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Homiesjinxbank:
Why are they turning blind eyes toward tinubu bullion van saga

is there any law against carrying bullion van??... just want to know

xendra:
Yep its called cheating, even though they may not have had sex yet, she is definitely enjoying the wrong type of attention (that is also classified as emotional cheating.)
Are you cheating on her? or making her feel less in any way? it could be from lack of attention, feeling invincible to your man, feeling like you are not on his priority list.......and so on

usually a woman will only do this if she nolonger feels secure in her relationship.

So is the man fault right

Ds always playing the victim mentality of you lady is the reason why we have alot of broken home this days.

is no brainer always bring up excuses tied to the man anytime a lady is messing up.

Am hungry ....my parent didn't take care of me.....is that enough reason for me to go steal

I guess this actually a teenager relationship.....this happens alot during that stage....one of you is still confuse.
what to do in situation like this comes with age and experience....
with time you will understand better

pryme:
If 60-70% of the guys on this thread could say a lady did this, then why all the female bashing by the guys here NL?
is it that the new standard now is double standards?

bro am shocked myself...but the bashing angel is has regards ladies love for money and the feminist issh

MightySirKay:
Angel Micheal? I don't understand what you mean by that

You getting that from your gf and a ex is something rare..u must be an angel to them

MightySirKay:
My girlfriend threw a suprise birthday party for me last year, while my ex hosted a pool party a week after. Those 2 girls changed my perspective about girls. There are still some very good and caring girls in this country.

waooo this great to hear....I guess u are angel Micheal

cooooooks:
At 20, my gf bought me an expensive watch. I was shocked.

We went for dinner at one of the best restaurants in the city and I paid but it was not even up to half of what she spent on the watch.

Another day, my gf and I were window shopping. I rarely buy anything, she just wanted to look at stuff. I saw a shoe I liked, picked it up and kept it back. She begged me to just try it. I tried it and kept it back. She went 'to the toilet', bought the shoe and gave me it. I didn't like the shoe all that much but I still have it because she bought it.

This is a Nigerian girl o. She was not richer than me at that time at all.

Our women are amazing when you meet them. Women, not pikins.

is she the only you ever dated

Period007:
Even after reminding her,she said "sorry oo" without still wishing me a happy birthday

I understand the feeling bro.....I once experience something like this she didn't care even after I challenge her......so I just cut things off immediately.
few years later she came around to apologize but I never had a thing with her again.

Magnoliaa:
LMFAOO. No lie here... be preaching faux truths that breeds men with low self-esteem.

And what happens to the man? Should he remain stagnant or below her? Why not be to her those kind of men you think will 'snatch' her? Why don't you elevate yourself to that level too and be the only for her? Going by your logic then, you're telling men to intentionally pick a woman who is every way below them - just to avoid attention, etc.

Complacency and Inferiority complex rolled in one.

If she's yours, how can she be others'? Why are you ''threatened'' by a woman's choice to leave you and do as she pleases if you're alpha?? How is supposed to be?

The man should elevate her while she does what

Not my shit to elevate no one...if you want to go with other guys the door is wide open.
For me life is about wat u give me ...I give back.

Ya all ladies think relationship is about yourselves....like I don't need to elevated too or u think guys too don't have ladies dying for there attention??

landry07:
yes Idon see many for drama

lol..... but you may experience it real one day

dairykidd:
Truth is when a girl is crazy about u there's nothing she wouldn't do. Except its above her. Even poor girls go collect money from another guy to try to win u over. Same way some guys think dey can buy a girl with their money. Girl done swear say layee she will NEVER try it. But after a month into the fvckship na me come tire as she wouldn't even let me do anything... Like she was trying to prove her love with it

I get your point but actually interested on your birthday... Have any done anything spectacular for you before

Period007:
Yesterday was my birthday and up till now my girlfriend have not wished me a happy birthday .

are you sure she is actually your gf

tr

Ds is needed in my house.....my neighbor is something else.....d ladies he brings home have in built woofer.
They don't just scream....they also say crazy thing (Bleep me harder etc) with the bed setting making lot of sounds.
He doesn't Bleep them ....he pound them.

1.why does most Ladies take genuine complainant from guys about there behaviour or actions in relationship has an attack.

2.why does most ladies find it very difficult to advise each other genuinely or speak the truth to themselves.

(I could remember when I had issh in my previous relationship in which my ex behave really bad.....the day her best friend came with her to my place to plead on her behalf....after I stated everything she did in her present.... what she told me was I needed to be " PATIENT WITH HER MORE"...I gave someone money twice to set up a business and she squader it you are telling me I should be more patient without condemning her actions.

Pls everything isn't about gender supremacy....if a lady does something wrong pls tell her to her face instead of always trying to turn it around to be the guy fault because u feel is an attack.

bukky doggy style
A call came in on my friend phone wanted to hand it over to him and saw that.... felt kinda bad

I pay all the bills ....yet my fiancé isn't totally submissive got to send her back to her place today cos I can't kill myself

MrBrownJay1:
YES if someone gives you something for free you have to respect the fact that they made an effort AND took the time to cook for you etc
but, expecting that person to pretend that the food was great, even afterwards (when you fully well know it wasnt) thats crazy. that woman is letting this man know what she believes, and possibly stop him from inviting her to these family gatherings.


- the fact that you would want her to keep lying to her man that the food was great (in order not to hurt his feelings), is where i believe you are failing in this issue.
- the fact that you believe that she lacks home training because she gives her man HER opinion about his family, is where i believe you are failing in this issue.
- the fact that you believe that whatever she may say against his mother, is automatically wrong, is where i believe you are failing in this issue.

you misplaced bruised ego is in the way of common sense.

How about if she have kept her mouth shut about it

MrBrownJay1:
i guess in your world, if anyone's food is too salty (or if anyone believes that it is) they should just be FAKE and pretend that the food is great, abi?!
this is the babe's opinion, if a person in a r/ship cannot have their own opinion then, i am sorry to say, they shouldnt waste their lives being in a r/ship with a closed minded deluded person.

Then she shouldn't be a foolish coward....why not say it to the woman face??

Next time she will say his mum doesn't know how to dress or talk....honest opinion abi??

opinion of people with no home training.

bro we are Africans .... Nigerians to be precise no be everything your see you say.

Anything given to u freely u have no bleeping right to complain about it ..... only the wise knows

MrBrownJay1:
very foolish of the dude...the babe was honest and said her mind with all honesty and no offence, but this dude is like trying to say that...
A) his mother is perfect and can do no wrong
B) if a person cannot cook that good, they have no right to complain about food (which is the dumbest statement ever)

Honest abi.
let the reverse be the case and see what will be the lady response.....I mean let her cook for his mum and the guy should tell her his mum complained about her food(salty).....let see how she will respond.

No man can take such except a foolish man.....is common sense...no woman like hearing there food is bad.

this not a clear case of being honest.... just a pure stupidity.

This just pure case of a lady who lack good home training.
You complain about ur gf cooking alone....she takes big offence not too talk of your intending mother in-law.
what if the mother hear?

There are somethings u should never talk about or complain about.

A lady must respect herself.....if u are visiting a guy let him know he will be responsible for your tfare from the get go....and lose ur self respect instantly....cos u can't be classy,working and can't afford transporting yourself.
So he will entertain you, pay your tfare but shouldn't ask for sex
??
if u don't have money to transport yourself stay in your house.
Giving you tfare is an obligation...which by choice he might honour or not....
Sis is not your fucking right.

Starz825:
Everything no be about simp or being alpha...na respect ... When girl visit u ...I no see any reason a guy would be called a simp for giving her tf

what can I say ....we are in Nigeria.
when a lady visit you ..it a must to pay her tfare.

But the guy mustn't ask for sex??

Homeboiy:
You are pained that the girl is smarter than u

Fiance not wife and u camped her in ur house looking for free sex always.

She use that style to stop u from demanding for sex ,cos she knows that if she's awake ,na sex go be ur next option.

very funny......I wish I could do that but bro she d one complaining cos I hardly touch her

HRHQueenPhil:
Talk to her wen she is awake
Let's hear her excuse

we had a full blown fight yesterday nite....when she woke up I snubbed her....then she complained and I got pissed.
I told her i asked u to come to keep my company not to come sleep ur life out.....den she said did I have any work her.....she said it part of her anytime she has nothing doing she sleep.. .rite from her school days.
So I guess is her hobby .....and I don't see myself coping with that.....I hate unnecessary sleeping.

Kalapizim:
I feel for you oo, I am the type who wakes up an gets energetic throughout the whole day without sleeping so having a partner who is opposite and sleeps won't be funny at all o.

we are same bro.......I cant stand someone sleeping all day.
anytime I force myself to sleep during the day....I wake up with chronic headaches

tempem:
No crime in sleeping. (I sleep alot too)

She's kinda Industrious to a degree. At least she cooks and does house chores.....

If all she does was to sleep, then, that could be an issue.

But wait!

Has she been like that for a very long time, or it's this shelter in place that's giving her the liberty?


Just appeal to her that a little evening chat is fine.....

she has been kinda like that but not this level.
Ds time she is taking sleeping pills

Tallesty1:
Ask her why she sleeps like that.


I have had similar experience and when she told me what her job entails, I realized that coming to visit me was a holiday for her. She just needed to be somewhere away from everything and rest.

hmmm.....

otokpamike:
Hide the pills n dont allow her buy another one.

thanks bro... doing that immediately

ds

Jewessgratitudd:
With less than 30k? Well I drew my conclusions from what she said that she asked the guy how much he had so she could augment it and the guy said he doesn't have up to 30k. So how do you think getting a new apartment is feasible between now and may? Hes only tying her down with lies.

Please I just want you to know this.....life is about choices.....he is not tying her down or whatever.
The obvious truth is most Ladies love comfort which isn't a bad thing but rather than put pressure on the man just leave him..that wat he can afford for now......she not ok with it.
Should he go and Rob a bank cos his gf isn't comfortable with where he is staying??

Funny enough d gal might be staying in a face me I face u aswell.....who knows.

There are many men staying in duplex and mansion she can go woo one and leave the struggling man alone.