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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 10:09am On Oct 09, 2015

Congrats toparie,mbula and stadora. God bless you and your LOS. Wish you quick recovery.

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Health › Re: 4D Ultrasound & Doppler Scan: For Pregnant Mothers by goldmine(f): 2:49am On Oct 06, 2015

Alemo50:
@goldmine

Regarding your pains, you are probably correct about the symphysis pain. Symphyseal diastasis can be measures on 4D scan and will appear as increased gaping on standing. If it is, then I can post the various measures to take for you, which you can preview at http://www.babycentre.co.uk/a546492/pelvic-pain-spd

Dr please I need your advice urgently. On Sunday night as I stepped on a wet floor(which I didn't know was wet), with that step I took,there was a slip which suddenly pulled my legs apart. I was still standing though but since then the pain while moving has seriously increased. Prior to this slip,i always feel pain 24/7,worse when i'm trying to stand or turn while lying down. But now while turning or attempting to leave the bed, I hear snaps in the pelvic area and actually feel the bones shifting. The pain is out of this world! I end up in tears. Please advice. Thanks.

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 2:54pm On Oct 05, 2015

culturegown:
Good afternoon bumping mothers, I have been a silent member of this great thread and I have learnt a lot. Please, how much is my registration fee and who do I pay to?

Proudly team December. May Allah make the journey easy for us all.

You're most welcome dear team mate. Good to know you've learnt a lot from this thread. May we all reap the fruits of our labour.

#proudlyteamdecember#

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 1:16pm On Oct 05, 2015

stadora:
Thanks 2 u wonderful mamas 4 ur contributions n advice.
The mucus is catarr like n a bit clothy, even I ve changed my pant 2 times ds mornin, dou am stil Waitin and expectin more intense sign as u mamas sugested.
God in2 ur hands I comit myself n my LO...Amen

You will deliver like the Hebrew women dear. God is in control. Awaiting your BS.

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 1:11pm On Oct 05, 2015

kendrallmai:
Good morning mamas n sabi mamas
My water broke yesterday around 9pm d color was slight green, no strong contraction up till now just dull backache n tighten abdomen, my edd was 10th & 12th. Worst part is I'm far away from home went for a party yesterday on Saturday n couldn't return home though I'm on my way to the hospital now which will take about 3 hours. Pls mamas pray 4 me n my lo. If there is any advice kindly drop it. Thanks everyone.

May God make it smooth-sailing for you. Awaiting ur BS.

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 5:08am On Oct 05, 2015*

zaynie:
Goldmine, you be boss o! May the good Lord provide all they will ever need. Amin.

Looking at the lady's previous posts/topics, I dont think she is married at all or has kids. I hope she makes the right decision.

Amen! Thanks. I hadn't even bothered to check her previous posts sef. I come siddan dey type long story thinking it would inspire her angry

. Well, na rock she jam as she come this thread.

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 9:14pm On Oct 04, 2015

tatacherie:
Aww im so touched.@ goldmine,God that has blessed u with them will sustain u all.u shal deliver them succesfully,even easier than d Hebrew women.ure so strong,Gods grace will continue to keep u,all ur kids n hubby.stay blessed

Amen! Thanks dear.

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 9:13pm On Oct 04, 2015

tatacherie:
Aww im so touched.@ goldmine,God that has blessed u with them will sustain u all.u shal deliver them succesfully,even easier than d Hebrew women.ure so strong,Gods grace will continue to keep u,all ur kids n hubby.stay blessed

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 8:23pm On Oct 04, 2015

mubzay:
@goldmine: I like u courage. Am motivated by ur story from 2 kids to now 5 kids. God bless u abundantly. N grant u safe delivery. Me likey twins but only one @ d present maybe my nxt preg Insha Allah.
April mamas: nausea n vomiting is killing me oo. So afraid to eat or drink water but am eating sha. Its well. Supernatural deliver to us all on ds thread.

Thanks Mama. Man proposes and God disposes. May God grant your wish for twins. Don't worry, the nausea and vomiting phase would pass.

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 5:12pm On Oct 04, 2015*

promprom:
Please can I be pregnant?? We had se.x one night and the next morning I took postinor2. I think I'm pregnant and we don't. I don't Want the child cos we already have 4kids.
My question is, What medicine can I take to abort it, apart from D&C. We don't want to go to our doctor cos he will suggest I keep it.
Please Doctors,Gynaecologists and mama's in the house, what medicine can I take. I need a very good one..
Thank you.

As other Mamas have told u, no one on this thread would give you tips on how to terminate a pregnancy. Keep it and make up ur mind to love the child when it comes. I have 3 kids already. Spaced them using the calendar method and there's 2yrs and 3yrs in between them respectively. For all of those 3 pregnancies I prayed for twins despite the fact the chances of my conceiving twins was very low. I had planned to end at 2. DH begged and I went ahead for the 3rd. We made up our minds to stop there but guess what! The contraceptive method I used(pills) failed me.

I took in again when the 3rd was just 10months. You can't imagine how devastated I was. Not just because of what I would have to endure throughout the pregnancy considering the history with the 2nd and 3rd,but also because DH and I had made so many future plans with 3 kids in mind. It wasn't the greatest news for DH either but we decided to keep it. Then 6weeks into this 4th pregnancy I began to bleed.I panicked o. Inspite of the fact that I didn't plan for the pregnancy,I didn't want anything to go wrong. Was given some medication at the hospital to check the bleeding and told to return in 2 weeks for ultrasound.

The bleeding stopped. Went for the ultrasound as scheduled. I prayed everything would be okay but wasn't prepared for what was discovered. There were 2 sacs-yes 2. I was pregnant with twins! I even heard their heart beats. I broke down in tears. I was confused. I can't even remember how I managed to gather myself together to drive back home. From the following day till 12 weeks, bleeding continued intermittently. I was so scared that something had happened to 1 or both of them. Eventually another ultrasound showed that they were both fine. Saw the last of the bleeding at 12 weeks.

Terminating the pregnancy was never an option for me. All I needed was to prep my mind to wholly accept the pregnancy and shower them with as much love as I do the others. And I chose to see it from the angle that God answered my prayers for twins but he chose to give me at his own time. I gave up my biz when bed rest and minimal activity was recommended. I was also forced to get a maid-something I had previously made up my mind that I won't resort to again. I don't want to go into details of what I went through during my previous 2 pregnancies and this one that's multiple. But I want to let you know that I have prayed and worked on myself to the point that I am ready to do anything possible to ensure that I deliver them safely. NOTHING must happen to them. In as much as I would love to carry them to term have them via vag delivery like my previous 3, should any reason(valid one) warrant induction or c/s for their safety, I would wholeheartedly do it.

So far I have no regrets about any decision I have altered or taken as a result of this pregnancy. Go to TTC thread and read what women just like you and I are going through for reasons that is no fault of theirs. And you're looking for advice on how to terminate yours. You had better be grateful and keep your God-given gift. Some TTC Mamas have ported to this thread. Others by the special grace of God would come in large numbers because I know that God would surely answer their prayers and ensure their efforts are not in vain.

Apart from the fact that terminating a pregnancy is morally wrong, have you even considered the possibility that something could go wrong somewhere? My dear you could end up being served more than what you bargained for and God's wrath is never to be toyed with. Wake up and do what is right. God who blessed you with the gift would give you all you need to bring up the child. He won't give you more than what he knows you can bear. Since you know that your doctor would discourage you, then the pregnancy obviously poses no risk to your health or life. Don't be foolish!

So sorry for the long epistle Mamas in the house.

#proudlyteamdecember#

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 10:44pm On Oct 03, 2015

kaffy4bill:
Lipton tea is a big fat NO

Ah! Our able Nurse Kaffy, please tell what are the implications? Lipton that I don't drink when not pregnant,didnt even crave for it in my previous pregnancies. It is different with this one o. Been taking it every other day since 6 weeks. 31 weeks gone now. I even took a cup this morning sad

.

#proudlyteamdecember#

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 10:38pm On Oct 03, 2015

agiboma:
HI everyone

Happy safe 10 months to you all. I miss you guys.

So good to have you pop in, the brain behind this wonderful thread. Thought you had moved on and left the thread behind. The thread has really been helpful to many. I wish you all the best in all your endeavors.

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 10:59pm On Oct 02, 2015

Dear Mamas, another link for the sitz bath bowl.

https://www.everymums.com/mother-section/sitz-bowls.html

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 11:13pm On Oct 01, 2015

firsttymum:
December and u r limping.... Just imagine how team October and November go dey Waka.... Hahahhahahhahhahaaaahahha

Yes o I can imagine 4 Oct n Nov Mamas. I shouldn't be feeling so much pain now but the pain started immediately I conceived. Same thing happened with my previous pregnancy where even months after delivery,i found it difficult to move around and the pain later spread to all the joints in my body. After series of tests and x-rays,the doctor diagnosed early symptoms of rheumatoid arthritis. I was advised to wean my baby to enable me take the required medication to relieve the pain. Na so I see am. It is well.
#proudlyteamdecember#

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 11:01pm On Oct 01, 2015*

[quote author=Niyyah post=38570229]alhamdulillahiii robill ahlaminn,my princess arrived today at 4:00am weighing 3.2kg,i surely went to the heavrn n bk....I don open floor for Oct mamas o tongue

(bs later)]

Congrats Mama. This our special independence baby will surely bring unending peace and joy to your home.

Other October Mamas,keep it rolling!

#proudlyteamdecember#

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 4:48pm On Oct 01, 2015

@Hafsat24, my sister the pelvic pain no be here o. I'm practically limping now angry

.We have come this far. December is not as far as you dey see am. Just remove ur mind from it and we'll get there in the twinkle of an eye wink

Happy bumping to all mamas in the house.
#proudlyteamdecember#

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 4:17pm On Oct 01, 2015

cutiereborn:
Priase the Lord with me, fello Mamas
Welcomed my beautiful princess around 2.30pm on Tuesday.
Birth story is loading.....

Congrats Mama. May the joy she brings to your home never cease.

#proudlyteamdecember#

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 4:11pm On Oct 01, 2015

Anak123:
hello mamas, sure every1 is doing good. so so sorry for d losses, God surely has bigger tins in store for u. Been a while, for those who can rem me im d 1 with a hard bump jst above m pubic bone and 8weeks. I an now 13weeks gone. So here's an update, went for an u/s few days later, saw d fetus measuring right, and OMG some nasty fibroids, d tecnician spent so much time measurin i jst knew somtin was up. counted about 8 of em, 4 large 1s(8-4cm) n 4small(3-2cm). boy! did i cry... only me 1, first preg. really felt down,prolly why

May God's healing hands perform wonders on you. May He give you the strength to carry your baby to full term and deliver safely IJN. We look forward your awesome BS. (((((Hugs))))).
#proudlyteamdecember#

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 10:48am On Sep 30, 2015

Jennifer89:
I am happy that God has giving me breath that's enough reason to be thankful. i lost ma first fruit, ma prince on the 20/9/2015 yeah i saw his handsome face but he went to heaven how hard it is; but i have to let go. sometimes the unimaginable hit you hard to shake ur faith but i will stand strong in the word coz HE KNOWS BEST. so congratulate me coz I'm gonna come back to this forum to shear ma BS next year by the special grace of God. congrats to all September mamas and safe delivery to all pushing mamas. #Mother alive,baby alive,husband alive and plenty money IJN# Mmuah

So sorry about your loss dear Mama. I love your spirit! The almighty would surely give you double blessings for your loss in no time and your joy would be permanent. Congratulations in advance. (((((((HUGS))))))).

#proudlyteamdecember#

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 7:16pm On Sep 29, 2015

beegail1:
To God be d glory. I was blessed with a bouncing baby boy on Friday. Mother n son doing fine. The lord is good. Bs later. FTM Baby's weight 3.5kg

Congrats Mama.

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 4:29am On Sep 29, 2015

Doubledouble:
Apologies for the late announcement.

Thanks be to God, He has blessed my family with a bouncing baby boy n girl on the 16th Sept. Mother n children doing Great. God answered my prayers for vag.delivery... BS later

#teamseptemberforblissfuldelivery#

Congrats dear. May these blessings continuously bring you joy and pride. I can imagine how busy you must be now. I tap into your anointing of vag.delivery for mine.

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 3:26am On Sep 29, 2015

Teegali:
congratulations to all latest mama that just delivered. I wish all remaining September mamas save delivery. I delivered on 21/9/15 but lost d baby on Saturday morning. Allah knows best and He giveth and taketh.

So sorry about your loss,Mama. Truly he knows best and would replace your tears with joy in no time. E-hugs to your dear.

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 7:05pm On Sep 27, 2015

Congrats viviparity and comtem2011. May your los always be sources of joy and pride to your families and their generations.

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 10:49pm On Sep 22, 2015

Deezou:
Here he is

Such a lovely baby. Congrats Mama. His arrival would surely usher in permanent joy and blessings to ur home.

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 10:43pm On Sep 22, 2015*

Chinwendym:
Thanks for sharing! Me I go start the pineapple feast by 36+5 so my baby can come by 37+ or 38 Gods willing

In that case I just might be an October mum
Hurray!
Hippy!
Hoohaa!

Ozycy and zaynie yes I won't call Una senior again because my baby must show face by October! !!!
Me and Una don dey for the semu category o!

This Mama u funny gan. grin

u wan enter October by force ni. I can already picture you wolfing down the pineapples. All d best sha.

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 8:55pm On Sep 21, 2015

blessedtwins:
Pls I have something on my mind that I would like my e family's opinion as if it were their sister.
My husband has vehemently refused to listen to any plea abt getting a maid to help when my baby arrives.he insists he will do the omugwo himself or ask his younger brothers to come over for it.
Pls it sounds ridiculous but that's how unreasonable he is.My dad said I should come over to his house a few days to but I am thinking moving out to a fresh apartment.
This decision is against the backdrop of how much abuse I have withstood.
Cc: kimoni
nkkystel
goldmine
Virtuouswife
fabmummy

My dear I honestly won't advice you to invite any of your relatives to come do the omugwo. The fact that 1. You did it on your own for ur 1st baby and 2. You both can't seem to come to an agreement on it at this advanced stage of your pregnancy gives an inkling to how adamant he is. I'm sure with your 1st experience of doing it on your own, u realized how difficult it can be. U really need an experienced woman around you for assistance.

He says he will do it himself but i'm curious, how experienced is he at it?(I know of a man who couldn't afford financially to have his mum or MIL over. He asked questions and did it himself. He also involved his elderly landlady who happens to be my MIL to assist whenever he was away at work). Was he helpful with your first baby? If the answer to both questions are in the negative, then i'll advice you damn the consequences and move in with ur dad since ur dad is open to it and u seem to have a step mum with whom u have a good relationship with.

What will his brothers do for you? Bathe u? Bathe the baby? Cook for you? Or is it the house chores? As far as i'm concerned that's not an option. Moving to a fresh apartment.....hmm. Don't be in a hurry to do that. I agree with Fabmummy on that. I'm believing you can get all the assistance and attention you would need for when you put to bed at your dad's . That is considering all the options you feel are available to you now. Just my opinion.

May God guide you to choose what would work out best for you. E-hugs to you dear.

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Education › Re: Nigeia Teachers Institute- Pgde 2015 Application Official Thread by goldmine(f): 7:50pm On Sep 20, 2015

neyosea25:
Are the tablets pre-installed with the course materials?

Yes, they are.

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 5:10pm On Sep 10, 2015

@Abiagirl777, Olalayo1710 and Terese69, congrats on the birth of your LOs. May they usher in unending blessings to your homes.

#proudlyteamdecember#

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 4:22pm On Sep 07, 2015

blessedtwins:
goldmine:I am not working because we relocated from Benin to Lagos months ago.
But I have been on my feet looking for work even before arriving Lagos
I understand how I am to be blamed for not seeing this before the wedding and I accept.My aunt even said how could I have gotten pregnant despite . the truth is my birth control failed and I tried to abort it but it just didn't work.yet if I refused the kpekus It would have been said that I refused him wifely duties
I am working on getting a place to stay

Don't overflog yourself for the mistake. It has already been made. Just do the needful now and take care of yourself. Look how u would have eliminated the innocent child just because of your hubby. Thank God the abortion didn't work! Children are gifts from God. May God guide you in the right path and sustain you-for the sake of your child and sanity. Take care.

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 1:59pm On Sep 07, 2015

@kimoni, thanks. I feel honoured.

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 1:52pm On Sep 07, 2015

Deezou:
Thanks all for asking after me.finally @ d hosp and they just induce me.pray 4 me pls.will get back 2 u if possible

Wish you easy and safe delivery dear.

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goldmine(f): 1:50pm On Sep 07, 2015

tyconcepts:
So today is my BIRTHDAY..... Was looking forward to sharing same date with my LO but EDD is 27th....

The God Bless

#Team September For Supernatural Childbirth.

Happy birthday Mama. All the best.

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