₦airaland Forum

KAM3KAZI:
How the fork do we keep getting it wrong

See question ooo.

Until Nigerians stop voting along tribal and religious lines at all levels of elections, until we have a system of elections that votes really count and we can punish politicians and hold them accountable, it will progressively get worse

Ever since the formation of this country, it has never gotten better. It gets worse with each government

Shapeaso:
Na now you come. You for specify say na blokos and kpekus hair.

Even that is difficult to clean. One day he or she will jam one wey don brown with diet and sweat that dried. Gross and tueeehhhh

Shaving all the way. With clipper though so it feels like one day old growth. Shaving with shaving sticks can cause bumps from ingrown hair. I use clipper

OGHENAOGIE:
stop dragging every issue to petty politics it makes u immature ok... U are the bigot for saying voting this particular govt shows bigotry...

Show me where I said voting this govt is bigotry

I said voting along tribal and religious lines is bigotry. If anyone voted this government out if conscience, that's fine. All I want is people to vote according to their conscience, and for votes to count. Get that into you head

OGHENAOGIE:
Ina own no pass to turn everything to politics it was clear it was either PDP Atiku or tinubu APC that will win and be president... Is PDP saint or would Atiku have done magic.. don't even mention Obi LP cos Even in 2031 LP stands no chance of winning president elections in Nigeria...

You don't know who I am, and who I voted for. I only asked the OP if he voted according to his conscience. Y are you pained. Did I ask him to vote any person in particular? Did I refer to any particular election as in state or federal?

Your tribal bigotry is out of this world.

I was encouraging the OP that to get Nigeria right, we all need to vote according to conscience at all levels of politics in Nigeria, not according to tribal or religious lines

georgeakins:
Ibos that voted for Obingo didn't vote on tribal line?
Dey fool yourself. You go tire!

Jagaban will spend 8 years in office.

You don't know who I am, and who I voted for. I only asked the OP if he voted according to his conscience. Y are you pained. Did I ask him to vote any person in particular? Did I refer to any particular election as in state or federal?

Your tribal bigotry is out of this world.

I was encouraging the OP that to get Nigeria right, we all need to vote according to conscience at all levels of politics in Nigeria, not according to tribal or religious lines

Kidspirit:
Omoh, as country hard, na so I carry my car enter road for UBER in Abuja after completing UBER car inspection.

Customers (riders) nyafu nyafu for road, Na so so pick up alert I dey receive, surge choke! I was enjoying my new job until I decided to close for the day and go home and rest after spending some hours driving.

Mhenn... I got the biggest shock of my life! I made 22k within couple of hours...

Excited? Please don't be excited, it was a bad shock!

UBER took 35% of the total money I made and the rest of the money went to fuel (Bought fuel for N617 per litre). I got home on empty tank.

My profit was.... guess?

Five Hundred and Fifty Naira only (N550)

UBER drivers, please share your experience.

I hope you were not one of those who voted along tribal lines during last election. If you were, it has favoured you and your family already

But if you voted with your conscience, them let's keep doing so and insisting on electoral reforms. That is the only way to get Nigeria working for the masses

captainbangz:
dark complexioned anytime!!!

The darker the better for me

Artiiclebeast:
As you read further, you'll rind out my discussion is based solely on the U.S.

Una wey dey the U.K sef need to jakpa to the U.S. like for real, no jokes.

You don't know where I am. I used UK as an example.

As I said already, I don't discourage people from going out, but they need to know the facts. You can't calculate income only, without calculating tax, rent, transport, phone bills, bin charges, electricity and gas, etc etc.

In some situations, even after doing 2 jobs, some are not able to save 200 dollars or euros a month. This of course depends on where you live and you lifestyle. But alll these facts need to be known by the intended Japa person, before travelling. Telling someone what their income will be is not enough. Tell them everything. Then allow them to decide. That is my main point.

Artiiclebeast:
Lies, big deep lies.

What happens to starting off with renting a single room circa $500-700?

There are so many ways to cut down on unnecessary spending so as to stay within range and save up good.

Sir or madam, the cost of your rent depends on your location. In London, the amount you quoted can't get you a room.

You can go live in remote areas. But as an unskilled person, your job opportunities are less or unavailable in remote areas. To live in a remote place, you need a car and be able to drive because public transport is not dependable in remote areas.

I leave you in peace. To each their own

I am not against Japa, but people need all the facts before going.

OP, get your facts before you go. Plan well

standfit007:
He is definitely aware of this and even more. Yes his rent would consume that money by 50%, say, but he would get true value such as (available) electricity,gas, clean air, clean agri produce(to a great extent), water, relative security while in his home(not riotous and disoriented fools easily marauding neighborhood or streets and no law enforcement would easily bring them to order), greatly comported drivers with regards for human life, govt can be questioned and you won’t be easily killed for asking questions on how resources/taxes are spent, and importantly a house built with standard materials and maintenance is assured compared to some shitty houses down here in Nigeria. All he needs is education on how to save/manage his expenses on gas, electricity, food and et all.

Note that I am not against your point, but I think we should be objective is sharing our thoughts with aim of laying all things bare for him to be guided

I am fully in support of him going out. Like you said towards the end of your post I quoted here, he needs all the facts. When planned well and fully aware, it is good to leave Nigeria. I have supported many to leave. I just give them all the info.

I hate when people calculate their income, and forget to calculate their expenses. It leaves them shocked when they arrive

Artiiclebeast:
You are calling a closet enemy a friend?

I pity you, bro.

He gets a hard-on from reading about and knowing that he's doing better than you economically and material-wise and all the respect and worship you've been according to him will become a thing of the past.

Most of them hate competition and always revel in the reality of being the ones at the center of all attention.

Even if you are 50 and able to move to the U.S., get serious, work legitimately for the next 5-7 years, and call it a wrap, you will have successfully settled your downlines and created a wonderful retirement plan for yourself with proper planning.

Move, if you can, and with the right plans and connect.

It is good to skill up, but if you ain't got it, you ain't got it and it isn't the beginning and end of life.

There are a ton of zero-skilled jobs where you can make the equivalent of what you currently earn in a month in Nigeria in just a single day..yeah, you heard me right, in a dayyyyy.

You forgot to tell him how long it will take him to spend it. Cost of living is way higher. That money he earns in a day there will be spent easily. His monthly rent will become 50 percent of his monthly pay. Don't forget to tell him that

densiks:
Why wasn't she rushed to another hospital if they experienced rejection on arrival.

I was once a victim of an attack on the road some years ago and my father rushed me to a private hospital(I consider that she was assisted by some strangers)

I can recall the doctor was making some demands before he could commence treatment while I was losing blood.

I was quickly rushed to another facility and from there an emergency doctor was summoned and the hospital services were activated to attend to me.

I survived that experience because we did not allow the system to decide my fate.

I believe if she was immediately rushed to a private facility, she possibly could have survived.

May her soul rest in Peace, several people failed her.

We need to change the law that prevents hospitals from treating gun shot victims until a police report is received. That private hospital that treated you could have been in trouble with the law if reported. That is the solution here. You could have died while being transported to another hospital. Every second is important

Wallteck:
I have a very big phobia talking to crowd!! Today while I was presenting a project in front of the audience , I first started with a good introduction everybody dey feel my flows, suddenly I just stopped , all the thing in my head I forget it. Na only my heart Kon dey work, my soul left my body.

I was trembling in fear, my heart was beating more than normal, I end up fucking up the interview . they assisted me on the presentation, the thing really pain me, have always be running from talking to crowd, it finally catch up to me at old age!!!

Used me as a lesson, the problem you failed to address now will catch up with you later, No matter how run away from it.

My mood just spoil today.... it really pain me a lot!!! The funniest thing is that if I'm alone I will present it very well with British accent feeling like I'm on the top of the world😭😭😭😭

You have what is called social anxiety disorder. Some call it social phobia. It is treatable with psychology therapy by a qualified cognitive behavioural therapist. Are you in Nigeria? If yes, I am not sure we have qualified therapists here. If you are outside the country, reply my quote here and I can direct you to where to get professional help. Within 12 sessions of therapy, you will be healed. Remember I said treatment by a qualified cognitive behavioural therapist,

inoki247:
Lol the house wan look like studio apartment flat...

You know nothing. You are looking at his garage or kitchen. That house is a 4 bed house on 3 floors

deewhydoski:
Read my writeup again, this time read it slowly so that u can comprehend what I wrote

Read mine again

deewhydoski:
If they have been your old tenant and they never for once owe you before I think maybe you should help them out. The country is hard now, everybody is facing the storm. I am not saying you should reduce the rent o but if they do not have the full rent for a year you can collect 6 months with the agreement that they will balance up before the end of the 6 months

Is country not hard for landlord? Where do you expect landlord to eat from

So as my mechanic work for my car finish, I will tell him country hard and he should wait for 6 months to receive his due?

OP, visit your bank. Tell them to refund to the account from which the card paid you. NEVER PAY INTO ANOTHER ACCOUNT AND NEVER GIVE THEM CASH

I REPEAT, REFUND TO THE CARD, OR TO THE ACCOUNT FROM WHICH THE MONEY CAME. IF YOU DONT KNOW HOW TO DO THIS, YOUR BANK SHOULD HELP YOU

IN ADDITION TO THE ABOVE, GO TO YOUR BANK AND MAKE AN OFFICIAL REPORT. THIS WILL BE ON RECORD EVEN IF THEY ARE NOT ABLE TO Help YOU. YOUR REPORT SHOULD BE ADDRESSED TO YOUR BANK MANAGER. MAKE A COPY AND KEEP FOR YOUR RECORDS.

You can also decide to make a report to the police station. But that is not as a stand alone action, that is in addition to everything I have said above

Tareq1105:
Then it shows that all of you are mad.

If not trusting Tinubu and Atikus lawyers is what makes me mad, then I am happily mad and proud of it

Continue with your trust of Atiku and Tinubu and their lawyers. Good luck to you

Taylor92:
Good one my appetite don open now even if I’m sick


Please someone should tell Atiku to give his lawyers time let them cool down and arrange read between every line to make sure they find out every single details on that report


Finally fowl nyash don open


APC supporters tonight will be one of your worst nightmare days because what is coming tomorrow will be greater than atomic bomb


Atiku ride on I dey your back


Na tomorrow we go know who’s actually the real Tinubu and who’s Amoda


Make i go drink beer joy wan wound me

It can happen that Atikus lawyers will take money from Tinubu, and release something doctored to Atiku. CSu can't be hooked because they gave them original.

But we can go through another court to force CSU to confirm what they have to Atiku is what his lawyers published

You don't toast girls. Just flow with them. Make friends with girls in your street and girls you meet anywhere, in church, mosque etc. Don't ask them to be your girlfriend. Just be friends with them. Help them out (not financially) when you can. Just show interest and spend time with them. With time, one of them will become friends with benefits with you.

ChildOfDoom:
hmm. No sir. Like work id or colleague acting as surety?

Hahaha. That type of guarantees will work only for kids.

Go sort your life out. If you don't, you will likely be dead soon. Someday someone you owe will force you to pay the ultimate sacrifice

You talk of guarantees, tell me which guarantee you have. Any land?

Op, you did the right thing. That woman is controlling and manipulative. If you go back to her, she will be the one in charge of your relationship, she will be having sex and make friends outside, but will make life difficult for you if you as much as call a woman on the phone. She is an irredeemable cheat. Leave her

The problem is that you are lonely and maybe sexless. You said it that where you are it is difficult to get another woman. It is your urge for sex that is influencing your desire or wish to go back to her. You need a new sex mate as soon as possible. That will help you heal and reason with your brain.

Move on. Find another sex mate, even if a white or from another race. That will help you forget your ex

You are wise bro. I tell me, if your wife died or leaves, don't marry another. Get friends with benefits and have sex outside. Or a side chick. But don't wife another person until your kids grow up. Get a nanny who is over 60 to look after your kids if you can't do it alone. Or get a househelp and make sure not to have sex with her. If you live in a city, get a cook and cleaner who comes in the morning and leaves in the evening

Tallesty1:
The reason she is a single mother is irrelevant as far as I am concerned. Single mothers are great, don't get me wrong. Some of them are victims of men's heartlessness, others made careless mistakes, while some are just victims of one thing or another, but neither of these is any of my business. I can't date a single mom, talk more of marrying one.

I don't have the energy to prove that I am a better man. I don't have the emotional strength to withstand their manipulation. I don't have the finances to raise another man's child.

Some of these women with no valid source of income will fight for custody of the child just so they can use it to source funds. "I am a single mother please help me"

If her ex-partner is an issue, that is a problem for me because I will need to prove that I am better before she can be committed. If she was the problem in the relationship, then she is still a problem. Forget how nicely she treats you; being nice to you and being a nice person are not the same.

She will love the child from the previous relationship more than the ones she will have with you.

I just can't deal.

If I end up a single dad, then I want women to avoid me. I personally will avoid them until I have raised my kids into adulthood because a second wife will mistreat them once she starts having her own kids. She will turn the girl into her slave, and the boy will suffer and get killed if she has her way.

dhiqson:
Your ego go be your down fall fa
Person dey give u strong OT
The best you could have done was acknowledge and look away


But you dey talk
2023 and you no sabi say girls dey wey go genuinely like you bleepp u and still support u


Lmao

Don't mind that guy. Ever from a young age, before 20 years old, I learnt never to use money to look for a woman. We become friends. We Bleep as friends. Simple. And once I smell you have nothing to contribute apart from your toto, I run. It's as simple as that. Let him continue. When his mates be one rich and he only has toto to brag with, maybe then he will learn

booblacain:
All you need say is that there is a disparity but this is the reason why. Instead of concluding that there is no disparity at all even when you confirmed in your findings that there is indeed a disparity.

Don't mind d biy

MilitantAtheist:
abeg shut you dirty mouth. Which funding? All our varsities are in good shape for learning, these guys are just thieves who are envious of politicians and want to loot their share. 1.1trillion naira kill them! Our varsities not being among too 100 and so what? Is that the reason why they're now unfit for students to learn? So schools like uniben, OAU, U.I etc don't have facilities good for learning or they now have problems that will make learning to stop even when lecturers are being paid their salaries? Only literate goats in human form are supporting or justifying the greedy criminal actions of those ASUU pigs. I hope Buhari stand by his word and not give them shi shi, thank God other well meaning and prominent Nigerians are calling for ASUU to be scrapped and replaced with other govt body that will oversee affairs of institutions

Thank you for the insult. You have shown ur true colours and level of reasoning

I leave you to ur fate. Bye

Alary:
Government is greedy, ASUU is greedier, greediest.�

ASUU is not greedy.

ASUU is asking government to fund our universities better, how is that a crime. How is that being greedy.

No Nigerian university is among top 500 in the world. Why is that.

It is not only by salary increase that you fund universities. Think facilities. Etc etc