ItsQuinn:
Don't mind am....the guy get chronic self esteem
I think the guy is okay being single for the rest of his life

ItsQuinn:
Why are you angry? Aren't your female family members part of the 99.9% you stated earlier?

trendyrammy:
Twitter user, ‏@MaiNhiya has slammed feminists and gender equality in Nigeria, saying wives are meant to "take good care of the home".

http://www.trendyrammy.com.ng/2016/12/twitter-user-slams-feminists-reminds.html

Doctorfitz:
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Tell that to ur elder brother in the presence of ur siblings and c if they won't slap sense into u

youngjoy:
if it was the man dat cheat now it would just be am sorry and wedding continue.. this is not fair.. am sure the man didn't love her das y. bcus if he does then dis is not enough reason..... no one is perfect, we all have our short coming

phatgirlz:
my dear no be small and d guy in question is my frnd,d wedding was supposed to be 29th nt 27th,OP get ur facts straight she was nt caught bt she was found pregnant for anoder guy......

LadyGeorge:



Including your mother

okwadatigbogal:

yup they are...just like ur mom and sisters...idiot

uruba23:
See as they are judging someone life on Nairaland without hearing the other party ,may be he meet her with a guy who happen to be a close friend you never know,but that doesn't mean I am supporting her since her so call cousin had decided to admit what he did not see with his eyes

austinosita:


Help me ask ur fellow girls

And don't tell me to ask my fellow guys cos na una worse pass!

See NL girls forming "holier than thou" as if they don't have more than 1 bf......(alternative)

95% of Naija babes are not faithful........quote me anywhere

Florblu:
Damn!is been faithful that difficult?

Doctorfitz:




Dem just like peni.s pass their own future who does that? Girls

Doctorfitz:
Smellymouth y are girls like this? Y dem put their sense for leg?



Which kain generation of girls con dey this life sef... Abi Na shawarna block their brain or Na ice cream?

Funny thing is they are all like this... I no believe until e happen to me.

rhymaholic:
A wedding billed to happen on 27th December 2016 was cancelled after the man Izuchukwu Ekweanua found out his proposed wife to be Uchechukwu Obi was still seeing another man days before the wedding. The traditional and white wedding was supposed to happen at Nnewi but got cancelled. The man have since announced on his Facebook page that the wedding is cancelled and the woman's cousin have confirmed what broke the proposed wedding off.

dinachi:

All I see is a female gold digger and a very foolish man paying her bills and claiming he is in love.

wydmag:
Tell me ladies don't like a masculine guy and I will tell you to get out of here!
Just look at their combination, they are cute together and simply compatible! Every lady want a man who will make her feel like a baby! Just look at the way the guy is carrying the girl anyhow!!
Guys! Keep fit upstairs (brain), middle floor (albs, biceps etc) and downstairs( I don't need to explain that one)

mizzyboy007:
keep going ape and stop talking nonsense....its poor peasants like you that girls deceive.... mumu

mizzyboy007:
Guy, I'll give you the best advice you can ever get here... pretend to live her and agree to her terms, keep fvcking her pussay constantly till you are tired. then when you finally find the girl of your dreams, dump her sorry ass. those kind of girls don't deserve your kind of person.... Guy no dull oh. just do what I said and see how happy you will be. cheers.

caukerzee:
Well it goes like this; I met this girl some months ago. I instantly had a liking for her reason being that she looked so much like an old friend. We got talking and as time went on, feelings began to set it. I made my intentions clear to her about wanting to date her and she was like "let's see how it goes". We hung out a couple of times, from the signs I was getting it became obvious that she was intrested in me.
One night we got chatting on whatsApp after we came back from an outing. I asked her: "hope you had fun today? " she replied: "yes. Thanks for making my day. It was generally a good day except that I'm having issues with my boyfriend ". ["Did I just hear boyfriend ?"; I said in my mind] Trying to play it cool I said: "Sorry about that". At this point I told many thoughts began to cross my mind. Not wanting to be a girlfriend snatcher I let it pass. We continued chatting. After a few convos she asked me: "Hope you're not hurt ?" "About?" (Pretending not to know what she was talking about ): I replied. "About the boyfriend stuff? "
"Nah...why should I?"
"But I have feelings for you and would have really like if we could work out I'm sorry ".
"Now I'm going to cry in my pillow for weeks (I said jokingly )".
"Lol. You're funny ".
"Do me a favour ".
"what ?"
"You're going to be responsible for getting me the second most beautiful and amazing girl now that I can not have you".
"Lol ".
Long story short, she began trying to convince me to give it a try. Telling me how her boyfriend stays outside town and how they only see once in a while. I let her know that I can't share my woman with another man, how I can't be the side guy. She kept insisting telling me to trust her. I still let her know that more than affection I need comitment and how it's impossible to be commited to two people and all the emotional baggage that comes with it (having witness a similar scenario ). She told me to pretend I didn't know about another man in her life. She kept insisting. I then asked: "If you have a boyfriend what that make me?"
"Boyfriend": she replied. We kept going back and forth about the scenario until I told her to forget it as I cannot be a "Backup plan". She claimed I did not care about her feelings.
The following evening her roommate called me asking me what I did to her friend and how she had been crying all evening. I felt bad and asked to meet so we could talk things over. I eventually agreed to date her giving her the following terms :
1. That she figures which of us she's going to continue with and a day will come when she has to decide or it's over.
2. That she never brings him up whenever we're together.
She was very happy and took the offer. Things got off to a great start. Time went on and we increasingly got fon of each other.
The first day we kissed, she told me she was feeling guilty. Trying not to be a drama queen, I reacted cooly. I just reminded her about our agreement of not bringing stuff like that up. She cries any time we have sextet and as time went on I made her feel comfortable about sex.
The relationship went on. We had fights, we reconciled every time like every other normal relationship.
A few days ago when she was supposed to leave town to her family for the Christmas, we had our goodbye sex and all that. We said our 'byes' and 'i miss you(s)' & parted ways. Latter that evening, she called me and was crying over the phone. I told her to calm down and tell me what the matter was. She told me that what she did with me earlier in the day, she did with the other guy. My heart shattred. I was so furious and didn't know what to say. I just ended the call. She kept calling and texting to apologise saying she won't bring him up again and that she needed someone to talk to at that point that's why she called. Ignored her for a while then I replied her; if she wants us to work out, she we have to meet up and talk about our relationship should be ideally. But she seems not to be able to make up her mind. I feel this is a typical case of trying to eat your cake and have it.
What do I do?

Freak101:
OMG this is on front-page??I didn't expect this

Please I'm a girl ohh,and I'm just 17 to y'all that think I'm a boy,edakun,I'm a girl and I'm just 17,how can I leave the house?where will I goto when my siblings are my only family??our Mom is late and we built the house together on her land that she left for us,we used to live in a landlord's house to those so we moved after her death and built a house even though she was already building it before her death, she built it to the window level so we built the rest and please lalasticlala can you remove this from front-page?tthese people replying are scary and I didn't expect this to be on front-page,I just needed a small audience but I got some warm answers though,thanks so much everyone please I appreciate your comments,God bless you all,God bless seun for opening this platform, it has blessed my night and I feel conforted..thanks lalasticlala I love your name,thanks to the remaining super mods,y'all are doing a great job here,God bless you all.

Season greetings

epobot:




Are you a man or a woman? secondly, how old are u? Also pple do crazy things for love esp guys,so dont be too shocked. Happy holidays..pray for ur brother and try 2 be friends with his woman

Freak101:
This is the genesis of the whole issue and I would appreciate your sincere answer if you were in my shoes.

I have two siblings,including me we are 3 altogether and our mom is late, so the three of us stay together in one house we built together.

My brother has a girlfriend that spent a week with us this month and the first day, she was kinda sluggish which I hate like waking up around 7am and staying in bed till 11am, as expected, when you go to people's house, you do what they do, if they use only maggi to cook, you don't add your own seasoning, even if its not your boyfriend you're expected to do what they do and assist in every chores they do.

First night she cooked, she used something like onga to cook although it's not onga which purged me during that week but i endured. And she cooked "ewedu" that we don't eat at home, my brother never eats ewedu, but he ate it because of her, I was really shocked because even if he's hungry, he'll never eat your ewedu soup, but he ate it, I just assumed that it's love and I cleared it from my mind.

Until last week, he fought with my sister and punched her because she wasn't happy with the girl and she was giving her attitude, even me, I'm not happy with her, but I don't show it, but she showed it because she can't take it, so he punched her and she started bleeding profusely on her nose, and that was the first time I would see them fight though, they don't fight at all

That's not the end, he got her an infinix zero 4 in that same week, meanwhile my phone's touchpad is bad and he hasn't even said anything about it, he got her a 90k+ device, seriously guys, I'm angry and sad, I think this is getting out of hand already.

And he'll be asking me every time that "do I like her" but I really don't have an answer because I don't want to break his heart, I really don't have an answer for him, but I'm not happy with her vibe at all. She's a badluck.

Please what do you think?

INTROVERT:
Oga, u try o. All is well that ends well...7 years don reach Uche serve hin master for onitsha become Oga himself.

soji1992:

bro i hv tried using ur referal link but its not going

Araoluwa005:
yinmu for you

Braveryy:
Please I need answer, I don't want to waste this money on a chappy phone.

Thanks nairalanders

harbdulrasaq88:
Nigeria's President Muhammadu Buhari has expressed sadness at the death of a Second Republic Senator and member of the Board of Trustees of the All Progressives Congress, APC, Chief Francis Okpozo.

Okpozo died on Tuesday in Ozoro, Isoko North LGA in Delta state. He was aged 85 years.

In a statement released by his spokesman, Femi Adesina, Buhari said:

“The President hopes that all who mourn Senator Okpozo will carry forward his legacy of unwavering dedication to the unity of Nigeria, even as the nation would fondly remember his contributions to peace, development and justice in the Niger Delta.

“President Buhari prays that God Almighty will comfort the family of the late senator and grant the soul of the departed eternal rest.”

http://www.newshelm.com/2016/12/president-buhari-reacts-to-sen-okpozos.html

cc lalasticlala

Smoke2015:
When women notice men they like like to think he’s confident, smart, witty, funny, daring, adventurous, blah,blah,blah… Before all that, these are the first things most women would look out for in a man appearance-wise.

Here are the top 10 items any woman would look out for:

1. His shoes
2. His haircut
3. How he blends colours of what he wears
4. His smile…Kai..(At least he has to make sure he brushed that week)
5. His height (compared to his pictures)
6. His watch
7. How well ironed his shirt is
8. Eye contact
9. His sense of humor
10.How he treats people that work for him e.g waiters, cooks, his staff, drivers etc



http://mojidelano.com/2016/12/first-things-women-notice-when-they-meet-men-they-may-like/

sanyahkod:
I noticed the presence of several monitor lizards in my plantain farm and tried setting multiple traps to catch them but none worked.

Having watched lots of Ultimate Survival episodes on discovery channel as a fan of Bear Grylls, I decided to use one of his methods; the use of hooks.

So I bought 2 fishing hooks and used chicken intestine as bait. I did that around 7am.

A few hours later, look what I got!!!!

chimere66:
Nigerian man Efukikata Edet yesterday surprised his girlfriend Emerald Macaulay with a proposal at Ibom Tropicana Gallery Uyo.He knelt down to propose and Emerald said yes and gave him the 'hug of life'.

We wish them the best as they tie the nut sooner.


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2016/12/nigerian-man-proposes-to-his-girlfriend_25.html?m=1