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Love them or hate them!

The resilient spirit of the igbos cannot never be broken.

They rebuilt their fortunes from the rubbles of yesteryears.

They are indomitable.

Mazi Nnamdi Kanu is the man of the moment.

What I liked particularly here:

Tariq Ahmad, junior minister at Britain’s foreign office, had said the UK asked Nigeria to explain how Kanu was arrested.

It's going to be interesting to see how they are going to explain that away.

Everybody now na redpiller and relationship sexpert.

Patience is not just a virtue but a quality of gods.

Life is in itself is not even simple.

When it comes to women, things are supposed to be done in phases except you are negotiating a hook up.

I am not saying you should get all emotionally and financially invested but wisdom of the sages places a premium on patience.

But in adherence to patience. If the bitch sweats you, kick her out.

If you get her over the finish line, pull her to your bumper, pump her and dump her.

But stay woke.......while you are at it, you may meet a rare gem. Keep that gem and keep rinsing and watching.

Father Figure

Bola146:
That is your philosophy, you can't drag dog from it's vomits

Whatever.


It's your life.


Live it however you want.

Smhart1:
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Thank you. I think I learnt my lessons the hard way. This isn’t the first time but this time I’m more hurt because of the parties involved. She doesn’t know that I know and She’s still acting all nice and cool around me yet I’m dying. I’m not bad with words but words fails me since yesterday and I’m finding it difficult putting words together the right way.

Maybe some of us may never be lucky as regard love but it’s all nice and cool.

My head hurts badly, the only time I feel ok is when I convince myself it’s not true and it’s only a mirage but I know I will be fine eventually.

Sorry about all this.

Heartbreak is what it is literally.

The pain is unimaginable.

But keep it together and try and go out and have fun.

In all you will pull through.

Just be wary of friends and family alike.

Just last week, some guy was caught putting poison in his supposed best friend's drink.

Male and female; family and friends would attempt to screw us over.

But we will learn our lessons.

What does kill you will make you stronger.

Bye

Wow

Candidlady:
And i hope as you feel "lighter" you float away into wisdom/knowledge that men are wired to cheat and betray!

Yeah.....mind you that cheating runs on a two way street.



A man cannot cheat alone. It takes two to tangle.

Bola146:
pele what is meant for you can't be taken away from you. Move on and be happy

My dear, that thinking doesn't hold water. Keep an open eye on your man, as much as you can shield him from family and friends.


I know a friend who shags his two sisters in-law living with him on code.


Better safe than sorry.......you get the picture.

My dear accept my sincerest regards.


It's time to move on.


However, before you get into another relationship learn to keep your home girls and your home boys apart. They are like oil and water they don't mix.


Women are quite unique you know. When you brag about your guy, your friends would want to taste him. This is sick but what it is. This is the Unalloyed truth.


So stay safe and remain vigilant.

Just imagine if that ass farts.

Well it never happened with me.


I don't snoop around.


I treat every girl like a potential cheat. I just hit it when it's my turn and bounce.


I have this adulation for big ass chicks. Sadly these are specs most guys would give an arm to have.


So I naturally come around screw that gash like it's the last time and probably it is.


I keep my sanity safe.


Give me an attitude, girl, you hit the road.

You sweat me..... it's on to the next one.


Pretty simple.

Yeah.......trash

Brother, why have you invested so much? It seems you have met your wife. You will have to be doing a lot to make things work.


I know a very wealthy man that does the shopping very weekend. He is a guy that can buy 26 tear rubber Toyota Prado SUV without breaking sweat. But he does these house shopping.


Here is the thing......there is no perfect male or female. What you should look out for is can you spend the rest of my life with this person. Can you be ok waking up and can I put up with their excesses or büllshit.


I know a man who loves his peace to the point he does the cooking and cleaning in his house. He loves his wife and accepted that she is lazy. He has no qualms here about these things.


I am in no way championing an emasculation of men here but I want to strike a balance here.


It's all up to you.....a woman that has spent that many years with you...na senior girlfriend be that and she wants to marry you.



So you need to do an introspection here and some arithmetic there. Can you handle her excesses as it relates to been extravagant?


The truth in this matter Is simple. She will not change.


So if you want to start all over.....it's up to you. But discard her first

This girl deserves a cold drink.


Enough of this entitlement mentality.

You toast a lady, collect her number and next thing is that she is making demands alright.


5minutes later and she wants you to recharge her phone. Next she wants to eat indomie.


Her brother needs assistance.

The list is endless.

Prìck go fall out of per second over billing.

So now it's time to make her a wife, she is loose?


Something is not adding up here.

What do you really want?


Since you have shown her you are not interested in her with your real identity, do you now want her to take you serious?


She has given you a price, come to the venue then and see if she gonna give you some.


Just understand that she was never yours

And you had to come here to testify what the Lord have done for you.

This man is in trouble.


Even though she acquiesce to marry him.........


This man is in trouble

The thing is this: you just need to know them better and also know yourself.


Both are individuals with amazing qualities.

The quiet one withdraws to articulate herself without saying something that she might regret.

The other bares her mind and in the process might insult you.

Everything is in the open.


So what kind of a person are you? That's the question you need to answer.


With your answer who works best for you will be a no brainer

I would address you as a little bro, so please pay attention.


Ladies may seem difficult but in reality they are not so.

Before I gat back to ladies stuff, let's talk about you.

You should make lots of friends ladies and gentlemen alike. Work on building your confidence.

Now about the lady thing, with the advent of social media and the rage that comes with it, a different breed of ladies are been born.

But what matters most here is your self....the sum of all the qualities women would find irresistible in you. Women typically from the first glance can tell if they want bed you or not.


This is directly proportional to how you are seen and perception.


Having said this, it's the ladies that decides if a relationship would happen or not. If they are going to love you or respect you.


So here is a rule of thumb, if the lady begins to disrespect you, it is high time, you called it quits.


There is much to learn.


But just know this, there are over 4billion females, don't let one or two, kill your buzz

Go to the pharmacy and ask for a prescription!

Kalubolt:
Yeah, if only it will not repeat itself again

He will surely repeat it.


But will he be caught.


Back then during the era of Nokia phones ......savvy guys put some personalized calls on silent. If you know you know

Kalubolt:
Yeah, but the nigga is a playboy

Ladies love happy ending.


He washed her head and she liked it.

Everybody liked it. After all he chose her.