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I get you though. But you cannot impress your will on others.

Life basically is a series of agreements here and there. Can two work unless they agree?

Whatever that rocks people's boats they are by all means bound to follow.

But the reality remains simple, women are wired differently to love as regards how men are structured.

Besides, don't play lotto with your heart in the name of falling in love. You get it... You fall from sense when you love and the pattern of love is similar to the pattern of madness.

So choose a system that works and stick with it

It is written all over your write up that you are in a worse case of shot nerves.

The best option would been probably for you to have a change of scene. But your schooling will be a hindrance.

Mental health is not a matter to be handled with kid gloves. In an anatomical level, strip away the flesh, digestive system, respiratory system and other systems down to just the nervous system, we are all basically brain matter. In other words we live in our head.

So you should probably seek mental help.

Then you really need to leave that house, and you also need to be more discipline.

Cheers.

smartokc:
How can I get oriented on the agenda of women abroad ?

Bro, in our clime, it's a men world.... Out there it's a woman's world. Mason Greenwood one moment had the world as his oyster next moment his girlfriend brought him crushing down.

I am not here to defend his actions but to point out what would have been if he was better groomed to handle matters.

Comrade, the internet space is fraught with information of nurses and other 'enlightened wives' pushing her husband out of the house and becoming sole owners. Taking out law suits on their husbands and most times winning.

An average Nigerian woman will not condone the excesses of her husband if circumstances were reversed and she finds herself in a climate that's sympathetic to her concerns.

There is enough blame to go around for everyone who is concerned.

Ladies these days are exposed to an array of pregnancy preventive measures to idea of aborting to the men swimming deliciously in between the legs of these women, not to mention the rare cases of rape and changing
societal norms

Back then being pregnant out of wedlock was considered a taboo. Now it is the new black....the in thing. Women walk around proud to be a single mother.

Character flaws, finances or other reasons best known to men too can make men abandon a lady who took in for the lady

There are cases of women who tried to pin the said pregnancy on an innocent gone wrong may also result to the circumstance of a single mother. There many cases of married men training kids of other men.

The blame can also be shared to the parents of both parties engaged in the fuckery.

Surely court marriage is the real proof of marriage in law.

However, there are cultural differences between Nigeria and these tier 1 countries that may not suit your unique circumstances.

So while you get prepared for transit, get prepared for an orientation that pushes the agenda of women better than is done here.

Thing is you should be circumspect regarding how you manage your relationship with your would be wife if on the condition you exit the shores of this country.

Interpret

It's always an unpleasant and unenviable task handle the death of one's mom especially when she is loving and understanding person.

RIP

You are right.

Parents too need education.

Your kids aren't toys.

You can use as you feel.

They are humans with brains and free will

Buy smoker's toothbrush.

Buy Colgate Max Fresh Toothpaste with Breath Strips.

Seat her on your laps.

Kiss her.

Fill the brush with toothpaste.

Start brushing and press the yansh as well.

To do day and night.

Are you an only child?

These things you mentioned is usually associated with only child.

What you actually need is cultivating meaningful relationships.

But get this right...... regardless of what you do... You are going to get judged.

Being introverted comes with it's own baggages..... Lack of people skills.

There is was this guy who was a course mate back then.

He was a sickle cell patient but he handled himself better than some guys who were normal.

So he got entangled with this banny who loved sex more than food itself.

Bros was enjoying himself banging left, right and center.

It was all groovy.

We would be discussing in his room, they will look at themselves, embrace, kiss and resume screwing.

The girl is just plain crazy, as we are still there, baby don dey off her top and bra. Dey remove bros shirt, dey suck bro breast, dey find im John Thomas.

She would guide his dìck straight up her kitty by shifting pant and start rocking bro all in front of us.

It was the craziest thing ever.

Bìtxch will be moaning and screaming in front of us!

Na so we go comot to reconverge for window to continue live porn action.

This madness went on for 7 straight month till bros passed out.

Na ambulance we take carry go nearby state owned hospital.

From there his mother chartered another ambulance to take him home.

Guy spent 2months recovering.

His mom got us to park his stuff off that hostel before that evil girl will finally put him out of active service for good.

Eyinju112:
This is so deep...
Let me correct an impression, this women don’t love you, they might feel you serve them better than their husband... Truly they love their husband and will never replace them for you... I believe sex is the only reason they’re with you..

Most times, men feel women don’t need sex cause we don’t ask for it, remember we’re living in a society where ladies who always initiate sex are seen as sex animals, whereas we always want our men to cuddle us from behind and give us from the back...we always want them to spank our asses during sex and make us scream, we want to be ate.... some women loves toxic sex like bdsm, and their husband are always taking it cool on them.... they gonna look for guys or boys like you to make their legs shiver...

Men should try different sex not only missionary... All women loves sex, if she’s not enjoying it with her man, then she’s enjoying it with another man

Shalom

Damn......


I want to sign up one on one consultation and counseling.

You should have taken her antics out for public dissertation along with the audio recordings.

I cannot condone such petty stealing at all.

What would have done if you didn't notice what she did?

If you had accused her later. She would have actually called the police and raised hell that you cannot quench with #20 cold pure water

This same lady would have taken you to the cleaners if you have loose guard on her.

Watch her. If she slips release the audio recordings.

No matter how pretty a woman can be, if she is a thief, she should be handled as one.

Well you did what I will probably have done.

I expect an agreement should be followed to the letter.

What nonsense?

You did fine.....giving her transport fare and some spending money. You also allowed her to lounge in that cosy hotel room.

The thing is you gave off signs you are made of money.

Anyway, nice touch though.

These northern elites knows how to protect and nurture their own.


Just Imagine if innoson was a northern?


Just imagine

So this LiveScore is still on?

So when it suits the presidency they quote American laws but will jettison these same laws when it doesn't suit them.

While at the subject, having had almost 8years in power, shouldn't the narrative of PDP destruction of state of affairs be put to sleep?

What have the government of the day done to remedy this? It's just infantile rambling here and there by the APC led government, while at the same time making worse blunders.

It's also a slap on the face of the common man for the presidency to claim that travelling by road is unacceptable by the president.

A president that sold us his apparent penchant for frugality.

The truth be told....... The president is scared of the baby he helped birth.

You could be right based on your submission. However, Nigerians basically have got an A when it comes to copying anything that seems to work.

These rituals are tied to yahoo and yahoo plus. Young guys engage in this in a bid to cash out. This is what is prevalent and everyone wants to jump into the bandwagon.

If bet9ja really plays, you will find that most of these ritualists would have embraced betting.

Should something else lucrative that pays well pop up, you will experience a bandwagon of guys jumping onboard.

I feel that the aspect of human resources, services and capital has not been fully exploited in this country.

The government of the day is obsessed with crude oil but China without any natural resources are easily one of wealthiest countries around. And they did this without rituals.

Isn't this lady the reason for that storm in a tea cup involving Ned, Regina and that kayamata lady...

Well she seemed to have moved on.

Did she say she is 31?

Ned seems to be like Arsene Wenger.

Catch they young in this case... 21.

Pump them.... dump them after about 10years of active pumping.

As the saying goes, the cane used for Fatima is waiting to be used on Amina.


Regi, your turn dey come.

It's really distasteful when a guy's marriage proposal gets turned down.

One of the rules of negotiation is getting prepared. Guys should already know their fate with girls they date. They could drop these proposal during their discussion and weigh the girl's reaction. Relationships like negotiation is not black or white, there are other shades of grey prevalent.

Not getting so emotional invested would allow for clarity. This is another issue to have in mind.

Women are generally cunning.

Being vigilant entails avoiding emotional entanglement.

Moreover, don't gamble be sure, before making a public spectacle.

Quite a long write up.

For me, peace of mind is bae.

Anything that's gonna trouble me, I let it go.

I can't be in competition with my girlfriend and ex.

No.

I can't be having a conversation with my girlfriend about how nice or a special thing they had in the past or if the ex got to her earlier she would break up with me.

That's just ridiculous.

I would end that relationship, so she can sort herself out with the obvious love of her life.

It's just plain simple.

Speaking of worship....


Men go down on their knees when they want to worship at her altar....


If you know you know

TjoBATHONG:
I hear you guys are super sensitive when it comes to these things. So I'm just playing it safe.

Drop a link to the uncensored content.