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DasaintHope:
@ op, you spoke the harsh reality. Our ladies have set a bad precedent for upcoming generation. Just few weeks back I was having a conversation with my cousin of just seventeen years, and she was just making girlish talks about graduating and getting a rich man to marry. I was appalled and disgusted, I tried to reason with her that things are evolving and men are no longer going for liabilities or ladies with entitlement mentality, but the shocker was that her mom is in support of her statement. In her own Words, " Saint abeg leave my daughter, she said she wants a rich man, God will grant her heart desires.". Seriously!!! I stand to be corrected, but 90 percent of Naija girls who don't have wealthy parents have nothing to offer as a value to a man except pussy. That is why I always appreciate ladies who are career women or entrepreneurs, e no easy. Good knows I can't date a broke girl, and I wish my fellow guys will come to that realization, until our girls realize their pussy is not a master key.


ciao

Bro this another big probs.... parent are not teaching our ladies to be independent infact they feel the best thing for there daughter is marrying a rich man than been rich herself.

My fiancee anuty once told her if she doesn't marry a rich man she would curse her .... she had to rebuke by saying she would be rich herself without depending on any man.

InfernoNig:
Well said. Likewise men. We should just be care and smart when choosing a partner.

That it bro...... check out this rich class.... look at the type of women they go for.....I have study them well this men go for really ambitious women as wives and keep the parasitics women as concubines...they never marry unfocused women.

You can't blame men for the way women are been treated now.....Our ladies have lost it because of the love of money.

As a lady above 20yrs you are an adult who is meant to start been responsible for herself but in this country our ladies are fully dependant on men.... How do you expect an adult who is totally dependent on another to be respected

Those of us who socialise see alot ....go to bars, clubs, hotels etc and see what our ladies do for money to buy worthless things....the so called decent ones are coded olosho.
This ladies are the one always disturbing men to take them out so they can eat and drink what they cant afford offering there pussy in return.

Has a lady you are a graduate but have nothing to offer apart from the hole between your Legs and boobs nothing else (no investment,no job) and you feel you deserve to make terms of the type of man you want.lol
A man is bursting is ass everyday, taking loans, doing several things to make money while you are at home sleeping and waking up everyday doing nothing and you feel you deserve respect??
Who will respect someone who feels she doesn't need to work to make money....all she needs to do is offer are pussy to a rich man??

Most times when men come here to talk about there relationship isn't meant to bash our ladies but to make other men learn.....Most ladies are in relationship for the gains(as nothing to do with either she decent or not) there pussy is the only bargaining chip they have...so they weaponies it against men(even in marriage) ...that why if you stop demanding sex from them they go crazy accusing you of cheating.

ladies if you don't want to be ridicule by men have other things to offer apart from your pussy.....if you don't have job take up a loan and start small business or apply for smaller jobs if the big one are not coming, don't be too proud... don't wait for any man to come open a store /shop for you.

Men I want to seriously warn you never stay in a relationship with an emotionally unstable lady ....women are not deep thinkers like men they act before they think during anger...so if you don't want to get ruined or get killed, once you notice she is emotionally unstable just exist don't feel you can change her.... please ooo we won't die prematurely.

StacyO:
They don't even know what they want.




But, I'll tell ya.

Modified::
They want ass and boobs but,no-----They don't want a Lady who has only ass and boobs to offer.

They want a working class lady but,no-----They don't want a woman who will make more money than them,neither do they need a full house wife.

They want a virgin but,no---- They want a full time slot on bed,one who would make their heads burst.

They don't want an illiterate but,no-----They feel insecure when a girl challenges them intellectually.

I got into something with a white guy one time then,considering the fact they're always sexually insatiable. A day into the relationship, he's already demanding for sex.
I kept coming up with different excuses(mind you an observation was taking place).
The guy threatened fire and water from hell. lol
Didn't give up at all (considering the fact I don't even like white guys )

Actually, it wasn't killing him,it was making him fall in love.
He finally let it out when I least expected, he said and I quote
"With you,I realized that sex wasn't everything in a relationship"

A sex freak said that!!! Shit is real
He still didn't get it sha,maybe I'm that stingy when it comes to that aspect. "



What I'm trying to state from that write up.

Nigerian ladies,sex doesn't keep a man. No matter what style you position yourself in bed,he'll still leave you when he meets a girl who can control his insatiable urge for sex.

@op,they don't need sex.
They need someone who can control them from the other end,someone who they can trust.
Trust me,an average Nigerian man when he goes into a relationship with you,the next thing on his mind is how to fvck your figure 8 to figure 8 pro max.

It's left to you as the woman to decide whether you want commitment OR sex. "







Look into this thread on what they said they actually need.
I hope you don't get confused.

https://www.nairaland.com/6148380/sex-relationship-ladies-dont-deceived

like I always say.....For ladies it always the men fault..... hard working ladies and those that don't wear make up are all saints.

Nigerian men are confuse and all they want is sex but Nigerian Ladies are focus and all they want is money.....the day you ladies start owing up to your shit and shifting blame or playing victim is day y"all will be respected.

Not been contented isn't a gender thing.

fuckaholic25:
doesnt "all Nigerian women" means every woman including your own momma?? some people are literally and unapologetically stupid!!!

there are somethings only fool react to.....if someone says all Nigerians are corrupt replying him/her that is mother/father included is plain stupidity....sane people ignore such comments because it makes no sense.

pray for knowledge and understanding every morning my dear...u really need it.

Classyuniquebae:
And I'm asking you dimwit; is all Nigerian Women" a singular tense to be a name ? Answer that first and then think about your question and re-rephrase.

I know you are frustrated look for someone close to pour the frustration on......once your name isn't mention you keep your lose gutter tap called a mouth shut when a general statement is made... peace

Classyuniquebae:
And you just disappointed me , your parents and the schools you attended big time from misunderstanding "All Nigerian women " as a singular representing a name .

You should hide yourself in Shame .

Dumbo read slowly with your glasses on and your dead brain plug to it charger....my question again

is "all Nigerian women" your name??

make sure you get anyone sane around you to explain the question to you before answering.

Shortyy:
Yeah, I'll fvck anyone I want. Because I see you people "men" as nothing.

Be disappointed in yourself and not me please. I don't know you, and I don't give a fvck about your opinion.

like I said earlier I should have listened to Nazgul.....he warned me against engaging insane people here actually.

Classyuniquebae:
This time around , you responded with good tenses, so I'm glad you listened fool.

For the fact you created a thread doesn't mean that you loose your senses and act out if place .

About the mother ish, i guess you were blind to read when he cursed all Nigerian women as Olosho and your dull brain thought his mother was an exemption.

is all Nigerian women your name.....I naturally hate dumbness......why does everyone has a name

You are a disappointment to your household.

Shortyy:
Why you sef as a man will go after your fellow man's wife?

When you get married Bleep another man and if your husband catch you tell him is the fault of the man that came after you for sex..you hear.

I should have listened to Nazgul but I was hoping he wrong about you....Girl stop thinking like fati now..... disappointed

Classyuniquebae:
Just like you are useless and stupid to not know how to mind your business but rather choose to meddle . You have represented your family's stupidity well. And next time you are quoting me , use correct tenses . Don't come and display your inability to go to school here .

Dumbo I created this thread so i have the right to quote anyone I like humtty dumtty..... like I said earlier just go back home and leave the gutter life.

clearly you are just another unfortunate dick head who has access to cheap data.

A Buffon going about insulting people mothers over an arguement.... if you respect your mother you wont insult another mother foolish idiot.

Classyuniquebae:
It's you and your generations that are fools. May thunder strike that your God-forsaken mouth. You idiots are quick to talk thrash and won't reprimand a fool like the rest of you who goes around cursing other people who have a different opinion from theirs. You are senseless for telling that .

that what gutter olosho ladies do when guys engage them (insulting people mother)..... only animals like you insult people mother.

Go back home and tell your mother to train you well or maybe she trained you but decided to useless and stupid.

Classyuniquebae:
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Are you done fucking your Olosho of a mother ? When you are done , let me know .

Only fools abuse other people mother.... despite you insulting is mum he didn't resiprocate because is well trained.


face him and stop mentioning is mother out of your useless mouth...... cretin with no home training

Nazgul:
Stacy what is it?

bro read what shortty wrote and you understand why will call most Nigerian ladies fish brain and won't stop bashing them.

No matter the evil a woman perform is always the men fault.

Shortyy:
I'll continue to say this, women are not and will never be your problem.

Y'all have been crying all over this forum because of DNA, why? Lol, it sucks being played, doesn't it?

Now let me tell you, this thing didn't start today, men have been impregnating other people's wives from time immemorial, even other women's husbands impregnate other people's wives, it's been happening. It didn't start today.

You'd be surprised to know that the man you call uncle, isn't really your uncle but your grand mother's bastard son whose father is another woman's husband. E no start today, and men have been the pioneers of it

So I'll suggest you preach to your fellow men to stop taking advantage of poor defenseless wives, but try their best to take care of their own families and put their third legs in check

Even if she comes to you, reject her! After all, you are a man, or aren't you?

**Men have been impregnating other people wife's*** like they rape other people wife and get them pregnant??

please help understand your point because I don't want to assume you are .....

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]Hahahahahahahaha. According to this school of thought, then women like Linda and Toke and Genevieve and Olunloyo are the most fulfilled of all kind - with nothing to lose.

Their achievements has brought them all the social privileges they need.

And, why do you people - collectively agree on love being a scam, and still always somehow speak of it as if it should be a deciding factor in anything?[/color]

Do you wish to for the kinda life they living....Linda was still crying the other day for a husband.

Most fulfilled Genevieve that married codely last year...do you know how Kemi life sucks.

Nazgul:
We're saying the same thing. See this matter from an unbiased view, then you'll understand where I'm coming from much better.

An African man feels he can easily cheat cos polygamy is widely accepted here in Africa. So he cheats on his wife and has a baby, the wife hears about it, gets angry, heart broken, betrayed...etc. after intervention from family members, their pastor, friends...the wife swallows her pains and accepts back her husband.

A married woman can't easily cheat openly here in Africa. So she does it secretly and conceives. Knowing fully well of the consequences of her actions, she decides to keep it to herself. She delivers and her husband accepts the child as his.

After a while the act gets blown up, the man discovers that the kids aren't his. He's heart broken, sad, suicidal... etc.

Everyone crucifies the woman and call her all manner of degoratory names.

In your opinion don't you think the man is as guilty as the woman?

My mum's younger sister's husband brought in a son into their house and told her that the boy belongs to him. Can you imagine?

Is there any difference between what he did to her and what most women are doing to their husbands?

Like I said in my previous post. It has nothing to do with gender it's all about your discipline, dignity and principles.

My question to you.... is the child financial burden on your sister??
whose house is your sister staying??
had it been he lied to her that the son isn't his then you have a point but he told her so it is left to your sister to stay or leave but comparing it to someone lied about the child paternity from birth is evil.

In western countries there nothing like bride price so men are not allowed to do somethings but over here you know what happens .....that why men are hardly criticise.

PRETTYPRINCES:
What about the FCMB MD he is free to behave like a HE-GOAT Abi?

Did he rape her??
The only thing on him is having an affair with a staff who is infact married....no company will allow such for moral sake.

I can't blame the man because it very such he didn't force the woman....she went after him because of his money.

Nazgul:
I'm not supporting the woman's attitude in anyway. All I'm saying is that cheating has nothing to do with gender. It's all about your discipline, principle and personality.

This case isn't about cheating but wickedness bro........ that highest of wickedness having a man train kids that aiin't his.

And this my question to you why are the follow not coming out to condemn this act
My dad is doctor and he told about 13yrs ago that most men in Nigeria are training bastards.....this a fact,you can ask any doctor.

fati2001:
ONLY A FOOL COMPLAIN ALL THE TIME... BECAUSE HE ALLOWED THE BAD SIDE IN LIFE TO CONSUMED HIM..

So say the biggest cretin on Nairaland...... Don't you see how people avoid you like a plague.
Like your phone screen is more brighter than your almajiri brain.

Nazgul:
My brother it goes both ways...men do worse things, just that our society has a way of nailing the woman whenever she's caught in the act.

A man will impregnate his wife, her two sisters, their maid, his side chick, a random street hawker...and his wife will be told to forgive him for the sake of her marriage and kids.

I'm not taking sides here, but to be honest we men aren't saints ourselves. It's all about your discipline and integrity.

bro you are just comparing two different things.
Men who impregnate other ladies don't put the burdens on there wife.... some religion permit men to do that which is no crime just because you are Christian doesn't give any right to condemn another who believe in having kids with different women.

Can a woman have children for another man under your roof..... have you spend your time money life on them and later tell you they ain't yours?

Judging by the fcmb saga you will see our women are now wicked and shameless.....How many of this female/ celebrities came out to condemn this women we all know they can't because that what majority of them are doing....married but still sleeping with there boss/politicians.
Love of money have made them to be more wicked than the devil.....they can sleep with anything for money rather than to work.

Guys verily I say unto you don't get carried away in relationship/marriage....keep your eye open and use your brain...they are in for the gains and most are decent prostitute now which is a fact.

You are not the only one she doing.....no this and have please of mind.

Nothing but the truth... just that you tend to benefit aswell from them unlike the leechs.

endsarrrs:
Engage pigs?! Lol the only draw back is that they swim in dirts but, they dont stink as bad as some living people

which is your problem.....

they will say is your fault for meeting the classyless one....my brother most of them are in for the gain.

One of them just told me is my fault ladies on FB are beggers....am not meeting the classy ones.
smh... well is always we men fault.

Start looking for the classy one.

ongback:
From my experience, around 40% of our girls are into full time prostitution (most are coded prostitutes). Another 40% are into part time prostitution, these are the ones who always request urgent 2k. Around 10% are ambitious, these ones have brains but they are very rude and unfriendly. Majority of them will end up as misandrist, some of them will live their entire lives without knowing any man apart from their dildos and vibrators. Most of them are here on nairaland.

Around 5% are good, these ones are rarely in the dating scene because no man wants to loose them. The other 5% are sluts.

bro you just sum it up..... like this the fact they don't want to understand....they say Nigerian men are pervert but won't admit is the bad act of most of them that is causing it.... the things I see everyday just make lose hope.

How can you sleep with a married man because you want to make hair.

Mimiey:
Change the kind of girls you are attracted to.

If classless girls keep coming to you or storm into your DM carelessly, I am forced to question your reputation.

so to you is my fault this ladies decide to extort me...wow
Is always the man fault??
when random men send ladies nude pic or sex chat we should question the ladies reputation right??
Am not saying there aiin't good ladies but the ratio is 2:10..
who goes about begging random men social media.?? We keep on complaining about this things and y'all we tell us is our fault for meeting classless one.... maybe we should asking if she classy or classless before engaging them in discuss.


is my fault most nigerians ladies on FB are beggers.

Bouz:
You date students that's why, students getting 10k per months from their parents as pocket money but uses an iphone 7plus .

Student.... Bro I guess you are not social.
My neighbor has a married woman who he bleeps every Monday....they work in the office.

Just go out more so you see things for yourself.....I wish I can post some stuff here but I won't.

endsarrrs:
ha! Me pained. . Lmfpo Like i know. Even the olosho know how rotten you are and to be dumpd into the trash

I don't engage pigs.... you want to get dirty honey I pass.....let me know when you ready to counter my submission.

endsarrrs:
It still boils down to the failure of your brains and Mr, you better watch the language you use and stop making general statement.

failure or your brain??
Like I said most of you are decent olosho....am not surprised you are pained

fati2001:
I WONDER WHERE YOU GUYS ARE GETTING EM" FROM.

From Mars or Pluto..... that the problems with Nigeria Ladies they will never condemn this bad act but rather play the not aware card.

Most Ladies here feel we bash them intentionally or due to frustration but don't know is due to what we see and experience everyday that make us not to value our ladies anymore
You ladies here say you don't beg online or demand from men but that what every lady say......my question is who are the one we meet everyday begging for urgent 2k??

Just yesterday one had to sleep with a married friend because she wants to make new year hair and she has a bf.

Our ladies are not contented anymore.....they don't want to work but want to live large..... If am to screen munch my FB chats with some Ladies you know how worst most Nigerians ladies are. All my friends are experiencing the same thing too...

If you meet 10 Nigerian Ladies in a day trust me 8 will give you stories to demand money from you.....infact 7 will be urgent 2k

Relationship is now transaction....... Most ladies see guys as means of survival and once you are having sex it means you must take up her burden.....Most are decent olosho and that is a fact.

Guys please share your experiences with ladies you met so they can understand how bad most of them are.