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So guys as a man utd fan's I was really sad about green wood case so i did the a lil bit of research to know what really happened.
Even tho greenwood assaulted this lady which is a crime he didn't rape her.
The record she posted after hearing carefully she actually set him up.....she was gathering up evidence to nail him because she knew is very likely they weren't going to end up together.

She dated him for a long time before the fame and when the relationship crumble and he is seeing another lady...... she felt betrayed (entitled mentality) and she released all the evidence to destroy him.
Greenwood was a young boy with big fame.....he was very naive not to understand that women are the same be it young or old.

A woman will borrow you 10k to add to a business of 1m and when you hit big she goes about telling everyone how she made you successful in life......the lady felt she made Greenwood successful so he had no right to leave her.

Guys this a pure case of revenge......this things happened years ago
Why didn't she go report him when it happened??

We men need to be very careful....in as much domestic violence is a no no .....we must know some women will actually provoke you to hit them so they can record it and use it against you in the future.(FFk wife did same)

Greenwood mess up big time for not using his head and he will pay for it.

Guys stay away from ladies with entitlement mentality, always be on guard, never trust any woman completely.

Compare the number of men, women have destroyed and compare the number of women,men have destroyed......do the maths so you can understand that gender is all about Revenge.

ravensckar:
I met this pretty lady on my way back from work. We talked a lot and exchanged phone numbers. For about 3 weeks, we were calling & chatting like lovebirds. Funny enough, she was the one that suggested the visit. Son of man don arrange the whole house, buy some stuff inside fridge. Then, she fed me the line of the ATM swallowing her card. In her words, she needed to buy a few stuff to cook for us since she'd be spending the weekend.

I offered to reimburse her for the trouble by transferring 10K to her. She sent me an account number (which was for a supposed POS operator) and I made the transfer. 1 hour gone, 2 hours, 3 hours, babe no show. I called severally, she didn't pick. When she eventually did, she said she had to return to her house to shower. But bathroom dey my house nau! I wondered. The way someone was giggling at the background made me realize sey dem don play me local. I just took my L in peace and moved on.

Nawa oooo.......the most annoying part is for her mind naw she is smart

If know how ladies celebrate when they chop guy money without him sexing them you never pity most of them when guys do them strong thing.

Kaykay999:
Called this bitch ok she said she will come
I went ahead to book a room and later this bitch whine me omo i vex ehh.

But i later catch her one day
The fuc*k was so hard that i ripped off her necklace.

Lol........bro dey take am easy oooo.

NoahHadNoArk:
I sent her tfare, 3k to come from pH to UYO, she gave me all assurances that she's bigger and better than a meagre 3k, that as soon as she sees money she will head to park to spend the weekend with me. My mumu sense made me send the money plus 16# and 10# wey zenith bank charge for transaction fee, as I send am finish, I message am, "u don see am?" She first talk say she no see am, before she come gree say she don see am. Oya now, begin dey come. She first tell me say she dey on her way to park, before she tell me say she no go come again say she don dey hear plenty stori of girls wey dey loss, wey dey disappear, say I fit be yahoo boy or Ritualist me!!? ritualist na dia e clear me. she say she no dey come again make I drop my aza make she return my money. I been knw say e no go ever happen but I still drop aza sha as per say my last bar na 5k wey I comot 3k send am, sapa don dey already give me 5 miss calls. I come dey preach give am say I be crypto genius and guru, say dt 3k no b anything, say I been no say she no go come, say I been just wan test am. I was already staring and a very long weekend, alone and broke , say if she wan scam me next time make she do am 30k, 100k even 300k, say I get am, e no be anything for me say i for send am. Dz na on top the last 2k wey dey my zenith bank acct. Read the screenshot below for her final lines before she blocked me.


Well done Uju
You were smart, smooth and clean
Made me realise the heights of my Mumucity
Thanks so much for teaching me some sense.
I will never forget that lesson I learnt the hard way
Congrats to you, do well to use that 3k to buy a property in Banana Island. Its going to be a very wise investment in the nearest future.




My peace I leave you

80% of guys at some point have fall victim of this..........if as a mature guy you haven't experience this definitely you not a womaniser.

Good evening guys let crack ourselves up after the day hustle.

I know for sure most guys would have experience this and trust me isn't funny at all that moment.....I will go first

So there a young lady I met sometime back.....we got close at some point which lead to a relationship.....I was out of town for a job so we didn't see for like a month although we communicated everyday.
The day I was coming back to town we agreed to see that Friday.....right from when I board the bus till I got to my place we were communicating....she was meant to come over after work....brethren around 6pm I called her to no her movement she didn't pick, so I decided to drop that precious line " are you still coming " sent it on WhatsApp no reply.
Around past 8pm she called me and told me she can't make it to my place....the manner at which she said it was disgusting because I never forced her but she was the disturbing me to come back with the I miss you everyday message.....

After that day I never called her again or message her till today because I don't like dealing with immature ladies.

So I will like to hear you guys experience .....

Senomi:
Nothing like that bro, even at school some of my coursemates that own cars only give girls a lift to the main gate, while we the boys go pay enter shuttle or if we no hold bar we go trek under sun, it's not fair bro honestly, or wen dem dem do giveaway for our watsap group na only girls go get 5k while boys 1 or 2k or nothing sef, even some parties we go pay while girls have free passes

Lol.....that why the resentment is getting much.

I just feel ladies should stop acting naive to this things when guys complain about them.

We all know men are fools for sex but ladies should stop taking advantage of this.

I know many ladies who scam men of there money while promising sex or relationship but when kasala burst they deny ever saying such.

Senomi:
You're capping saw dust oga, I fit use my life swear say no man apart from my father and uncles has ever given me money or even rendered an assistance, I was arguing with one guy here he thought I was a woman then he out of pride suddenly dared I drop my acct number, which I did but wen he found out it was a man's acct he suddenly changed his mind, talk say I don fall him hand, say make I go make money so I go dey dash people and not be at the receiving end Bros u for talk say u dey find ashawo na, majority of you guys are one hell of bloody and useless hypocrites,you cry foul online and in secret u worship the feet of the gender y'all claim to hate so much and I pray women keep on showing u guys hell cos that's what y'all rightfully deserve....... And the girls ain't stopping anytime soon, y'all will be shown hell till the end of time, even in hellfire the female demons will subject y'all to ice cold hellish torture for eternity.

You are correct but you miss my point.......even ladies complain about there brothers not helping them financially but dashing money out to different ladies.

You can start by doing the right instead of the rage bro.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
Op talk true

Say the truth let the devil b ashamed

Haven't you at one point in time given unmerited favor to this gender or unjustly favour this gender over a fellow man?

Yes I have countless timein the past but I stopped when I notice they feel is there right.

This days I don't give preferential treatment to the female gender infact most don't like me at all........I am very blunt.

This isn't a thread to bash ladies but rather to clarify things.
Alot of ladies are complaining about how men bash/hate the female gender on NL....but they are not asking questions why this is happening??

The female gender want equal rights but don't want to let go of the preferential treatment they get...isn't that really funny??

Is being a long time coming but no one took it serious...There is no fairness and same level playing ground between the two gender.

What ladies are experiencing here isn't hate but resentment which is born out of unfair treatment men face everyday and told to man up.

From young age a boy have to let go of somethings because of his sisters...he has to be a man.

A female Co worker that met you on job get promoted ahead of you just because she is dating the boss and will rub it on your face.

The movies are always promoting how ladies should be treated like queens while men are meant to suffer.

In a conflict between the two gender a man is blame even if the woman is at fault.

We have lot mannerless/rude ladies walking around this days...(this a topic for another day)
I can go on on.......this preferential treatment is what most men are tired of and you expect that not to result in resentment.

On Instagram, tik tok etc 80% of the ladies there are just coded prostitute ,they don't want us to talk about it......they dont want us to talk about ladies lies to men just to get money off them.....they don't want us to talk about ladies begging on there whatapp status.

You hardly see them engaging in intellectual discuss but rather gossips,bragging,looking for man to exploit.
Alot of teens are out there following men around for money.....we see all this everyday but you ain't going to see ferminist/female celebrities condemning this because that what most of them are doing.
When a guy talk about it......they will call him a woman hater etc.
Alot of ladies walk around with mentality of they can get way with anything they do against the other gender....a lady will slap you and people tell you to be a man while a man will slap a lady and the whole community will beat him up..

Until we start correcting the wrongs the resentment will keep on growing stronger.
We know isn't all ladies that does this things but we can make a general statement on it because majority are doing it.....so the ones that are not doing it shouldn't feel attacked but rather start condemning the bad eggs among them.

(Ladies should start speaking the truth and be truthful to one another.......we don't see ladies condemn this shameful act that why we make threads about them)

Iyaebe:
She's spitting reality, most ladies with class won't agree to date a guy without a good ride but her offense here is saying it to the public.

So what the reality about ladies

Most guys with class should date ladies who can't even afford to 1k sub.

Is pure foolish when a man worth is judge base on a ride.....poverty of the mind !!!

bigcee:
The intent is to maintain control and power over the babe. But do you know the people that uses such tactics are weak and insecure people. They do that to project a false image of themselves as tough, confident, alpha bal bla bla . But deep down they're very shitty. I have dealt with people like that alot. What you're doing is trying to damage someone because of the trauma you went through in your past relationship. You have vowed to deal with any babe that comes your way, lol

I am not bragging o but nobody can control me by using a toxic/manipulative tactics.

Narcissistic people use such tactics to control their victim. They enjoy it cause it feeds their fragile ego. Cut the Narcissistic supply and watch them go crazy. Why? Because they're weak.

Baba, I don't need to give any babe a silent treatment to maintain control. That's childish!

If we ain't on the same page, I will immediately drop you(no time). I can sense a toxic person from distance, lol

You can't misquote silence!!!

Do what works for you......we all have our styles and way of doing things..

I don't no why people always think there own way of doing things is the best and rubbishing other ways.

You are entitled to your opinion...

Nonexisting:
No, I disagree. She tried because you and I know that in this country, there's little or no potential in a boy who claims to be a footballer because the society we live in misjudge them to be riffraffs. So for her to have stayed with him shows she is one of the rare ones. I believe there are still good women but I'll rather not take the risk to meet them than risk everything only to meet the bad ones.

This how entitlement mentality creeks in.....lol

Even during the hard times funny enough the guy will still be one funding most of her responsibility oooo.......yet people will still be praising the woman.

Sometimes I just wonder the type of clay God use to create we Africans.

She didn't do him any favour by sticking during the hard time.....he is the one who did her a huge favour by transforming her life.


Is stupidity when people praise women who date men with potential when they had nothing.

Is the men that needs to be praise for transforming there life with hard earn money.

He can only wear designers.....they should provide him with another top designer next time.


A man who can't patronise and promote aba made wears.

Who is fooling who.

Until we stop putting all focus on the presidency alone and start calling out this useless lawmakers, governors etc we won't move forward.

This lawmakers are actually meant to balance things out but guess what they are all after money and there welfair alone.

If we vote a good man for presidency come 2023 and still have the useless lawmakers and governors nothing will change.

Vote wisely for the presidential election
Vote wisely for the lawmakers election
Vote wisely for the governorship election.

On the fp .......we saw how people choose atiku over tinubu despite the complains about the fulani tribe(bandit,herdsmen etc) they still prefer a fulani man to still rule again.

Orji uzor kalu vs atiku........who would you rather vote for.

Mods please push this to the front page to show nl isn't a biase nor support any tribe.

Lol..........a mistake no single man should make else your marital life will be miserable.

I laughe alot when people blame most crime committed here in the country on economic hardship.

Some people are just criminally minded regardless of there financial status.

fineboynl:
The oil money was use to build railline in far Away Niger, the oil money was use to build Abuja from scratch. The oil money was use to develop the North. But why the producing region is lagging behind. One if the reason wike is silent about illegal refinary. The oil belong to the community abd they should take what belong to them.

If the federal government sees bomb in your House. The bomb is yours. But if it's oil the oil is theirs. What a wonderful constitution.

GEJ is still alive......he is In a better position to answer your question

Closed

People hardly change.....I was once in your shoes.

It started with lil things like this until she almost got me blind with a charger.

The decision is all your bro but I will tell you to stay away from a lady with anger issue.

Your tolerance limit will be exceeded.

lionphil:
They should have a plan for the baby... the centre of this whole discussion is the baby... the baby is premmy. The baby would've died if not for the intervention of the girl's father... with how dull your boy is, he definitely didn't invite the NGO. All of he sudden he wants to claim right... until he does the marital rites, he is just like a guy that poured sperms into a nylon... only this time, a baby came out. The sperm was useless to him and so is this 900k.

You are very funny and don't know Nigeria law

Newsflash we have gotten police involved and the girl sister had been arrested yesterday....the right she has to sign for the child to be forcefully discharge she is telling them.....even the police told the grandfather that Nigeria law only recognised the father and mother in decision making.
Not everyone is Igbo ooo.......yoruba culture isn't rigid like that.....Marital rite isn't by force here.

Although am not in support of him not paying her bride price but at the moment......let respect Nigeria law.

Ayemileto:
If the money is with LUTH, then how do you think the family is only after sharing the money? Do you think LUTH would have released it to them?




Your initial post said they agreed to readmit the baby after you begged.

In that post, you also said the father told you the Lady has no sister.

Am I missing something or you're contradicting yourself?

As at yesterday nite before i left the baby was collected to be admitted but on getting here this morning I got to know they didn't readmitted the baby.

Ofcourse luth will release the money because it was donated in the baby name(the chaque carry the baby name)....so is not luth money.

The grandfather was the one I spoke too yesterday and he said the lady doesn't have a sister but I later found out the lady is a family memeber from the girl mother side(not blood sister).

The matter is really complicated.......we are trying to see if they will admit him at lasu.

lifenajeje:
It's Neva easy for a hospital to readmit a patient.that got discharged without the doctors consent ..

Talkless of a premmy ....

What is top priority now is getting the baby readmitted...

Look for the head peadetrician , matron or any oga in top close to the head of that unit

All of you should beg that the person who discharged the baby had no right to .

We have been begging since morning

The lady that cause everything have even left us.

lifenajeje:
Who has the funds ?

Which hospital ?

The fund is with luth

We are in luth

Double0h7:
Is this the only hospital? Can you not contact the NGO? How could a premature baby sleep outside of a hospital?

You keep contradicting yourself. One minute the father only cares about the money and not the wellbeing of the baby and the next minute they are sleeping outside the hospital.

I don't live in your country so I don't know how a premature baby could be left outside the hospital so I will stop commenting on this.

I will pray for this baby's wellbeing because I don't care about the guy and his rights right now. This baby needs to be saved and operated on that is all that matters right now. Your friend should humble himself and sacrifice his rights for now for the sake of his baby. Good luck

You don't care about the guy right But the lady sister is the one who put us in this mess is the one that need to humble herself.

She signed for the baby to be forcefully discharge from luth......now luth is telling us they don't take patient who are forcefully discharge.

What right does the girl sister has to sign for the baby to be forcefully discharge to her??

Jungpablo:
He is a boy what does he know? Do you think he does not need the presence and experience of the girls father? If they give him the 900k and leave him to his fate do you think he can handle the situation himself? Let the elderly man do his job and let the boys sit in the background and watch. He should be grateful the girl's family are concerned if they had abandoned her like his family did I'm not sure if the child would have been alive till today. He can't control his deek and you think he can control 900k?

Guy stfu jare.....because I call him my boy you think he is a teenager......he is 27yr old.

How old are yourself just hammering on money this money that.

We are begging and crying here for the baby to be re admitted so he won't die due to a foolish lady mistake who decided to go sign forceful discharge form without the father consent.


Where are the lady family now? Is not me and the guy that is running around here......talking as if you are here with us.

Stenewiser:
how are you sure that boy can handle the 700k, didn't you hear him mentioning the girl's family paid majority of the bills before the NGO money came in, how old is this boy self, so without that NGO money wouldn't he have taken care of his baby, you think impregnating is what only makes one a man.

Is not all about money.

Am talking about decision making..

Jungpablo:
seems you did not read the post but I'll explain to you. The girl's family have been taking care of the child before the money from NGO came so why do you think they will stop taking care of the child after surgery? The girl's family have been shouldering all the bill something the boy and his family did not do and you dare mention POVERTY. If not for the girls family I'm not sure the child would have been alive till now because clearly the boy has no means to take care of the child and I'm sure even the OP would not have helped out. But the girl's family stood for their daughter and their grandchild which is the right thing because the girl is not even married. And yes if you're foolish enough to get married when you have no means of taking care of yourself your in-laws will show you shege

Please read the post without a bias mind........he pays part of the bills aswell....stop talking like u are here with us.

lifenajeje:
Like I said earlier the money time and resources used in taking care of a premmy does not superceded the general well being of that child ...

Las Las 900k go finish .



I spent over 1.5m during lockdown for baby so am wondering what 900k would do in our present economic situation. ..

Is not about money but the decision making.

The girl sister went to forcefully discharge the baby without the father consent...

I only want him to be carried along.....because the baby is being rejected and we are the one doing the running around not the girl family.