₦airaland Forum

i hate apc with passion. wicked and evil party that brought sorrow, tears and bloodshed. no food, so so suffer since they came to govern Nigeria.

may tinubu never become President,may all his power fail. the rigging he's dependent on, to win the election would be destroyed by the youths! enough is enough. Nigeria no be Lagos.

obi is the way!

ThunderSwitch:
True!! when did Sheggz get bella!! Sheggz that was inducted to the simps hall of Fame in week 1 People watch and forget easily especially when the housemate start acting something else!! that's why I always keep my reciepts intact

LMAO... i think this ozo recipe will last forever.
ozo the blueprint for loverboys.

Aguwanyi:
Well said dear..
Same abortion would have saved us from some nuisance on this street..
Most of them were born by mistake,some of their mothers might have taken diff drugs and mixtures just to stop mistakes like them from happening but their stubborn head no gree stay for heaven enjoy free food and free gbedu wey Angels and Saints for dey give dem..dey come world come dey zuzu..
They are lucky Phyna is not my fave,I would have dragged dem by their weak wombs that is almost getting destroyed by excess intake of postinor 2..

Don't come to my mention to tell me I have had abortion before,I haven't and I hate to explain myself to unknown faces..and am not even encouraging abortion but a fellow lady using that against Phyna is totally uncalled for....God doesn't even consider our sins before blessing us,Grace really differs and reasons we should always pray for God's Grace...Phyna's life is changed already whether she wins d show or not, this is her season and no amount of judgement can stop her ....

there's a 14yr old in my hood, still in junior secondary school. she do come to my house to assist with house chores sometimes and i do take care of her.

her mom called my mom one day crying her daughter was bleeding from vaginal after taking 7up and potash to get rid of pregnancy. the man responsible for it denied vehemently not being the one. they had to involved police, he got scared and paid in full 70k for damages for sleeping with an underage girl and that was the parent being merciful enough not to drag the matter to court.

men wants to eat and have their cakes . i feel so much pain for the girl child cos it's a man's world the more reason they have to be sharp and make choices that won't leave them at the mercy of men.

it wounds my heart how a woman with baby and no husband is judged hashly, they call her degrading names and a used product. what of the man? they go and enjoy their lives with no care in the world they have rendered a woman to be mocked in the society.

ladies be very careful. don't let any man make you to be ridiculed . being a woman is hard enough but if you make the mistake of messing yourself for a guy, you are already at the mercy of them. abstain from sex or use protection. be wise as a serpent and don't judge your fellow woman hashly cos they choose to get abortion, you as a woman should understand the situation.

a woman doesn't need to have an abortion to feel sorry for her fellow woman who did. i stand with my fellow women and i stand with phyna!

if you are a woman and you are among those insulting phyna , shaming and demeaning her then SHAME ON YOU!

how many times have you seen a man shame his fellow man who got a girl pregnant and had her do abortion?

dem go even hail the guy , praise am for "eating his share" and "leave her for street".

shame on you! i stand with phyna.

if you want to yab me come to my mention and don't give me any side remarks!

i used to be somewhat judgmental too until God opened my eyes. all those insulating rubbish about phyna and the abortion are clearly unwise.

abortion is a sensitive issue irrespective of your opinion. and your judgements don't mean shitt cos it's not your right to judge phyna.

life is one hell of a joke sometimes! someone who aborted 10 times would go on and marry a good man while someone who married a virgin might go on to marry a wicked man , still cry day and night for a child.

that aside, you hear men call single mothers all sort of vile names under the sun, like they are not human beings. they call them second hand, not worthy of marriage. why una no praise those women and give dem award?

men will act innocent, like they are not the ones impregnating these girls. some will shout "raw na sweet". then later go and force,manipulate and blackmail them to have abortion cos they are not ready.

women are getting wise now. i stand with my fellow women, Bleep society! they will still laugh at you when the boy who got you pregnant maltreats you.

na God be judge. anyway abstain from sex and use protection cos a lot have died during abortion. i stand with phyna and she will rise.

Nhazeru:
Silly abortionist!

Your own na to open nyash dey collect different diick come carry belle dey abort am up and down.

you want to turn it to me now? I'm impressed by your mental illness and i think there's no hope for your cure.

see how scattered you are all over the place. phyna you are insulting is in BBN sipping juice while you are here calling mods and acting insane.

Nhazeru:
Your generation is unwise and silly

you are displaying signs of a hypocrite and pharisee who all they know is to judge.

since you are so pained phyna aborted, what have you done to help orphans? have you fed those who were not aborted but were left abandoned in the streets , hungry with no hope?

atleast stop talking about the dead and care for the living to the extent you cared to trolled phyna for mistakes which were made in the past.

you are silly, unwise, hypocrisy runs in your blood and it's a pity you don't know it.

KIDDRICAsHAWK:
I'm supporting Ginaz biko

lol. i come confuse.

don't hate on her pls.

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Nhazeru:
I don't respond to empty trolls but I'm not letting this one slide.

Your lamentations doesn't erase the fact that she is a serial abortionist!!! A cold blooded murderer that kills foetus!!!

How much is condom

You even involve my generation? Now take this...

I hope your generation continue to abort babies, kill children since you support evil and wickedness. I equally hope you don't get to see any woman in your generation struggling with infertility.

Abortion ambassador

you are unwise! she did commit abortion no denial but is there room for her to change presently? the answer is yes! so why do you live in the past and keep dragging her through the mud on past deeds?

people make mistakes , she's still young and her life won't be the way it was hopefully when she comes out of the house.

calling me abortion ambassador is very silly of you. i don't stand for people being mocked for mistakes they made in the past. the past can't be changed, if they make amends repentantly then don't make them feel less human cos you are very perfect in your judgement!

Sanqa:
Part of which will have to be stopping asking men for sex. She needs to let go of this tendency. Its bad and sad. She needs people in her life to make her know she's good enough, love herself, know she's worthy etc. She needs to do a lot of work on herself. I don't know anything about her life before now, but judging by her actions towards Eloswag and now Groovy, I know she needs help....serious help. And I'm not hating

she will get it soon.

HIGHESTPOPORI:
A woman that have done Abortion twice is irresponsible, no matter how you twist it.Groovy deserves better.

the boy who was responsible for the pregnancies is what? a saint? a priest?

stop judging people based on past mistakes. someone who is repentant is better than someone who is 100% perfect cos they were in darkness but brought back to light, she isn't her past anymore.

Nhazeru:
Jeez!!!

She don carry belle for Biggie's house? Abi na the several abortion keep am like this?

i really have no ideal why people would mock phyna by her past life. she had aborted gave you no right to used it against her and this is the reason why God said don't judge!

need i remind you when the city of Jericho was destroyed, it was just one person who got out alive? a prostitute, a whoore !

you insulting her, are you 100% certain a child from your generations to come after you are gone from the world won't commit abortion even though you didn't do so during your lifetime?

i hope phyna wins ! so she could get her life together, turn things good for herself so she won't be in circumstances that led her to those abortions.

how many orphans have you cared or fed for? since you cared so much about past abortions of your fellow woman!

Eeghe:
Doyin sing 9ice for me please
I love Chizzy as dad and Dani as daughter
Then he is with his “wife” Doyin (evicted am still in)
The BBgods have blessed me this season lol

chaiiii sometimes when i read your posts ehn... my brain suddenly goes out of signal and loss of transmission to decode where your write-up is going or coming from.

pity us small Eeghe... make i buy goat to bribe you?

NaijaGuy007:
i agree
But i am irked when someone around me stays jobless. there should be effort.
Everyday cannot be rosy, i could loose my job what do we fall back to??

marriage is a joint effort, two happy people coming together to create a happy union.
Shouldnt be like fostercare, like i adopted someones daughter with permission for conjugal rights.

honestly speaking you are the one with a problem! you nag alot judging from your write-up and i don't know what is wrong if your wife is a prayer type!

can't someone pray anymore? do life ends physically only? what you should be advising your wife on the prayer issue would be to pray the right prayers and not prayers for destruction of enemies all the time.

have you asked about her passions? she may feel inadequate and have low self esteem in some way you haven't known or cared to check out.

stop nagging !

she should eat rice and chicken! see mumu question.

that's wart and it's sexually transmitted. don't have sexual activity with anyone pls, you will infect them. it is incurable but with God anything is possible.

realhovaps:
Browski . Almost the same if not the same sef
No, I didn't keep my old sim aside , you a girl you can do that.

I have always viewed relationships like that for a long time, its a lot, its exhausting.

At the last bolded, I started reading my Bible a lot this year and it has been amazing.

I might want to think you're exaggerating at the last, two years is a long time gurl...

last year i found out i get very irritated whenever relationship is mentioned. i was the one who even broke up my relationship. i felt like i was suffocating and would passed out from relationship brouhaha.

gosh! i want to live my life without any man sharing same space with me for a second. 2yrs may feel exaggerating but I'm coping fine. i don't want the calls, visits and temporary happiness involved in relationships.

being alone as an adult can be empowering. you spend half your life in a relationship with someone, then spend the reminder being married with kids . what's the time for yourself to develop?

on the bible part you are right. i have grown so much spiritually since last year. i feel like a monk.

realhovaps:
Didn't mean to quote u but
This looks similar to mine. Just that I didn't really initiate it, I felt It wasn't going to work, , . Am glad we stay far away . But we still talk. Hnmmm

Trust you would be okay with time

awwwwn thanks boo. I'd be fine hopefully. i get emotional when i think about the good times.

currently i have no closed friend, I'm not in a relationship since last year and I'm not looking forward to any, i want nobody around me biko. i changed my phone number, threw old sim aside.

the thought of someone sharing personal space with me right now is so mentally draining and exhausting. gosh!

God, work and home in exact particular order ,till maybe next two years i might add relationship.

Gentlefury:
It's now i understand what Sheggz is about. He planned from the start to alienate stupid Bella from the house and then dominate her. I seriously feel Ebuka grilling her yesterday must have been due to a request from Chris. The girl is in a deep mess.

Bella was done for the day Sheggz effectively cut off her only true friend in the house that could have spoken sense to her - Giddyfia, and replaced him with someone he regarded as not a threat - Chomzy. Even the guys are feeling a type of way about the ship, but why bother when the girl is an ill-mannered & entitled uncouth minotaur with a delusion of grandeur like Bella?

I sha have little sisters so i can feel what Chris must be feeling - a sense of deep anger and boiling outrage.

she will call off the relationship when she comes out to see it won't be accepted by her family. I'm not her fan though, that girl is one rude person i will never be a fan for.

scondy:
Summary of the above is that you wanted to eat your cake and have it.

The bolded shows the contradictions of your stance on the matter....you were torturing the guy ....he realized and started resenting you for it.....

Why do u want relationship kinda closeness without intimacy? Cos that's what u wanted...romance without intimacy......not fair on the other party

I'd like to think the bond we shared was deeper than any need for sexual gratification and no sex could ever give more pleasure than our undiluted care for each other.

he wanted more which i could not give , it was not a punishment cos love is screwed up sometimes and no clear cut it always end as we wished it would. i didn't wanna risk it and besides, he praised me several times and thanked me for my discipline for not giving in to our sexual attraction which gave birth to our deep bond. we really got to know each other deeply without sex. he's somewhat of a sex freak but he always tell me how he had learnt to control his urges to other girls due to our friendship. one time he went on a journey of discovery and he kept himself without sex for months.(it was very tough but he overcame all the temptations)

I'd like to say he wanted the friendship as much as i did cos there were lots of reason he should leave but he always come back, i never punished him.

I'd like to think I'd always be in his heart, same as he is now in mine.
if we decide to have sex like this ehnn.... it would be mind blowing cos of the deep bond over the years.

I'm hurting sha. atleast, he wont say all i had to offer him was sex as my Nigerian men would say.

I'm heartbroken. i won't even lie anymore. f**k my bestie. this is some Zee world shiit !

carammel:
Axe your daddy
Axe tour mommy

Wizkid

lol

my handwriting is like Ukraine and Russia war, ugliness sees my handwriting and run for its dear life.

scondy:
Did it occur to u the guy is doing bf work without being the boyfriend? That's emotional torture especially since he wants more....

I think ladies are oblivious of the stress of such friendships....u demand emotionally from him....u feel entitled to his calls...his care for u ....occasional trips and all....butiiiii he shd just be that friend emotionally supporting u .....

Lai she aridin....


If no party is feeling a certain way...all good....but once one side of the equation wants more....the best thing is to dead the friendship...

i was there for him too ok? don't think i was just some girl who just wanted all the good stuff from him. i was calling him and i cared also. his ex girl and i, we exchanged words on phone due to jealousy on her part when she saw how closed we were.

if i wasn't good to him, he wouldn't have invited me to his family's home several times(only girl for that matter). you won't even see him and a girl walking side by side in the street cos he's the strict and private type.

only part i knew i did him wrong was i hardly let us meet physically, we were mostly on phone calls 90% and we see just 10%. i wanted no room for intimacy and temptation. if i didn't care about him, we would have had sex to stupor and the relationship would not have lasted. he said so himself.he's a very handsome guy , not ugly. i tried!

well.... it is ok. he can go to hell for all i care! i don't want to set my eyes on him. so much for i'd never leave you
*roll eyes*

MzCherry:
ginaz
We had a lot of back and forth in the 2020 bbn thread.
I hope you forgive me .
Hugs.

awwnnn i forgive o. forgive me too dear

*hugs**

Amya:
You made the right call then. Your intuition was not wrong. He might be good as a friend but make a terrible partner.

thanks for the encouragement, i feel better at the moment. i don't know why he acted so rude to me, maybe that was his own way of breaking things off and coping with the situation. i was even ready to date him, but i wanted to wait till he comes home( he lives in another state but we share same home town) to tell him but it was too late.

i remember the good days i feel sad sometimes!

KIDDRICAsHAWK:
Oh my!

I can imagine what this felt like for you. I would say you should give the relationship a chance,
what's the worst that could happen? Heartbreak? You'll cry and move on


But acting rude, withdrawing friendship is enough red flag. The thing I always look out for in friendships or any ship at all is kindness. How do you react or handle things when we are not in good terms? It's okay to be hurt when turned down, especially seeing how close you guys were but it doesn't justify any mean action towards you or the friendship. If he's going to do that as a friend, he'd do worse as a partner. You deserve better than that.


Sending you positive energy and more beautiful friendships.

awwwn thanks dear I'm smiling lolz.

the worst to happen if i give him a chance is that i hate unnecessary heartbreak cos i am somewhat possessive o and he doesn't like that. i felt we won't last long.

silly me.

anyway, he's history now. he's probably got a new bestie and felt like the he doesn't need the old one any more.

Twoclans:
Ginaz some people are irreplaceable in this life,if what happened between you and this your bestie was not a life threatening incidence you can decide to be the bigger person and call back the friendship.

I think this is the second time I have seen you write about this same bestie.

i don't want anything with him anymore. he's acting like he's paying me back for all the years he waited for me to love him.

this new person he's showing me is not who i knew for 9yrs. gosh! he's was so rude to me the last time i tried to be the bigger person by calling him, he ended the call on me. i felt like a fool and i don't want to ever feel that way again.

I'm fine. just once in a while i would missed him but i don't ever wanna talk to him again.

Demnan:
Sorry, sweetie. Is the relationship so irredeemable?

no dear. he said some really hurtful stuff for me to ever forget! there's a thin line between friendship and insult.

KIDDRICAsHAWK:
I don't love him anymore abeg, e no dey ever serious. There's time fir everything

Awwwwwnnnn. Why? Can't you guys sort things out?

he confessed his love for me, he wanted us to officially be a couple but i got cold feet cos i feared we won't last together as a couple and so i rejected his proposal, i was scared to lose him too in the name of relationship .I'm the only girl who have slept at his family house, he introduced me to everyone.

he's just like kidwaya in nature. playful , crazy , flirty and a big baby at heart, extremely generous. he's really cool. we started when he had nothing but today he's a big guy, things are going well for him and I'm so proud of all he has achieved.

well, he stopped calling, he won't pick my calls, started acting rude to me , like he's paying me back for what i had no ideal about.

i was crying too much, lost in thoughts and felt like a mad woman. i had to let him go. it was fun while it lasted, that's how i lost him o.

my bestie would buy me gifts, we would talk on phone all day especially at nights. friends for 9yrs.....

i feel like crying like the hms.