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dearbunmi:
Dear Bunmi,

I have been married for three years and we have a daughter. I have been secretly seeing one of my husbands friends for the past six months though he is also married. We have a sexual relationship and love each other so much. But I feel bad because this man is a better lover than my husband. As a result, I have not had sex with my husband for weeks. I know that this is a wrong thing to do, but Im very happy this way. Why?

Dorothy,

by e-mail.

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Dear Dorothy,

Because you have no morals, no scruples, no conscience and no common sense. It is clear that you have no respect for your husband, his friendship or your marriage vows. You may think you are happy now, but the joy will evaporate when your husband finds out about your affair. Sexual compatibility is important in a marriage, but it takes a lot more than good sex to make a long, mutually rewarding relationship. Dont throw away a good future for you and your kid for a sexual fling. By the way, why did you marry your husband in the first place?

Bunmi

http://dearbunmi.com/he-satisfies-me-more-than-my-husband/
ask@dearbunmi.com

this is the reason why I hate NAIJA WOMEN.

you people can't keep ya yansh to only use husband!


rubbish set of creature!

Ugosample:

I know........

thank God!
I may be wrong in my assumption Thu!

Ugosample:
Are you sure you have been with white people in your life before?
Judging by that statement you made about black girls being more promiscuous, I highly doubt it.

America is not the only white people on earth! hope you know?

Amefrica:
Are you sure about that?

100%

but ya is an inward creature! we do things inwardly which mask our emotion!

remove that mask and see an explosion of emotions in dept while female on the other hand are outward creature.
them them don't have a mask to hide emotion that's why they allow there emotion to flow and easily forget what dey say. you see, that mask is just like a container that hold our emotion and when that container is fill it explode and we do things you never imagined.

Vinshu:
Cc Mynd44 Rule 2.. Insulting a nairalander

you are still trying me!
unless you want me to release your first picture!

Amefrica:
Men are stronger emotionally and psychologically. But during some moments (like a wedding like this), it'd be too hard and difficult to block the pathway and not let the emotions get to you - which in turn causes the emotional outburst.

men are not strong emotionally!

Vinshu:
Nonsense. Fake tears.

3 months in, they become lord god misogynists that bully their wife and turn her to slave. You see them clamouring for submission and subjection. Forgetting the time they were crying like babies in the ceremony.

you this black ediot!

yes I know who you are! make any noise and I will open your yansh on this public forum

I know the pics of this person and who she is and what she does behind this moniker.


try me I swear I will deal with you such a way that your moniker will turn to nobody just as you are!

Ezegozie:
These two things confuse me Just like CV and Resume did to me before being enlightened about them.
Now Who Will explain Application letter and Cover letter and point the similarities and differences if any?


And please it will be highly appreciated if you post samples

what is the different between you and a caveman?

the difference is that the caveman don't have access to Google while you do! and yet the cavemen once rule THIS world with there limited source if knowledge!

EfemenaXY:
Agreed. It takes goat to recognise a goat

yeah! I'm a goat you are a goat we are all goat and everybody is happy!

EfemenaXY:
Na wa o! Some women have absolutely no self respect.

No man, I repeat, no man is worth chasing, much less fighting over.

Mtcheeew.

no WOMAN, I repeat! no WOMAN is worth chasing, much less fighting over for. there are very useless WOMEN here in NAIJA.

infact NAIJA WOMEN deserve to be treated like goat!

fratermathy:
On Friday 29th April, 2016, a great intellectual, literati, philosopher and friend departed this world of strife. I got wind of the news the following day and it was difficult to react to it. I became short of words because this friend was so full of life and bubbling with ideas. I have known him all through my years as an undergraduate student and even now, he is one of the few people I can truly call my friend. I remember how we wanted to publish a philosophical book entitled "What Happened to Man?" but for certain circumstances. I remember that we did publish a poem together "How does it feel to be a Problem?" which was published by Saraba Literary Magazine in the Solitude Edition 2013/2014. I remember when we talked about postgraduate studies and its prospects. I remember that he called Sandra James an Athenian beau. I remember that he was a bossom friend, and even beyond so, to the Iwezus; Joy and Ewere. I remember he spoke well about "Blacky" Daniel Nnamani and actually did introduce me to him. I remember our chats; some of which I still have "screen-grabbed". I remember the day you graced Lillysparrow's day with Blacky. I remember our Masonic alignments and ideals. The Hobbessian state of nature. I remember... EVERYTHING!
I have not made many friends in the life but you, Freeman David II, are my friend and I'll carry your memory with me, always and forever. You are not dead! I refute this Neitzschean state of affair!
You had always been an Existentialist! A Sartrean and a believer of Kierkegaard and Hiedegger! You believed in the power of human FREEWILL in the face of nothingness, absurdity and futility. Why did you compare yourself with Sisyphus? Why did you become Tantalus? You put questions at the lips of everyone! You made me reevaluate reality all day. It was you Freeman, it was you... I am short of words, for the umpteenth time.

Alas! The traveller has returned
Like an Avatar couched with dust:
This is the final initiation.
Memento, Memento Mori:
From dust we come,
To dust we return.
"Then out spake brave Horatius,
The Captain of the Gate:
'To every man upon this earth
Death cometh soon or late.
And how can man die better
Than facing fearful odds,
For the ashes of his fathers,
And the temples of his Gods.'"

Farewell my bro. We shall meet at the Cosmic gate!


-Mathias Orhero

LIFE IS FULL OF SHIIT

For the very first time I feel like screaming, shouting and beating my chest like an APE who feel like protecting his territory from invaders but sometimes a little spark of care can cure this feeling. During my years of traveling and gaining new experience from people be it normal or mad I found out that the people we reject in our society or regard them as abnormality are the ones full of hope and life bubbling within, but you can't just know since we base our perception on the physical attribute or appearance of an individual.

I dedicate this writeup to you Freeman!
you were one of my top guy here who we always rob mind together! share funny pics, and do talked more on individual ways of life.

rest with no regrets!

EducationNG:
Good morning nairalanders. Some minutes after saying my morning prayers, I went out to feel the morning air. All of a sudden, I saw something moving at a corner. A long black snake. Now this is a built up area and I have no idea how this snake got here. The reptile was moving in a suspicious manner and I just knew I mustn't let it go. Since it was within my compound and close to the building.

I quickly grabbed a stick and attacked it. The snake put up a show, dangling its head and tongue and dodging my blows for about 4 minutes. Finally killed it. See attached pictures.

About an hour later I noticed my right palm seems swollen and is a little painful. Any idea what could have caused that? Please note that I didn't touch the snake at all. I used a stick and a cutlass.

Can anybody give me possible reasons for the swelling and pain in my hand? Also, what kind of snake is this? I haven't seen something similar before. Thanks for your response.

you must have touch his venom through the stick you use or cutlass but didnt notice it after soon time.


fear not! the APE man said so! it will go with time!

Siena:
[color=Blue]You still don't get it, despite her patient explanation. She's not blaming Nairaland guys, where did she say she was?

You're obviously reading, but you're not comprehending.[/color]

good!

you that's comprehending still don't know how to read!

whatever she mean is different from what she wrote and viewers will see another view different from her because she didn't write it the correct way and put an expression different from what she is trying to say!

evegran:
Silence is the best answer to the ending part of your moniker.

empty vessel make the loudest noise and still claim to be wise!

when the elders talk, you got to be silence and that's the best thing to do!

you make a best move by keeping silence since you don't know anything upstair

evegran:
Huh?
You dunno what embarrassingly so means?
It means I'm embarrassed the kidnapper is a woman.


Some NL guys can have low iqs eh. Smh!

on the other hand, you are one who have low IQ.

you wrote embarrassingly! so

do you know the expression of that comment? you are trying to say ”and so what"

you lack IQ and you lack comprehension skills but yet still blaming NL guys!

I PITY you!

evegran:
Embarrassingly so!

what's your problem!

WOMEN don dey kidnap?

INTERMAN:
if i shld tell u what am attracted to, u will be amazed

animal ass and Bo OBS?

INTERMAN:
While I was in senior SS 3, I have this habbit of feeling people's heartbeats by touching their chests.I do it for males but sometimes I do observe anytime I try to touch a female chest to feel her heart beat, there was this anger, shout and horrible reaction from them. I do wonder why the ladies used to react like that. To me I never for once knew that what is swelled up in the chest region was actually a powerful turn on for millions of males out there so they were trying to prevent me from touching that region thinking I was trying to seek sexual gratification .Note, I was already matured in Ss 3 and I shld be able to know that it was sexual since my organ was well develop. But the point was that I never knew at all, I only thought they were there for breast feeding their future kids and nothing more. Few years latter, I do observe that a lot of men do find those part of a female very attractive, of which I don't , even up till now. In one word,I am not attracted at all to a lady's breast and even buttocks in anyway. I find it very surprising why some men go mad at the frontal and backward protuding part of a female because they don't turn me on at all. Am I normal?

are you in any form physical and mentally disable?

well! I naturally don't find black women attractive!

MBAChieves:
Don Jazzy has been quiet lately but had to break silence by wishing Dr Said happy birthday.

"My brother from another mother. The most misunderstood person I know. If only the world can know you like we know you. But at the end of the day all that matters is that God knows and sees your kind heart. For as long as I live I will forever be grateful for a friend like you. Happy Birthday bro. God bless you always. #Mavin @iamdrsid"




https://www.instagram.com/p/BE2598YtR9z/?hl=en

we know what you did to tiwa!

go and take your son from her

Vivipop:
Eya! Sorry

you too!

sorry!

Igbogirlgate:
weed oooo

I'm talking and you are talking!

are you taking weed?

nonsense!

the major factor to determine marriage is virginity.

if she is a virgin good to go but if she isn't a virgin probability you might born a baby which is not yours or a disable baby.

depending on what she has use her Virginia to do determine the calamity or disappointment yet to happen to the marriage!

if you did abortion just know that your marriage will never last and the child your will born will be mentally unstable.


if you did numerous abortion! sorry is your middle name!

that genotype stuff is RUBBISH!


and if you are the type who is sleeping with guys and be using CONDOM! your child's head will forever be block just like CONDOM which block SPERM form entering.

this is a proven fact!

pandorasbox1:
Bros... If it's entry level, simply tell them you are sure the the company is well structured and surely has a pay package commensurate with the position, and you will be fine with the package. Never ever give a figure for an entry level, the truth is, they know that the experience is what you want.
Except you're an experienced staff then you can negotiate your pay

I recommend this.


you know how it work.

uc4uandc:
Hi friends, I have an interview on Tuesday. What do I say if asked the salary question (fresh graduate #entry level). A friend said he go disqualified for that......am kinda nervous already.

don't start negotiating ya salary pay!

simply tell the company: "with your good judgment I know that this company is fair in paying what we the employee deserve to be pay"


don't talked any amount. them THEMSELF will negotiate it for you. I did it and it work for me years back.

Sirmuel1:
Do you know my family?

no! who the hell is them?

Sirmuel1:
Sensible man, How much do you have?

more than your family can ever dream of!

ObiOmaMu:
Ray is a Nigerian 'big boy' based in Malaysia. Versace debuted its Palazzo Empire bag back in February this year, here is Hushpuppi with three of the bags, each is worth about N1million, at Versace Piazza Duomo.

Actress Anita Joseph was among followers who were asking him for a piece. Meanwhile, Ray moved over to Gucci after his purchase at Versace and shared more pics below.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/04/nigerian-big-boy-spends-n3million-on-3.html

STVPID boy!


he no get sense at all!

layla129:
Bad conclusion... very bad conclusion

are you a judge?

this is my own version of regret and how I see it, not you to conclude weather it is good or bad.

I regret seeing her!


I regret knowing her!


I regret loving her!


I regret spending for her!


I even regret telling her I love you


I regret thinking of marring her!


I regret everything about that idiot!

but one thing I don't regret is seeing her begging for mercy!

I don't regret seeing her threaten to kill herself.


I don't regret telling her to get the FVCK out of my house!


I don't regret seeing her life miserable now!


now I don't regret treating every woman as a piece of SHIIT.

Babayoutoomuch:
Cc as received

Read Arewa Ola's testimony. It's real and so true.

WONDERS OF SOUR SOP FRUIT AND ITS LEAF

I had a sharp pain on my left breast in Dec. 2014 and I went to see my family Doctor. He gave me some antibiotics but after a week the pain became unbearable and my sister adviced i go to General Hospital ,which I did.
At General Hospital, I was asked to go for scan and the result showed I have multilobular axillary lymph nodes,and Birads IV was diagnosed and mammography and FNAC was advised which I did the following week and lo and behold I was diagnosed of breast cancer!!!
That was how I started undergoing one test to another and by Feb. 2015 I had my first surgery to remove the lumps and started chemotherapy immediately but after the surgery the doctor told me he could not remove all through the surgery as the lumps were too big and is deep inside and the best thing for me is to go for mastectomy ( removal of the total breast) because my immune system was low, my sugar level and blood level was low, I was even diagnosed of Tuberculosis without me coughing. And I was asked to go for another test in NIMR Yaba and when the result came out I was free of TB, still was going for chemo and continued with series of tests at Mecure Oshodi.
One day ,I met a woman at Mecure who talked extensively about sour sop(ewe sawasawa or ewe sharp sharp). Though I have heard about it but never took it serious,but I collected the woman's number (that was around sept/ oct. 2015)
I Google it and I called the woman and she told me how to cook the leaf and drink it as if I'm drinking water and eat the sour sop fruit like normal fruit and that was how I started . I ate the fruit and drank the herb for 3 days without eating any other food. I was desperate. I just have to live for my kids. I noticed the pain was almost gone after few days. That was how my healing started, I was booked for mastectomy in Dec. 2015 but I did not go for it and I stopped taking all the drugs I was only taking the sour sop and it herbs.
Lo and behold by the time i went for test in January ,my immune system which was really down, that I have taken so many drugs to correct without result was normal, my sugar level was normal, my FBC was normal and the doctor was surprised at my result and he asked me what I have been taking and I told him.
There is so much improvement . So much changes in my look, my voice, my hair!
Mastectomy was cancelled. Chemotherapy was stopped! I only go for check ups. My wardrobe that was full of drugs like I was about to open a chemist is free. I no longer experience pains at all. All I took and still taking is sour sop.
God is awesome.

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=809427602524700&id=100003724023305

Soursop https://g.co/kgs/94Dgv
Cc lalasticlala

can you please kindly show us your breas.t before and after?