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RomanceRe: Domestic Violence And Relationships by goofie: 10:42am On Sep 27, 2012
it is true that they say "for better for worse", but at what point is enough,enough?

she cant be psychologically and emotional sound and happy with that kind of environment.

evreyone deserves to be happy.and ur friend is not left out
FamilyRe: We Have A Big Violence Problem In Nigeria by goofie: 5:36pm On Sep 26, 2012
poster this is a very good one.

violence has really eaten deep into pple.

i saw a pic of a guy whose private part ws bathed wit acid by his gf cos she found out he cheated.i dont kno where they r from but d comments pple were putting up were disheartning.

they said he deserved it and all.

pple r jst ready to do evil with every provacation. i wish we cld sit back and weigh the consequences of our actions before we act.

"they deserved it" is the slogan these days.
Nairaland GeneralRe: A Crocodile Found In Flooded Parts Of Benue (Picture) by goofie: 5:23pm On Sep 26, 2012
Ekebest: This is not real
oh!! ok. ws alrdy imagining seeing a croc d next time i enter a pool sad
RomanceRe: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by goofie: 4:20pm On Sep 26, 2012
[quote author=gree-die]D assumption dat sex is a sign of love is often times a wrong one. Sex creates a certain bond nd perhaps dats wat some mistake to be love. Most ple believe love goes hand in hand wit sex but not necessarily. U can convince ur man dat u love him by doin tins ple in love do, go out of ur way to please him but stop short of sex. Tell him u want to wait til u wed nd give him reasons.

If he is worried abt ur ability to satisfy him, well all pussies r d same, its ow u use it. Tell him havin sex wont make urs magical, its ur ability to learn tru readin, watchin nd practicin in marriage.

If he argues dat he is sacred u may leave him, well sex wont make u stay.

If he is concerned abt ur fertility, well sex wont perform any miracle but medical examination nd treatment if necessary can fix d problem, drag him to a hospital

nd it he argues dat since u r goin to tie d knots soon so havin sex b4 wont make a difference, well argue back dat not havin sex wont make a difference either.


Make him see reasons nd do it lovingly. If he loves u, he ll bring d date a lil closer, not run[/quote]very good points.sex is not the answer as many people make it seem.

a guy once told me dt ders no way he wont sleep with his gf.he said what else will dey be doing? talking?
RomanceRe: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by goofie: 4:19pm On Sep 26, 2012
[quote author=gree-die]D assumption dat sex is a sign of love is often times a wrong one. Sex creates a certain bond nd perhaps dats wat some mistake to be love. Most ple believe love goes hand in hand wit sex but not necessarily. U can convince ur man dat u love him by doin tins ple in love do, go out of ur way to please him but stop short of sex. Tell him u want to wait til u wed nd give him reasons.

If he is worried abt ur ability to satisfy him, well all pussies r d same, its ow u use it. Tell him havin sex wont make urs magical, its ur ability to learn tru readin, watchin nd practicin in marriage.

If he argues dat he is sacred u may leave him, well sex wont make u stay.

If he is concerned abt ur fertility, well sex wont perform any miracle but medical examination nd treatment if necessary can fix d problem, drag him to a hospital

nd it he argues dat since u r goin to tie d knots soon so havin sex b4 wont make a difference, well argue back dat not havin sex wont make a difference either.


very good points.sex is not the answer as many people make it seem.

a guy once told me dt ders no way he wont sleep with his gf.he said what else will dey be doing? talking?



Make him see reasons nd do it lovingly. If he loves u, he ll bring d date a lil closer, not run[/quote]
RomanceRe: It's Seems Everybody Have Sexaul Relatnshp With Their Partner Before Marriage. by goofie: 4:12pm On Sep 26, 2012
tpacalipse: Sex should be kept out of relationship until marriage.
some guys can kill u 4 saying that
Nairaland GeneralRe: A Crocodile Found In Flooded Parts Of Benue (Picture) by goofie: 3:40pm On Sep 26, 2012
what? is that for real?

now am more scared of floods
RomanceRe: My Fi-an-ce'e??? by goofie: 1:25pm On Sep 26, 2012
berem: continue to look and don't act fast! And what's wrong in getting her pregnant if I may ask? Kini big deal? Boy if you have the opportunity to plant your seed in her,better do dat fast! Getting preggy before marriage? Pleeease! No be today e start! Get her preggy asap!
u r such a bad adviser.person no fit give u problem to solve.u'l jst complicate it.
RomanceRe: Big Problem, Do I Get Away From Her? Need Help From Any Mature Women/men... :/ by goofie: 1:22pm On Sep 26, 2012
berem: Sorry I might sound rude! So at 22 yrs you don dey shine congo? Is sexxx your main goal or to focus on your studies? Supposing you got her pregnant,what would have done about it? I advise you to face your studies and leave the girl alone!
if he gets her preggies,he wont have time 2 come n ask NL for help
FamilyRe: How Do You Punish Your Children? by goofie: 1:20pm On Sep 26, 2012
give them housework to do, depending on their ages.

let them arrange their rooms,mop the floors, scrub the bathroom,wash plates,etc. by the time dey r done, play time wit their friends will be over.

dont let them watch their fevorite programs on tv
LiteratureRe: English Speaking Versus Writing, Which Is More Difficult? by goofie: 12:55pm On Sep 26, 2012
shaybe baby: Funny, I'm currently studyng TEFL and from what I've gathered so far, the way we learnt the language in nigeria was the old school method, where more emphasis was placed on learning the rules of the language without focusing on the ability to use it effectively. The point of any language is to communicate effectively where your listener(audience) understands your message. The english language has evolved and today, you don't need to be grammatically correct, you simply need to be able to use the language in it's functional form in your everyday life.
For this reason, I suppose writing would be more difficult as the rules of grammar haven't changed and still need to be applied. The beauty of the language is that although it is very complex, it is forgiving of errors and like everything else practice makes perfect. The average nigerian can write better than they speak, why? Because very little emphasis is placed on pronounciation and hence almost every word used in sentences are said wrong. This is about phonectics which also makes up part of the language. On that score, majority fail.
nice write up but i beg to disagree especially about the fact where u said majority of Nigerians write better than they speak.

i taught English language to Senior secondary students during my service year. i thot i had a problem with their speaking till i started giving them essay writing assignments to improve on their vocabulary. the words they could pronounce, they couldnt spell and their punctuations were either misplaced or invisible.

also at work, after talking to some customers and i bliv that they hv spoken well, writing for them is always a problem. its hard to match the spoken words with the written.u wld be surprised that spelling "insurance" becomes a problem.

i believe writing is way harder because of semantics, punctuations,spellings,etc.
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RomanceRe: My Fi-an-ce'e??? by goofie: 12:21pm On Sep 26, 2012
fados4sure: It's true but, i can't accept it..
u dont like people admiring her? so what r u gonna do about it?
RomanceRe: My Fi-an-ce'e??? by goofie: 11:55am On Sep 26, 2012
poster its either u accept the situation or u leave cos i have a feeling this is jst d beginning. more admires are still to come.

as long as there is love and understanding, u shld have no fear.
RomanceRe: Why Does She Want Me To Follow Her Anywhere? by goofie: 11:29am On Sep 26, 2012
readsilk: Let her cry, she will get use to it wink
true.even babies get tired of crying and they stop
RomanceRe: You Wont Be Afraid Of A Guy Using You For Sex! by goofie: 11:18am On Sep 26, 2012
onila the virgin cheesy.

virginity has classes though.

some virgins have done the anal thing

some have done evry other thing(head inclusive) u cn imagine aside penetration.

Onila where do u fall?
BusinessRe: Access Bank's MD In Office For Over 10 Years: Why? by goofie: 10:24am On Sep 26, 2012
isnt it that bank that has recorded a lot of deaths in jst a few months?? shocked
LiteratureRe: English Speaking Versus Writing, Which Is More Difficult? by goofie: 10:11am On Sep 26, 2012
Nikky Gold: Je ne veux pas danser kiss Merci
u guys r showing off eh!! ok o
LiteratureRe: English Speaking Versus Writing, Which Is More Difficult? by goofie: 9:49am On Sep 26, 2012
writing is more difficult, no doubt.

d people that failed GES English courses in uni will tell u.

i learnt from studying English that writing is more difficult.

as someone alrdy said, the punctuations are enough headache.

then u also have to worry about not mixing up british and american spellings.

u have to worry about making sure that the nmeaning u intend is perceived by d reader, etc.
LiteratureRe: English Speaking Versus Writing, Which Is More Difficult? by goofie: 9:30am On Sep 26, 2012
Canisma: Some of the peoples commenting here is suprising me too much a lot.
How can somebody compere speaking english with mere writing.
To write is too much simple and very easy.
But speaking can be very difficult because you has seconds to thought out what you wanted to spoke, as against writing where you have all the times in the world to thought out your thinking.
If writing english was difficult, i would never has got an A1 in my WAEC exams.
Speaking english is not easy at all.
I prefer writing a lot cos i know that i was a good writer.
THATS WHY MY FRIENDS CALL ME english professor.
lol...ur errors r too organizd jor!!
FamilyRe: Touching Lies Mothers Tell Their Children by goofie: 3:55pm On Sep 25, 2012
Motherly love is really indescribable
Nairaland GeneralRe: Superstitious Beliefs That Actually Works! by goofie: 3:40pm On Sep 25, 2012
if pepper enters ur eyes, lick salt.
PoliticsRe: Would You Vote For Atiku In 2015¿ by goofie: 2:39pm On Sep 25, 2012
we need intelligent people with new and productive innovations that will shoot Nigeria up in the world map,not potential empty barrels with no action.
PoliticsRe: Would You Vote For Atiku In 2015¿ by goofie: 11:24am On Sep 25, 2012
u mean Atiku hasnt given it up? shocked
RomanceRe: Take Her To The Family Or Not? by goofie: 5:51pm On Sep 24, 2012
For only 5 days? common!!
RomanceRe: Am 24 And Havent Been In A Serious Relationship All My Life! by goofie: 3:26pm On Sep 24, 2012
poster its not compulsory dt u must have dated a dozen girls to be sure that ur woman will come.

jst keep living ur life and doing ur thing and a woman will surely come ur way.

but in case its something u r doin wrong, u have to examine urself and work on it.
RomanceRe: Now She Has Said Yes, What Next? by goofie: 3:16pm On Sep 24, 2012
what do u do nexthuh consult nairaland; just as u are alrdy doing.

and then u wait...
PoliticsRe: Akwa Ibom At 25: Happy Silver Jubilee Celebration by goofie: 3:01pm On Sep 24, 2012
pistol: Am a corper in ikot ekpene..
Nice road roadwork but the people are hungry..
The masses are into okada riding and hawking groundnut.
The gov better find a way of getting the oil money reach the poor masses.
a lot of them tend to be lazy. and they cld be content jst having something small to sustain them without striving for more. it used to be called the "etik syndrome" meaning the small syndrome.

and they tend to spend d little they have on booze and women.

although, these days we have a lot of AK pple striving for more than just a little. am from Ak and i hd a lot of uncles and aunties tht cld drink till dey droppd. their lifestyles were unbecoming

so all cannot be blamed on the govt alone.
CrimeRe: 11-year-old Stabs Dad To Death For Beating Mom by goofie: 2:32pm On Sep 24, 2012
ITSOLUTIONS: hope there are no 11 years old kids on nairaland reading this? i dont want kids to start planning their popsy oo, because some men will always beat their wife. BTW some women enjoy been beaten.
and it will be good riddance to them. since they cant keep their violent hands to themselves.wont it be nice for them to be killed before they kill? better still, d women shld learn 2 say no and leave.
RomanceRe: WHAT Is It With The Bad Habit Of Nigerian Girls Asking Men For Money by goofie: 1:41pm On Sep 24, 2012
you men have a point. a lot of women believe that their man is meant to take over their upbringing once they start dating.

for me, i believe a woman shld be an addition to a man and not a subtraction.

its give and take.
RomanceRe: WHAT Is It With The Bad Habit Of Nigerian Girls Asking Men For Money by goofie: 12:52pm On Sep 24, 2012
Okontami: Oga, lets try to be creative, realistic and not abusive. Yes, they beg a lot but not all. The unfortunate thing is that 99% does and they are beggars with so much pride and creativity.
LMAO.,.,with so much pride and creativity.,.,lol,.,.u no well o
RomanceRe: WHAT Is It With The Bad Habit Of Nigerian Girls Asking Men For Money by goofie: 12:18pm On Sep 24, 2012
poster dont u think u shld be talking to the lady that pissed u off by asking u 4 money??

why r u using her 2 judge women in general?
CrimeRe: 11-year-old Stabs Dad To Death For Beating Mom by goofie: 11:22am On Sep 24, 2012
to think that a man like that wont even be able to step up to a fellow man like him in a fight is a thot i cant get off my mind.

woman shld try to think about their safety and that of d kids. noone should condone battering of any sort, whether emotional or physical.

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