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greymiles:
I’m not justifying yahoo but I bet you can’t justify the legality of your money either
I’m a banker but I’ll attend to customer that offers me tip first regardless of how many people are on queue... what’s the difference between me and a yahoo boy?

I’m a blogger but I post news with fake but catchy headline to generate traffic

One way or the other, we deal in one illegalities during the course of our businesses
Let karma deal with whoever deems wrong of it

Be proud of what you do bro....if u like traffic cocaine ain't non of my business but pls speak only for yourself.

Gadafii:
Op you will wail tire

If Yahoo boys decided to sleep with dead bodies, bath soap, sleep inside coffin I don't have issue with that, he's taking his destiny into his own hands, that's his own cup of watery akamu.

However, what I have issues with is Yahoo boys spilling bloods or using body parts for their trades, nobody holy, live your life the way u want it as along as you are not going to hurt or offend the next person

Your point bro

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Our society have fallen totally......from secondary school to higher institution fraud is the rave of the moment.
Now the issue is you can't be a yahoo boy without using charms and diabolic things....it depends on how your conscience can carry you because that what determine the extent you can go.

The new menace is our ladies going to get charms for this boys from cele Church,alfa and herbalist..this lady feel they have a better chance of having access to the guys money this way.

Here in the south west ladies are willing and ready to get different type of charms for this boys and the most funny part this boys still later dump them or use it on them.

I can boldly say it anywhere there no yahoo boy balling big time who isn't using either a herbalist,alfa or olusho charms......infact some even combine the three and they are always willing to do anything i repeat anything to get the money.

Most ladies in the South West are becoming unproductive because they prefer to go for free money....they see dating a yahoo boy as a lottery ticket to escape poverty.

How a lady feel comfortable dating a guy who has no legal source of income, he gave you iPhone 12promax and 1 million just 2weeks of dating and she collected it (ND1 student haaaa).......
Over here 98% of ladies using iPhone ....the phone was bought for them by a guy mostly yahoo guys the most annoying part is you will see a lady using iPhone 12 and she can't even afford 1k data.

No disrespect to white garment church but why is it that most yahoo boys wife/gf attend this church infact my neighbour olusho(pastor) comes to deliver ise (spiritual items) at home for him.

If a lady should die as a result of dating a yahoo guy I don't pity such lady......It is what it is
I expect more ladies to lose there life because they never learn.....they now competit in getting a big yahoo boy so they can Brag.

Note: if you not a yahoo guy i beg you in the name of God be really careful of the ladies you engage with make sure you know her past very well.

debbydams:
u nail it bro..date a yahoo boy at your own risk, because sooner or later u will end up bn used..

I don't pity this ladies.....infact some even go as far as going to make charms for this guy.

I will make a post soon about these menaces in the south west.....I will be revealing alot.

chiommy123:
Now it's her fault for accepting a gift from someone? I think we should do away with this type of mentality. I was in the hospital one day when an elderly woman came for her check up, after everything she was given her bill and her children were just pushing it around them. One young guy from no where just came along for her and cleared everything. Assuming she comes back sick, the guy is now a yahoo boy?

So collecting money from a guy you know is a fraudster....someone who use different things to rub is body in your presence is what??

Only foolish people accept big gift from someone who doesn't have a legal source of income.

Won't be surprised if ur bf is a yahoo boy.

Some where talking in the other thread about the camera man been to calm recording the video that it was stage ....that what you hear from illiterate who don't see beyond there nose.

Even during warpeople cover life events like this...they should stop watching Africa magic,hip TV and BbN only and sometimes watch CCN, BBC etc

Only foolish people wish for war....because at the end of it all you will still have to negotiate.....people just dieing for nothing.

Pataricatering:
you sef engage your brain before you talk- if according to jer cheating is a karma thing then women who did not cheat with married men should not have cheating husband's - how is that difficult to understand?

Well I don't like engaging you fish brain but I will school you......since you have decided to be a dimwit.

Do u know the phrase wen the guilt is suffering sometimes the innocent one also part take.

Now understand what she trying to say again.......some women who also cry about cheating husband have sometime had a relationship with married men.....the key word here is some women and karma is only for such women....I hope I have being able to come to ur kindergarten level......please charge your brain.

They won't agree......the woman is talking about ladies who dated married men before they marry.

The people given the explanation of not all ladies do it should try and read with there brain connected to there eye.

Note: side chic is karma to ladies who once dated married men.....if she didn't date married men she is excluded....
simple as saying not all men cheat but most men are cheat.

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lexy2014:
It's like didn't read or understand d question I asked. Pls read again:

Where in d Nigerian constitution or which law in d world designates a person a terrorist because he or she agitated for secession?

And am telling you it isn't terroism but rather treason which is far worst and comes with high penalty.

BRATISLAVA:
It boils down to men believing they are punishing a lady by wasting her time to make her worthless. You see it on the forum all the time. They believe women expire ie. Once they get old they've dealt with them. They don't want the relationship, but rather than ending it, "I'll keep her as a fvckmate, use her for years and dump her and get a better lady with manners to teach her a lesson".

And they see nothing wrong with it.

There are a lot of cursed men roaming around, the curses are justified and hold them fast. Many don't know it.

My dear we understand.....women are saints.

There are no cursed women roaming about.

Like I always say.....the victim mentality is in born for you women.

lexy2014:
Where in d Nigerian constitution or which law in d world designates a person a terrorist because he or she agitated for secession?

Google catalonia in Spain?? There leader is still in prison in Spain.

Secession is a treasonable felony in every part of the world.

I laugh when ipob write US /UN ..this people can't do anything because most country is guilt of what Nigeria is doing.

Bola146:
Seriously you are still a kid, you need to grow mature, swearing with Bible doesn't mean you are innocent. Go and ask our politicians

See adult who doesn't no there no one way of doing things.
No matter the style he choose to return is household you shouldn't condemn because it doesn't suit you Miss adult.

Are you married If not shut the Bleep up.

She forced him to swear but can't do the same in return...... yet he is the kid.

Some of you no matter the education or exposure your brain still remain like a fish own.

IceColdVeins:
A thief (the babe) has nothing lose.
Bro you just lost money and a potential pucci.
That’s why I never spend a dime until the pucci is staring at me on a platter.

Bro I agree 100% with last sentence...I thought she was different ooo anyway due to the first convo we had.

Saw a lady one night walking down the road approached her exchange numbers...started vibing online instantly.
She got ill the following week....went to her place decided to get some beverages etc along.

Few days later she dropped first billing i dodge am
Dropped second billing of wanting to take cold stone ice cream by forced ....joked about borrowing her money for that and push her 5k later.

One week later brethren she billed me 50k....Her cousin wedding is next month so she need 50k to get things.....After declining she asked me to borrow her and I remind her of 5k she hasn't paid back.....brethren she asked for my aza so she can pay it back and I gladly sent her.
After sending 5k.... she now asked when am I sending the 50k....I told her I got no kobo to send.

This now the most funny part brethren she telling me to return the 5k back, calling me all sort of name ooo.....see fish brain.

Now she is very angry and promising to deal with me.......should I teach her a lesson by banging her and not give a kobo or just free her

Is just funny how some of this ladies think...you don't need money to start a business,learning a trade or getting certification is someone wedding party you want a man to give you 50k for.

Note- if you meet a lady staying alone without any major source of income my brethren she leaving off dicks beware.

MadamVanessa:
Useless zoo EFCC flexing muscle on a poor woman while Idiotic frog eyes bullion van thief, mouth odour personified Tinubu is walking freely and warming up to steal more as he's aspiring to be the zoo president.

Lol....tinubu didn't govern any Eastern state ooo

Go pour your frustration on your ex / present governors and leave tinubu alone.

I don't understand this obsession about tinubu from you people....orji kalu stole abia dry but non of you say anything about it but is lagos you are more concerned about.

They will never condemn the thieves among them is tinubu they will screaming day and night bunch of nitwit.....blaming others than themselves.

Purposefulvoice:
Pls can I use this for my podcast? This is something a lot of parents needs to know ..

Yes you can

Doradorwa:
What's gush?...Youre trying to sound like what? O pe... Now let me tell you this Mr woke...

The girl refused protection, which is wrong, the guy knew it's wrong but he continues to Bleep her, which makes it two to tangle.

The girl got pregnant, an end result, told the guy, which was not in the Op write-up, but logically, she must have told the guy, because no sane girl will tell her parents about an illegitimate pregnancy before her lover.

The guy refused, probably citing that he told her they should use protection, and maybe probably tries to deny the pregnancy, the girl tells her family, they must have probably called guy man and her refused to should up, hence, they showed up with the police....

Like I said earlier they are both irresponsible, and I condemn the use of police for such civil matter but we must look beyond what people want us to see.

I love your assumption theory.....kudos.

Like I said earlier the victim card is inbuilt.

Doradorwa:
Not all single mother is a case file of unwanted pregnancy or mistake pregnancy. And I'm a liberal person, I say things the way I see them... The guy knew well that the girl would get pregnant, why not leave her? They are both guilty and the guy is also playing victim card. He's tossing on people's emotions too... Let them sort themselves out.

This part of the problem......Liberal indeed.

The boy never denied having sex with her......he accepted and was ready to take responsibility so why was he still arrested by the girl father??
Same victim nonsense of he has ruined her life.

The guy knew she would get pregnant abi but the girl didn't know....he should be the one to leave her Sometimes I just wonder but I think the victim mentality is inbuilt.

My dear there nothing like mistake pregnancy......don't enter the rain if you don't want to get wet......u don't want to get wet and want to enter the rain kindly use an umbrella or rain coat.....solely your responsibility/decision

Note: we have female condoms.....thanks

Doradorwa:
If the girl was so stupid to Bleep without protection, why was the guy also stupid to continue fucking her without protection?.... They are both irresponsible adults, let them sort their problem by themselves.

I hope most single mother will agree with you they were actually stupid aswell rather than cursing men every sec.

idahme:
It is a very disgusting label on the male folks for such occurrences and this attitude of the society especially in a place like Nigeria has to stop. Some women hardly take responsibility for the activities they undertake especially when it comes to consensual cohabitation and sex with their male counterparts, the reorientation of our society on these issues needs to be strengthened. How would any sane human even contemplate the use of our unprofessional police officers to effect the arrest of a guy who had consensual sex with his girlfriend who by all available indication is an adult and can make life decisions for herself? Our daft police officers are really fuelling these ills in our society because of corruption and the quest to extort money from the so-called accused. The more fundamental right infringement cases brought against the Nigerian police will curtail this increasing trend towards dehumanizing young men in the country. It is really a pitiable situation.

The police know they have no right to arrest the boy.....the IPO told us openly.....but our society have way of making it looks like the lady is a saint and the guy is evil mostly in this case.
Had been me and friends didn't take up the case he would remain in that cell for a long.

We need to stop tolerating nonsense like this and start blaming both parties equally for any mess up.

Good morning everyone.

There is a matter in which I think is high time we actually talk about.....Why is unpregnancy treated like is a man crime.

Over the weekend there was a serious commotion at my end....one my boys who work for me at my farm was arrested on Saturday morning.....is offence/crime he (impregnated/got a girl pregnant...A very useless statement to me).

The lady family got him arrested for this.....for a long time alot of girls father/family do this act because the women play this victim card and fool men into seeing unpregnancy as solely the man fault.

A lady will tell a guy she doesn't want condom or like condom....some will even beg you to sex them and when pregnancy happens they turn saint and you start hearing very disgusting statement like.
1. He impregnated the poor girl
2. He got the girl pregnant
3. He has ruined the girl life by sleeping with her.

Why is sex always see as a singular man act
Why is unwanted pregnancy always seen as a crime perpetuated by men.

I went angrily to the police station that Saturday with my friends and we let the IPO know this nonsense needs to stop.....the boy is 23 and the girl is 20 both are adult....how come the girl father got the boy arrested and the left his daughter.

We couldn't get him out on Saturday and was told to come this morning......it was a full blown war at police station because the girl father was insisting the boy shouldn't be released while the police were telling him the boy committed no crime in fact me and the man almost punched ourself...He was released after paying 7k and the issue to be resolved among the two families.

He threaten to kill the boy that he impregnated his daughter while am telling him they both had sex which resulted in pregnancy and he should direct the anger to his daughter.
Everyone does that nonsense of actually making unanted pregnancy looks like a man crime and give the lady free passage as the victim.

Right in front of us this boy told us the girl always say she wanted to get pregnant and will be angry anytime he ejaculated out but now she doing like saint.

Am not supporting unwanted pregnancy.....condom is cheap but ladies needs to stop making it look like men just put babies in them while they were just walking on the road.

Alot of single mother do this thing.....they blame the men for everything that happens.

The result of sex is pregnancy......sex is an act perform by two human beings.
please blame them equally when unwanted pregnancy happens...thanks.

cococandy:
I’m a Catholic by birth. There’s no federal law saying I can’t be a priest but based on tradition and expectation, I’m not allowed to go seminary school to become a priest. I will encounter opposition if I try. I will be refused acceptance if I try. If by some miracle I succeed, I will be shunned by the population and no one will come to my masses because as a woman, my divine place is among the laity not the priesthood.
This is based purely on gender and not anything I’ve done or haven’t done. Because there’s no law barring me from priesthood it doesn’t mean I’m not barred anyway.

By talking about this, does it mean I’m expecting leadership to be handed to me rather than going ahead to take it for myself? Or am I pointing out that obvious obstacle that is placed in front of the woman for just being a woman?

I know this is not a uniquely Nigerian problem. However does it not count as marginalization?

Discrimination my dear not marginalisation......once there no law stopping you from becoming a priest you are not marginalized.

cococandy:
Can you point to one woman on this thread who you sincerely believe is doing less for themselves than you are?
Who’s parents or mothers on this thread didn’t invest in them?

Are you assuming that because we speak on these issues, we are not taking initiatives on our own and achieving our set goals? Because I’d like to really understand what goes through your mind when you’re making posts like these. “Oh these women are whiners. They expect things handed to them. They have victim mentality. The women around me are high achievers. They are infantilized” (I can’t remember all of your usual phrases)

The broader issue is that despite whatever opportunities there are, and how many women succeed by taking those opportunities, the men do not have to suffer set backs specifically because of their gender. And the women do. And it shouldn’t be so.

No one is saying women should not take opportunities because they will encounter gender based set backs. No one said women won’t succeed if they try. And no one said men don’t experience set backs. The problem is the setbacks men encounter are not based on their gender.

See you often make broad discussions about yourself and how amazing you are. By reverting the conversation to how you take responsibility for your own life and choices all what not. (Not the first time. Not the 10th time ) maybe primadonna is newer to these discussions and my question to her caught her off guard but if she’s been following similar threads like this, she would understand where that question was coming from. You will unfailingly try to equate the broad topic to your own perceptions of individual success and try to dismiss the real issues that affect other women because in your opinion it doesn’t apply to you so it doesn’t matter.

So I’d like for you to be direct and tell us which woman on this thread is lazy and waiting for a handout

And you’ve called yourself a feminist before. If you didn’t believe there are issues with gender equality, why would you support a movement for gender equality? Was it a buzzword for you then? And now you’ve decided you no longer want to go with the “trend”? Or do you sincerely believe gender issues have all been amicably resolved since the first time you thought you were a feminist and therefore there’s no problem with inequality anymore?

Read what you just typed again very slowly and you see what you just pointed out is gender discrimination not marginalisation.

If a woman face obstacles based on gender that discrimination not marginalisation coco.

Marginalisation is purely you saying woman are insignificant in this country.

shaybebaby:
Err yes. I'd have their asses in court if it were in the UK under the Equality Act of 2010. So now, you find me the Nigerian equivalent of that Law.

Lol...so is now discrimination not marginalisation


U see you ladies will be eeching to every word to prove the victim mentality is right.

Discrimination and marginalisation are two different things entirely incase you forgot.

shaybebaby:
Err yes. I'd have their asses in court if it were in the UK under the Equality Act of 2010. So now, you find me the Nigerian equivalent of that Law.

Lol...so is now discrimination not marginalisation


U see you ladies will just leeching to every word to prove the victim mentality.

Discrimination and marginalisation are two different things entirely incase you forgot.

FreeIgboho:
You know this is also what whites do about blacks. They'll tell you discrimination ended long ago and enumerate how blacks are even the ones favored. Yet you look at all the juicy positions and you hardly see any blacks. I asked Google for you. Below is what it says.
Godoverevery u wanted Google. Here's more Google for you

See what you are saying and asking is for men to hand over power to women......we can't all be leaders is common sense.

Ofcos is Google....we have lot of woman pushing that agenda of marginalisation making it looks like is the men fault.

No two people can be truly equal....

If a woman wants to feel equal to her man and want equal say....she should woo him,provide shelter,cloth him,pay groom price and finance the wedding...then she has earn the right.

Very simple something.

shaybebaby:
Gender is the one thing you can't change. Financial situation is some that has and does change with frequency.

Whether or not she was encouraged is irrelevant. Her example demonstrates marginalisation.

You bring up beauty contest. In a contest where male and female are expected to participate, if the judging standards are based on the features of one gender solely, then there would be marginalisation of the other gender

If the standards are based on a mixture of both gender's quality AND enforced. Then there is less chance of marginalisation.
Note I said enforcement. A scenario where if there is a breach, there are consequences.

In her example, she was discriminated against with no repercussions for those who perpetrated it.

So far, you deniers seem to only agree with examples like child marriages that happen in the North.

Please tell me, when these older men do these to the children, what are the LEGAL consequences they face?

Even if they do not face that, please tell me what societal consequences they face? Can you tell me of any deterrents to them perpetuating their acts of violence?

My point being, if deterrents aren't put in place, the female gender still continues to be marginalised.

If what happened to Coco happened where I am, she'd have some mullah in her bank account and those fellas would have been kicked out of the school.

If it happened to and we swap gender for race, same outcome for you. You may not win the race even after you entered, but you would be able to punish those who attempted to stop, not because of your capability but your race.

Race and gender being protected characteristics enshrined in law and whose discrimination is punishable by law.

Not surprised at all with your submission at all.....so Islam permit girls to be married at young age and this isn't done only in the northern Nigeria but all Islamic countries.....the Muslim fill comfortable with it because is there religious belief which we must respect even if some of us don't like it.

Coco is just play victim card here.

Was she stopped from buying the form??
Did any law said she can't contest??
If she got the form will her name not be on the ballot??

And please Google the meaning of marginalisation because seem most y'all don't know the meaning of that word.

I insist coco would have been marginalised if she was stopped by any law banning her from getting the form to contest.

FreeIgboho:
That's exactly what many of them are here doing - screaming marginalization. While you are here insisting they are not marginalized - an obvious lie

Maybe is high time you Google the meaning of marginalisation ooooo.

Is obvious you don't know the meaning of that word with this

shaybebaby:
But it isn't war is it?

The entire point is that there are additional barriers that are based on gender in order to access opportunities.

Let's leave conjecture aside and stick to the facts. She was told she couldn't throw her hat in the ring because they didn't want her gender.

That was the starting point. Meanwhile the other men didn't have to face that particular obstacle just to contest. No doubt there will be obstacles during the actual race. But in her case, to contest, she had to face one more, than the rest of her male competitors.

That extra one, is the marginalisation.

If a beauty pagant that comprises both male and female is organised ....be honest who do you think we likely win

Life is a war the earlier we all admit the better.....she decided to dwell on the negative comments than positive one's.

She can't tell me nobody encourage her to carry on....they attacked her with her gender but men are attacked with there financial status.....which one is a lesser evil.

We ain't meant to face the same obstacles......nobody is going to attack her on financial grounds which a man will face.

FreeIgboho:
That's exactly part of the societal structure that needs reforming: bride prices. How does it benefit the woman, how is it fair to her, and how is it her fault? The whole thing needs reforming. The system is not fair-

Is not her fault but she isn't doing anything to change it.

She constantly asking her man when are you going to pay my bride price.

How many ladies have come out to speak against bride price?? Or they are waiting for us to speak for them and tag us broke ass.