annoying thread.ur father is one in a million men dt end up marrying the generous lady. even in home videos it doesnt work again.

close my account,sell my property to help a "boyfriends" vision na me born am? lets be realistic and wise here.u guys will not advise ur sisters to do such an unwise thing. whn he breaks my heart,dts means i lost my love plus my property.naaah!

guys are jst trying to exploit girls in d name of love. pls love smart.

whitecat007: Two weeks ago when I had some friends over and was going to treat them to my all time favorite food{moin-moin}my guest actually thought I was having a seizure and needed Ambulance during the peeling as they kept asking me if I was okay.

With so many moin-moin lovers, we should be inventing a special peeler for beans

i second d beans peeler

as long as we both bring equal contributions to d table, d man shldnt be too quick to ring d "am d man of d house" phrase at every given opportunity.dey share d house work equally too and wake up to attend to d crying baby equally, change diapers equally.

i think am jealous. i cnt share my man.wont.cant.never.he wont even have d energy 4 anoda woman sef.

if d kiss solves d problem,then its romantic. bt if d problem is still der after d kiss, then its is grossly unromantic. those movies lie!

poster where do u meet these so called "nigerian"girls? how come u r attracting such girls?

and its possible u try to impress them wit money n gifts from d start and dey get used to it.

Caracta: Wait o, did these girls ask you guys for money or gifts at gun point? As in, were you forced, cajoled, bewitched or seduced into meeting their demands? Pray tell.

good question. poster pls ur response is needed

InesQor:

Nice one! Hope the beans won't get crushed in the process though?

u dont actually pound it.u jst turn d pestle round and round on the beans lightly to remove d back. i cook moimoi wit smoked fish,crafish, or i use corned beef, raw eggs, chopped liver,etc. love it!

d guy shld hv known dt simple piece of info considering his reason for being there in the first place.

i hv hrd pple blaming channels tv 4 being unprofessional. but i dont think dey were

Orikinla: Okro and stew with fish will cost only N1000 and can serve 10 people.

i think hes looking for something cheaper

Its good 2 be back on nairaland!!
I think one reason a lot of women stay in abusive relatnshps is dt we tend 2 try n understand d guys reason 4 his actions at d detriment of our wellbeing

Dis abuse is destructive now or eventually.safety first...love later

Very informative writeup

Okija_juju:


Have you seen the pictures I put up?!

Those pictures are from the sites of supposed Pay-as-you-go Cable providers abroad. Look at it and you will notice that what they are offering is the exact same thing DSTV is currently offering us in Nigeria & Africa..


I stand by my word that THEIR IS NO SUCH THING AS PAY AS YOU GO CABLE TELEVISION anywhere in the whole world..

If you think DSTV is too expensive, try NTA

no matter d case, anything cn be cheaper with d right competition. whn ders monopoly, we feel dey r doin us a favour.

dont sound so sure and unsympathetic. d situation of d country is affecting pple badly more than u. i try to empathize wit pple. i subscribe every month bt i know dt a lot of pple cant.

u sound like if u r ever in power,u will make a big demarcation btw d rich n d poor.

men dont need a reason to cheat.

we r d distractions.not any of these things.at least we operate these so called distraction, not d oda way round

hey! poster d fact th calaber girls r said to be satisfactory in dt area doesnt make them loose. stop concluding

although some pple dont care whn dey see a ring on ur finger,some pple will keep their distance whn dey see dt symbol.

in my office,its so hard 2 differentiate btw d single n married men. a lot of d married men let u assume dt dey r single so dt dey cn flirt.

ders a particular guy dt hs bn actively wooing me. he even wrote me a letter to ask 4 my number n invite me out. i dint jst trust d guy, so i alwys refused. i

discovered months later dt d guy is married. but he doesnt wear his ring. he never mentioned to me dt he ws married cos i never thot to ask. till 2day, he

doesnt know dt i know and i hv kept it dt way. i enjoy seeing him disgrace himself by begging me 2 give him a chance...telling me how much he loves

me.

pleep:

Is it so hard for you to just make eye contact with the person who are interested in, so he can go ahead and ask for your number? You are Pathetic.

Believe me the women who have 'success' with men don't just sit around like a log waiting for something to come along. They have game... and the men who have success with women don't have the time or the energy to "Persuade" a random stranger to like them.

sit like a log of wood n keep waiting to get eye contact,green light and dont go for what u want whn u see it.

pleep: If you use a public clipper at the barbers can that give you aids?

ignorance is when u ask d above question..

eduson77: Stupidity is when a man is sleeping with more
dan 5 women without condom but still carries
his own clipper to the barber's shop..


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hilarious! i cnt stop laughing

pleep: No one is saying the woman has to woo the man... But the truth is, for young people the female has the choice in dating. A man can ask a million girls for their number but none will say yes if they were not attracted to him in the first place.

That is why girls should let dudes know they are interested, then he has the green-light to move in and ask for her number. This is the best and most efficient way. People end up in bad match-ups because dude are asking out girls who don't really like them, while girls are not getting with the guys they want because they are being passive. If this is too much for you then you have insecurity issues.

i see that d world is changing and its expected dt women hv to give green lyt to men for them to woo them. wow! pls dont make me laugh. it hs neva bn declared that

a woman hs 2 give d man green light first. d man sees a woman n goes 4 her wheda or not she gives green lyt.its his job to convince and persuade her. bt u want

it easy. no sir! pls dont turn d tables

ur point is...

am a short girl and i want a tall guy 4 my kids sake

dmcdad:

That ain't chasing my dear.. Do u even care if the guy is kinda the shy type?

if hes d shy type, does dt mean dt evry girl he like hv to woo him first? its not a womans place to woo a man. dts my opinion. u myt say a woman should woo a man. dts ur opinion. we dont hv to hv d same opinion.

honeric01:

This is confusing. mind elaborating on the "connecting to God aspect and without being logical?" don't you think you can only connect to what you understand perfectly well and to understand something perfectly, you must be logical?

i mean by not questioning everything and trying to analyse His ways or how He plans to carry out His plans

by jst yielding urself to Him without having doubts in ur mind.

dmcdad:

Sure! There are other men that can do the wooing even though they are not the kinda men she wants.. Abi?

is she d kind of woman he wants? if she is, he'l come to her. women dont do d chasing.

dmcdad:

My dear... Maturity here ain't about the age buh ur ability to handle situations with high level of reasoning. Besides, one who is mature is balanced psychologically, emotionally and otherwise. What is emotional balance? I think it's the ability to handle an emotional situation sanely and with dignity irrespective of the emotional tension..

So, like I said from the outset, if and only if one is very mature. Capiché?

i still disagree with a woman being d one 2 approach d guy. there will alwys be other men.and i dint say anything about age.

dmcdad:

I totally disagree with you... Personally, I'm too mature to act so awkwardly. I'd prefer I tell politely that u are not my kinda person (that is if she ain't my type) buh to act the way u talked about, that's never gonna happen. Bottom line is; if the guy is matured enough, go for it.

a man may appear mature but whn d goin gets tough, u myt be surprised. its best 4 d woman not to be d one 2 hint it. she cld be friends with him n then things cld

develop from there.but i dont bliv a woman shld be d one 2 say it.afterall s.perms chase e.ggs n not d oda way round

honeric01:

Oh yes, you're right, missed that part. all in all, it takes a logical person not to be easily swayed and this explains why men tend not to go to church in numbers like women who are more religious than being spiritual.

religious = fulfilling all righteousness
Spiritual = connecting to the maker in personal terms.

dts why i said women r more in tune with their feelings and tend to be discerning and cn easily connect to God without being logical.

some r religious bt dts a diff case

Bekmy: if the guy is matured enough,the lady should put on courage and tell him.

i disagree. whn push comes to shove, u'l be surprised dt d guy wil tell everyone dt u wooed him. i prefer scheming. u cn scheme n strategise and orchestrate d whole thing without him knowing u did it

see all d guys running their mouths dt dey want beauty...blah blah blah. go bk n look at ur gfs faces, am sure u'l console urselves wit "beauty is in d eyes of d beholder". lol...

honeric01:
But you said logical, now it's discerning?
Well, i would say it has more to do with sentiments. when it comes to religion, it's harder to convince a man than a woman.

i dont seem to get u. i never said women r more logical.read thru my post again. i said women discern more while men r logicaal.