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@ kajad. talk to them oh!
no where on the post does it say the church will deny you marriage if you are HIV positive. that is a HUGE LIE, and please do not project wrong intentions on the church, abeg. like i said before, they strongly encourage ppl to get the test, so that everybody is on the same page, how can you be getting married to someone whose status you dont know, that is just stupid. like i said before, maybe some ppl started doing strong head (why in the world dont you want let your partner know your status, are you really in love) and the church had to become harsh

yes you can question the right of the church to withold the sacrament of holy matrimony from ppl who have not confirmed their status but shikena, they are only forcing you to confront reality, if you dont want to, (and i dont know why you dont want to) there are other churches, there is the registry and there is trad marriage.

lastly, im sure that if you get a certified doctor to say you have both taken HIV tests and know ur status, the church need never know what said status is

@mamaput, there is no reason to ask for HIV status before baptism, because you are not going to sleep with your child after he is baptised now. just as the church has no reason to ask for HIV status from a pregnant woman, because medicos will do that one fo sho

knowing is beautiful. it may be scary, yes i've been there but go get tested!

true, but i dont have to be hausa to know as much as you

the MET i know of is in lekki, close to white sands school, just keep going on that long road and on the right watch out for the white sands school sign, MET is close to it

i think USIS and EAC are a good thing to buy into, they help you out even if you pay $200, i thot it was $100 sha, i think its still worth it sha. lots of my friends went there nd some evn got scholarships. also you build a network of friends here in yankerz before you even come. but dont let anybody gbaju you into a school or major you dont want
and MOST importantly when it comes to getting that visa, they REALLY help out. even if the embassy rejects you, EAC will fight for you (f'real)

@otokx i feel you, which is why male engineers must not be allowed to die out lol

im going to be a chemical engineer

ladies stand up and represent!!!!!!!!!!

babes, i feel you, the thing dey hard, but we will prevail, as for those people, ignore them and strike them off your list of eligible bachelors

ehya now that song is buh-ti-ful!

translation someone lol, so i can cram that song like a mo'fo!

btw hot-angel, i got a c4 in hausa too!

furthermore i doubt the church is going to put it on the banns of marriage that so so and so is HIV positive, it is just to foster discussion

my good man, i think you are misunderstanding the church's intentions. i believe the intentions of the church are to force a dialogue between couples on issues they may not have necessarily discussed before marriage. the danger of HIV infection is one amongst many. they are just trying to make sure everyone is on the same page because only God knows what is in the hearts of men. as mamaput said, they need to go for counselling (pre-cana) before they are married and this is part of it. me i think it is a very laudable thing to do, perhaps the case in botswana is some ppl started doing strong head and not wanting to provide results (God knows why) and the church started to seem harsh in demanding it. just as you would want to know your blood genotype, knowing your HIV status is beautiful!

lol which myths? because we are not hausa doesnt mean we havent interacted with hausa ppl. our observations are also valid

MET is good (hearsay oh)

lol hair = gashi

bk in the day, pubic hair used to be referred to gashi
and always was kullum
mad!

i for done laff die
does he think nigerians are qluttons for punishment

lol thk you mamaput
we be doing competiton for hottest mess all the time lol

shio!

that woman is a thief in the highest order lol

but jennifer was also kinda foolish oh, she should have manned the fort well well

sha sha i know there is karma, angelina watch out, your baby might have two heads

nope! after all you are not praying for nigerians, or the nigerian government, you are praying for nigeria!

u know me im just playing hehe, but pointing to the same quote, one is then also permitted to say the hail mary

cough cough

no where in the bible does it say pray for nigeria

so you better stop praying for things to change!

in the bible, it does say honor your father and your mother sha

yeah well in the catholic church, that is definitely grounds for annulment, deception oh! not the fact that she cannot give birth. thus the man was not in full knowledge of all the facts before proceeding into marriage i.e she willfully deceived him, this can also be argued in a court of law as grounds for annulment, i believe it is known as fraud

on the other hand, love through jesus christ conquers all, i think this guy should forgive and seek other means of procuring children, but i dont believe he is legally nor morally bound to stay with said woman esp since in naija we love us some babymaking abilities, so she cant argue that she didnt know that she was witholding important info

i just looooooooooooooove sarafina!

'freedom is coming tomorrow!'

lol
@ ynot, you have indeed been watching too much law and order

nigerian law is partly based on english common law, hence my lord, the wigs etc etc
which the us does not have
l believe its like that in england and australia

im wearing that now!
my mom brought three of them for meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

i should have said aloof not quiet, they do seem to be aloof and reserved, but it seems likes it with outsiders, within their close circle of friends, they are just like us all lol, but yeah, they are classy!

www.hi5.com


err you actually have to join and have some friends, before you can discover the hausa/fulani ppl there

oh tht vid is awesome!

and they arent really quiet, they just seem so. in reality most of them do it big like the rest of us

hot-angel is right about england oh! they boku full for that england
they are also in the united arab emirates! their parents send them there not be corrupted by george bush and to keep holy, lol if only they knew!
but to check out hausa and fulani ppl in diaspora go to hi5

i dont know oh! but i think anthony village abi? is named after the bank anthony family or sumn

actually ka
im pretty sure obalende doesnt mean the king has come home
it means the king chased us here, i heard the story of how a certain king did chase some ppl from his kingdom away and they came to obalende and named it that, oba le wa de bii

surulere is basically have patience etc etc, dont know how that came about

lagos, aka eko, iko, ikko is named after a place in portugal and means lagoon

san'field lol is named after sandfilling on the island

ketu is one of the children of oduduwa that formed towns

thts all i know!

what they should do instead is define marriage and perhaps civil unions as between a man and a women, pere!

sometimes, i make english styles with trad like my wonderful wonderful red damask skirt, that skirt is an eye opener lol

but i also will wear a suit and use damask as a headtie or a shawl, i love that damask

or i will wear a trad skirt and a nice plain top lol

the one the only,  loyola jesuit college

ad majorem dei gloria

how did i contradict myself?

chinani, im not sure because i never asked my grandma about them, but i know this old woman 'mama' who used to do my hair
also had them on her inner thighs, same place as my grandma. they were purple lines,