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it is true that they say "for better for worse", but at what point is enough,enough? she cant be psychologically and emotional sound and happy with that kind of environment. evreyone deserves to be happy.and ur friend is not left out |
poster this is a very good one. violence has really eaten deep into pple. i saw a pic of a guy whose private part ws bathed wit acid by his gf cos she found out he cheated.i dont kno where they r from but d comments pple were putting up were disheartning. they said he deserved it and all. pple r jst ready to do evil with every provacation. i wish we cld sit back and weigh the consequences of our actions before we act. "they deserved it" is the slogan these days. |
Ekebest: This is not realoh!! ok. ws alrdy imagining seeing a croc d next time i enter a pool ![]() |
[quote author=gree-die]D assumption dat sex is a sign of love is often times a wrong one. Sex creates a certain bond nd perhaps dats wat some mistake to be love. Most ple believe love goes hand in hand wit sex but not necessarily. U can convince ur man dat u love him by doin tins ple in love do, go out of ur way to please him but stop short of sex. Tell him u want to wait til u wed nd give him reasons. If he is worried abt ur ability to satisfy him, well all pussies r d same, its ow u use it. Tell him havin sex wont make urs magical, its ur ability to learn tru readin, watchin nd practicin in marriage. If he argues dat he is sacred u may leave him, well sex wont make u stay. If he is concerned abt ur fertility, well sex wont perform any miracle but medical examination nd treatment if necessary can fix d problem, drag him to a hospital nd it he argues dat since u r goin to tie d knots soon so havin sex b4 wont make a difference, well argue back dat not havin sex wont make a difference either. Make him see reasons nd do it lovingly. If he loves u, he ll bring d date a lil closer, not run[/quote]very good points.sex is not the answer as many people make it seem. a guy once told me dt ders no way he wont sleep with his gf.he said what else will dey be doing? talking? |
[quote author=gree-die]D assumption dat sex is a sign of love is often times a wrong one. Sex creates a certain bond nd perhaps dats wat some mistake to be love. Most ple believe love goes hand in hand wit sex but not necessarily. U can convince ur man dat u love him by doin tins ple in love do, go out of ur way to please him but stop short of sex. Tell him u want to wait til u wed nd give him reasons. If he is worried abt ur ability to satisfy him, well all pussies r d same, its ow u use it. Tell him havin sex wont make urs magical, its ur ability to learn tru readin, watchin nd practicin in marriage. If he argues dat he is sacred u may leave him, well sex wont make u stay. If he is concerned abt ur fertility, well sex wont perform any miracle but medical examination nd treatment if necessary can fix d problem, drag him to a hospital nd it he argues dat since u r goin to tie d knots soon so havin sex b4 wont make a difference, well argue back dat not havin sex wont make a difference either. very good points.sex is not the answer as many people make it seem. a guy once told me dt ders no way he wont sleep with his gf.he said what else will dey be doing? talking? Make him see reasons nd do it lovingly. If he loves u, he ll bring d date a lil closer, not run[/quote] |
tpacalipse: Sex should be kept out of relationship until marriage.some guys can kill u 4 saying that |
what? is that for real? now am more scared of floods |
berem: continue to look and don't act fast! And what's wrong in getting her pregnant if I may ask? Kini big deal? Boy if you have the opportunity to plant your seed in her,better do dat fast! Getting preggy before marriage? Pleeease! No be today e start! Get her preggy asap!u r such a bad adviser.person no fit give u problem to solve.u'l jst complicate it. |
berem: Sorry I might sound rude! So at 22 yrs you don dey shine congo? Is sexxx your main goal or to focus on your studies? Supposing you got her pregnant,what would have done about it? I advise you to face your studies and leave the girl alone!if he gets her preggies,he wont have time 2 come n ask NL for help |
give them housework to do, depending on their ages. let them arrange their rooms,mop the floors, scrub the bathroom,wash plates,etc. by the time dey r done, play time wit their friends will be over. dont let them watch their fevorite programs on tv |
shaybe baby: Funny, I'm currently studyng TEFL and from what I've gathered so far, the way we learnt the language in nigeria was the old school method, where more emphasis was placed on learning the rules of the language without focusing on the ability to use it effectively. The point of any language is to communicate effectively where your listener(audience) understands your message. The english language has evolved and today, you don't need to be grammatically correct, you simply need to be able to use the language in it's functional form in your everyday life.nice write up but i beg to disagree especially about the fact where u said majority of Nigerians write better than they speak. i taught English language to Senior secondary students during my service year. i thot i had a problem with their speaking till i started giving them essay writing assignments to improve on their vocabulary. the words they could pronounce, they couldnt spell and their punctuations were either misplaced or invisible. also at work, after talking to some customers and i bliv that they hv spoken well, writing for them is always a problem. its hard to match the spoken words with the written.u wld be surprised that spelling "insurance" becomes a problem. i believe writing is way harder because of semantics, punctuations,spellings,etc. |
fados4sure: It's true but, i can't accept it..u dont like people admiring her? so what r u gonna do about it? |
poster its either u accept the situation or u leave cos i have a feeling this is jst d beginning. more admires are still to come. as long as there is love and understanding, u shld have no fear. |
readsilk: Let her cry, she will get use to ittrue.even babies get tired of crying and they stop |
onila the virgin .virginity has classes though. some virgins have done the anal thing some have done evry other thing(head inclusive) u cn imagine aside penetration. Onila where do u fall? |
isnt it that bank that has recorded a lot of deaths in jst a few months?? |
Nikky Gold: Je ne veux pas danseru guys r showing off eh!! ok o |
writing is more difficult, no doubt. d people that failed GES English courses in uni will tell u. i learnt from studying English that writing is more difficult. as someone alrdy said, the punctuations are enough headache. then u also have to worry about not mixing up british and american spellings. u have to worry about making sure that the nmeaning u intend is perceived by d reader, etc. |
Canisma: Some of the peoples commenting here is suprising me too much a lot.lol...ur errors r too organizd jor!! |
Motherly love is really indescribable |
if pepper enters ur eyes, lick salt. |
we need intelligent people with new and productive innovations that will shoot Nigeria up in the world map,not potential empty barrels with no action. |
u mean Atiku hasnt given it up? |
For only 5 days? common!! |
poster its not compulsory dt u must have dated a dozen girls to be sure that ur woman will come. jst keep living ur life and doing ur thing and a woman will surely come ur way. but in case its something u r doin wrong, u have to examine urself and work on it. |
what do u do next consult nairaland; just as u are alrdy doing.and then u wait... |
pistol: Am a corper in ikot ekpene..a lot of them tend to be lazy. and they cld be content jst having something small to sustain them without striving for more. it used to be called the "etik syndrome" meaning the small syndrome. and they tend to spend d little they have on booze and women. although, these days we have a lot of AK pple striving for more than just a little. am from Ak and i hd a lot of uncles and aunties tht cld drink till dey droppd. their lifestyles were unbecoming so all cannot be blamed on the govt alone. |
ITSOLUTIONS: hope there are no 11 years old kids on nairaland reading this? i dont want kids to start planning their popsy oo, because some men will always beat their wife. BTW some women enjoy been beaten.and it will be good riddance to them. since they cant keep their violent hands to themselves.wont it be nice for them to be killed before they kill? better still, d women shld learn 2 say no and leave. |
you men have a point. a lot of women believe that their man is meant to take over their upbringing once they start dating. for me, i believe a woman shld be an addition to a man and not a subtraction. its give and take. |
Okontami: Oga, lets try to be creative, realistic and not abusive. Yes, they beg a lot but not all. The unfortunate thing is that 99% does and they are beggars with so much pride and creativity.LMAO.,.,with so much pride and creativity.,.,lol,.,.u no well o |
poster dont u think u shld be talking to the lady that pissed u off by asking u 4 money?? why r u using her 2 judge women in general? |
to think that a man like that wont even be able to step up to a fellow man like him in a fight is a thot i cant get off my mind. woman shld try to think about their safety and that of d kids. noone should condone battering of any sort, whether emotional or physical. |


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consult nairaland; just as u are alrdy doing.