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MarieSucre:
With an attitude like this, how can you ever know. Mr I Too Know. Stop saying "even we asked the question". Ask the f**king question already and stop jumping into baseless conclusions given to you in a one noisy, dirty beer parlour by ogogoro drinkers.

How can you know whether we know the answer or not. Are you a woman? Are you in our head? How do you know what we know or how we will answer??

Instead of you to out your ear down and learn from women about women, you prefer to seat down and write misogynistic crap about us. I pity your situation.

MarieSucre:
Once any woman comes to complain to me about it. I'll be sure yo let you know so that you can give your usual judgemental counselling. Thanks

matrix199:
I didn't want to respond to your first quote becos I realised you're a minor. But I think your second quote was quite too far. Am I to exchange words with you or what? I'll let this pass. But next time, don't disrespect people. If you can't quote like a well trained kid, then don't quote at all.

dare2differ:
I swear yours cannot stand beside mine. You know it and I know it.

You can't even reason, why on earth will you keep throwing that word like oponu. If the way you reason a good type like an ode is what being brought up properly mean, I am happy to say I wasn't brought up properly

Omo ale jatijati!

MarieSucre:
matrix199
goingape

Did you even read what you wrote? How does it relate with the article? Instead of you to ask pertinent questions like why is it that these women are put in such a position by marriage? How can men ensure that they make the women feel confident and loved so they don't have to do all these?

Look at what you're saying.

MarieSucre:
Can a woman not do both. Sleep with men and improver her career at the same time.

dare2differ:
Something is wrong with you!!

You better go and solve your mummy issues, and while you are it, ask her about the number of prophets she slept with to keep your father


Sexist pig!

musicwriter:
very correct bro!.

The urgly truth is education was designed by the British to make us dumb. It was designed to make an African chemist a chemist on papaer, and African physicist a physicist on papaer. No theories, no inventions, no research papers. Absolutely nothing to show for it.

matrix199:
Any lady who believes or indulges in such trash isn't 'EDUCATED' at all.

She may pass through school, it doesn't make her educated. It only makes her a literate, able to read and write. What makes her educated is school passing through her. She gets to think and reason properly.

kenonze:
No personal effort can save marriage from crashing if you guys aren't meant to be.

matrix199:
The implication of marrying an uneducated lady.







Btw, this is surely the lengthiest post on NL. Too lengthy to read through.

Islie:
http://www.punchng.com/crazy-things-women-save-marriages/

musicwriter:
A university should be able to provide it's own electricity with all the science they teach. With N90 I'll show them how to generate their own electricity forever!.

Blazinraj01:
it's not my fault that you are unhappy.

Oma307:
They wouldn't learn, they prefer to leave the good ones and follow heartbreakers

Blazinraj01:
I could but I want to die with a clean body

ladenz:

Na im you quote the whole article?

justwise:
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They are not else you will be calling your mum and sisters name.

We Nigerian men have our issues as well so..

justwise:
No angel out there, women are women naija or not.

wristbangle:
An adage says that before a thunderstorm, lightening strikes. This adage is peculiar to some relationships where guys complain bitterly about ladies excessive desperation for money. And the saddening thing is that some guys are very familiar with these signs yet they still fall victim to these daughters of Jezebel that go on a date mainly for stomach infrastructure just as Tosyne2much's state governor, Ayodele Peter Fayose.

Below are categories of ladies you must avoid if you want a prosperous financial life.

1. Those that request for recharge card

Many topics have long been raised whether it's ideal for a lady to ask for recharge card barely meeting a guy for 24 hours. The bitter truth about ladies who are quick to demand for recharge card is that they are lazy, too dependent and have no atom of regard for themselves. For crying out loud, must your boyfriend bear your burden down to ridiculous thing such as N100 recharge card? When you meet a lady today and she begs for recharge card tomorrow, just know that she is nothing but a shameful poor girl.

2. Those that ring bell about their financial issues

Guys, please beware of ladies who doesn't complain about any other thing but money. Some of them automatically assume you should start taking their responsibilities which their fathers cannot take the moment you propose to them. Always try to avoid them like plague. The highest they can give you is 5minutes bleeping.

3. The hungry ladies

The fact that many Nigerian ladies see men's money as an escape route out of poverty often makes them act like they haven't been fed for months when on a date. When a white man take a white lady on a date, she might just order for coffee and that's all, but as for Nigerian ladies, many of them lack modesty that they will feed as if there's famine on the land and may even open their bags and start loading fast foods for their friends, neighbours, family members and so on and so forth. You need to avoid these kind of ladies promptly.

4. Those obsessed about gifts

During mothers' day, she will ask for gifts, during worker's day, she will ask for gifts; during Easter period, she will ask for gifts; during Independence day, she will still ask for gifts; she will even ask for gifts during your own birthday.. These ones want nothing but money.

5. Those who are too inquisitive to know about your salary

It beats my imagination when I see ladies hell bent on knowing her boyfriend's income salary.. Is it even necessary when you're not married to him?. Such ladies are nothing but thieves who do not deserve any form of respect. Guys should discard any lady who is extremely inquisitive to know your monthly take home.

6. Those who never appreciate your financial support

If you subscribe monthly data plan for some ladies, common "thank you", will not come out from them. Even when you make them realise that such attitude is bad, they will reduce you to a loaf of bread and claim that your mates buy range rover for other ladies without strings attached.

7. Those who call you "sweet names" only when you spend on them

Any lady who calls you sweet names such as sweetheart, darling, honey when only you spend on her has nothing to offer you. She's only concerned about what she wants. Such a lady will always leave you when you fail to give them money to buy what will not better their lives.

8. Those who wait for car lift

These kind of ladies should be a no-go-area for a man with brightened prospects. They always wait for guys using cars to pick them at bus terminus in order to save their money. As bitter as it may sound, you may not have a prosperous financial life if you eventually date someone like them.

ogochukwu247:
Former beauty Queen, Sylvia Nduka has been called out by a disgruntled wife for allegedly trying to snatched her husband. The woman took to Slyvia's instagram page to lambasted her for disturbing her husband every night looking for her next meal...

source
http://www.reportnaija.com/2016/05/ex-beauty-queen-sylvia-nduka-in-husband.html

ramalot:
This is a classic case of "monkey no fine, but the mama like am"

Nigerian girls are some of the most mediocre looking females on the planet. Wherever in the world they are.

Go through nairaland female profiles and see the horror shows within.
Go to the Nigerian Independence parade in New York, and every year it's a bunch of crusty looking females with fake hair.

kobonaire:
There are beautiful women all over the world
Including Cameroon, I was surprised to find out

MrCork:
...not sure if u where glasses or contact lens but which Nigeria women are the finest?..in which world?..


[size=16pt] ...SHOW ME ONE!!!![/size].

mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks

Kath5kouture:
Is your mother and female relatives among? Oops! Sorry,I forgot your a black American! Olodo Rabata!

Rossikk:
I will advise my kids not to get married. It's not worth it.