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yoniehuin:
They are not your kids, why do you think you are entitled to send someone's kid on errand just because you are friends with the mother.

The mother was right, her kids are not your errand children

If you had a kid and people send them on errand as they feel like, will you be happy.

Dont you think if any thing happen to those kids on errands, do you think the mum will be happy with you, she will blame you forever

why did she not tell me she doesn't want her kids to run errands for me? And besides , the same kids come to my house everyday , eat my food and all. Have I ever complained the way they come to my house and scatter my things?
do you know the inconvenience i go through when 5 of them come to my house? I cook and make sure they're ok.

what's little errand they can't help me go? and I give them the change left. so who is stressing more between me and the children ?

Kobojunkie:
1. The first is a miss on your part. You for sit her down, look her in the eye, and tell her pop and plain that you do not mind the mess at all, and so she should stop complaining about it.

2. I take offense to you sending her kids on errands. Sending them with a message to their own mother, maybe, but sending them on your own personal errands, no.

which errands am I sending them apart from getting me tomatoes or milk or fish within the street as the distance is just 2minutes away.

they come to my house by themselves and sometimes I'd drive them away before they would leave. I never let them go home hungry , whatever I eat, they eat too.

I don't send them to go to the market for me or use as slaves.

I felt bad that she would asked her daughter not to come run errand for me. this is someone who I have been very good and supportive to since I moved here. I don't want to talk about all I've done cos it's between me and God.

the phone she's using i gave her as her own phone got spoilt.

If she could tell her child not to come to me, I'm just wondering the rest things she might be saying behind me.

could her child be lying against her mother ?

this world is wicked though. becareful of those you call friends , they may not have the same good intentions for you.

I moved into a new neighbourhood and i stay alone. Luckily I came across my childhood friend one fateful day on my way to fill up my cooking gas.

we exchanged contact, I found out we live closed to each other. she now has 6kids with her husband, the eldest child being 13yrs old.

As formal friends and now neighbours I tried to assist her with whatever little I could as they're not doing so great in financially.

I noticed whenever I enter her house, she's somewhat uneasy as she would apologized for the messy state of her house, the dirty floor , the roughness of the building which i don't even care to notice as I am not judging her.

I reduced my entrance into her house due to the fact I didnt want her to feel bad about whatever she might be thinking of her house. it was making feel uncomfortable to hear such complains too.

I usually send her kids on errands, which I give them monetary compensations. I called her on phone one day to send her second daughter to me that I wanna send her on an errand, she replied yes she would but I didn't see the daughter.

I was cooking rice, the kids came. I dished for them and I asked the daughter why she refused to come see me the day I sent for her. she told me it was her mother who told her not to come.

I was shocked ! if her mother didn't want me to send her on a errand she could have told me. I felt like I was disturbing her kids so I blocked her number and stop sending the kids message to run for me.

now she has been calling me but I've refused to answer her calls. am I wrong in wanting to end the friendship?

You're the one who is having sexual feelings for his fellow man, there's no friend anywhere.

Go and see a psychologist to access your sexuality and help you better on how to manage the situation.

if he dies, would he be able to have sex in the grave?

let him save his life first biko, what you're worried about seems so stupid right now.

I think the girl is secretly liking you, these are tactics to get your attention. kindly ignore her as she is still a child, your reaction was simply too much.

she's pregnant.

you "sucked d breast dry" that's why. wicked man! you want her to come back so you will collapse her chest before you will leave her alone?

She has moved on, oga mooveee on to the next breast to suck dry. vampire!

Another loss for Tinubu.
Nobody respects him both locally and internationally. only his agbado children though they are dying of hunger.

Kobojunkie:
1. That is a lie! Giving of thanks only apply as far as those who in fact enjoy the benefits of God's promise, a benefit only available to the Righteous, according to God Himself.

2. Stop using God's name to lie to this boy. Did God also see the Pagans and atheists who don't believe or know Him through schools and all the rest? God wey talk say those who belong to Him no longer work for bread that perishes is the same God who you claim will give you a job so you can work for exactly that, food that perishes? Please stop using God's name to push this drivel abeg!

You have no truth and given your record of prolonging arguments I absolutely have no appetite to engage with you.

Not that I can't back up my statements from the bible but exchanging information with you is so exhausting and useless as you will always hold on to your primitive way of thinking.

You can't pour water into a basket and expect it to hold water. I can't waste my energy with you this hot afternoon and expect your brain to function properly. Kobojunkie, I've been deliberating ignoring your posts, do well to not mention me again.

thinksquad:
if you are in lagos, ijesha, apapa express way. locate the lord's Chosen church for divine support

what sort of nonsense is this? did I tell you I want to go to a church or I have problems? I gave the young man advice which could be helpful not request for a church I should go.

Give thanks to God in everything that's what the bible said. Give thanks and watch your life change for better. you have life, you're alive and healthy, can eat , sleep and walk.

no achievements in the world can ever be worth it if you lose your life or can't walk. let's learn to give thanks to God during our trials , not lose faith and become lost.

Give thanks he saw you through school, when you lost your dad he provided comfort. You still have a roof over your head at the moment, your mom and siblings are healthy and alive.

I count my problems and give thanks for them one by one and at the end of the day, I find I'm happy , cheerful, free and blessed. That's how my life changed for better since I started givibg thanks, favours have been coming my way, doors are opening to the glory of God who is the creator of heaven and the earth.

elipheleh:
You are not honey. Stop saying what you are not.

Honey comes from bees. So don't lie to us.

lol

Appreciate God for what you have, those friends have their own family problems despite coming from a rich home.

Move on!

simple.

Fake news.

This is a fake news please don't listen.

since morning Agbado children have been attacking at all fronts against the truth but truth prevail at the end.

Tinubu dishonesty is so rotten to the core.

Kelvin58:
she will by tomorrow. And her is stomach is still very flat...

of course her stomach will be flat as the pregnancy is in the early stage of development. please conduct a test to determine if she is truly pregnant to put your nerves to rest. I wonder why you haven't done the test before now instead of coming to social media to be asking such question.

See those crooks displaying their cowardice by dragging ibos into their arguments while ignoring Atiku who was the one that has been fighting Tinubu in the US court.

The relationship between you both is toxic. please don't go back to her , it would lead to nothing good at the end.

Shame on tinubu!

have you seen a doctor ?

who are the customers that keep giving you money? are they not familiar about your gambling habit?

You keep making the same mistakes over again.