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is one thing that really get me annoyed......most Ladies are ingrates that why i tell men to do things that is convenient for them never inconvenient yourself for lady who isn't your wife

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chatinent:
Personally, I can't stand sb who posts her daily life activities on social media.


Like you only have to read her timeline to know what's happening in her life.

bro ladies who are hustlers hardly have time to be snapping pic...they are too busy for that.
But they are very few infact you will hardly see them....the hungry one are always the one you see very where and always posting.

This thread isn't for you if you are yahoo guy but if you are a hustling guy who put in sweat and blood to make that money listen carefully to me.
We are in hard times now and I don't think as a man you have to be wasting money trying to satisfy a lady who isn't your wife.....you can put the money into better use.
like i always tell you bro I have a fiancée and we are getting married first quarter of next year by God grace so am not a woman hater.
Mostly we guys are the one always making the mistake of either going for wrong ladies because of beauty/body shape or begging a lady to date you that u know she doesn't love you.
Mistake you should stop making if you want to prosper.
1: Avoid Ladies that post too many pics on social media....those pics are advert leave them yahoo guys, married men.... they are only in for the money...it is highly irresponsible of you as a hustler to speak to such ladies.

2: If you are in serious relationship with someone who have never used her money to cook for you, wait for you to pay for everything even if is salt then you need to end it now......you courting a big leech who will eventually leave you.

3: If you in relationship with a lady that comes to spend weekend with you try to push lil bills to her.....a lady comes to spend days with you and you feed her, take her out, pay her tfare to and fro is irresponsible of you....you need to let her spend part of her money aswell so she can understand meaning of sacrifice.... trust me you are passing a good message to her... ladies her manipulative never give in to everything she wants else she will be charge and trust me you don't want that.

4: lady are naturally Stingy with money....if let say her phone is faulty and she needs a phone ...you can assist her based on this condition, bringing the amount you can spare and she adding her own....is highly irresponsible of you buying a phone for a lady (have done it twice and I regretted it).....She is an adult not your daughter.

5: if she is good to you ,you should be good to her aswell....never be stupid not to tell her when you are broke...never fall for that nonsense of you are not man enough......You can give her money but never commit into that BS of you will take care of her.....We only take care of babies not adult.

6: Note -if you are a guy and you are dating a lady who stay home all day pressing her phone, watching TV and she waiting for you to meet her needs(hair,sub,bills) ,then you not just a fool but a Dumbo....Tell your mum the person you are dating has nothing doing and hear what she will tell you.

7: never make the mistake of setting up a business or getting a shop for a lady you still dating....bro it is a foolish thing to do(have done it before trust me it never ends well)...you can only support....70% of humans are ingrates.

Why I exempted yahoo boys is because they are the one making free money so they can afford to waste money just to sex with numerous GFS.

Bro don't let a lady who doesn't have up to 1k in her account begging you for 2k broke shame you because you didn't obliged......most of this ladies have no dreams or goal...the only way of survival is to rely totally on men.
You are making this money with your sweat and blood invest it in good business,save for the future (it more profitable)

You don't owe your gf any money because you are dating her.....if she feels because she cleans your house,cook and (you have sex) it automatically means you are responsible for her bills then you need to end the relationship immediately.
( my fiancee once told me she suppose to be in my plans financially and I told her you are not my responsibility until I put the ring on your finger I owe you nothing...I told her to weigh her option if she can't cope the door is open).

Is only in Nigeria a lady feels she has the right not to work because most are trained and told what they need is a rich man but time have really change....bro you can't afford to have a liability as a wife/gf.

As for the yahoo boys/married men you are making things difficult for we hustling guys but I encourage you to keep spending for those useless ladies and keep using them for rituals/sexing them like animals..... married men keep sexing them and dumping them like thrash...since they are not ready to work and be useful to for themselves.

thebosstrevor1:
The girl also contributed to the shop, it is not like he did everything for her. She played her part too.

The guy knew she was running a business nothing stops the guy from telling her he will pay after.

What if every woman in the boys family comes for free hair, how will the business survive.

It is also similar to a girl running a subscription business or Pos business, so because the guy contributed some money to open the shop, then his mum can come whenever she feels like to subscribe for free or withdraw money for free without thinking about the survival of the business.

That is just wickedness

honestly you are dumbness lady here..... despite a lady like make it things clear to you ....you still this dumb to understand.
see the primary school questions you are asking
wat if every woman in the boy family come to her shop how old are you.
if you are my wife/gf and my mum comes to shop to make are hair, you collect money from her non of your family will get a dime from me..not even tfare when they come visiting.

DaInferno:
she no charge her... na the mother ask how much?!

she should have stood up and walked out without asking right nawa oooo

christabell18:
The boy and the girl are both at fault...
The girl's fault: business is business.there is no family in business.this is because once the business liquidates due to eye service thing,the same family you did eye rendered eye service to will mock and blame you till you die..the only mistake she made was not to discount the boyfriend's mom. And I love the way she handled the guy during the conversation.she didn't insult him but the guy was so foolish to have insulted her. That's immature and arrogant of the guy.

The boy's fault: No matter what, that doesn't call for insults.tge highest he couldn't have done of he felt disappointed was to tell her what's in his mind and if he isn't pleased with the girl's reaction after that,then end it there.walk away like a responsible guy.you could have as well told all your family members to come make their hairdo for free all because you fund her.And to top it all,you had a count of all you did for her,let's thank God for what he does for us then.
God is even trying for providing for the whole world.you are only providing for one person and you want to die there.ypu are the ill-mannered person here. And with due respect, the mother shouldn't have told the son what happened,instead,call the girl to order. She might not know it's wrong to collect the full money but discount.But the question is ,does the mother even want to pay at all?.I'd say the mother is inconsiderate if she doesn't wanna pay at all,and actually,that's what the story is depicting.

Conclusion....gurl,I'd advice you to be easy on money,you aren't totally wrong,you should have collected the money and returned some to her immediately.
Boy,you need to control yourself.think before you act.you're a man or going to be one someday.
Mum,don't try to be a relationship breaker,try to mend,and it it doesn't seem to be working, then break.
I rest my case

just want to get you clearly.....so if is the other way round the guy should also do same.

If your husband/bf charge your mum in full for a service render how will you feel.

Do you think the guy mother will ever go her shop after that what difference did it make going to her shop??
We are in Nigeria a gesture of not collecting the money from her and collecting it from the son would have been wisdom.

thebosstrevor1:
this is the entilement mentality most nigerians have

They want everything free because you are dating them

His intention of sending his mum to her shop is to get free service, in the mother mind she thinks she is testing their future daughter in law.

Since he knows she is running a business what stops him from telling her that he will pay her after.

thank god, she stopped nonsense before you know it all the female in his family will be coming for free business

in 3 months, business is already bankrupt

Business is business, there is no free launch in freetown

ooooo really....but if it was the other way round do you think it will reasonable for the guy to charge the girl mother full (no discount)....what message do you think he will be passing across??

my fiancee also did something similar to me and she is regretting it big time.
Am a farmer so I always send her mom different foods stuff from my farms for free.
She got into rice business of recent and my mum needed 2bag of rice....I linked my mum to her but to my surprise she charge her full money (no discount) I was furious and confronted her.
She said no family in business and I told her your mum will not get anything from me henceforth. she thought I will change my mind but Is now 2 month without me sending anything to her.

She now begging me and i told her they will pay for the yams, potatoes,garri, eggs and chicken from now on.
No family in business.

thebosstrevor1:
It seems the man married her because her parent are rich

The woman is right, it is not the job of her parent to loan the husband money.

If the man is a real man, he would have had saving for bad days.

No masculine man will go so low to ask his wife or her parent for loan. Who does that.

pls don't be offended.....how old are you ??
just want to know before engaging in discuss with you

Sixfeetbelle:
Please, don't feel fly with that. I even thought you have firsthand experience.

Cc: Lefulefu

Come and explain how you guys order stuffs when you go to Starbucks for date.

Telling you that would have been me bragging and I don't do that.......I might not have gone to lot of country overseas but the two have been there is a big difference between them and average Nigeria lady.....they are more reasonable.

Sixfeetbelle:
Which country do ladies drink tea or coffee only at dates?

Please, don't kill me with laughter

If you are educated and understand foreign accent start watching foreign movies so you can understand there life style over there....stop watching Nollywood.

Sixfeetbelle:
Men are complaining about those things she listed up there. Recently there was a post about dates and a guy was telling other guys to only offer malt to a girl on a date. Like, are men becomming these cheap and yet somehow still expect women to stand by their side?

is a date meant to be about food
Only hungry ladies complain about food....in other countries ladies take tea or coffee on date but here Nigeria is an opportunity to eat what they can't afford.

virginprincess:
Guy get my point i am not saying a gf should be a liability to her bf, what am saying is that least he should be romantic sometimes, like taking her out for dinner,giving her money to make her hair& some other few things, at least that will make her happy& love you more.

like i said this not secondary school relationship discuss so you don't know what we are talking about cretin.
you think if is just doing what you highlight up there men will be complaining??
Maybe you should ask ladies older than you what they demand for from there bf then you will understand this thread.
no be demanding for biscuits and sweet we are talking about teenager.

virginprincess:
Guy get my point i am not saying a gf should be a liability to her bf, what am saying is that least he should be romantic sometimes, like taking her out for dinner,giving her money to make her hair& some other few things, at least that will make her happy& love you more.

like said this not secondary school relationship discuss so don't know what we are talking about cretin.
you think if is just doing what highlight up there men will be complaining??
Maybe you should ask ladies older than you what they demand for from there bf then you will understand this thread.
no biscuits and sweet

virginprincess:
Nonsense post, i wonder what you people benefit in creating stupid treads, if a man doesn't take care of his girlfriend then who will? zzor darling kindly leave them to continue in their stupidity

girl we are not talking about secondary school relationship here so this discussion is above your age.

Zzor:
stop sounding as if I'm a bad person,see Ehn,most men are running away from their responsibilities,and trying to leech on women It's good to be industrious and career driven as a woman but never allow a man to come leech on you.I hate men who have their eyes glued to their women's money

lol which man have you met that has is eye glue on your money (which money do you even have).

We all know most women are very stingy....so how many women will even date men that will depend on them??

Zzor:
Rubbish post ,don't take care of your woman and watch another man gladly do.You are sounding like a man leech,i hope you are not mimimile93.Those women you mentioned in your post wouldn't have agreed to marry their husbands if they show the same traits and behavior you are portraying.

why are you pained are you a liability.

FYI those women won't marry the men if they were jobless.
the same way a lady wouldn't date/marry a jobless man so a man shouldn't date/marry a jobless woman.... is in this country a lady will feel she has a right not to work/ be jobless.

bro know this 70% of Nigeria ladies are in relationship majorly because of financial gains....times are hard and they need to survive hence since they are lazy and want good things they can't afford.... they have to depend on men for there needs...that why most of them are seriously cheating now.
Growing up we hardly see women that cheat because it was men things but right now bro, women have even over taken men in cheating.
Now is so bad that even some foolish guys feel you have to take care of a lady needs first before asking for sex because this men see them as decent prostitute.
So as a guy you need to stop making this mistake if you are not among the foolish one I mentioned above
1-Never beg or force a lady to date you else she will make a fool of you by turning you to a maga.

2- Never try to satisfy a lady or go out of your way to give her what she wants if she not your wife because bro you will regret it... your mother is your priority for now.

3- one of the best thing you can ever do to yourself is dating an ambitious lady someone who has the hustling spirit, who have dreams of her own....that way you can really go far in life because your income can never be enough.

Note- most successful men go for women who are very ambitious and who have goals....check most governor there wife are professors,judge, lecturers,top professionals,big business women because they know what it means to have a liability for a wife.

One liability you don't want to have in your life is a woman because bro you can never achieve much with a woman with entitlement mentality leave them for the yahoo boys.

lanrefront1:
Stupid talk
So it's not enough that he's ready to sacrifice himself.

u can also join him,sacrifice your life since it is worthless cretin

capatainrambo:
oya continue staying in paradise Nigeria.


The overseas yiu think its heaven do yiu know how they got there? Its through blood and gore

bro he is no different from politicians who hide there wife and children abroad.
let him first bring back his family to join him in protesting or start the revolution then we follow.

lanrefront1:
Stop stupid talk

If Sowere don't qualify to be an activist, then who in Nigeria is an activist?

activist don't force there cause and struggle on people....Fela never forced/beg anyone to follow him

capatainrambo:
Sowore is another hustler.

If he truly wanted revolution he would have shared guns. And ammunition for boys. And see if there wont be actual revolution. Buhari will sue for peace by force.

When dealing with humans never appeal to thier emotions, the mistake sowore made . Nigerians just stood by and watch when He was picked up in the night and locked up like a dog. If he had done the needful dss going to arrest him will have it in the back of thier mind that they themselves may not return to thier families.

If you say it's a revolution then let it be a revolution


Wtf does peaceful revolution even mean ? Until we get serious here we will continue to endure nonsense.

Millions of people died in china before china got to where they re now.

India
USA
Germany
Italy
UK
Japan


If you re not prepared to get inside the ditch and fight forget it.

while is wife and kids are in safe heaven (overseas) abi

hmmm.....5million wedding and all she will contribute is just pussy nawa ooo.
sometimes i wonder how we got to this point in whichh our ladies are so insensitivity