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dorin27:
All women/ ladies are not like your babe. You get?

Yes ooo..she is the most beautiful lady on earth and she the one am spending the rest of my life with

She has her flaws and she doesn't pretend or act perfect like you. . lol.
I call her "mama" because she not a saint like you

cooooooks:
While living together is advisable, we humans are different and some people will not want it.

But bia OP, how far were you and your fiancee in the courtship/friendship before engagement?

IF you 'shack up' with someone you are not compatible with, compatibility will not just appear from nowhere.

Bro you can never no a woman well during courtship.... living with a woman day in day out is another level entirely ooo....
She can just provoke you intentionally sometimes and you have to really control yourself....u no women and there mouth.

davidhobo:
Guy, you are spot on, 100%. Every single point you listed, from 1-9, played out between me and my girl

Bro no be small thing ooo

Ezi1993:
It's not mandatory that intending couple should live together... because they aren't married yet..because if they do,, they'll be committing fornication.

lol.... the thread is for adults not teenagers

I think it should be mandatory for intending couples to live together for 6month to 1 year beforeor marriage...I will be sharing my own personal experience.
my fiancee have been staying with me for the past 7month we are getting married next year and our parents knows we are staying together.
I must confess is a lot staying with a woman.... Growing up anytime my mum and dad have misunderstanding and she start complaining about things we the children always support my mum but my dad always tell us we will understand things better when we get married...he was always at receiving end of things.
Now i realised what he meant then.
I have learnt a lot within this few months which I will like to share.
1: women will frustrate you but you must be really patience because is just there nature.
2: Money is the only thing that makes them happy...no matter how good you are on bed or how faithful 70% of her happiness is based on money
3: If you don't have money she will disrespect you no that for sure.
4: women are naturally stingy if she is spending her money on grocery or anything in the house she expecting you to pay her back double.
5: she will try to impose her way of doing things on you/try to control you.
6: women are manipulative if you are not careful she will try to drag you to herself and family alone
7: the only powerful weapon women think they can use to punish you is sex.
8: women expects alot from there man... buying them car,house infact she expects everything to revolve around her.
9: To be honest this sharing of bills thing can't work just save yourself the stress... just no you are carrying 90% of the bills....if she use her money to cook to her she is doing you a favour.
Let me stop here....what I wrote are just my personal experience and what I have heard from married guys.
To be honest no man is complete without a woman infact they are the salt of this world.

So my advise to any man who is planning to marry make sure you live together with her for at least 6 month so you can know the person you're marrying to know if you can handle the pressure and her characters...
Note : As a man if you lack Patience and not able to over look things don't bother marrying ooo.

If you are also staying with your fiancée feel free to add to the list of the things you have learnt.

sodiqapril:
Lol.. the main reason trump might lose is because of the way he handled the covid..asides that, he has been awesome in every other aspect...four years he didn't start a war with any country..once Joe biden enters America will feel part of what we feel by voting in an incompetent leader

lol..he didn't start war with any country but provoked many countries with is useless behaviours....eg north Korea,iran etc

LordOfTheGame:
You people should stop this sane line of dividing the people and that. Were Americans united before? This has been their nature but most of you don't know. The issue here is not about Trump's personality but about the world and your life. Globalists that you're supporting might win and take over then they will show what you don't know about them. One works gov't is in full gear to take over and all the things you consider evil will now become a new normal. Talking about division, who one earth is more divisive than the dullard most of you supported to Aso villa? Who can be more bigot than buhari and his northern co-criminals ?

that the problems with u gullible people....who comparing trump with buhari.....am I the voting him out.....nigga channel your frustration to the Americans who are voting against him.

Only a fool will support a man who doesn't give a shit about you.

first you said ...
we will win huge...then
we are winning in every state... after seeing you have been rejected narrative change to
We are winning but they want to steal our victory with mail in ballot
You are heading to supreme court

What most people supporting this man don't understand is governance isn't only about economy......this man have divided the US more than any president.
He is a pure racist....how many blacks are in his cabinet,how many did he appoint into key positions.... anyone who doesn't share is veiw he insult calling them all kind of names.

The Americans have spoken they are tired of a man who doesn't care if the country goes into flames and people dieing in thousands by covid just for economy boom.

FunnyDude:
Well said, by the way.

I'm very smart with women. But I believe at some point (age) one should be over these kind of discussion.

Unless the op is a teenager or student.

very funny.... funny dude indeed.

feel free to wallow in foolery dude ....FYI I graduated uni 8yrs ago and currently an employer of labour....

ugochukwun:
Sad

really sad bro.....the lady just created a big problem for the guy and his family......he is currently getting all the blames.

Sixfeetbelle:
Let me very certain I understood your point:

"Don't allow any man (no matter who he is to you) sex you again cause they won't take care of the resulting pregnancy."


Got it.

get someone more sensible to read and explain to you since you have failed to realise sex is two people actions..... like is only men who crave for sex... SMH

warning : long read!!!
Sex is both of you actions so you must be ready for whatever results from it without trying to force him to commit.. please no who you open your legs for and don't get carried away by what you are seeing now.

Thursday was a black day... around past 10 my neighbor knocked my door and broke the news Larry wife is died...Larry is a guy whose family house is just 3 houses away....he is a fashion designer but things weren't going well so boys introduce him into game,few months later he started making small change.
On getting there I saw the lady lifeless body on the floor .....she just commited suicide by drinking sniper leaving her son (1yr4mth old) behind.
she commited suicide because he wasn't taking care of her and he was cheating...they are not married just bf and gf things staying together...she got pregnant and decided to keep it knowing fully well this guy couldn't even feed himself properly...after many quarell, the guy insisting he not ready for the baby she went to his family house to inform the parent and they accepted her.
This lady is solely dependant on him ,no job or source of income...she can't do anything without him......with a baby there was no way the guy could feed them well with the penny he was getting..seeing her it was evident she wasn't feeding well but nobody knew she was depressed..so on Thursday after a lil quarrel in the afternoon she picked up her phone call the guy at night told him she just drank sniper....he thought she was joking rushed back home and met her lifeless body.

it was a sad one because this was a lady I still saw last Friday ....she just put alot of people in pains by doing such an insane thing.

Ladies you can't hold a man down by getting pregnant, you can't force him to be responsible for you with that....there is nothing like he got you pregnant,it is both your actions ..you both had sex and you got pregnant...so trying to put your burden on him will result in serious suffering for you if you don't have any source of income.
I know ladies who are really suffering as single mom....no law in this country will force any man who you are not married to be financially responsible to you.

If you are having unprotected sex with your bf protect yourself very well....know your cycle very well....Most guys and men out there are not ready for responsibility they just want to have fun.. infact I can boldly say most are irresponsible.

Be warned!!!!

Sixfeetbelle:
@ the bold, why are men not just getting laid then? Why move ten steps further and wife her? I mean they know these things about women, they've seen it over and over again, yet they are the ones going down on their knees and proposing to women every other day. Even in the so-called western societies.

Riddle me this: If men know women are a "liability" and lazy, and jobless and entitled and all manner of adjectives you can think of, why are men still looking to tie a woman down to them?

lol .. you are just naive.
you think men are really ready to marry like that....do you know how ladies disturb and pressurise there men on when he will marry.

who cry every now and then about not getting married.....lol

Shortyy:
Commitment my ass.
You only offer money. That's why 95% of you work hard 24/7 just to impress the female folk, and eventually get laid. Very pathetic.

can you marry a man who have no money

Shortyy:
Commitment my ass.
You only offer money. That's why 95% of you work hard 24/7 just to impress the female folk, and eventually get laid. Very pathetic.

can you marry a man who has no money

Goodman247:
even when the woman is working, she does not touch her salary, she only want to spend the man's money,go to sane Clime, women contribute adequately to the running of the home, Nigeria women are lazy.

bro what annoy me the most is they feel they have the right not to work or be jobless.

Sixfeetbelle:
What do men offer in relationships?

6/10 ladies driving a car it is man that bought it for them.
5/10 of ladies using iPhone it is a man that bought it for them.
I no many of my friends including me who have established a business for a lady.
many men have sent there gf to school... just to mention a few.
We don't only offer sex....we offer our money,food, house etc

now tell me what you offer in a relationship??

fati2001:
so you know yourself.... congrats.

read the quote above from a sensible lady.....she isn't a Dumbo like you.

fati2001:
coming from a deformed creature gotten from a rotten fowl smell gametes.

your foolishness is exclusive.

fati2001:
is that all? lolz and your quote is just like trash as you.

so say an almajiri with a mobile phone.....pick the pieces of your life together and stop been a misrable c*ow commenting on every post dimwit.

phazotron:
Very true

They may marry but them no go respect am.

What do you contribute to my life?

When fight start that's the first thing the guy will say

If not because of anything

Contribute something because of self esteem and respect.

then you start seeing them posting how there husband dont respect them on life matters.

if he is jobless will she respect him.....this most annoying thing is how some ladies feel they have the right not to work/be jobless.

virginprincess:
Op like funny dude said, if you are seeing girls as liability then remain single, stop coming here to spill trash, it not by force to have a girlfriend,

don't be naive and be logical........I don't engage cretins and teens

Stephenmoka4:
Nobody say you're talking about highschool relationship.

but the type of ladies you roll with still depend on there parent.....

santos123:
Only ignorant guys with nothing to offer don't knw the value of ladies.

lol.......who will value a lady who have no source of income.
No matter the love no man wants a woman who is totally dependent on him.

fati2001:
for ur mind now, you have made a topic.

I hope they allow you go to a proper school before you are willed to that alhaji.

Stephenmoka4:
I do not know where you pick or know your girls from, I am friends with a few girls and none is like that. All are putting work and looking for something profitable. They do take photos and all that fancy or girly things but, once in awhile.

It is either I am not noticing the kind of girl everyone is talking about or I should increase my female circle.

Am not talking about high school relationship here...this is for men not boys.

Fountainofyouth:
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you know is very easy to know a lady who sense is far from.....that image you attached is for everyone am older than in your family.

FunnyDude:
Stop this complain. You're the man, go hustle and take care of your woman.That's the natural law of life.
If you don't want to take care of your woman, leave her alone and be single.

No one point a gun in your head that you must marry or be in a relationship.

And who complain of been single more between ladies and guys.
who goes to mountain and church to pray for marital breakthrough.
the man can only take care of her within is financially limit which most see has not been enough.

The simple fact whelter you ladies like it or not is 70% of Nigeria ladies only have sex to offer....even some will tell you if you can't take care of me no sex because that only thing they have..ladies who all they do everyday is to post pics snap in front of gates, back of people car with there legs bent...so with this % is easy to generalise.
The question ladies should be asking themselves why is that this saying is so common this days.....we guys didn't wake up one morning and started having this view about our ladies.
Go on any social media platforms and see how ladies are quick to tax men with all sort of lies(some even go as far as telling you there mum is on sick beds)....how many ladies disturb there bf/men for profitable things?? she is either asking for hair,nail,cloth money or new phone....she is not disturbing him with business idea or rather trying to do something sensiable asking for his support.
In this harsh economy some are still unreasonable with there demands towards there men.
We saying what ladies have to offer is only sex is born out of most men experience....and u men here trying to be naive saying is the type of ladies you roll with, you may be lucky to be on the high class but this high class ladies have this mentality too but there doesn't come with desperation.

I don't have an issue with you been broke as a lady but the issh is our ladies are just too comfortable that way....some of you ladies put out the narration of there broke men too and here is my reply....I don't think there any lady who will date/marry a man who has nothing and no matter how broke he is he is richer than her/she is Seeing potential that why the lady is with him.

A lady will tell you she can't do what our mother did in her husband house because she isn't a slave but will want to totally financially dependant on him...very funny.

So Ladies don't see this has an insult but a wake up call because if you are not doing it you have friends who are and you know it.......Ladies try to be independent for your own respect and dignity.

it still be same old stories of setting up different committees.... honestly we don't have a president.


For the fools saying the army didn't shoot at crowd at lekki but into air....... isn't it foolishness trying to justify the army trying to intimidate and scare people by shooting into the air...what right do they have to be there in the first place.
Was lekki toll gate sambisa forest??

I hope this fools won't say the video of the army shooting in the air is also doctored.

SavageResponse:
Have you watched the videos.

Go and watch it then come back and tell us if you actually saw any soldier shooting into the crowd!

get this bro....they had no right to be there in the first instance.
if they were not shooting into the crowd why shoot in the air.....common sense suggest you shoot in the air to scare people....why did they want to scare them??

OkoNDOoBo:
a lot of Nigerians re dummies. From the video there was no pandemonium that suggest direct shooting of protesters. The gunshot seen in the video was in the air.

why were they shooting in the air if I may??
Am a dummy and I will like you to answer me