUY DEY EXPECT HIM TO PET YOU

Xisnin:
If a bigger and stronger man dish out worse insults on you, you won't think twice before leaving with
your tails between your leg.
People only care about "razor mouth" when they have the upper hand in strength and can get away
with it.

same way women also wash men with insult because they believe they have upper hand Against a man wen it comes to HEATED ARGUMENT. NA TWO WAY TIN.

IF U ARE TRUTHFUL TO YOUR SELF U WILL AGREE WITH ME THAT WOMEN CAN'T TAKE INSULTS FROM MEN. TRY GOING INTO A HEATED ARGUMENT WITH A WOMAN IN PUBLIC AND WATCH WHO HITS FIRST. and they also do it because they believe you are not SUPPOSED TO HIT BACK.

in this world we ALWAYS take advantage of things. be it anything.

I can't and will never fight a woman. but IF any WOMAN, apart from my MOTHER AND ELDER SISTER hits me first I WILL HIT BACK BUT NO FIGHTING

dingbang:
even if they are annoying, doesn't warrant him to engage in a physical assault. He can get sued.

what if she assaults you physically? say, you were in a heated argument with her and she slaps u first? we are learning

BUT PLEASE DON'T TELL ME I'M NOT SUPPOSED TO EVEN ARGUE WITH A LADY IN THE FIRST PLACE. WE ARE ALL HUMANS

victorogundepo0:
That man must be a chronic wife beater

and u think those wicked women that molest/Abuse their house maids hit their own children abi?

YelloweWest:

Men kill women everyday, no outrage.
Woman kills one man, women are next to tge devil

only this week, WOMAN CUTS OFF HUSBAND'S PENIS GIRL CUTS OFF BOYFRIEND'S EAR WOMAN SHOOTS HUSBAND FOR NOT PICKING HER CALLS
YES THEY(WOMEN) ARE NEXT TO THE DEVIL. THEY(WOMEN) ARE DEVIL'S CHIEF OF STAFF WICKED AND MEAN CREATURES

Faithy247:
In all these where is the father.Most time when there is an absence of a father figure things like this are bound to happen.I sincerely feel for the woman.This is beyond mental issue.

women! women!! oh women!!!

who did this to you guys?

Always looking for ways to blame and fight men. haba

what has FATHER got to do with this? do u know if he's even alive? the topic didn't talk about father.

BESIDES WHO PAMPER KIDS MORE IN THE NAME OF MOTHER'S LOVE?
SHE'S PROBABLY REAPING HER FRUIT.

Sabby1:
Though, that doesn't justify the act. There probably might be more to what OP posted.

when it's by a woman Against a man.
that's when we will hear/see the NONSENSE, They probably might be more to it. RUBBISH

fuckingAyaya:
u dey justify the Act?

e
u dey mind the FOOLISH MAN?
if na man do am to woman e no go funny to am oo

fuckingAyaya:
u dey justify the Act?

u dey mind the FOOLISH MAN?

if na man do am to woman e no go funny to am oo

DexterousOne:
Well.....

Like I used to say

No matter how

[s]A woman cam NEVER understand the psychology of men.
[/s]
They will always see it from the lens of a woman

They have to start understanding ooo. BECAUSE SOME US(MEN) HAVE MOVED PASS THAT MENTAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL ENSLAVEMENT. WE DON'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT THE POPULAR SLANG

"LEAVE AM NA WOMAN"

NOTHING LIKE THAT IN OUR DICTIONARY.

when men Bleep up, they call for our HEAD and when they do the WORLD expect CONSIDERATION (na woman na so Dem be) Bleep DAT SHIT

Bola146:
See why it's very risky to be flirting with someone you don't love, I just pity the lady. Na your cross be that, you know what is best for you

and why it's also risky for women who think they have a perfect shape to seduce guys for Money. may be she agreed to spread her legs because of SHAWARMA

genq:
One thing you women don't understand is a man can sleep with a lady he detests! As long as there's the desire to bust a nuut .. once a hole is available, that it.

OP, love cannot be forced. If y'all ain't feeling each other, call it off abeg. She's probably just as miserable so what's the use of hanging on

don't mind their(WOMEN) HYPOCRISY. they(WOMEN) know. she's just trying to form SAVAGE and the "YOU GOT WHAT U DESERVED CREW"

99.99% of Women are wicked and MEAN only after REVENGE AND PAYBACK.

they don't know,
how come they have 2-3 boyfriends ( LOVE, SEX AND ATM)?
How come they date SUGAR DADDIES when they have a real boyfriend?

OcVoice:
Why can't we make castration the penalty for rape in Nigeria

CASTRATION/BREAST SLICING

JidennaJason:
The Definition of Hypocrisy!!!!


This fool who was anointed by Gen Buhari to head the EFCC is a full-blown Hypocrite...

Imagine this thief have the nerves to declare the delectable Diezanni Alison Madueke wanted for corruption whereas he's the main thief we need to teach a lesson.

Lock the fool like Hushpuppy, we will get Tinubu soon.

are you IMPLYING THAT nigeria should leave Alison be? like she's not corrupt?

because some security operatives are CORRUPT they should allow FRAUDSTERS DO THEIR THING?

In essence, I'm saying if he's corrupt, let him face the law. leave Madueke out of this. she stole our money

AntiWailer:
You are simply a chronic idiot.

If u have a brain to call your own, you will see that there is no where in the post where I supported what she did.

If you think a man that can not raise 100k emergency to take care of himself should marry more than 1 wife then I should not even be having a conversation with you.

the women were so blind that they couldn't tell he wouldn't be able to pay bills abi?

always looking for ways to Blame men. broke ass marries 2 wives you blame d broke ass. the woman that decided to marry a broke ass who's already married has sense abi

Dinvictus:
You need to change your mindset. Your indecent dressing is another person normal, your extravagant lifestyle is another person's normal, your too pretty is another person's normal, your indecent hairstyle and tattoos are another person's normal. Learn and encourage self control, this path you are on would lead to only sorrow and pain.

As for your "indecent dressing" and rape, one is a crime the other isn't, one is intended to hurt the other isn't, one instills terror and rage the other doesn’t.

oga shut up.
stop sounding stupid in the name of civilization

my indecent dressing is another person's normal HOW COME YOU DIDN'T KEEP MUHAMMED SALAH HAIRSTYLE IN SECONDARY SCHOOL? HOW COME GIRLS DIDN'T WEAR SHOW ME YOUR BREAST IN SECONDARY SCHOOL?
HOW COME UNIVERSITIES LIKE COVENANT HAVE DRESS CODE?

OGA WEN U SEE INDECENT DRESSING U GO KNOW. U NO BLIND.

IT'S NOT AN EXCUSE FOR RAPE. E STILL GET LITTLE ROLE

THE FACT THAT IT'S NOT AN EXCUSE FIR RAPE DOESN'T MEAN U SHOULD TYPE RUBBISH JUST BECAUSE U WANT TO PROVE TO THE WORLD HOW MUCH U STAND AGAINST RAPE.

NO MATTER HOW YOU CLAIM TO BE CIVILIZED U NO FIT WEAR NIGHT CLUB OUTFIT GO CHURCH/MOSQUE OR WORKPLACE/JOB INTERVIEW

N U CLAIM NOT TO KNOW WHAT INDECENT DRESSING IS. IBEG SHIFT

[quote author= post=91390364]The girl in Jigawa that experienced rape at the hands of 11 men on different occasions; did not do anything wrong. She did not dress in a revealing manner. In fact, she is just a 12-year-old girl. To those people looking for a reason to blame the victim, sorry, she did nothing wrong.

Furthermore, the gruesome rape and murder of Uwaila Omozuwa in a church shows that no place is indeed safe. No one can blame her for being at the wrong place. No one can blame for going to ‘his’ place at night. She was reading in a church. A place of refuge, a place she felt most secured. However, she underestimated the fact that a beast was lurking around. So sad.

The dastardly rape and brutal murder of Uwa has invalidated all claims and views about rape. How could she have prevented what happened?

If her parent had called that day and she told them she was reading in a church; they would have had no reason to be concerned. However, they got the worst news a parent could ever get. ‘Your daughter is dead, raped and killed in a bloody church.’


A girl/woman is constantly vulnerable to rape. As a toddler, she is at risk of rape from people most trusted by her parents. At the risk of family members or relatives raping her. In school, her teacher could be a beast in human form. Even her friend’s or boyfriend’s place is also a dangerous place?

So where is safe for her?

The truth is that a girl/woman should not be in constant fear. Everywhere and every place should be safe for her. She is not responsible for caging those perverts. That’s the job of society.

Maybe all men are potential rapists that need to undergo some sort of therapy. We owe it to our daughters, wives, and mothers to immediately commence a national awareness on rape. Organize therapy sessions to purge traits of rape in everyman.

Because the animals that perpetrate rape are not products of immaculate conception. Indeed, they are born by women, perhaps have female siblings, and maybe even female children (Lord have mercy).

Rape is indeed a pandemic, a never-ending pandemic.
According to a National Survey carried out in 2014 on Violence Against Children in Nigeria; it was confirmed that one in four females reported experiencing sexual violence in childhood; with approximately 70% reporting more than one incident of sexual violence.
In the same study, it was found that 24.8% of females aged 18 to 24 years experienced sexual abuse; prior to age 18 of which 5.0% sought help, with only 3.5% receiving any services.

These statistics are grim enough. Unfortunately, rape is under-reported. People, due to stigmatization don’t want to report rape. We have a justice system that makes reporting rape seems like adding extra burden on the victim. The same police that victims are supposed to report to allegedly raped sex workers with sachet water nylon in Abuja not too long ago.

Even at that, there is a need to have a system that can guarantee justice; for both the accused and the victim without destroying both in the process.

I understand that there is a national outrage in the wake of the sad incident involving Uwa. People are angry. Personally, I am livid. But the anger should be directed at creating a solution. Changing the existing legislation, awareness on rape and most importantly; everyone needs to create that safe environment for girls/women.

If you hear a troubling sound from your neighbour, knock on that door and ask questions. If you see a man or a boy getting too cozy with a little girl; poke your nose in the matter. In fact, your little “amebo” could help prevent rape or molestation.

Parents, take time to talk to your sons and male wards that a girl’s body is her absolute right with her total discretion on whom and when to give. Consent is hers to give and withdraw at will. In fact, she can give at first round and withdraw it at second. More so, she has the right to withdraw such consent in the middle of the action.

Also, parents, you should be your daughters’ confidant. Let her be able to talk to you. Father, sex talk with your daughter is not gross. Let her be able to talk to you.

There is nothing like settling it within the family. If punishing perpetrators of rape would shatter the family, then let it be. If the animal had thought about the family, he would not have done it.

As tempting as it is to talk about rape and molestation of boys also, I will refrain from it. Today is all about girls and women. The only hope would be that we would not have to wait until tragedy strikes again; before raising a voice.

False rape accusation

Creating a rape-free society as elucidated earlier involves getting everyone behind it. Most importantly men, not just because the main transgressors are of our gender. But because the victims are our siblings, mothers and children.

Also, we are vulnerable to false accusations. Creating a better justice system that will guarantee justice for victims in rape cases; will also help people facing false accusations.

This is not just a time for rage. It is a time to work in creating that system which works for all victims. The lack of a reliable system has made people turn to social media for settling or seeking justice on rape-related cases.

However, social media has shown that it is not equipped for the endeavour. As a court of opinion, yes, but a court of justice, no.

It is in everyone’s best interest to create a safe environment for our girls and women. But most importantly, on the rare occasion that some beat the safety net; there should be a place for swift and fair justice.

S.O.[/quote]but you want to wait for tragedy to strike again before you address Raping of boys. anyways thank God you have brothers/sons.

as parents are teaching their male wards how to respect women don't you think they need to teach the girl child how to respect men also?

if women can pay hoodlums to rape other women, if women can stab their husbands/boyfriends or cut off their PENIS. IF humans can kill just for PAYBACK don't you think RAPE can also be a way to get back at people for their crimes?

BOTTOM LINE. STOP MAKING IT SOUND AS IF IT'S COURTESY IT'S ONLY MEN THAT COMMIT THIS CRIME(RAPE/CHILD ABUSE) DON'T FORGET TO TELL PEOPLE TO DESIST FROM CRIMES THEY COMMIT AGAINST FELLOW HUMANS. THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT WILL PAY BACK ANYWAY THEY DEEM FIT. JUNGLE JUSTICE CAN ATTEST TO THAT.

WE ALL SAW HERE HOW A 24 YEARS OLD LADY SEXUALLY ABUSED A 4 YEAR BOY IN PORTHARCOURT. NO ONE CALLED FOR HER HEAD ON A SPIKE WHAT PICTURE DO U THINK U ARE PAINTING IN THE BOY'S MIND?

NOT UNTIL WE FIGHT RAPE AND NOT MEN, WE ARE GOING NO WHERE

AntiWailer:
Na wa

You cnt afford 100,000 but you get Bura to marry 2 wives ?

This world no balance at all.

and it's a JUSTIFICATION to cut off his PENIS abi?

STUPID MAN SIGHTED. u are d reason all these bloody FEMINIST think they can harm a MAN anyway they DEEM fit and get AWAY with it. BECAUSE MEN LIKE YOU WILL ALWAYS SUPPORT THEM.

she way AGREE TO MARRY BROKE ASS. NO CONCERN U ABI.

NONSENSE