₦airaland Forum

Yankiss:
Well, that's how he felt. He didnt remember the government as well whose poor education policies led ASUU to go on strike. But in all seriousness, is striking the only solution to the perennial underfunding of the institutions of higher learning? Methinks NO. The lecturers should learn to carry along and co-opt the students in their struggle. The students are the primary constituencies. A situation whereby students go on protests and shut down the road to government houses until ASUU demands are met would be more effective. Let the students negotiate. In the community level, we have learnt to use youths to achieve thorny demands.

Don't forget this is naija

They will be killed. Remember endsars

That is y when people blame ipob for sit at home, I ask them , do u want them to protest and be killed

I am not defending or supporting ipob, only saying that street protests work in same countries, not in naija

We need a form of civil disobedience that is credible, and cannot be hijacked by hoodlums, and used as excuse by government to kill people

Pretend ur money is finished again, and see what ur wife will do

ozuone:
Apart from death of spouse.. most single mothers will quote the father of her child as Irresponsible just to be spiteful because she herself must be very Irresponsible.

The way she took the baby from the previous baby daddy is the same way she will take your own baby and run and will call you Irresponsible..

Infact single mothers prefer a widower or maybe someone with reproduction wahala because they don't want any competition.

He child will come first in your property before your biological children.

Not all single.mothers are bad . But apart from issues like domestic violence or death of spouse.

Its a no go area

Even in cases of death, shine your eyes bro. What if she killed the man

I have intimate knowledge of a single divorced mother. She presented her ex husband as irresponsible and someone who doesn't know how to manage money

Yet, as I began dating this woman, it turns out that when she was dating the ex before they married, he was the one that funded a big career progression for her which costed so much. And the man never borrowed the money. He got it from his savings. I asked her one question she couldn't answer. The question is this. How comes this man who is irresponsible and cannot manage himself was responsible before he married u and had so much money. Till today, she couldn't answer the question

Now the man has been rendered useless. He is on a cocktail of medication. Blood pressure and co. My hunch is that the woman used him, and when he became useless, she dumped him. The woman tried doing same to me. But because I have my head screwed on my neck, I blocked all her moves and manipulations. We broke up surely

That woman can kill a man. Not with a knife, but by her behaviour. She admitted to me of hitting her husband on the head with a pot. And when the poor man called police, she denied it and said the man assaulted her.

Men, be wise

Story for the gods

Until he comes knocking

AutoChick4U:
Now this is where communication is very important. A single mom who still sees, talks to d baby daddy is a suspect. Besides the lady in this your story is a very dumb fvck.

Many single moms are not in contact with their baby fathers and managing alone just like me. Theres minus zero possibility of such happening in my case anyways

You dodged an atomic bomb. Thank your God or whatever you believe in

lawkenoz:
Bro you are very on point....take it from someone talking from experience....it's emotionally draining and damn complicated to date them. The majority who have tried have the same story that's evidence enough by itself.

You scenario was exactly my experience, she hid the kids existence from me cuz we were in separate countries. I only got to find out months later after we got serious. When asked of the kids father you can guess the response she gave....same line you
Typed in the original post.....this women never disappoint like clockwork!

I said okay not bad, lemme try getting to know the kid and make it work. I live in the same country with her parents so her mom brought the kid over and I went visiting to get to know the parents and my prospective step child. Everything went well, I loved the kid even discussed a formal adoption for the child after the nuptials since the father in her words abandoned it.

Few months to the engagement and set date for return to naija to conclude the traditional rites, Babe went AWOL. Stopped picking my calls, her parents as well. There was no way I could reach her, plus I couldn't just travel to her location due to I
Being in a different continent and my job demand.

To Cut the long story short, I had a friend who stays I. The same country to help me check up on them, turns out baby daddy showed up, somehow they made up and had a short lived rekindled love affair. I was seriously vexed but what could a brother do. Madam just ghosted me. I had to let it go ultimately.

Now here comes the interesting part, the baby daddy knocked her up with twins and vanishes again. 3 months to her EDD and 4 to my wedding she calls me up out of the blue and starts pontificating. Sounds like a movie but I was living it in real time.

Single moms? Hell no to any young single man. If you don't love drama stay far away.

missyojo:
Honestly you are very correct, they don't understand what the Op is going through at all. Infact that's what I'm facing right now.
Where I live is just 2 rooms on the compound, myself and the next door neighbor. Initially when I moved in there Last year I started hearing moaning from the girl, she lives with her bf. Each time the guy comes back from work they will start oo till day break.
It affected me that once they start I won't be able to sleep again, my BP started going up and I resorted to taking BP medication. Imagine a young lady like me already taking BP drugs.
I complained to my colleagues at work and they told me to call the lady aside as per woman to woman and tell her about it prolly she doesn't know her moaning is loud.

This January when I came back from Yuletide, I called the lady aside and pleaded with her that this is my condition ( taking BP drugs) that she should please try and reduce her moaning while in the act. She promised to reduce, she did that for 2 days oo. The 3rd day I started hearing moaning from her again.

I couldn't take it again, I reported them to their tribal man that lives opposite our house. The man an elderly man promised to talk to them. He did but still the moaning didn't subside. I have no choice than to report them to the landlord. Landlord talked to them on 2 different occasions but still same thing. Infact when landlord spoke to them, they stopped greeting me and the landlord too and I don't care.

One day, the girl was outside with some of our neighbors including the baba I reported them to earlier. I told my neighbors that they should please help me beg the girl and his bf to allow me sleep at night. I'm not saying they shouldn't get intimate oo but please reduce your voice. The neighbors told me that they are in their room and have right to do anything they wish. I said okay, no wahala what I'm pleading for is that they should reduce their volume.

I was using ear pierce whenever they start so I won't hear but it was beginning to affect me so I stopped. The girl has gone back to school for her HND, what the guy does now is to bring in different girls that he sleeps with and the different girls still moans loud like the GF.
What I do now before going to bed is to play music and put it on the highest volume so I won't be hearing their rubbish.

Will get a Bluetooth speaker and put it close to the wall so I won't be hearing them rather than using my phone to play music every night. Till now me and them aren't in taking terms and I like it that way. The money I'm supposed to use do something else is what I'm spending on my health.

I can totally relate with what the Op is complaining of because I'm currently in his shoes

This is really sad. I am sorry for what you are going tru

Ur solutions will work if u can sleep with music. I can only sleep with very low volume slow music. So it won't work for me. I would do something drastic. What's going through my mind is finding when they do sleep, and blaring music through a horn speaker

I must find what disturbs them and do that

Barrister026:
I can start talking in a room filled with people, before minutes people will start trying to hold their nose. I Know it's from me, A friend always buy tomtom and give me one whenever I'm with him...it took me a long time before I got the message. Same with my body odor, I try as much to bath twice a day but whenever I sweat.i can perceive my own aroma which is not friendly.
I don't know if it's a spiritual thing, because I can't have a girlfriend for years now because of this so I opt for prostitutes, call girls And so front.
I have tried using baking soda and several toothpaste.. still same result.
This has really got a hold on my self esteem, I need help.

When u brush your teeth, make sure u brush ur tongue. Ur tongue should be completely red. No whitish stuff. That is the reason I brush in front of a mirror. After brushing ur tongue, rinse out, and look at it. If there are still white stuff, it is still dirty

You should put the brush as deep in as you can until u feel like throwing up. Find the exact spot when u can put ur brush on ur tongue and not throw up, and any millimeter deeper means throwing up. From that point to the tip of ur tongue would be red after brushing, both in the morning and evening

Needless to say, make sure u brush all sides of ur teeth, front, back, middle

Make sure u don't repeat shirts and singlets and boxers. For me in this country Nigeria, it is one singlet, one boxer, one shirt for each day. Tomorrow, I am using fresh ones. I don't repeat. I repeat trousers only sometimes. If u can, don't even repeat trousers.

Make sure no body hair is on u. Armpits, groin, anus. Remove them all.

Keep low cut or skin cut on ur head so that u wash it head and scalp everyday. No carry afro which u can't wash everyday

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udofia234:
Really? does that give him the right to disturb me when ever he's having sex! I can't cope with this shit!

Then you should present your case as noise from your neighbor disturbing you. He has no right to disturb you with any noise. I agree with you on that.

My post was because u mixed up the problem of noise pollution with sexual morality. Those are 2 different things.

But from ur post, ur prayers also disturb him. You should never pray so loud that the noise of ur prayer is heard outside of ur room. If u do, then u are as guilty as he is

The problem here is you sir,not your neighbor

You think sex is a sin. That is the problem

Change ur mindset. Sex is a natural thing created by God and given to us to enjoy.

So far as you are an adult, mature, and can take responsibility for the outcome of sex, go ahead and enjoy it

Your pastor is as stupid as nairaland resident pastor, mr righteousness. How can he tell u to fast about having sexual thoughts. It is as stupid as telling u to fast because u feel like urinating when u wake up in the morning. Or u feel like shitting everyday. Sexual thoughts are natural. As natural as being thirsty, as wanting to urinate, as shitting

Don't get me wrong. I am not saying sex should be free for all. As I already said above, sex has consequences. So far as you are ready to take care of the consequences, have sex, have sex. Plenty of it. Everyday. It is not a sin

Righteousness2:
When we say Gambling is a Spirit and I see people argue, I just nod my head in pity.

Gambling is not just a Spirit, it is a wicked spirit that has rendered people Homeless, worthless , useless, Debt ridden and dead.

You need a Genuie Encounter with JESUS. That is the starting point. You also need a total overhaul of your spirit, soul and Body in Christ. Until the Spirit is cast out , you may keep returning back.
I recommend that you visit the Lords Chosen and Begin to fellowship . Listen to the word of GOD, practice what you are taught and Just say amen to prayers. That wicked spirit will find its way out of you.

There is no spirit. It is just habit. Stop spiritualising everything. Rubbish

ednut1:
go to ilupeju there are thousands of indians, go to ph and lagos there are many whites there. Nigerians are not even among the top 10 emigrants in the world. People like you want them to stay in Nigeria and suffer with you ba lol

Post that statistics again by propertion of population

U cannot equate 17 million out of India to whatever it is from Nigeria unless u do this side by side total population

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What is ur profession

What will u study in UK

If ur MSc is on UK shortage occupation list, go to UK. If it is not, think wisely

Bornbiafra:
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Reading and following

Apart from nairaland preaching, what else do you do in life

Righteousness2:
There is more to all these than we see.

There are Delebrate actions and Decisions in all these specifically done for specific Purposes. The Hands of the Man of Lawlessness is very Visible in all these events.

RAPTURE is Imminent! War is Imminent !
Put an Eye on Isreal.
Put an Eye on the Middle East!
Put an Eye on Gog and Magog Collation of Nations Coming against Israel.

These are the Last of last Moments! Don't live life anyhow. Live teady! Live Prepared! JESUS is Coming!

Xscape047:
Dou know..?

Cristiano Ronaldo, Ballon d’Or winner, became the first player who scored a goal in every single minute of the game.

And you, what shall we know about you?

anigbajumo:
The longer we keep fooling ourselves the more economy will become worse, it's so obvious this unitry system of Government is not working. why is it difficult to return to Fiscal federalism where by each region will control their resources. Why are we fooling ourselves for goodness sake?? It's obvious PMS is the major determinant of our economy, any little increase will cause inflation yet we still keep on rolling around the same circle. If a litre of PMS hit #300 per liter (coz FG can't pay billions of Naira as subsidy every month in long run) just be expecting inflation to reach around 30% increase b4 the end of the second quarter of this year coz it's currently around 22% and we see how things cost in the market, that's when the real suffering will set in.

Sincerely speaking, am highly disappointed in Buhari. Most of the companies around Agbaara industrial hub most expecially in Igbesa in ogun state are not working coz there is no Gas supply like b4, if things continue like this honestly speaking no production company will remain in this country b4 the end of this year.

What baffles me is that we Nigerians are synonymous to suffering, Nigeria Youths av not woken up from their dream to float a new party that will pack both APC and PDP to one side coz non of these devish party will restructure this country rather than to loot for themselves and their grandchildren but posterity will judge u all.

Who did u vote in 2015 and 2019. Who did ur friends vote. The answer to this question should answer ur post

BigBashiru:
Is Buhari responsible for this one too?
What Nigeria lacks is discipline and a maintenance culture (caused by laziness and non-chalance).

Yes he is responsible

ivandragon:
A cup of Irvingia (ogbono) seeds is now #500...

Where

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Arewa1stSon:
Make Una enjoy!!

The ESN/ipob you are defending and supporting today for killing armles innocent northners and security personnels hustling to put food on the dinner tables of their families, would come to hunt you tomorrow.

Ipob are killing innocent northerners who are equally suffering from bad leadership just like you, killing security personnels who have families to take care of... The igbos both online and offline hypocritically justified their killings.

Those northerners that were killed by ESN have wives and children they're hustling to take care of. Some have children in school... You killed and celebrate their death. Insisting that their death will give you freedom.

the blood of the innocent is already crying for Vengeance

This is just the beginning... ESN is still warming up!

Borno na child's play compare to the pending calamities that will befall the East.

Continue funding and defending terror!!

Our own na to dey observe from distance!

I hope u condemn all killings in Nigeria as strongly as u condemn killings by unknown gun men.

Amotolongbo:
You can only see what exists.

The same security, Ebubeagu, whose establishment was announced last week with no modus operandi and recruitment yet.

Dave Umuahi has shown himself being baptized in APC, lie is the identity of that party

Oyel dey ur head

Dammysmart:
Dear OP, avoid stories that touch, most likely 89% he's inviting you for a sex romp, now do this if you must go, delay your going to when you're on your period. Try it and thank me later here

Some men are OK with sex on periods.

talk2hb1:
I think say na only me read am ooo,
@adorablefwb Make you kuku ma create your own man, 6ft KO 16ft ni
Nobody dare judge you unless you allow them

But 6 feet tall is nothing. I am over 6 foot and I am not a giant. I am just ur average tal guy. I know many men who are taller than me.

Nevertheless, I ain't in need of fwb with op.

Wilstino:
The news was not that he was a 'wanted terrorist' but places on 'watchlist'.

He may or may not be as retracted... but my point is that they two different things and this link doesn't answer the questions on people's mind.

Thank you. Oyel dey your head. The Op thinks we are fools and don't know the difference between a shovel and a spade

UyaiIncomparabl:
This is so irritating. Just look at the word " simp" flying here and there. Let people be simps in peace. Don't force them out of their biological make up. Killjoy.

Let them simp in peace u said. Abi. So u will benefit

Ur son will also simp, and mo ey meant for ur upkeep as an old woman will go to a leeching woman, while u stay without.

Don't tell me u will have ur own money

My parents have enough and are still earning from their investments. But they need me and my siblings to withdraw that money, take them to hospital, and make sure they get the best treatment. Ur son will be simping and running after pussy, instead of being there for u in old age. So, say Amen to this prayer, MY SON SHALL SIMP FOREVER IN PEACE.

I am waiting for ur Amen