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nanauju:
If you are looking for a comment that blames the lady, why don't you go and create yours and do that comfortably

Dat why most of y"all are single..... isn't common sense to point out both errors but is all about playing victim all the time.

when two people have a fight when settling a wise person a portion blame to the two fairly cos non is going to be totally faultless....only fools see one party guilty of everything.

nanauju:


She doesn't trust you around women, I don't blame her though. You have really not tried to build any trust with her on that issue, instead you have given excuses/justifying why you cheat. Not good

Secondly, I think angers are flaring because no source of income for now in the home. We all know how money is a big issue in relationships/marriage. She needs to see you doing something sir. Have you considered driving the cab again, at least for now, while you provide for them. Trust me she'd appreciate every effort. All the talks of being tired of the relationship are just talks if frustration. Get busy, make everyone comfy and happy, then start planning for your wedding

She doesn't cut across as a lazy type, you should be happy to have a gold in your home

typical Nigeria lady response....is always the man fault.

No advise to lady? or nagging everytime isn't something condemnable

Thiwalade:
Personally, I feel men should be less emotional and more logical. Your woman should be the one complaining about emotional gratification.

Her emotions should bring her to you, not the other way around.

God didnt create us all the same way.......u just have to accept some people the way they are.

we are wired and trained differently (some men actually don't have that strong heart)

hmmm.

it actually depends..... giving unnecessary attitude in marriage/relationship is normal but has limit and time duration.

this is an extreme one... something must have triggered it...... it makes no sense been under the same roof with D's type of vibe.

Engage her in a serious conversation..... demand answers for her behaviour towards you.....if she opens up....try and resolve what ever she says but if she keeps numb bros she tired of the marriage..
I pray she open up.

wisdomiskey:
Indeed.

We all know they are recording every death as Covid-19 in the UK , including those who died from Cancer. Many families of the deceased have come out to complain of wrong misdiagnosis and the false placing of "Covid-19" on death certificates of their loved ones.

As for me, I'm just tired of the lies and scare mongering. Since the beginning of time, people die everyday, Coronavirus or not!

it just common sense.

the data's are there.... Google average number of deaths recorded in a day before pandemic and the average number death now in UK.thanks

Acmepreneur:
Lol, I finished my masters 1year, 8months ago at age 23.
I have many skills that I have a business plan on. Currently, I'm planning to launch my business very soon but I have no money to do that. I'm planning my travelling to Canada, I'm applying for scholarships because I made a an excellent grade in both Msc & Bsc and was the best student in my class in both. I can start a business with my little skills, but that would be too low of me since I have siblings who are on my neck for me to travel out to Canada, just that the process is too slow. My life plan is set, which means once God answer my prayers, I would rise in a very high speed. I want to marry him before travelling so I would just process his own easily

so u graduated at 20 and u are from a poor background......nice one.

I smell lies

lefulefu:
she has a genuine interest of her guy at heart thats why she's nagging him to do something positive with his life.i like ladies like this who nag for their men to buckle up.not those yeye ones dat nag for u to give them money to do hair or money to buy new set of clothes.this one obviously loves her guy.the guy should buckle up abeg.

Her nagging is fruitless if she isn't working herself.....it makes no sense if she can also contribute financially.

is she doing master's herself
is she running any side business herself

let her lead by example....it no crime

funmisticqueen2:
Aunty, yoy see the handwriting on the wall, BREAKUP, DUST YOUR SANDALS AND RUN!!

People like your boyfriend are why i bash men on nairaland, so that they don't end up like him.


Your boyfriend will only drag you down with him into mediocrity, he will most likely want to use pregnancy to trap you.

Meet someone who is going in tye same direction as you are, who can match you in terms of ambition.


Would like to hear his own side of the story too though.

leech mentality...why not encourage the lady to go make money instead of complaining of her bf money.
she is insecure.....dat why I hate nairaland ladies....bunch of jobless leech.

imagine her analysis her bf take home.....what is she bringing to the table financially

she should run and find another guy she can leech on...... rather than getting her lazy ass to work.


ladies that are millionaires with there sweat have two head.

hmmn....too much pressure.
I hope you also doing your masters aswell.

Maybe you should channel all this you are telling him to yourself.
Is not cool Wen a lady is pushing her guy to work harder , complaining about him not earning enough while she is doing nothing herself..
if the 90k is too small what are u adding financially or u just want to be a leech.

No man likes a nagging woman.

Stop pointing him where the money at....why not go get the money yourself.

guys please is into the badlands a good series to watch or kindly suggest a good series

Bola146:
I don't really understand you? Is it the password or posting of your pictures on Facebook or the big dick I think both of you are not matured enough especially the op.
That posting of pictures on Facebook got me laughing seriously here When you are yet to pay are bride price Both of you are still doing corner corner relationship I just pity the lady, is she a intimacy gadget

You pity the lady
Yea it must always be about the lady.......see the way anyone decide to run there relationship isn't of ur business / doesn't need to make sense to you.
me and my fiancee post our pic on social media anytime we hang out ....that how we want it and has nothing to do with maturity.

we all have our style of running our affairs....if that wat he wants from his gal it common sense u no it doesn't matter whether you like it or not.

bro anytime you ask your partner a particular question and he/she flare up ....that not a good sign man.... she trying to go emotional to save herself.

she hiding something ..... just lock up and move on.

lol.....So she can teach the man how to spend is money

GenBuhari:
You described 60% of female population. Guess it kind of depends on how extreme her attitudes you say she gives you, are.

her mood swings is always to the extreme bro...... I just leave alone most times cos am tired of the thing.

Heistman:
She was very homely and cool and beautiful tho but she was too free for my liking...na every cute guy she dey turn to bestie even those with nasty attitudes.. .

bro I can't tolerate that ......I hate that bestie parol.....I don't trust such ladies.

Marvyx:
This 'everybody is doing it' mentality has made the world worse. The fact that everybody does it, doesn't make it right. It's really cool being among the supposedly 5% you know.

I never professed that I'm holy. I'm just pointing out that you'll go exchange vows before God on the altar hopefully soon and what you guys are doing now is what He frowns against. Cheers man.

I understand you perfectly bro......

Marvyx:
Compare those days and these days and tell me if those days of sexual purity wasn't better.

If you understand the gravity of premarital sex, you'll flee it. It's not worth it man. Good luck.

bro 95% of people all over the world practice premarital sex...
u may not be doing it but u aiin't holy

itzprezy:
she can't Initiate conversation.when you initiate she replies with monosyllabic words,k,yh,hmmm,etc.she don't call till you do.she always expect you to chat first.many more.but make I stop here

this are not good behaviour at all... honestly I think the feeling isn't mutual.....you might be the one dating her and she isn't dating u.

try and double check from her if you guys are still dating..... just Incase bro

paulolee:
dts Y i be man na...to bear d pain bcoz all gals get thier own special winch inside dm, na jus to kno how to tame them

true bro.....my woman can just be hard atimes especially any time her mood swings.....taming her have not been easy at all.

paulolee:
so many.

how are you coping??

rosy1992:
Sex should be between married couples.

Gone are those days miss.....u must test the engine before paying for the car.....a lil test driving once in awhile isn't bad.

Jayboi:
@op.
on that sex issue, take it serious o cos u may end up regretting if u marry her.

hmmm......am thinking of trying to do same to her when she is in the mood aswell....what do you think bro

chatinent:
I have nothing for you bro; sex is only for married people. Bye.

lol....u are very funny man Don't make me feel bad bro.

aceclothing:
Unapologetic behavior.. thank God we broke up

waooo that serious... can't deal with such a person aswell.

chatinent:
"Share yours?" Just like that? Nna men.

bro do u no how it feels when u make sexual advancement to your gal and she decline.... but only want it when she is in the mood.

I will go first

my fiancée sleeps alot and she is sexually selfish (she only want us to bleep only when she feels like....we have quarell many times about this)
she gives attitude atimes without me offending her (she would later apologize).....her mood swings is always bad.

I really wish she can stop doing this things because atimes it makes me have a rethink.

share yours

Dande55:
The women he called fish brain aren't mothers too? Just shut up cos you that's defending him, he also included your mum in his statistics.

Am not a dullard like you slowpoke....my mother name isn't "women"....u have to face me and call out my mother before I react.

only fools react to general statement....get D's and u will be wise someday dumbo.

Ladycewhy:
errm, una slow for this forum Sha, gosh. So you are waiting for the op to tell you he squanders his money after giving his wife up keep and later comes to be asking for tfare? .

lol....we didn't know you his wife.

why not finish up the story slowpoke

Ladycewhy:
Uncouth boys are from gutter mother ,them and their mothers will be dragged in the mud where they belong. Who ever knows his mother has fish brain should leave it as a family issue,who ever knows his mother is a wh0re should also leave it as a family matter.


My dear mother did a good job and told me to stand up to people that don't have sense like you and out them in their place. . I didn't come to impress idiotic mor0ns wey their mama not train well. All this stupid male nairalanders sef,una nor dey disappoint

story of a pained unintelligent Grandma.....stop using my words and try be productive....the earlier u get ur brain fixed the better slowpoke

Ladycewhy:
Boys here call their mothers olosho and all other demeaning names ,they are the ones without home training, it's not my duty to teach grown boys manners . Most of them think all women are like their mothers at home. And besides if you insult me, I might not be your mate so I will insult your mother who is closer to being mate.

Lol didn't no you are a grandma..... I have got what I needed to hear....U are one those gutter ladies.
Enjoy your uncivilised life and insult everyone mother......ur own mom did a wonderful job ooo cretin

Dande55:
They are always pained when they are made to swallow what they dish out. When he called women fish brain, didn't he know that his mum was part of the fish brain gender?

so the next thing is for to insult her mum,father and family.....do u have a functioning brain

Ladycewhy:
I wasn't the one calling women fish brain,I am sure you thought everyone is like your fish brained mother hence you ran with the narrative in your house and brought it to the internet.

you ain't worth it.....your foolery is out of this world ....