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LambanoPeace:
Thank you gombs! What I learnt are;

Pastor Anita never accused him of adultery

Pastor Chris didn't divorce his wife

And pastor Chris didn't have any property in his name. (that's some humility). Though someone on here asked how come Anita didn't know this, I think she didn't know these because it wasn't material at the time she was with him, and if he did have, a law firm like her lawyers would have dug it all out.

So, two things.. He'd have lied if he said he didn't have any property to his name, if he actually did, and since the lawyers couldn't find any, I believe the OP.

Also, since she didn't accuse him of adultery, that clears me even further. She left him, he didn't push for a divorce, so in other words, he is not to be blamed.

Was she abused? Well, depending on the context.... it may never be physical abuse, nor even emotional, and even of it's emotional, it could be simply that Pastor Chris ignored her demands and she was pained by it for so long a period up until now. Let's not assume he abused her just because she said so, like gombs said... He's told the whole world he didn't do it, she said she was abused... let God be the judge. Me thinks we should leave this matter be, they've separated already. Life and ministry goes on.

Cheers

Candour:
You are free to make claims my friend. Olumba olumba also claims to be a church of God, do you think I should be scared of calling them a cult?

What's the difference between you who mindlessly defends oyaks and militants who mindlessly defend their murderous rampage?

Candour:
Which means you now admit you painted Anita a liar? Especially when you absolve pastor Chris of any wrong doing?

As for CEC growing, they're in the same group with militant Islam my friend......THEY'RE BOTH GROWING and the murderers also appeal to familiarity with God to explain it

Candour:


You're clutching at straws my friend.

Anita claims she was abused in her marriage. She regrets tolerating abuse for so long in her marriage. Do you need me to tell you who she was married to? So you can know who the abuser she refers to is? If you say oyaks didn't abuse her contrary to what she said, isn't that painting her a liar?

Joagbaje:
As much as I don't want to enter this matter I don't think Gombs tried to paint anybody bad in his post. He laid the blame on family members and lawyer who tried to put fire by being wrong influence .

vooks:
Negro,
You are carrying a heavy burden; proving Anita was ignorant of Oyaks wealth and that she was NEVER abused.

Candour, pray for this junior to receive some sense

Candour:
See what Anita said in her own words

“My story is not one of a bed of roses, far from it but I had a choice to either beat myself over the regret of tolerating abuse for so long or put a stop to the abuse and recreate my life for the best.

http://dailypost.ng/2015/08/18/i-tolerated-abuse-for-so-long-anita-oyakhilome-breaks-silence-on-divorce/

Was she lying or not with what she said above?

After you answer, come back so I can tell if you painted her a liar or not then possibly apologise to you.

Candour:
If it happened to mere mortals like you and I, its because we lack the faith or we're simply not Christians. Now that it happened to the ultimate 'god of man' in Nigeria, Jo suddenly remembers there's something called "Will of God".

I remember all the arguments we've had on issues like this since 2012. I remember the WOF thread and similar threads where I and others tried to make them see that their doctrines place them in a bubble easily deflated by reality but they said all sorts in defence.

I never bothered myself with this drama since it broke in 2014 because I saw it as simply another case of man and wife problems and his horde of loyal folks will fight dirty to defend him. However, Gombs in trying to defend his master had no qualms about putting down Anita forgetting that he or others have opened [size=18]threads in the past [/size] to extol her virtues as a pastor, spiritual mother, celebrate her birthday etc. He even went as far as painting her as a liar for alleging she was abused then playing dumb when paxonel asked him to explain.

Is this the first time Jo flips and flops? My brother, it must be an attribute of their 'godhood' o otherwise why hasn't he paid good 'ol sirJohn his 500k?

daretodiffer:
You don't have a life

You can never have one

No offence, I am just being sincere

Candour:
Gombs is an insider obviously. He confirmed it himself otherwise how did he know that oyaks had nothing to his name and Anita, the wife and associate pastor of 22 years didn't?!!!

vooks:
How do you know there was no adultery?

paxonel:
Exactly!
That's my premise.
And you know the premise is very possible

Candour:


My friend Gombs.....desperately applying the dumb stance to avoid being a little bit honest huh?

Paxonel's question is How do you know pastor Anita wasn't abused?

Were you living with them as an adopted son? Or maiguard?

paxonel:
I was asking
how are you sure pastor Anita was not abused in any form by pastor Chris?
you know Nigeria men are fun of abusing their wives in secret at home.
it is a normal characteristics of Nigerian men

craziebone:
Believer's Love World Inc is not a pentecostal church?

What it is, then?

What's a pentecostal church?

Your decision not to join the PFN stems from 1. The betrayal from CAN and the. And 2. The law of the land that allows you to associate freely with anyone and not to associate with anyone at all.

paxonel:
you are not answering my question?

Joagbaje:
Not just a rumor but a very childish one. Do people cream hair on the floor ? You heard such nonsense and believe? And father will travel all the way from Benin to LAGOS without the son knowing ? Even till he enter the room , with all the security men and they couldn't say dad is around . Until he CAUGHT THEM! . Silly story

dollarlander:
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Remember, before the death of elder oyakhilome. He caught pastor chris in the white house, with a lady rubbing cream in his head, the jerry curl, his father wasn't happy with the state he met them especially pastor chris wearing boxers lying on the floor the lady on top rubbing cream.

Elder oyakhilome then ordered pastor Anita to come back home from UK and when she arrived pastor chris moved to the church.

Is that rumour also?

craziebone:
here it is @Gombs

craziebone:
@Gombs, i mentioned you in my earlier post and you just ignored me. Is that gentlemanly of you? You should have atleast said something.

paulGrundy:
@Gombs, I understand what you are trying to do, but I suggest that if you want to do a writeup like this next time, be sure to back it up with an 'evidence'- soveniors, snapshots, e.t.c. So that you can pass your points across effectively.

For example snapshots of the documents showing that pastor Anita tried to remove pastor chris as a board of trustees in CEC UK is very powerful, and would easily sway the opinion of critics.

Eastbay:
Oga,
Check your tenses, shikena.
You should be ashamed of yourself. Instead of accepting correction, you are trying in vain to be witty. You write like a retard yet you want to put forth a convincing argument.

This is the problem I have with insolent, myopic, so-called born agains like you. Always in a rush to sound or look intelligent without covering their bases.