₦airaland Forum

Ilamina:

Franzinni:
Guys if you dear marry an African girl in Europe .. you will be emasculated, if you bring a lady from Nigeria to UK/Europe the already infected ones will infect her with the feminism mindset and in no time you wilk be emasculated ... If you marry those ones with PhD and masters ... If you like be a brain surgeon ... You will be emasculated.



These things I have seen firsthand ... I have been in the same room with a husband in one European country who was rejoicing to the point of celebrating that his wife who kicked him out and turned an importer exporter into a homeless guy has finally decided to give him chance to come back home ... He was happy like he won a visa lottery.

Wetin concern me self

CrossRhodes:
Most nigerian men are simps.....
That's why world women claim to love us....it's the simpy nature of most guys.

debosky:
I read an interesting article today about how men and women's attitudes have changed over the years for dual-career couples (that is both husband and wife working full time outside the home). It was started off by a pregnant woman being appointed CEO of Yahoo.

http://blogs.hbr.org/cs/2012/10/new_research_on_working_parent.html?referral=00563&cm_mmc=email-_-newsletter-_-daily_alert-_-alert_date&utm_source=newsletter_daily_alert&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=alert_date

What I found most interesting was this comment: There is now a greater sense of shared responsibility for domestic life. Young men are realizing they have to do more at home than their fathers did, and today's young men want to do so. Ellen Galinsky's research on the "new male mystique" affirms this trend.


That got me thinking - Are Nigerian (or African) men actually changing as described above or are we still stuck in the 'traditional' idea of the woman doing most/all of the domestic work regardless of whether the wife works or not?

Asavivian:
Let me share with you a story from my perspective as a Nigerian lady, about the pressure we face to meet unrealistic standards set by Nigerian men.

In today's society, it feels like every Nigerian man has a laundry list of requirements for the "perfect" woman. She must be beautiful, slim, educated, respectful, and of course, able to cook like a gourmet chef. It's as if we're expected to be superwomen, capable of fulfilling every desire and expectation thrown our way.

As a result, many of us feel like we're constantly falling short. We're bombarded with images of flawless women on social media, in movies, and in magazines, and we can't help but compare ourselves to these unattainable standards.

It's not just about physical appearance either. Nigerian men also expect us to be submissive, obedient, and always put their needs before our own. We're expected to sacrifice our dreams and ambitions for the sake of our partners, without question or hesitation.

But the truth is, it's exhausting trying to live up to these unrealistic expectations. We're human beings with our own hopes, dreams, and flaws. We have bad days, insecurities, and moments of weakness, just like anyone else.

And yet, we're constantly judged and criticized for not measuring up to some arbitrary standard of perfection. It's enough to make you want to scream, to demand to be seen and appreciated for who we truly are, flaws and all.

But despite the pressure, we persevere. We refuse to let society define our worth or dictate our value. We embrace our imperfections, our quirks, and our individuality, and we demand to be loved and respected for exactly who we are.

So to all the Nigerian men out there with their unrealistic standards, I say this: we're not here to fit into your narrow mold of what a woman should be. We're here to shatter stereotypes, break barriers, and live our lives on our own terms. And if you can't handle that, well, that's your loss.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2DNoFXD4Bjo

BigYash:
We sell Serious Relationships in bulks.. How many you want buy?

Auxtan:
The truth remains, most of the guys that go ahead marrying these terrible women that dump a fellow men for them tend not to enjoy their union with them in the long run. An insatiable woman will always look to get new level of satisfaction elsewhere after a while with someone. If this is toxic feminism, then I am very sure is just a matter of time it explodes to a point men will only pay for audience and never emotionally be attached to women. And funny enough, the same women will be the ones to rue the outcome of it eventually.

officialwdhtv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YLDIfA-Ijmk

Young Nigerian man proudly shows off his 3 wives

#wetindeyhappentv

Pentagon007:
Congratulations to me guys. I have just made my first million naira. I made this money through savings from the teaching work that i do. I am excited to have achieved this milestone. By this, I have become a millionaire before 30 Lol. I am 29 currently. I know that to a lot of people here, it is nothing but to me, it is quite a milestone. Especially if i reminisce back to when I finished from university, i was so confused and did not know what direction to go. I was so broke and had no job. I have always wanted to be successful, have a good business and build a comfortable life. So, when i eventually got a job, with the help of my sweetheart and advises from her, I had to sacrifice some things and was very disciplined with my spendings before i could come up with this amount. I intend to save some money, then learn a business and go into it. So what did i do? Whenever i receive my salary, i save first and spend from what remains. So guys, do you think i can realize my plan and how did you feel when you made your first million?