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OP u r really on point.

i think these days pple focus on the unimportant thing than d important. i dont bliv in buying expensive things if u cannot COMFORTABLY afford it. if my salary is 100k, i cnt be foolish enuff 2 buy a weavon of 50k whn i hv greater needs.

carefreewannabe: I can't respect a man who is controlled by his peni.s.
The ideal case would be, you can trust your partner that much that you are not worried about him contaminating you with STDs. A man with dignity.
Unfortunately, this is not an ideal world.

very true. many men say u shld be able to trust ur man whn dey know quite well dt d man cld be cheating. a friend of mine working in an HIV clinic in Nigeria said the percentage of married women with hiv is alarmimgly high.

Novice1: it has to do with a complex suffered by Africans in general.

If you are sure of your worth, you dont need people to address you with titles to feel important.
The quaity of a man's character/training should emanate from his/her interactions with fellow human beings and not from titles.

Most people brandishing titles about in Nigeria/africa are actually hollow from the inside.

I have seen people in their remedial yr (Law) in d University being called "Barrister"
And stark illiterates bestowed "doctorate" titles by our compromised universities.

And village chieftaincy titles? thats a free-for-all. Just make a few bucks (by hook or crook) and go back and shower the village head and a few kingmakers, voila! you now have "chief" to add to your titles.




It is all in vain.

The real achievement is how much you impact other people's lives positively.

i share ur view abt complex. a flatmate of mine during our NYSC ws trying to woo a girl and he introduced himself as phamarcist Daniel. she in turn introduced herself as engineer Ann.

sheyma: Jst say u no sabi toast woman or u r d busy type, weaker men gv excuses to stick to 1 stronger men explore,its only d matured dat manages 1 inrespective to his desire.

i do not speak of physical strength but of strength from within to be able to restrain and hold back. that, my friend,is greater than physical prowess.

am not a man.

i know of a truth that not all men cheat. not all men are controlled by their sexual desires.

some men have the strength to say No while the weak ones blame their weaknesses on theories they concoct in their heads or what their menthors fill their heads with.

the keyword is discipline. a lot of pple lack discipline and they will justify their actions with whatever they want.

someone said TWO SEXUALLY ACTIVE PPLE CANNOT ABSTAIN OR SHOULD NOT ABSTAIN(WHATEVER)says who? such uninformed hasty generalizations are really unintelligent.

Abstain from it.

the fact that u dont have d discipline to say no to ur desires doesnt mean everyone hs 2 be dt way.if u want to test drive, test drive but dont make it sound like its impossible not to.

poster...sorry but we dint know u guys like to be treated like dis too since u guys always act all hard and all

oseiwe: Pls, take it easy.

PDA? Make una calm down wit all dese abbr. I tot twas a gadget u produced.

hey u wld hv checkd to see dt i corrected myself b4 jumping d gun

dating*

the funny thing that i hv noticed is that married pple are more embarrassed to kiss in public unlike pple dt r jst dated.

Rocktation: No na. Giving belle. Hehehe.

lol. men these days like to always want to declare that they r d head at every opportunity they get as if we hv said otherwise.

a tiger doesnt proclaim its tigritude. if dey act responsibly and play their roles, it will be easy 4 d woman 2 see him as the head.

very interesting piece dt i think every woman shld read. a woman shld hv a life outside her man. many women act like dey r nothing without him.

[quote author=~vicky~]if a man does the cooking, washing, cleaning vice versa what will the wife be doing? sleeping? no it not so[/quote]if d woman is doing d cooking, cleaning, working(office), birthing,what will d man be doing? watching football? naaaa

fellis: Hmmmm. So you are one of those men with awesome cooking skills?

lol. i guessd u were a woman like me.

fellis: Why na?
I compensate for these things with my cooking skills and bedmantics.

really?cooking? . i bet u cnt cook better than me

...but seriously submission doesnt apply to boyfriend n girlfriend AT ALL.

a woman shld submit 2 her husband jst d same way a man shld love his wife.

submission is yielding completely to a superior authority. dts not an action deserving of a boyfriend.

ifeness: No i don't do religion,but in-tuned with nature. The facts are very obvious. The earth is called mother because it is feminine,isn't it? Mother mean eternity,wisdom and knowledge. The war in Liberia was stopped as a result of women bringing both sides to the dialogue table. That is why a woman became the president of the country. Women are naturally caring,hence they form a balanced society.

The term human right was derived from the ancient society governed by women. There can never be a God without a Goddess.

u make a lot of sense. some men will kill u 4 dis.their egos cnt make dem see dt women r better than them in a lot of ways

fellis: I think I am number 8, number 1 and number 3.
The procrastinating, know-it-all critisizer.
Yes, that's where I fall in.

stay away from me!

will u be able to take d person out comfortably for public events without fear tht d person will speak n disgrace u?

will u be able to discuss issues and xpect the kind of contribution u wld want from a companion? or u'l hv to go out n hang out everytime u need to gist.

poster ur writeup is very vague.u failed to mention example of such flaws. cn u be clearer and objective rather than subjective.

bin gbagbo: NO!!!!

its something dey both have to talk about

it also depends on the nature of d man. some men like cleaning or cooking.

couples shld talk about these things to clear d air.d fact that a man cooks or cleans doesnt make him less of a man.

what makes d woman liable to cooking n cleaning and not the man? he works n brings home money. she does too.

men shld try to be reasonable.

[quote author=Mrs..Chima]If ALL WOMEN ARE BAD then that mean the manbitches on Nairaland who have claimed that they have good wives, girlfriends, mothers, sisters, and aunts lied! [/quote]true talk! they talk down nigerian women. dey say dey r gold diggers, artificial,superficial,fake, bad, etc. but their Nigerian wives, sters,etc r good. . talk of double standards

when a married man locks his fone especially because of his wife, he hs something to hide.

my husband musnt try it sha. i wont ask him, i'l simply lock mine. but he cnt do it sha.Ahhhh!

poster what do u mean by poverty sef?

do u mean that d guy is jst goin thru a phase and is putting things in plae?

or he's not really working hard to make money and is trying to give women a bad name 4 not sticking wit the poverty.

money is not the the ultimate but its usefulness cannot be overemphacised

i listened to Everly brothers after my 6yr relationship. i cried a lot and in 2mnths, i hd even 4gotten his bday.

freecocoa: interview away, I dey kampe.

sorry. work overwhelmed me.

what country do u reside?

lol.very funny. in some cases, the guy probably has a random fling and is tied down whn d girl gets preggies and d family insists marriage.

i cnt imagine the pain dt woman went thru. i dont want to even think it

who is goin to interview me? i want to interview freecocoa. freecocoa are u ready for d mindblowing, audience-puzzling interview?