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Lalami3232:
Guy na u fkup. If a babe dey visit me, I make sure say I give her 100% of my time and attention. Imagine say na you visit her and her friends come tell her say make she come, then she really mumuishly tell u about am, how u go feel? I no say make u be pussyass nigga oooo, but if person visit you, try as much as possible to give them that attention, no matter how boring dem be cus they left something at home just to meet you. People dey always like to visit me not because of sex or because of say I dey give money, but because of the way I dey treat visitors. Make sure say before u request/accept a visit, ur schedule dey very clear. Make I tell you one small story oooo.

As a corper, I visited one babe like that, the babe na indigene of the community. She was so happy to see me and coincidentally her friend come show that day. Three of us just dey catch fun and before I knew it, the babe don leave me and her friend to go fry garri wey her mama ask her to do. After a time, me a d the friend come dey find her, when we go backyard, she was there frying garri . As I dey go house, this babe give me almost everything wey she fry but I no appreciate am cus all I wanted was her presence and not garri. Though she apologized sha but the thing pain me cus if she know say she no go give me time, why invite me over? So bros, na u cause ur own misfortune. Next time, buy padlock for ur pots cus our babes are hungry ooooo

This is the best response. You said it all brother.

Learn to give people undivided attention. She came to spend time with you to the point of sleeping over and you dey here dey fumble.

Let me share a something real quick. I had this girl, real cutie, back then. She made the move, I was shy as fück. She was trying to bond, but I always wanted a third party around because I was uncomfortable around the opposite sex. Long story short, bae left. I had this ugly ass nigger, he destroys ladies with attention to the point that my bae and another beautiful lady quarreled over his attention. I learnt a lot.

Secondly, Op, you told her to be free, she freely took out her frustration on the lonely turkey. No one to keep her company, she on gen. As per the noise and calls, she dey tell you on code say she still get people wey get her time if you no get her time. So don't get it twisted.

The first advice I got in getting into a relationship is to decide what I want. Know what you want and what you can tolerate.


Pls shag that girl while its still hot.

Just carry chain put for her neck after you don force her sign disclaimer, make she dey follow you up-and-down

Bad English or not, the Op is on point. Vagina people have been cashing out on the menfolk Pure and simple. They have learnt to monetize their unique selling proposition......püssy cartel. They fix, control, set the terms and conditions.

Asking your friend wouldn't help. What's your friend's value to you? Such a friend should be tagged as a frenemy. He is the kind that can poison you or do you harm. Avoid him at all cost

In summary, your sister brought you to South Africa, you paid her back by becoming pregnant for her husband.




If you should decide to keep that child, shame on you and your family

You can turn a decent girl into your hoe but sadly you can't turn a hoe to a decent girl.

You knew she had a sexual relationship with your brother, so why should you have any thing to do with her. That's a red flag flashing.

There is nothing to gain here. Walk away

He keeps getting better.

Back then while I was in Awka, I had this habit of keeping late nights. There was this day, I was at a bar and I overhead this lady crying on call. I rushed to know what's the matter. She was coming from Abuja but it seems the transport vehicle developed a problem.

The guy she was supposed to meet booked a room for her. But since she didn't make it to Awka at about 12, for reasons best known to him, he refused taking her calls and sent her a message to find her way to a hotel he booked for her to lodge. That he would join her tomorrow. She explained all this and that this was her first time to meet the guy.

I agreed to help her locate the hotel and drove her around. Bought food and drinks on the way. At some point I felt taking her to the hotel would be a disservice to myself. I persuaded her to go home with me. Long story short, she became my girlfriend for many years.

She met the guy for curiosity sake but remained with me.

Now she is married, I moved on.

Kebbiprince:
What of when u go to eateries, don't u pay before eating. Or when u go to shoprite, don't u pay before taking your goods home to eat? Your argument is flawed

You see what you are buying that's the point, if it suits you, you pay.


Learn to comprehend written English

Mr Ibu had to retire.......local man do not want to build a primary school in his house but he has a starting eleven for a football team

linearity:
I don’t understand why you feel terrible?

He proposed marriage to you on the condition that, he must test-run the equipment before buying and taking it home, you refused and held your grounds and insisted that he must first pay full price and wait until the equipment is delivered to his house; himself refused and held his ground...the scores were left at 1 to 1.

He then went back to the equipment he had previously test-ran, which he is familiar with and know it’s inner workings.

Patiently wait, you will most likely find someone that will agree to your proposal and conditions.

This is so far the best analysis.

Just Imagine, I went to a bar, I ordered goat meal pepper soup. I was asked to pay for something I haven't even seen. How do I tell if I am going to like it or not. Since I was in company of friends, I paid and it was terrible. I felt scammed. I had no control. As least when you go to a eatery, you make a choice based on what other men are going for. No need for mystery.

Bottomline, women get paid, men get laid. Man should know what he is getting. Man got specs and wants.

Men like to tinker and study things. So asking a man to wait till marriage to test run is ridiculous.

Men have come to understand that been coy and decent doesn't change the fact that certain ladies are sluts masquerading as virgins.

There are many red flags flashing. To avoid premium tears serves in wholesale, swerve

I totally agree with you

bigpicture001:
...a lady I approached and want to get the ground rolling does some very very weird stuffs...

She works . Now the thing is if you take her out this week, she finds a way within the same week to take you out also, forming or claiming she is happy at work and want you guys to celebrate it. Again you will go visit her and maybe buy three pieces of apple worth around 600. She will receive them with thanks and while seeing you off, she will stop around to buy like say bread for herself, so will say it's for her break fast tomorrow.. And while your waiting for her, she will come back from the shop with two loafs of break worth around that cost of apple you bought...

If you see a nice female outfit and buy for her cuz you think it might fit her, after uprising her with the gift and she appreciates, within a week, she will buy you a t-shirt you didn't ask her for.... Now if you pause and not buy her anything for 3months,she will never instintuivly buy you anything...

Please what is the meaning if this, if you send her recharge card of say 2k she will appreciate you very well, but she will be the first to subscribe your gotv in ur house even before you make a move for it.. Claiming she needs to watch a program urgently...

Does this kind of lady need commitment..?

In summary, pass her to me if you ain't down with her.........dm me her numbers.



Truth is she is pure uncut diamond

meobizy:
They fart a lot and smell bad. They always eat no matter what time of the day. They are very lazy and their excess weight destroys the transmission of motor vehicles.

Sadly true....

In summary, a woman is logical until she opens her kitty after that she gets emotional. The man loses his emotional tendencies the moment he bursts his nut inside the kitty. He becomes logical.

So lady who at first wasn't emotional becomes emotional and the man who wasn't logical becomes logical.

Local man no do again

The fiance must be high on oshogbo weed

King132:
Thanks a lot
About the "girlfriend" stuff not that am desperate or something... I don't even have a female friend except my siblings..
Am saying it you know... As a man

Go get a job on sales. You would lose it

Mark my words...

















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