₦airaland Forum

Myself. I too much jare.

It depends. If it is not a parasitic relationship, then I will spend as much as I can. But lots of people, not just women, will try to take advantage of you without contributing anything to the relationship. As long as I am not the only one doing all the work in the relationship, I'll gladly spend.

But there is a problem: how do we know he is telling the truth? If they let this man go, then any man can subsequently use this excuse. Why do Nigerians always judge without evidence? I would hate to be accused of any offense in Nigeria, because people will automatically assume that I was guilty.

I wish this woman a bountiful amount of the good luck and favors that nature has to offer. I know of blood relatives who declined to donate a matching kidney to another kin.

Friends of the deceased, who had accompanied him on a boat, were said to have fled the scene after he did not make it out of the water.

Let the above be a lesson to everyone!

leavestory: This is one of the reasons why this country is not moving forward!!!!we take someone else tradition,culture or language seriously more than ours!!!when u see a spanish man he or she is proud of the spanish language,when you see a french man or woman they are always very proud of their language which is french!!!you meet an italian man or woman they are always very proud of the italian language but here in nigeria we take foreign languages seriously than our own languages!!!!!if we feel that taking english language more seriously is what makes us very civilised then we are very wrong because are we trying to say the people in france,italy,spain,uk,and the others are not civilised that is why they take their own language seriously than any other language?we should learn from them,I weep for this country when I see some nigerians takes things too personal on english language even more than the people that owns the language!!!!!!

Leave story na irony

And ironically, your post was written in English.

oyb: i think the dude just wants to get laid

My brother, some of this women no understand dis simple wisdom! Men can be funny at times. So many of us do not want to marry, but we will cross hundreds of seas, fight wild animals, battle demons, and climb mountains just to conquer one vay jay jay. Men sha!

freecocoa: May your days be long my brother, this is just the point I've been trying to make.

I can now clearly see that these men are the cause of their own wahala, a woman has said no and instead of you to let go, you are thinking of buying her and when there's no more money you still expect her to stay, its just really funny sha.

My sister, I learned my bitter lesson from experience. I was in a "relationship" with a woman who used the crap out of me. Although I deduced that she had no affections for me, I stupidly tried to force my way into her heart. I have no problem buying gifts for prospective partners, but if I do not see a sign that she is into me, I am buying nothing. I met this lady in college a few weeks ago who told me that her birthday was in a few days and also demanded that I surprise her. I gave her an expensive gift on her birthday: I texted her "Happy Birthday" at 12:01 AM. She appreciated my gesture, but she thought there was more. She asked me if I bought anything for her and I replied, "No, we just met. Why would I buy you anything?" She hasn't called me since. LMAO.

Fellas, you need to learn. Just as some of you only want sex, some ladies also want to just use you for money. No fall mugu o. And also realize that buying gifts for a woman does not obligate her to give up her sugar walls. Use your head!

Morgan1092: Nnah! dis ur mata long ooo! E go even tire d OP to read d way e tire me.

I tire o. The thing no suppose hard like that na.

@OP

On a more serious note, please do not listen to all those who are writing novels and claiming them as advice. Do you really want to be with someone who is that difficult to get or please? If this woman likes you, she will reciprocate. If you had to come online to get advice on how to woo a particular woman, then she was never into you. Let her go. I am speaking from my mugu experience. There are other women who would reciprocate your affections.

And biko, stop writing poems, for you are no longer in primary school. Also, stop with the flowers, she is not a goat. Only spend on a woman who belongs to you, and you to her!

tensor777: That is not the point. It is not all about MONEY MONEY MONEY. The guy is a romantic. How sustainable would such a one-sided relationship be.
Guy What are you on about?

Romantic? You mean he is an assistant boyfriend material? Romance for Naija? You are on a long thing.

Oh boy, you bought flowers and chocolate for our Nigerian sister? LMAO.

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Flowers? She be goat? Your mates dey buy private jets; dem dey buy well furnished mansions for Lekki; you dey buy chocolate? See your life!

You even write poem sef? Chei. See wetin too much film don do this guy.

Ladies, abeg make una form line fast, for there goes your tall prince.

If God hadn't created humans, then He would have had no problems; so, yes, I completely blame God.

italo: Oh Good! So you believe Isaiah.

Let us read Isaiah 9:6 then...

For a CHILD IS BORN to us, and a son is given to us, and the government is upon his shoulder: and his name shall be called, Wonderful, Counsellor, God the Mighty, the Father of the world to come, the Prince of Peace.

You see that Mary is the Mother of God?

Or you still want to argue?

How can Mary give birth to God if God is already ALIVE? Is it possible for another person to give birth to you, while you are already alive? Does that make any sense to you? My point in quoting the Bible was to show you that the book is full of contradictions.

If you believe that God created everything, how can you believe that someone gave birth to God? So God created Mary and then she gave birth to God? Even you must agree that the Bible is the greatest source of confusion in the world.

italo: Oh! Just because you say so?!

Then Mary is the Mother of God. I say so.

If you have a problem with that, you're a hypocrite.

I didn't say so:

Isaiah 44:24
Thus saith the Lord, thy redeemer, and he that formed thee from the womb, I am the Lord that maketh all things; that stretcheth forth the heavens alone; that spreadeth abroad the earth by myself;

So you see that God cannot have a mother. God created all things, so He also created Mary. If He created Mary how can she give birth to Him? Does that make any sense?

chucky234: The 5,000 lives lost could be sinners,fornicaters,robbers,liars,prostitutes,e.t.c
our God knows his true people and will be there for them in times of sorrow.

Hundreds of children were amongst the 5000. So you are saying that these children could be sinners, fornicators, robbers, liars, prostitutes etc. This God na real merciful being.

italo: How do you know God is the creator of all things?

LMAO. Because that is the definition of God!

Lilaex: U can say dat again Fooool.. O btw marry was a virgin and she gave birth explain dat one too Fooolish mortal..

How do you know this? Do you have proof of this? You are a rétard.

italo: By YOUR definition.

NOT by my definition. God is the creator of all things. If God has a birther, how can He be God?

italo: Jesus is God and Son of Mary.

Mary is Mother of Jesus who is God.

This is bullshit. By definition, GOD CANNOT have a mother!

-Mr Cork-:
..that babe lied she been to peckam..i asked what bus go to peckam but guess wot?... she ran away

...but y are babes tryin to impress me for no reason?

I am not mad at the writer all. The insults that Nairalanders heap on Nigeria everyday is more biting and caustic than that. She should try again.

Nonso23: If God be for us... who can be against us??
I believe in Nigeria.. It will be one game at a time till the trophy is ours come 2014!

So you are saying that God will favor a particular country over others? Even if we do not have the best players, God will still create a way for us to win? Instead of Nigerians to work hard to achieve our goals, we always delegate our responsibilities to God. It makes sense, for if we fail, instead of blaming ourselves, we will simply say that "God's time is the best."

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Rickybel: I hate it when we descend into this tribal bashing on NL,its now a common feature on almost every post

The mods sef don tire.

Chineke! I know that I am not supposed to laugh but the shades and insults that Yorubas and Igbos are throwing at each other on this thread is too comical.

Nothing. In fact, women will make fun of you, especially in this age when women want a guy to be able to perform like Mandingo.

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That's because you are mommy and daddy's boy. Ye are not a man.

PAGAN 9JA:
bitc.h yoursef. dumba$$ ni66er slave.

Take it easy my dear boy. Now go and report to mommy and daddy about the whooping I have doled out to you.

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LMAO. See as PAGAN 9JA dey hurt like a little bítch. I will choose nothing over a backward and ancient culture anyday.

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