₦airaland Forum

jay bee: Basic common sense i tell you.
There isn't anything as lil or hug sin. A sin is simply a sin

This is the part that makes me believe the Christian God is simply evil. Adolf Hitler, a man who killed million of Jews, and a common liar will be subjected to exactly the same punishment. That makes no sense whatsoever.

Chei see as Christians dey yab one another. No sect of people is more confused than Christians. None. Soon as one Christian quotes a verse to support his views, another will quickly counter with another verse, and in some cases, add insults to it for good measure. I love you guys. Make una dey continue to dey entertain me.

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First of all, I don't believe that you would even marry such a man. And if you did, you would have to use some method to force him to wear the kind of attire that you deem appropriate. You are a woman, you can make a man do anything. By the way, what is wrong with cut and sow? You make it seem like we who wear cut and sow cannot feed ourselves?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PODXNPzQ2ZM

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That is what you don't understand. You and your husband are one. If he dresses like a poor chap, it will reflect on you.

Good old days! One of my favorite threads.

Bump please.

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You don't get it either. I am an American, so I don't care about what happens in your country. I am only arguing that those who oppose homosexuality have no right to do so, since it is none of their business.

Sagamite: Homosexual conducts are not civil rights!

Civil rights are subjective.

I wasn't arguing about homosexual conducts. There is nothing we can do to stop that. Unless of course, we are in the part of the world where it is criminalized. I meant same-sex marriage. If straight people have the right to marry, then since one cannot discriminate based on sèxual orientation, then the gays must also be able to wed. Even your resident country has passed gay rights. Give Nigeria another 500 years, and it will be legal. You know say we like follow follow.

Of course, all I have said absolutely do not apply in non-Western countries. I am not a fool. I will not go to Nigeria and argue about gay marriage, nor will I engage in a debate with members of my deeply religious family about legalizing gay marriage. I only share my real views with people who don't know me and I know will not kill me for having these views.

passionate88: bt dm go say no Bleep untill u marry dm. No b fraud b that?

Really? Maybe it's because of the environment I am in. I have never met such women. All the women I have ever dated wanted to see how good I was at navigating sugarland.

Dyt: Oh well
Its normal to feel so hurt and then seein whom u bn cheated, someone not upto, u jst snap and b like TF is dat
Its so normal for d trust to be shaky

This is a mistake so many of us make. How do you know this person is not up to standard? Looks? It is absolutely wrong to cheat, but never
think you are better than any other person just by looking at them. They may possess something that you don't. If beauty were the key to keeping a partner, beautiful people will never get cheat on.

Agybabe: sweetheart, why cry over a spilt milk...he needs to apologise sincerely and promise on his life and swear to God that it won't repeat...then we are good to go. Life is too sweet to cry!

Aunty Agybabe, don't be naive. A cheat will always be a cheat. That is a fact, not a cynical statement. Of course, he will apologize profusely, but he will not change. In fact, he will only devise more subtle ways to cheat.

With all due respect to the OP, I think this question need not be asked. All the responses that I have read were not unexpected. They are very
natural. NO ONE will be happy after they are cheated on. I think a more appropriate question would be: what did you do? Where did you bury his or her body? Just kidding. Just kidding.

veave: It makes one cold, withdrawn, unfeeling and so on and so forth. some dudes really dont know w@ they want. it all boils down to selfishness.

Change that to human and your statement will be more accurate. There are good and bad people on both sides of the gender.

passionate88: Na wetin I dey fear pass, I hear say Naija babes like man wey good for bed so I dey avoid relationship wit a non-virgin.

ALL WOMEN like men good in bed. That's common sense!

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My sister, I tire o.

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Probably because I am an American; the concept of private space need not be explained. I will never understand why others are so incensed with a phenomenon that doesn't affect them whatsoever. Just because you don't like something doesn't mean it should be abolished. At the very worst, the gays are hurting themselves, not me. How is that my problem?

Godwinsilas: I wonder why so many Nigerians will critize something from people who are trying to make this right whereas they can't even please themselves letalone to please other, you hater will just sit one place waiting for something to condem instead to advise y'all should come out and try something and know how hard it is to get this right.
Read the history of John Woo

Criticism is not unique to Nigerians. Have you read a review for an American movie? Those critics will tear apart any movie they deem unworthy. The harshest statements I have read about a movie or about a country have always emanated from folks from western countries. However, we Nigerians, always think it is wrong to criticize any thing about ourselves. We are not criticizing because we are haters, but because we want better. That trailer was an embarrassment. What the heck was that?

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But how is that our problem? We need to respect other people's private space, as long as they are hurting no one. Why do you want them cured? Shouldn't they live their lives as they please? As an atheist, I believe that a lot of religious folks are insane, but you don't see me advocating for a "cure."

Sagamite: What a moronic argument.

So in your democracy, you force the view of the minority on the majority that does not want it?

Most of you are too stewpid to understand the concept of the fads you espouse.

Oga Sagamite, the problem is that the majority does not have the right to withhold or grant civil rights to a minority. You can't vote on others' rights. It is unconstitutional.

Too many gross generalizations on this thread.

coogar: she's not pregnant - that's the normal size of her belly. these cheap bloggers would write nonsense to drive traffic. which sane man would penetrate someone else's pregnant wife?

Coogar, haba now. Why you dey talk like say you no understand men? Few men will say no to punny, even if the lady is pregnant.

Wu Zetian: Isn't it funny that a woman has to be ridiculed when she's caught cheating?? The African community posts her pictures online and what not.






What about the men?? Who is humiliating them for cheating on their wives?? Double standards yo!

It was not the African community. It was the husband. If you want pictures of cheating men, then the wives would have to step up
and catch their husbands in the act. Post them, and we will insult them too.

mama-gee:
[color=deeppink]Embarassing photos!!!

Hope she learns her lesson[/color]

Mama-gee, she was about to learn a LESSON before she got caught.

emilyone: maybe the husband is not satisfying her in bed, maybe the hubby is not taking care of her well enough , maybe shes tired of her marriage maybe .... maybe..
only God knows, but in all its not enough reason for her to commit adultery.

the boyfriend is foolish for hibernating on another man's egg

Women sha! Suppose it was the other around. Would you have assumed that maybe woman wasn't satisfying her husband in bed? That the
wifey wasn't taking care of her hubby well enough? That the hubby is tired of his marriage, maybe, maybe?


If a man cheats, he is a dog. If a woman cheats, it must be the fault of the husband. Na wa o.

Secrets That Can Destroyed Your Relationship

Holy Ghost Fire. See Grammar.

critique101: She didnt meet you a Virgin so that shouldnt piss u off. Besides, you must have bleeped enough chics b4 her

So if your boyfriend received a text message from his ex stating how he used to panel-beat her, that wouldn't bother you?

Lies. I lied to the point that even the Devil was greatly disturbed. Hopefully I will do better in another relationship.

iyeyemi: a nation with ridiculously high levels of corruption and all round shamelessness, suddenly remembers it has values and traditions.

My brother tell them o. Nigeria should be the last country preaching values.

Promhize: Mtchew, who cares, my siblings no die, my friend siblings no die, my enemy siblings no die, my friend friend siblings, my lecturer pikin no die, my uncle pikin no die, if nigeria never dey their report then no go rest.

Modaduckas!

So since you are unaffected, it ceases to be a problem?

I agree with this post. Use your head and only spend money on people who care about you. If you advertise yourself as Father Christmas, smart women will help lighten your heavy account.