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Ecclesiastes 4:9-12" Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but WOE TO HIM THAT IS ALONE WHEN HE FALLETH, FOR HE HATH NOT ANOTHER TO HELP HIM UP. Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone? And if one prevail him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken." The truth is that, if you marry the right person, then marriage is worth it. When you get marriage to the wrong person, your life will be like a hell on earth and you will never appreciate God who created it. God bless you. God2man. rriage is worth it. When you get marriage to the wrong person, your life will be like a hell on earth and you will never appreciate God who created it. God bless you. God2man.

If the soldier and the police could not guarantee security in the state , people of that community should form a group that will stand up against this gruesome act. Is it compusory that we should always depend on the Government all the time for our lives and properties to be secure. Let the people rise up and do something that will guarantee safety. Spiritually, the blood of the innocent are crying against the land. We need to pray for cleansing blood of the lamb, that is blood of Jesus, to cleanse the land. God bless. God2man.

Of course, the challenges are thre as well as the risk, dishonest traders, accidents on the road, timing of the product and so on. i will encourage you to keep this spirt on. While travelling always pray and read psalm 91 for protection,and then don't forget to give to God out of your profit, this is to keep away devourers. I am sure you can get palm oil from Lokoja, Kogi state. I wish you Goodluck. God will see you through. God bless you. God2man.

It is a spiritual problem, when your heart is wounded. You need to go back to your creator and amend your ways. When david sinned he became depressed, in the bible, he cried to God in psalm 51 "create a new heart within me O Lord and renew right spirit within me, cast me not away from your presence O God, take not the holy spirit from me, return unto me the Joy of my salvation and renew the right spirit within me" it is only Jesus that can restore back what is missing in your life. Keep away from those who influenced you negatively, associate with people who can influenced you positively. Have HOPE, it is the greatest healing force in the universe, this is confirmed by the renowned psychiatrists all over the world. There is still hope. NEVER,NEVER,NEVER,GIVE UP. What makes you or breaks you is inside of you. Change your attitude to life. God bless you. God2man.

It is not easy to leave your matrimonial home and move to your parent's house under such critical circumstances. How many many ladies would like to go back to their parent's house? It is not easy, people will look down on you. It is frustrating and degrading. Alternatively, go to your friends house for while and then think deeply on what to do next. Seek the face of God his mercy. I can' say more, because many people's home are already built on faulty foundations like premarital sex, unwanted pregnancy, lust, beaty without xter and so on. So, the marriage will eventually crash. However, if you decide to continue to stay with your husband, then humble yourself enough for a solution. God bless you. God2man. r, if you decide to continue to stay with your husband, then humble yourself enough for a solution. God bless you. God2man.

Why didn't you tell us how many times you have slept with her so that we can know what to say? God2man.

The way you dress is the way you will be addressed. No wonder some ladies are addressed as prostitute. Whenever you are going out, look into the mirror or ask yourself: am i going to put somebody into trouble as a result of my dressing? Or am i dressing to kill today? If it is yes then you need to have a rethink about going out with that seductive dress. Also, Grandma also wear trousers. What a pity? As i always said a good example from the parent is still the best example. As a result of indecent dressing, many have developed lust, from lust to sin, from sin to death. God pls. Help us. God2man. ng, many have developed lust, from lust to sin, from sin to death. God pls. Help us. God2man.

Many spinsters are looking for material things. The truth is that they will miss the best husband. Some lazy bachelor are also looking for the same thing. They will also miss the good wife sent from God. Material things will blindfold their eyes, they will not be able to know the right partner, eventually, the relationship will not last. The fact that the guy is poor today does not mean, he will be poor forever. Things can only get bettet especially when you marry the right person. Seek the face of God to know the right person for you, this is a strong foundation for long lasting marriage. God bless you. God2man.

How would the two "ex" advise GEJ on the way forward for Nigeria. How? God help us. God2man.

When rod of correction becomes the rod of revenge or attack, then it becomes an abuse. You use the rod after much explanation and warning. When you use one hand as rod of correction then you use the hand to draw him closer with love. God bless you. God2man.

Your marriage need serious deliverance prayer before things get out of hand. Go for counselling . Pray to God to help you. Your wife need help. The "ex" could be a spirit husband who is bent on destroying the marriage. You need hot prayer fast, fast. God bless you. God2man.

Nobody will be happy to throw away his hard earned integrity into the dustbin, just because of a position or money. No! Reuben abati is not pleased with the present Goverment, then he offered himself to serve the country, which is the best decision. Evil prevail because good men do nothing. If the good people of nigeria play a siddon look, just looking at situation of things and not contribute anything to salvage the nation, Nigeria will become worst. Let the good people of this country rise up,support and join the president to make nigeria better. Otherwise, if the good people keep on criticizing without making any effort to assist the Goverment, we will be the worst country. God bless you. God2man.

Teach us to number our days that we apply our heart to wisdom. It is important to feel like this so that you can know that we will not be here forever, one day we will leave everything, we won't even take a pin. As we are getting older, we are more experienced, but we must be careful because of what we have passed through, it may make us to be lukewarm towards God, we need to renew our dedication to the things of God. If you have not been fasting for let say three days dry fast, let's start it, it makes us look younger,although it is difficult, it helps, let us shed some weight. Let us be renewed like the eagle. God bless you. God2man.

If you are the husband and you have never been to kitchen, oh! I pity you. What would you do if your wife is ill, God forbid. What would you do if your wife travel for an important assignment. Well, you say the cook will do it. It does not work that way. You have to be prepared for the unexpected. Nevertheless, a good wife will not even allow her husband to cook, he could assist her but not to take over everything. We should be careful with the kind of assistance we rendering to them in the kitchen. God bless you. God2man.If you are the husband and you have never been to kitchen, oh! I pity you. What would you do if your wife is ill, God forbid. What would you do if your wife travel for an important assignment. Well, you say the cook will do it. It does not work that way. You have to be prepared for the unexpected. Nevertheless, a good wife will not even allow her husband to cook, he could assist her but not to take over everything. We should be careful with the kind of assistance we rendering to them in the kitchen. God bless you. God2man.

Purpose before marriage, what is the foundation of your marriage. is it honourable? Is it lust? Is it sex? Why do you want to marry? Is your foundation built on God?. Also,Tolerance is the key for a long lasting relationship. God bless you. God2man.

Purpose before marriage, what is the foundation of your marriage. is it honourable? Is it lust? Is it sex? Why do you want to marry? Is your foundation built on God?. Also,Tolerance is the key for a long lasting relationship. God bless you. God2man.

This is one of the best topic on nairaland, pls moderator more of it. God bless you. It is difficult to appeal to boko haram, but i believe the possibility should not be ruled out, it can stiil be done with wisdom(it is the correct application of knowledge) that is the meaning of wisdom. Moreover, the FG should know that the world is changing, what was applicable 10yrs ago is no more applicable, you know, being current is the currency of progress. The police and all other security agents you should be highly equiped with the sophisticated equipment that can contend with the present day crime. Then the last but not the least, prayer and fasting for God's intervention, it should never be ruled out. God bless you. God2man.'s intervention, it should never be ruled out. God bless you. God2man.

Fatigue is one of the major reason. It can also be caused by too much comfort, for example, you have already taken heavy meals in the morning before coming to church, then when you get to church the standing fan and the ceiling fan are already blowing over you, before you know it, you have slept off. Also sleeping late on saturday will also make you to sleep in the church. With all the above reasons, it easy to fall asleep in the church. However, if you do not engage yourself with all these reasons and yet you are sleeping in the church, it means that there is the possibily of satanic manipulations empowered to steal great blessings from you during the service. God bless you. God2man. is the possibily of satanic manipulations empowered to steal great blessings from you during the service. God bless you. God2man.

A jealous and an unreasonable husband will count it as the wife is cheating on him. Little things like this, seeminly unharmful can develop into a tragedy in the family. What you see as harmless, may be regarded as harmful to another person. People are looking at it with a view that it is not a big deal for a lady to make call after 11:00pm, it should not be at the front page. NO. It may be decent to people outside this country, but within Nigeria setting where some husbands that are very jealous, it is indecent. Little things like this can develop into a quarrel in the home. Let us be careful. God bless you. God2man.

Ilorin is the best in every aspect. Very peaceful. I was there for almost three weeks, there was no traffic jam, food is cheaper. You will enjoy the place even if your salary is in the average level. The only problem is that, raising up kids is not only about the city aspect but it will also require discipline.  Parent have to show good example to their children, it has a great influence on the kids. God bless you. God2man.

Yes, everyone deserves privacy. However, they should be carefull with the kind of privacy they are keeping so that it will not lead to fighting. Your character is what you are in the secret,when nobody is looking at you. That is your privacy.When you begin to request for privacy, then it is questionable, watch out! It could lead to an unimaginable problem. God bless you. God2man.

You are the prophet of yourself. God can speak to you through your dream. Is your  night dream  telling you about death? if yes, then Go for deliverance prayer and reject it. If yours hands are clean, tell your fiance to tell the prophet too that the prophet will die. Fear not. Just reject the fake prophecy, provided, you are in right standing with God. If not, stop the relationship, and move on with your life. God2man. God bless you.

Your tithe which is ten percent of whatever come to your hand belong to God. It is a mystery. It does not belong to you. It belongs to God. It is not your money. If you take it and spend it on yourself, it means You are stealing from God. You know, the bitter truth is that nobody steals from God and Go scot free. The bible talks about devourers, accident, armed robber, sickness, death and so on. Tithe is still VALID. Whether you are in old testament or new testament, unless you don't want to be blessed. Tithe is a seed. You plant it into God's work and WAIT, that is, you have to be patient for the seed to germinate, grow and harvest. It takes time. Surely, If you are faithfull, God will surely bless you, not only money but other things as well. Now, on how the money is being used. Ministers of God are the representative of God. I belived they must have sought the face of God on how to use the money. Well, if they steal the money or they used it on themselves. God has not made you the judge. Leave that to God to Judge. God is a mystery. God is God. The "I AM that I AM". Who are you to question God? You see people will always talk, if the church refused to do anything about education, they will say, what are they doing with their money?, now the church is doing something, people are saying, it should be free. God will help us in this country. Do you know how many people in nigeria today that are benefiting from the church, physically, spiritually or otherwise. Without the help of the church assisting widows, orphans, giving out scholarships, visiting prisons, hospital. Infact the church has become a succor to many people in nigeria today. Only GOD KNOWS what would have happened in nigeria now without the church. Please, when you are criticizing the church be constructive, let it be based on facts. God bless you. God2man.

@Approved1. What a pity? First thing first, Go to God for geniune repentance, and cry for MERCY. It is very important. With all the various options on ground, you really need the help of God to sort things out. Even if you do surgery, what is the probabilty that it will work. I am introducing you to the Great physician, JESUS. He is the only one, who can take your husband to the spiritual operation room and perform the surgery, spiritually. Let me share this testimony of the Great physician. I know a brother that went out to preach one day, he got bitten by a dog. It was very panful. When he got home and he prayed on the wound. He slept. In the night dream, the great physician Doctor JESUS came and operated the leg and remove the something out of the leg of the brother, the brother saw this thing. After that, the brother woke up, behold, the pain had disappeared. Whatever decision you take, let God guide you. Do not forget to ask for God's mercy in whatever decision you take. God bless you. God2man. it will work. I am introducing you to the Great physician, JESUS. He is the only one, who can take your husband to the spiritual operation room and perform the surgery, spiritually. Let me share this testimony of the Great physician. I know a brother that went out to preach one day, he got bitten by a dog. It was very panful. When he got home and he prayed on the wound. He slept. In the night dream, the great physician Doctor JESUS came and operated the leg and remove the something out of the leg of the brother, the brother saw this thing. After that, the brother woke up, behold, the pain had disappeared. Whatever decision you take, let God guide you. Do not forget to ask for God's mercy in whatever decision you take. God bless you. God2man.

"Do not look for what your country can do for you, look for what you can do for your country" what can you do for Nigeria to make it better? Let us cultivate the habit of saying good things not only to our dear country, but to the seat of the presidency. What we say go a long way. Death and life are in the power of the tongue so say the Bible. What you say eventually become part of you, you will say it to everyone you meet. Indirecly, you are saying it to yourself. Watch your togue. It is like fire. It is an unruly evil. It is difficult to tame(control).Nigeria is like this. It will continue to be that. The president is this, the president is that. Yes, we use our mouth to make it to be like that. Do something for your dear country. Start something. If you do not have money. Take it as a challenge. Be determine that you want to make your country great. One with God is the majority. You can make a difference. You can help people. You can pray and fast for your dear country. You can become an entrepreneur. Things can change, but it begins with YOU. God bless you. God2man.

Buy some books on how to maintain this love. Have the same goal. Problem will come, you cannot run away from that. Learn to say the seven letter words regularly"i'm sorry". You must always say"thank you" and also "God bless you". It is important. Your word has power. Pray together, eat together, watch good video that can help improve on this level.Do not defraud one another of your body. What is good need prayer, what is problematic need prayer. If it is possible, do not allow outsider to solve your problem for you,tackle it together. Hold a family meeting, reason together, and take a good decision. God bless you. God2man.

It happened to a strong christian sister in one university. She went for a personal retreat, crying to God for divine intervention. God did. The lecturer was terrorized in the dream by the angel of the living God, the lecture was told to go and beg the sister. The lecturer started looking for the sister, he could not find the sister until the sister returned from the prayer retreat. The sister was suprised when the lecture came to apologise. This is a true testimony.  It is not a fable. "the effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much" so say The Bible. Pray hard, fast and cry to God for help. He will surely fight for you. Do not result to cult, blackmailing, it could be counter productive. God bless you. God2man.It happened to a strong christian sister in one university. She went for a personal retreat, crying to God for divine intervention. God did. The lecturer was terrorized in the dream by the angel of the living God, the lecture was told to go and beg the sister. The lecturer started looking for the sister, he could not find the sister until the sister returned from the prayer retreat. The sister was suprised when the lecture came to apologise. This is a true testimony.  It is not a fable. "the effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much" so say The Bible. Pray hard, fast and cry to God for help. He will surely fight for you. Do not result to cult, blackmailing, it could be counter productive. God bless you. God2man.

Do the best and the worst analysis of the risk of quiting your job, that is, what is the best thing or the worst thing that could happen if you quit the job. You can quit the Job, but let there must be a transition plan on ground, save a huge amount in your account. Try to tie down your money, like acquiring land, if it is possible, take this decision before you get married . Then pursue your joy. Late Archbishop idahosa said" it is too risky not to take a risk". Then the great question: has God told you to quit? If you cannot get a clear answer, then take the risk. It may be the best decision. God bless you. God2man.

@ nodogma. what great men have said about the bible. " it is impossible to rightly govern the world without God and Bible" George washington. " A studious perusal of the sacred volume will make better citizens, better fathers, and better husbands" Thomas Jefferson. "The Bible is more than a book; it is a living being with an action; a power which invades everything that opposes its extension" Napoleon Bonaparte. Some Proofs Bible is inspired. 1. The indestructibilty of The Bible. A whole kingdom and religion have sought in vain to destroy the bible. It is stiil the world best seller, intepreted into many languages. 2. It has blessed millions in every generation, made the highest civilizations, and given man the highest hope and destiny. 3, Good men must have written it, it condemns all sins and records the sins and faults of its writers as well as others. This, evil men would not write something like this. Even good men would not do it unless inspired to do so to help others.4. Miracles. Many that laid hold on the promise of the Bible, receive answers. Miracle stiil happens.5. Inexhaustible proofs. It would take many volumes to deal fully with the many thousands of facts which cofirm the bible to be the word of God. The book must be divine. If one will use it properly it will confirm itself to whosover used it as the inspired Word of God. This is a form of an excerpt from Dake refrence Bible. @ nodogma, you are just saying things you do not know. Find out, make research about the Bible, be open to people's opinion about the Bible. God bless. God2man. ns in every generation, made the highest civilizations, and given man the highest hope and destiny. 3, Good men must have written it, it condemns all sins and records the sins and faults of its writers as well as others. This, evil men would not write something like this. Even good men would not do it unless inspired to do so to help others.4. Miracles. Many that laid hold on the promise of the Bible, receive answers. Miracle stiil happens.5. Inexhaustible proofs. It would take many volumes to deal fully with the many thousands of facts which cofirm the bible to be the word of God. The book must be divine. If one will use it properly it will confirm itself to whosover used it as the inspired Word of God. This is a form of an excerpt from Dake refrence Bible. @ nodogma, you are just saying things you do not know. Find out, make research about the Bible, be open to people's opinion about the Bible. God bless. God2man.

@garyarnold, i searched mathew henry's bible commentary's, i searched Dake annotated refrence bible, i searched strong' s exhaustive concordance bible. I have not seen any negative meaning to "fulfil". Let assume, i am wrong. What is the meaning of destroy? You know that, right. Then, if christ had not come to destroy the law and the prophet. It means paying of tithe is still in place. Jesus said in the book of Act of apostle(Act 20:35) that it is more blessed to give than to receive. If i obey all other ways of giving and i did not pay tithe, it means, i am missing out some blessings, according to what Jesus said that it is more blessed to give than to receive. Anyway, @ garyarnold, you have a goal, and that is, you want your book to sell, more downloads. Misrepresentation and misinterpreting of scripture is so terrible. @ pastor kun. You want me to be doing burnt offering now, what about the veil of the temple that was torn? Jesus had finished every thing on the cross. Jesus made the law perfect, complete, "plerosai". He did not destroy the law, he established the law. Well, i pray that God will open your eyes. For your information, i do not only pay tithe because Jesus said so, it is because God had warned me in the night dream that i should pay my tithe, it is still valid. Please, Think. God bless you. God2man. that it is more blessed to give than to receive. Anyway, @ garyarnold, you have a goal, and that is, you want your book to sell, more downloads. Misrepresentation and misinterpreting of scripture is so terrible. @ pastor kun. You want me to be doing burnt offering now, what about the veil of the temple that was torn? Jesus had finished every thing on the cross. Jesus made the law perfect, complete, "plerosai". He did not destroy the law, he established the law. Well, i pray that God will open your eyes. For your information, i do not only pay tithe because Jesus said so, it is because God had warned me in the night dream that i should pay my tithe, it is still valid. Please, Think. God bless you. God2man.

@ crispgg. It is true. Ladies attached an imported hair to their heads in the name of fashion. People are selling it everywhere. No wonder, some old mama have no hair on their heads at old age and some young ladies too are becoming bald headed as a result, attaching strange hair, which they do not care to find out the source, to their God given hair. The devil call it fashion. They are willing to "make - up" not the real thing. Sometimes, when you look at some ladies, you discover that everything about them is not real, it is a fake. Hair, nails, skin,bag, cloth and even the husband. Men of easy virtue will continue to be enticed by the bait of deceptions and lies they put on. God help us. God2man.

Polygamy! Polygamy! polygamy! It is one of the foundational spiritual problem of the blackman. Let us assume, you are married to this man. Then competition, strife, envy, hatred, jelousy started to raise their ugly heads. @laura how would you handle it? The first wife will want her children to have the best, why you are also wishing that you kids are not relegated to the background, although, you are not living together. As a result of this conflict of whose child will be the best. The first wife decide to consult an african JuJU man to make juju medicine and put in the husband food, so that his husband will forget about @laura in france. Eventually, the husband develop heart attack and died. Now, another problem, who will take the assets, the first wife in nigeria or the second wife in france, please, think about this. God is love. That is why he created adam and eve and not many eves, because it will cause rivalry, strife, hatred, envy, jealousy. @laura pray to God to give you your own husband, he is around looking for you if only you can pray to God. If you decide to be a second wife, it means, you are a thief. You are planning to steal another person' husband. Be wise. God bless you. God2man. the best. The first wife decide to consult an african JuJU man to make juju medicine and put in the husband food, so that his husband will forget about @laura in france. Eventually, the husband develop heart attack and died. Now, another problem, who will take the assets, the first wife in nigeria or the second wife in france, please, think about this. God is love. That is why he created adam and eve and not many eves, because it will cause rivalry, strife, hatred, envy, jealousy. @laura pray to God to give you your own husband, he is around looking for you if only you can pray to God. If you decide to be a second wife, it means, you are a thief. You are planning to steal another person' husband. Be wise. God bless you. God2man.