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Anger is a small madness. It is an insanity that has short time to manifest. Anger is like an acid. It burns. It is a very bad thing to be hot-tempered. The only solution is cry out to God to uproot the spirit of anger out of your life. Pray in the might name of Jesus that the spirit of anger in you to depart. Go for deliverance prayer. Go for prayer and fasting retreat for a solution. Control your emotion. Fear not. God bless you. God2man.

Error! Bad communication corrupt good manner. God2man.

Ecclesiastes 12:1"Remember now thy creator in the days of thy youth , while the evils days come not,nor the years draw nigh,when thou shalt say, i have no pleasure in them" Your youthful age is daring. You need to be careful with the of people you move with, Good communication corrupt good manners. Look out for new friends, who are serious with their studies and closer to God. Join a campus fellowship, if you are in a school or better still,prayerfully chose a living church, where sin is been rebuked and where the spirit of God is reigning. God needs your youthful life. It is what you know now about God that will determine how far you will go in life. You need to FIND GOD. It is hardwork finding God. But find God and know him as you know the palm of your hand. The mouth of a strange woman is a deep pit,those who are hated by God will fall into it. STOP the idea of approaching girl now. You are too young for that. Find other reasonable things that will add to your life rather than substracting from you life to do. God bless you. God2man. ll determine how far you will go in life. You need to FIND GOD. It is hardwork finding God. But find God and know him as you know the palm of your hand. The mouth of a strange woman is a deep pit,those who are hated by God will fall into it. STOP the idea of approaching girl now. You are too young for that. Find other reasonable things that will add to your life rather than substracting from you life to do. God bless you. God2man.

Sometimes life can be very cruel. Life is not fair. Life does not give you what you deserve. All you need to tell her, is to have hope, and move on. Take solace in the word of God,meditate on the scripture,believe God for a change. Hope for great things. Never,never, never GIVE UP. God bless you. God2man.

A case of calling white, black and calling black, white. God will help us. God2man.

In my own case, i was determine to get the will of God for my life, because i knew that if i missed it in the issue of marriage, my destine will be adversely affected,so, i took time to seek the face of God in fasting and prayers,so that i can marry the person that will not destroy my destiny, after the prayer, the Lord touch my heart concerning my wife,that was it. @poster take time to seek the face of God, it is only God that can see through the heart, so called good men may be a snake,lion or tiger in three piece suit.watch out! A three days prayer and fasting without food except water,will go a long way,you will enjoy the reward of seeking the face of God, but remember,when God answer your prayer,do not reject the person in the first place, there is no perfection for Now,but later the person will eventually turn out to be the best you can ever get. I am a living witness to this. If you are looking for a xter without flaws you may not get married for a long time. Be nice to people,show courtesy,humble yourself,forgive those who hurt you. Pray to God, to help you correct your own weakness. God will see you through. God bless you. God2man.

Yes! It is real. You can fall under the annointing. If you are possessed by foul spirit,there will be a struggle before those foul spirit release you,normally, they don't want to get out of their hiding place(your body). But the power of God overcome them and you are set free. During these struggling, crying, rolling on the floor, and the rest.Lastly, Then blowing of mic, no man can tell God that, this is the style i want you to use, NO! you can't dictate to God. The bible says God speaks in diverse ways. Hebrew 1:1. God had various ways to move in his power. So, let us leave that to God to demystify. God bless you. God2man. to God to demystify. God bless you. God2man.

Is it really religion? What are we talking about here? It makes no sense to base all our ploblems on religion. Somebody stole Government money, the money that belong to millions of people, and this man that stole was expected to lead by good examples. Let us reason together, the heart of man is wicked, desperately wicked, who can know it? Whether white or black, we are all human, we tend to satisfy our selfish interest first before others, but when people begin to go to church, they learn about love,unselfisness, caring, respect,equality and so on. I put it to you today that, you will one day have a problem and that you will not have any option left, than for you to pray to God to help you out. Milions of people all over the praying to God for solution to their problems that are beyond them are not fools. Ah! May you not witness the other side of life. That is when you will know that religion is not bad at all, but rather the place of succour for true christian. (Infact christianity is not a religion, but the only way to get to God) God2man. God bless you.Is it really religion? What are we talking about here? It makes no sense to base all our ploblems on religion. Somebody stole Government money, the money that belong to millions of people, and this man that stole was expected to lead by good examples. Let us reason together, the heart of man is wicked, desperately wicked, who can know it? Whether white or black, we are all human, we tend to satisfy our selfish interest first before others, but when people begin to go to church, they learn about love,unselfisness, caring, respect,equality and so on. I put it to you today that, you will one day have a problem and that you will not have any option left, than for you to pray to God to help you out. Milions of people all over the praying to God for solution to their problems that are beyond them are not fools. Ah! May you not witness the other side of life. That is when you will know that religion is not bad at all, but rather the place of succour for true christian. (Infact christianity is not a religion, but the only way to get to God) God2man. God bless you.

It is my own defnition of love. It is possible to possess these qualities. With God all things are possible. David said: it is good that he is afflicted that he may learn and obey God's law. However, under intense provocation, this so call good man, can become a beast, but that does not make him a bad man, he is only reacting to undue pressure. God bless you. God2man.

It is my own defnition of love. It is possible to possess these qualities. With God all things are possible. David said: it is good that he is afflicted that he may learn and obey God's law. However, under intense provocation, this so call good man, can become a beast, but that does not make him a bad man, he is only reacting to undue pressure. God bless you. God2man.

Deep rooted problem require deep prayer, waiting, diving timing, fasting, dedication to the sevice of God, sacrificial giving, living a holy life, lastly working on divine revelation from God. Prayer is a two way communication, very interesting, you speak to God, God speaks back to you. When God speak to us, God speaks to us in our dream according to Job 33:14-18. I mean our night dream, although GOD speaks to us in diverse ways. The most common is night dream. It may not have meaning but it is saying something. The more you pray, the more divine dream you see, the more you discover the mystery of life. Moreover, the period of unanswered prayer is to make us a better christian, to humble us, to correct us, to draw us closer to God. Remember,no cross,no crown. If you are trying to bribe your way out of problem, you make be preparing to end up in hell. God2man. God bless you.

I will be deceiving myself to say that God doesn't answer prayer. Infact, i will be a fool to deny the wonder working power of God. I prayed for a job, good wife,children and the Lord answered, but the problem we have is that God doesn't think as we think. For example, i have been praying for a wife from God, but it took me almost 8yrs befor God finally answer, there was a time i gave up. So, when it comes to answering of prayers, DIVINE TIMING is paramount above every other thing. God makes everything beautiful in his own time. Not your time. We have also forgotten the fact that man is contending with invisible power of darkness. They are there. Not for fun. They are there to hinder the work of God in your life. If you do not do anything to resist them, they will steal, kill, and destroy your answers to your prayers. Read ephesians 6: 1-end. Also, your channel of prayer could be blocked, if you are disobedient to the law of sowing and reaping. If your heavens are closed as a result of not giving your money to honour God(tithe,first fruit offering, caring for the needy, distributing gifts,cash to the need of the saints) then your prayer may be unanswered. God2man.

What happen if after marriage, no baby, or your patner does not like sex, what are you going to do if your spouse change his or her xter? Then the marriage died. Purpose before marriage. We are in this long lasting relationship to fulfil the purpose of God. God2man. God bless you.

Wherever there is a will, there will always be way out. If the Government want to upgrade public schools to the level that is internationally accepted, they can do it. They do not need to disturb private schools. Where was the state Government when the standard of education was moving below the average? It is a bad idea. God2man.

You can remain calm. You can have a private meeting together where issues will be analysed and resolved. You can admit your imperfections and apologize. You can move closer to her, and allow the body language to settle the crisis. You can turn it to a joke. You could make her laugh. God will teach you the rest. Above all, wisdom is profitable in all things. You need the correct application of knowledge, which is wisdom, to resolve crisis in the home. God help us all. God bless you. God2man. You can remain calm. You can have a private meeting together where issues will be analysed and resolved. You can admit your imperfections and apologize. You can move closer to her, and allow the body language to settle the crisis. You can turn it to a joke. You could make her laugh. God will teach you the rest. Above all, wisdom is profitable in all things. You need the correct application of knowledge, which is wisdom, to resolve crisis in the home. God help us all. God bless you. God2man.

There is nobody that has a perfect character or perfect manners, at the least provocation or misunderstanding, anybody can become a beast, that is the truth. We are only living by the grace of God. Good manner could be deceitful, beauty is even the worst,infact,it is not good for a woman to be too beautiful,it could be problematic,if it is not properly handled or controlled. However, a woman that tremble, whenever she hears the commandment of Lord, is a jewel of inestimable value. Proverb 31: 10-end. If you read all these above scriptures,then you will need to have a rethink on the person you want to marry. God bless you. God2man. 31: 10-end. If you read all these above scriptures,then you will need to have a rethink on the person you want to marry. God bless you. God2man.

15yrs is not 2days or 1hr, please, let's put ourselves in this pastor position, anyway, i would have loved a situation whereby the man reconcile with his wife but it is not easy. 15yrs. I pray that God will comfort this pastor. That is all i can say. God bless you. God2man.

Have you tried praise and worship songs to the almighty God for one solid hour every week, it works wonder. We lost our first baby through miscarriage and carelessness, but we went for praise and worship for one hour, then i dreamt, the Lord told me in the dream to reject it. We rejected barreness and God answered. God bless you. God2man.

Is it agape love,spontaneous and divine love or lust or carnal love which one are we defining? Well, divine love is more eternal than lust. Read your bible.1corinthians 13:1-end: you will get the best defnition of agape love. The following are the interpretations of the bible verse about divine love: 1. Courtesy: love in society, does not behave unseemly; always polite; at home with everybody;never rude. 2. Good temper: love in disposition: never irritated; never resentful.3. Generosity: not envious or jealous. 4. Humilty:love in hiding: no parade: works then retires. 5.sincerity: never boastful and conceited; not a hyocrite: always honest.never self assertive, does not blaze out in passionate anger, knows how to be silent, full of trust;always present 6. Patience: love passive: no hurry; suffers long; bears,believes,hopes and endures all things.7.kindness: love in action: never acts rashly or insolent, not inconsistent, puffed up, or proud.8. Unselfishness, love in essence: never selfish,sour, or bitter, seeks only Good of others; does not retaliate or seek revenge. These are the explanation i got from dake annotated refrence bible. God bless you. God2man.verybody;never rude. 2. Good temper: love in disposition: never irritated; never resentful.3. Generosity: not envious or jealous. 4. Humilty:love in hiding: no parade: works then retires. 5.sincerity: never boastful and conceited; not a hyocrite: always honest.never self assertive, does not blaze out in passionate anger, knows how to be silent, full of trust;always present 6. Patience: love passive: no hurry; suffers long; bears,believes,hopes and endures all things.7.kindness: love in action: never acts rashly or insolent, not inconsistent, puffed up, or proud.8. Unselfishness, love in essence: never selfish,sour, or bitter, seeks only Good of others; does not retaliate or seek revenge. These are the explanation i got from dake annotated refrence bible. God bless you. God2man.

From real life exprience, your wife sexual attitude can be improved upon. You have to create a romantic atmosphere before having sex with your wife. She need to be sexually aroused before the real sex begin. It takes time for some women to be in the mood, find a decent romantic ways to arouse her before you start. After some time, she may be asking for it, not you demanding for it. When it comes to marriage, you need to be patient and think deeply before you take some decisions. The second wife is out of place because it will even compound your problem. One wife, one problem. Two wives two problem. Infact, you may have up to 20 different problem with just one wife not to talk of two wives. You may be digging your grave if you venture into especially, if you marry the second wife because of sex. How much sex can really satisfy a man? Even if you have ten wives, you will stiil be asking for more. Find other things to do apart from sex, engage yourself in something that outlive you, so that when you die, people will say, thank God for your life. God bless you. God2man. wives two problem. Infact, you may have up to 20 different problem with just one wife not to talk of two wives. You may be digging your grave if you venture into especially, if you marry the second wife because of sex. How much sex can really satisfy a man? Even if you have ten wives, you will stiil be asking for more. Find other things to do apart from sex, engage yourself in something that outlive you, so that when you die, people will say, thank God for your life. God bless you. God2man.

Go for marriage counselling. I believe you need to lead by example. Humble yourself to find out why this reclusive xter from your wife,admit your error and promise to change. Personally, i feel You are the problem of your marriage. Apart from visting a marriage counsellor, buy christian books on marriage, you will learn a lot. God bless you. God2man.

It is difficult for a man to raise his hand and start beating the wife for no reason,except the husband is mentally deranged. I hate the idea of wife beating, i have never done that, and will never do it. Let's face fact,truth and objectivity. Some Women are generally too emotional, this make them to overreact to certain issues, the same thing apply to some men. Women are very weak when it comes to crisis. They will talk,talk,talk, and eventually abuse the husband indirectly, then of course, unintentionally. After sometime, some of them realize their errors and apologize while others will insists that must have their ways. Then fighting ensue. Nevertheless, the home will be peacefull, if the wife can be reasonable enough to submit to the husband and the husband take it as huge responsibility to love and be compassionate about the wife. The blind and deaf husband and the dumb wife. What a perfect combination so to say. Anyone that beat his wife is beating himself. This is insanity. Men should think deeply on how to handle issues at home apart from beating the wife. God bless you. God2man.

The road to the promised land is not a tea party. It is full of obstacles discouragement,affliction, weeping, suffering,pain,rejections. The route without obstacles will quickly lead to the grave, but if there are potholes on the road, it reduces the speed, it calls for caution and watchfullness. A driver that begin to speed on an express road without any potholes, driving carelessly without caution will eventually crash. Let us be patient. 18 months or 18yrs or 100 days, what is imporatant is the outcome of this administration after 4yrs. Until then, we are just in hurry to castigate GEJ. God bless you. God2man.

I have hope in this country, that one day, all these negative utterances about my country will be a story. We have an edge. i believe with the abundant resources in nigeria coupled with with the right leadership, the sky is the limit. If you see a ripe fruit on the tree, what do you do? People start throwing all kind of things to pluck the mango. Why are we facing adversity? It is because we are a nation destined to be great. If you are not facing opposition, it means your life is of no importance. Although, other countries faced one problem or the other. But why is our own taking a long time to be solved, it is because there are deposits of greatness in nigeria. we will get there, it is a matter of time. The last shall be the first. This is the only advantage of being a nigerian. God bless you. God2man.a long time to be solved, it is because there are deposits of greatness in nigeria. we will get there, it is a matter of time. The last shall be the first. This is the only advantage of being a nigerian. God bless you. God2man.

It is risky. Married or not married. It could be a trap to get you kidnap or attack by armed robbber or the girl could be an agent of darkness trying to seduce you.However, if you are in a christian gathering, you could take the risk. Watch and pray. God bless you. God2man.

Marriage is all about GIVING and FORGIVING. My wife once told me a lie before we got married, and i took it as if we are just human, we are prone to error, whosoever has not told a lie, should be the one to condemn the husband. So, we should learn to tolerate each other, that is what marriage is all about. Now, things are different, the truth about the degree certificate has been revealed, it takes the grace of God for the wife to stay in the union. Please and please, tread softly, the marriage is facing a STORM right now. They should come together in agreement and look unto God for a perfect solution. The husband should look at himself and think of what to do, the wife should support in whatever way or else it will be a marriage of an elephant and a rat. God bless you. God2man. tly, the marriage is facing a STORM right now. They should come together in agreement and look unto God for a perfect solution. The husband should look at himself and think of what to do, the wife should support in whatever way or else it will be a marriage of an elephant and a rat. God bless you. God2man.

@lovegal, i do not agree to the fact that you are lazy, golddigger, opportunist, and all other negative comments about you, your assumption that he is stingy, may be wrong, you have not asked him. Also, the guy may be testing you, to know whether you really love him or for material things. Please find time to sit him down, then ask politely for help, everybody needs help one way or the other, even those people that are saying you are an opportunist do not live in isolation, we defnitely need help one way or the other, so ask for it politely, if he decides to help, thank him, if not look elsewhere for help. God bless you, God2man. the other, so ask for it politely, if he decides to help, thank him, if not look elsewhere for help. God bless you, God2man.

Congrats! Girl. Say it loud and clear that our educational system is not bad. God bless you. God2man.

We plead the blood of Jesus over this nation. Let the lion of tribe of Judah roar against anyone terrorizing this nation. Amen In Jesus name AMEN. God2man. God bless.

A great idea. Please keep it up. Dreams are means of divine communication. You are the product of your dream. Your dream may not have meaning but it is something. It is your divine monitor. God bless you. God2man.

Crush,infatution,purpy love, love at first sight won't guarantee a happy marriage. You need to know that what attract you to somebody, may not be there again, what is inside this person matters a lot, it is like buying a house because of the paint on it, you are not checking the foundation and the rest. That is why, the creator of this institution called marriage should be contacted first before approaching the would be partner. God bless you. God2man.