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bestabigaelever:
I see some fools up there already concluding she is ashewo and she wanted to use iPhone
innocent girls too can be victims of ritualist

Charleys:
Well this is the third time I've seen this happen.
I've seen it happen twice in my former job.

Now I'm seeing it happen again.
A man will loose his job, then the wife will become the bread winner but it won't last for a year, the man in his brokenness impregnates the wife, then the wife is relieved of her duties by foreigners who were paying her very well then it's back to square one.

I don't know if anyone have seen this happen before.

This is my third.

Then the lady will start calling me to help them. Because I was their colleague.

Charleys:
Well this is the third time I've seen this happen.
I've seen it happen twice in my former job.

Now I'm seeing it happen again.
A man will loose his job, then the wife will become the bread winner but it won't last for a year, the man in his brokenness impregnates the wife, then the wife is relieved of her duties by foreigners who were paying her very well then it's back to square one.

I don't know if anyone have seen this happen before.

This is my third.

Then the lady will start calling me to help them. Because I was their colleague.

squash47:
lol....it's not a joke.

Women are very understanding especially if they are in love.

have you ever imagined what will happen to you if you go broke one day ? as in u go very broke. will she stand by you ?


Just pretend to be broke for a month. With the way this lady of yours is behaving, she is going to dump you.


she doesn't see you as her lover. You're just a guy she is managing. And in her mind, "if you fcvk up, she go leave u .."

squash47:
if she were a real girlfriend, u don't need to remind her before she will become sensitive of how things are ......when a woman loves you, she is more sensitive than you think.

Blackmiserable:
What? Did? You? Just? Say? The life of mortal man is so hard mehn, but If I were to come to this world, I would rather come as a male. And seriously, if I came as a female and you asked me the same question a trllion times, I'd reply each time: I wish I were male. Lol.

squash47:
break up with that person u are dating...real Girl friends are understanding.

scrolldown88:
This was exactly Bob risky thought before he turned on us. Please Don't leave us bro. Don't be another Bob, it's too risky

Preshieben:
who b this
Alaye,go have a sit please if u don't know what to comment.

DrFunmisticGlow:
who are you again?why are you triggered?

She said that a heavily pregnant woman should be working like a mule. Ok na!! Someone that cannot bend down to pick pencil.

DrFunmisticGlow:
So you want a vulnerable, heavy pregnant woman to be working?

Who raised these caliber of people?

Liliantalks:
this should go to women who can date someone who isn’t financially balance , so u can encourage them .. she has stated her standards and God will grant it . Same way many girls met a man who’s already financially stable who married them . So u don’t hv to force stuffs on people .

The fact a man is poor doesn’t make him a responsible man or less of a fuckboy even

DrFunmisticGlow:
Your attempt to emotionally blackmail me with a mental illness is dead on arrival.

It seems you missed the point of my writeup. I said you should look for responsibility as a criteria.

I didn't ask you to look for bill gates or huspuppi. Responsibility is broad, it can be financial, emotional, physical and spiritual.

Yes money ebbs and flows, but a responsible man has a backup plan. A responsible man lives within his means, he is not frivolous. Do you have an emergency fund? An unemployment fund enough to sustain you for six months.

Can your man answer these questions? Maybe it is when you are in a labor room having contractions and you are begging apathetic nurses and doctors to come to your aid because your husband is a financially irresponsible bus driver and you have no money to pay bills. Or you accrue hospital bills and stay in the hospital for one month with a newborn, mosquito biting you day and night.Nobody will send you food, drink and baby essentials due to debt. That's when you eye will clear.
I am tired of seeing such cases and they start when the women say the hogwash you wrote.

Liliantalks:
In my life I hardly met a man who isn’t stingy , the ones i think ain’t that stingy still hv stingy ideology, it has been me and Mum taking care of ourselves, while girls had the luxury from many men, I was taking care of me. No boyfriends help , no nothing , all my phones I bought by myself or the little help from my mum, mean while I was dating some scumbags with false promises.

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I hv come to the realization I don’t hv standards when it comes to men, it was always about love, Rubbish !! Mind you : I hustle and got my Mum so I lack nothing and hv all that’s required of an adult. So I am not broke . I realized when u set ur standards on the Man U want physically , financially and otherwise and stand by it , u meti better options .

Ojiofor:
But he is aspiring to rule or to be president of Nigeria.Is he not a national leader again?
Ojukwu you all love to hate when he alive,was he responsible for ritual killing in SW?

Esseite:
Tinubu president of Lagos Wife Senator Cousin - Osun Governor.. Niece - Iyaloja.. Nephew - Brt Chair.. Nephew - Lasaa boss.. Nephew - Luth boss.. Nephew - LCC boss.. Owner - Lagos Taxation company(Alphabeta) Etc..
Leader indeed...

Esseite:
They are different personalities, he is gunning for the centre directly and indirectly.. Atiku does not play imposition politics, Tinubu does... while Lagos may have no issues with such politics, some states might not... for 21years in Lagos, no one disturbed him.. but gunning for the centre directly or indirectly.. you would definitely have to deal with those who dont play such politics.. it's not hate.. its different pattern of politics.

Esseite:
Nobody hates Tinubu, why do people keep feeling some people hate Tinubu?... he has been in charge of Lagos for 21years, has anyone disturbed that?... nope...

He is gunning for the centre which involves everyone else and some people dont subscribe to his leadership style... simple.

Chidonc:
It's obvious you are trying to turn the tables. How you treat others is a product of how your family looks. If you believe a woman is a sex tool and can only offer sex, what about your mom and sisters. Are those ones male. Let be realistic

Chidonc:
Then he should let her be. You can go over to someone and decide they should change their way of life immidiately you came. If he can't afford to clear her debts and she is not ready to clear it herself probably due to some issues, he should continue calling or end it. The fact that she's working doesn't mean she has enough. He's the person seeking for a relationship with her not vice versa.

HeavenlyCherub:
Chidonc I like the fact that you don’t let toxic masculinity rule over your relationships. You will have a happy marriage. We don’t have many men who are leaders. Your response to that question shows maturity, leadership and provision. You are not a simp as the other commentator stated. Not many good men are left

Chidonc:
Thank you. I actually don't take their comments to heart. Do I blame them, NO. When you are raised by healthy parents you turn out great. When you are raised in a toxic family you most times turn out toxic. If your father always beats up your mum, it won't be a surprise if you do same to your wife and vice versa. From most of the comments, you can deduce the kind of family they are coming out from.

Chidonc:
Ask her how much she's owing and clear it. Atmost is 1k. Add #200 card then observe if she calls you or not. From there, draw your conclusion, remember different people and different experiences. The current lady am dating, when we started, she was working. But she do flash and most times her phone is on minus. I cleared her debt, and started sending her airtime occasionally, I realize, if for instance I sent MTN #200, she do call me over 30mins, which u know that she used all the card on me. Gradually her confidence came back and she started recharging just to talk to me. The day I lie I don't have card, she recharges me. Don't be in a haste to call her broke. Let her fall for you also.