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be honest seller. what's the condition of the gear box? and why is the owner selling it?

This topic has been really controversial, but what pisses me off the most is when someone comes up and says the story is cooked up. why on earth will i spend my time cooking up and imangining stories, and if my wife was to be here, she will say the exact thing i have highlighted in my post.
that aside, i have really seen some ladies candid opinion about the whole issue. i love the critics. they make me a better person at times.we all just live in a diferent world.i would have been happier being single honestly, at least i will be more successful, i can have kids without having to marry. seems this marriage thing is basically for the benefit of ladies, 2face is single with kids and very succcessful.why bother with marriage self. the thing tire me oo. i just want a partner who will be in tune with my thoughts, right now, i want a moderate spender.and a very honest woman abi na partner self i go call am.i payed a huge pride price,you already know the tribe that does that, so i dont think HONESTY is too much for me to ask for in return.
and for the ladies blabbing about sex,i dont know if there are men that marries just for the sole aim of havng a sex partner, this is far from it.
i am not very happy most of this ladies are supporting what she did.and you guys are even coming up to confess of doing more. talking about wallet, she has complete access to it and i dont ask her what for? i can withdraw 20k from the atm and when we drive to the market, i just hand her my wallet, she comes back after getting what she wants and gives it back to me, i dont ask how much is left or how much was spent, meanwhile all the things she went to purachase might just be about 9k goods, but i dont bother. i just hate it that she will stand in my front and demand money for something and inflate it on a routine basis, even takes transport fare to purchase it, that is very callous.
its like this
wife: "sweetheart
me: yes
wife: Junior pampers is finished.
me: how much is it sold self.(cos i always forget,got a lot on my mind to bother about the constant price of pampers)
wife: it's 3000 naira( the most appreciated answer i would have loved here is" the last time i bought it, it was 2400, but give me 3k just incase it is up again. now can someone tell me, wont this be honest enough. she will still be geting the 3k, but in a more decent manner.)
me: bring my wallet
wife: goes in to bring wallet.
me: hand over 3k to her
wife: what about bike money, or do you expect me to trekk or most time while returning the wallet she will grab the little change in the wallet, i only count my wallet money in thousands, anything below that could be gone, i dont care. but the yellow thousand papers have to be accounted for. if you are taking it in a static state. meaning i did not handover my wallet to her.this whole thing is about what i want in my home. i dont know what those husband of this NL ladies want.
that said, if i am in her shoes, i have already stolen 600 bulks, while take bike more again which is just about 100 naira. my own concern is not about the intangible money, but the stupid,annoying lie, korokoro lie for my house.

@ tpai@. just catching some fun, a lot of guys do that, and personally i dont know what gender you belong to.i don't care anyway.
i am a Ladies man, dont mean to brag, but i got what an average nigerian lady wants in a man, and it pisses me off the more to end with the one of the worst girlfriends i have ever had as a young adult.
and i live close to a university premises.where you can get as many ladies as you want without blinking an eye lid, just park and tell them to get in, the gullible ones will sheepishly follow suit,i'm talking from experience. if you want to act on the e-fun being created online. my friend, think again.
i'm off to bed.

@ chaircover. i have never and i mean NEVER denied her of anything she ask for. all she needs to do is ask. why else will i be pissed off, if i have been denying her of her needs.

Seems most of this lady loving lady dont get it( dont mean lesbians)
my main annoyance is the fact that i can't even trust her with baby diapers, how can i put her in a managerial position if i ever own a company and make her be in charge of all the company wealth, does that simply imply she will inflate contracts in her own interest.generate ghost workers,under pay staffs, etc
just try and understand me a little.
ITS NOT ABOUT THE F--KING 600 BUCKS. ITS THE LACK OF TRUSTTTTTT SHE HAS CREATED.
how can i possible regain that?

@chaircover honestly speaking hope you did not use chair cover to cover your husband face. i won't call him a mumu. "God forbid" and to me it's as if the guy is super rich,i'm just in my late 20'S still trying to buld my life, i want a builder not a "chopper" when i get there, i might have a rethink and maybe start behaving like "Mr chaircover"
for now. it will remain my money.
sorry if you think it should be otherwise.

For the ladies who are advocating for "OUR MONEY",(chaircover and co.) if i'm right, that symbolises JOINT ACOUNT. tufiaqa.
so the money i worked so hard for has suddenly turn to our money, in the first instance, what for? why the our money issue.its her own money that should rather be called our money since i own her and all that she has, not the other way round, just because God has placed a hole in one section of your body, does not give you ladies the right, to abuse our masculine nature.i don't blame those gay boys, just kidding though. but honestly.ladies and their ability to ruin men, i have some negative testimonies of such incident. can't put them up here as it will turn out to be like an epistle.
if she is already misbehaving with few naira notes. what will stop her from using the atm 10 times a day on "OUR MONEY" whats stops her from getting brazzilain hair, without my prior notice,what stops her from visiting the boutiques on daily basics.whats stops her from sending money to her relative on weekly basics,
i think you ladies should imagine yourself being a man, and lets reverse the scene.
on a lighter note, i want a partner i can trust 100% with no iota of doubt.she has compromised that,it takes a lot to win my trust.

Well, let's break it down. first to be honest, i am the one involve.so ignore the friend part.
If anyone says i am being stingy,that is totally wrong, how can a man who gives his woman the amount that she needs being considered STINGY.she uses a blackberry touch,courtsy me,she makes her hair every 2 weeks with about 8k,she is free to my wallet anytime she wants to get minor stuff from the stores, it goes on and on, THE MONEY IS NOT REALLY THE ISSUE, IT'S THE TRUST. if i dont trust her with hundred's how can i trust her with millions.
putting up instances. i was planning on getting her a ride to make her movement more confortable, the scenerio that will play out if i ever consider doing that is, she will walk in any time she is broke or feel like it, and tells me that maybe the shaft or the 4 shock absovers are all broken and needs to be fix. she will gulp up 20k or there about.in 5 years time, she will migrate to maybe 100k, only God knows what will happen in 20 years to come.
i have never denied her anything she ask of. and i dont cut down her demand. if she needs 10k, i always give it to her.
the point here is not the 500 or in another word not the amount that is inflated. the issue here is the trust has been depleted.
we all do this when we were in college, i understand. that is children to parents. totally different. how can i justify a partner that i will make my next of kin to all my worth, be so keen about making money from me.
each time i remember this, i get mad just looking at her face,i just dont trust her anymore.i dont care what she is using the money for, i will always give her anytime she needs it. why estort it from me against my wish and knowlegde.honestly i am sad about it.
i see no reason why anyone will support what she did. she is deceitful and she will have to regain that trust, which i know will take a lot of time.
if you equate this scenerio with that of you and your boss, first its ok for you to know your boss dont really trust you 100%, no good boss will ever trust his employee, so you can steal from him as long as you want, just pray he doesn't found out, you will be sitting your sorry arse at home. hunting for another invisible job.
GREAT THINGS START FROM SMALL BEGINNING, SO DOES STUPID THINGS.
enough said.

The topic is not about the car, its just an avenue to share how you came about NL, why not go to bed if you've got nothing to talk about.
goodnight.

For me, i feel really excited coming across NL, my friend came to my house for a visit. and we got talk about cars as i was planning to get a new one, he then asked if i have ever checked cars online, to select from different products with mouth watering offers, i asked him if i was to log on on Google or where exactly do i start searching for auto dealership.
he smiled and typed nairaland.com on my pc and ask me to open up auto section, to my amazement i saw varieties of cars that were for sale. it has been a great experience for me since i joined, as i can barely open my pc without having a tab with NL front page on it.
can fellow NL share their adventure into becoming a NL member.
And before some folks start pouring venom why this is on romance section, i practically don't see any section that suits my thread as i was hoping the mods will at least have a section that is termed"general" for post such as this.

@pendo89 if the man knows the price of items in the market, he won't be complaining after a year. he just came across the price list by chance.

A friend of mine just got married about 2 years ago, they also have a son that is almost 12 months now, the annoying thing which is quite provoking in the relationship is the fact that his wife always inflate prices of item she needs to get in the family. The one he just found out was the fact that she has been collecting #3000 for baby pampers that is sold for #2400 for the past i year, he said the most frustrating part is after giving her the 3k she will still request for bike money saying she has to bike to where she would get it.
Another scenario is the fact that baby food that is sold for #1000 she is also been collecting #1500 for the past 8 months.
the point here is the fact that my friend is confuse and really bitter about his wife mannerism. he said he feels like throwing his wife out of his home. as he can hardly trust her henceforth. as he can't really tell how many more things he has been inflating on the family budget.
I'm just here to get some candid opinion of what best he should do, as he really needs some mature counsel from like minded adults.

@Jarus, first it is a question. if you had payed good attention to your english classes, you will know what ? means.
and about it making the front page.someone had to post it for it to make the front page, or is there a reporter in Abuja that post current affairs on the front page on NL?
anyway just be mindful of what you read before your criticism.

i just called in a PHCN guy to help fix my AC installation wire, and he said they have sold their company to Dangote, meanwhile they have been on strike for about 3 days now, don't know how true this is, can anyone confirm the story?

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Thanks, i will put it into consideration.

i am searching for one, link me up. LOL

@ otunbadun
can you give me a link to those oil guys?

It's no big deal if you can.

WTF
how can i marry non tested. for where?
ok lets say no sex. i agree. she just wont ask me for a penny till we are married too. tit for tat.
PERIOD.

there are many options here, first you can buy a super glue, its just 50 naira. tape your mouth and eyes, so you wont partake in evil. your family is poor and someone is doing something about it, you are here ranting and complain.WILL YOU SHARRAPPPP.
look away and get a life for yourself.
if the boy is ready to do the crime i am sure he is ready to do the CRIME, i am sure he is ready to do the TIME.
your boss that you work for, do you know how he got the money he used in setting up the business.
i wish i have such a brother, than all this parasite around me, (sorry just speaking my mind)
ONCE AGAIN. SHUT THE HELL UP.

Thanks for your concern, i will give you a call in due time.

I have just return from out side the country, and i made quite a few savings while abroad, i am a bit confuss on what best to invest my money on, as i really want to be self employ, and not being bossed around by someone.
i hope i can get some positive contribution from kind hearted NL users,

Can someone please help me on how to make a post on NL? been trying frantically to post a disturbing topic on air.
Thanks in advance

nice one, keep wasting your time on love sequencial rubish, a guy with a cool range rover sport with some cash, will order her to bed and give her a nice trashing, while you are here proclaiming love. LOVE MY FOOT.

Can't some folks just type their words in full, or are they using an internet subscription that is PAY PER LETTER.
pisses me off when i had to crack my brain to get to the basics of someone story.
i think we should grow up, and stop this sick thing.
CLOWNS.