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BOPdaddy:
Hello guys. Good morning and happy new month.
I will be giving out 5k each to 20 people with verifiable health / medical issues.
Kindly signify your interest by commenting, attach an evidence if available and also add your account number.
I will come back by Friday evening to select the 20 people. All selection will be done on this thread so no need to contact me privately.
Thanks.

Thank you sir/ma am pragenant and edd is close, have been having continuous fever went to hospital were am registered Nyanya hospital to be precise and all the pregnant women that came we were told to go baack and only come to hospital when we are in labour or when we passed due date....and no money to go to privateer hospital Thanks... 3058464286/first bank God bless yout .

sugah:
Uwc

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thank you dear

iwinnie:
thanks @sugah, I got the book on my email now.
I appreciate

iwinnie please can you send for me too. Euchqueen@gmail.com

hapheey007:
Please, kindly send me a copy of supernatural childbirth. My e-mail is tundehafusat@gmail.com

please mam can you send it for me if u have it euchqueen@gmail.com

rvpbae:
Please I want experienced mums with helps to help me out on this.

I got a live-in help January this year, she would be 19 this year and so far, she has been good, no serious complaints at all. We relate very well.

Now, when she started, she said her monthly payment should go to her mum via her brother's account. Her dad is late.

My husband disagreed, that she cant be working and someone else will take the money. Especially as she just registered for jamb and needs to save for school. He suggested we opened an account for her and whenever her mum needs money, she can make a transfer. The mum sells in the market and they also have farms where they grow stuff for commercial and home use.

Now, this girl doesn't spend 1 naira of that money in my house. She feeds well, I provide every other thing and I pay her. The issue is I check her phone sometimes without her knowledge and my aim is to check her account balance. My people can you believe this girl has only 110 naira in her account.

I went through her messages, various people asking for money. I am only aware of 6k she sent to her mum to help her buy chemicals and stuff to prepare my help's farmland for the new corn season. My help has her farm in her village.

There was a time I checked her phone and saw her balance was low. I didnt tell her, I just used style to ask her about her savings and she told me about the money she gave her aunty. This aunty has 6kids, stays in the same town as us. According to her, she wants to start pap business, so the best person to ask is my 18yr old help who is the same age as her first son??.

This same aunty that we begged and begged to help send this girl's id card and jamb text book then, till today we no see am. I spoke to my help and advised her about spending anyhow. Imagine my disappointment when I checked and saw 110naira.

I dont know if to take this up. I told her never to send money to anyone without my knowledge. This morning, someone was asking her for 2k. Another was asking her for credit.

I want to tell her I'll keep a large chunk of her salary with me, will give her something for airtime or whatever. I kuku buy airtime for her sometimes, the next day I ask her, credit is finished. There's one yeye boy in her text msg asking her for favours.

What do I do? Those with helps should advise pls. I have spoken to her before but I dont think she understands. I even saw where she sent 3k to a friend in her village for someone else's wedding, as per friend of bride.

I think it's unfair for me to just watch her spend anyhow.

sincerely she is extravagant and not wise, very soon if care is not taken that her aunty and the useless boyfriend may advice her to start stealing from u. Just be careful with her

Divine89:
Hello everybody I am Nigerian based in France my English it is not 100% perfect but I will try to make it possible for you to understand me with the help of google french to English translator and my story is also long sorry for that. When I was 9 years old I joined my uncle my mum younger brother in France he declared me as his daughters , during that time he only had one child 2 years old , he and the wife were so loving to me I never lacked anything in their house but when I turn 12 i went to secondary school I met some bad friends their this is where the problem started , I become a very difficult child I will go to school come home late , my uncle will beat and beat me but I never listen I smoke my first cigarette at 12 and had my first sex at 13 and I started running away from home to stay with boyfriends sometime I can go for a weeks and when uncle report me missing, the police will be looking for me then they will bring me back home then at 14 I went to school and lied to my teacher that my uncle was abusing me I told them he was beating me with belts , electric wire , they don’t give me foods and I really said a lot of bad things about them doing to me to make my teacher believe my story so they could take me away from them because I wanted freedom and my teacher believed me and reported to the police and child protection they are people who take away abused children from their parents they took custody of me and my uncle three children the youngest was 6 months old to their care and they gave us to this white lady to care for us and my uncle and wife were arrested for child abuse and the police were doing some investigation. after spending 1yr 9months in care of the white lady I dropped out school they found out that I was a difficult child that I lied to get freedom so they have decided to give my uncle his children back to him while I stayed in care of white people but my uncle had sworn because I made him lost his children for 1yr 9 months that I will never found happiness in my life and I will never enjoy the fruit of my labour which it is true as I am typing this I have given birth to 6 children by 6 men and none of the children are living with me , the first one was taken away from me at 2 months old because I beat her up and fractured her hands and I also tested positive for heroinn(drugs), so that did not stop me from giving birth second child was removed from my care 4 hours after birth she also tested positive for heroin the same way my other children were removed at birth too so I carry on with my lifestyles I did not care about my children at that time all I care about was sex, alcohol and drugs this is what I wanted and I have been to prison several times for selling drugs and fraudsters , the longest I have spend in prison was 2 years then after i left prison , I met with this sister who introduced me to this church she attended so I went along with her, the pastor told me to confess my sin to him and promised it will be a secrets between I, him and God which I did repented and accepted Jesus as my saviour to be honest my life did changed a lot I fell the peace in my heart , enjoyed going to church every Sunday but this pastor went tell his wife my life story and the wife told everyone in church my life story and started using it against me so it made me so angry that I left the church in November 2017 without looking back , I have decided not to attend any church again , I have stopped alcohol, taking drugs and sleeping with men I no longer does it , I prayed at home , read my bible and behaving good and it's almost 2 years I havnt slept with a man and i went to look for my uncle asking him for forgiveness but he has refuse and I send him many text messages begging him to forgive and I still no heard anything from him or the wife even their children I have tried to ask them forgiveness they have blocked me and they all want nothing to do with me even my own parents and siblings in Africa they have rejected me none of them want to talk to me , my parents said i am dead to them, it is so painful I cry everyday in my prayers, as for my children 4 of them are adopted with new family I can't see them again maybe until they are 18 years old If they want to know me if they don't want I will have no choice to accept it and my 2 youngest children i am only allowed to see them once a year in a children play centre with someone supervise because they don't let me to be alone with them and soon I will stop visiting them because they are planning to adopt them to a new family too that will mean I will have nobody on this earth , I regrets my mistake so bad I wish I could changed it but it will no be impossible , I can't have more children because they will be removed from me like the others and I am only 31years old . I don't know if my repentance was genius because my family has refused to forgive me and my question goes like this if they never forgive me will I ever found happiness again or I will just have to accept it until I died ? Please advise me in a Christian way maybe if there's more I can do and also prayed for me so my family will be able to forgive me and also pray for my two children that nobody will adopt them so I can get custody of them and i promised to be a good mother to the please I am begging you in the name of God.

..thank Gos you have found peace with God, those uncles of urs must have forgiven you but decide not to have anything to do with you, the most important thing is peace with God ...I will advice you to get this message by Pastor Paul Eneche "The Trap of Bitterness" ...forgive yourself and pray to God to give you a new life, let people see you differently. God will see you through

jumper524:
If your a teacher and your read this, my advise to you is to run from the line of teaching.

I wish there is another job, this whole thing is real blow on us

MamaDG:
B A
I am glad to announce the birth of my Sonshine who made his grand entry at 7:30PM yesterday weighing 3.25 via Ecs. Baby is fine, mother healing while dad and older brother rejoicing.

Thanks mums from whom one way or the other have learnt from. I'm very grateful

My cappo joyful. Thank u very much.

Pweetiebabe congratulations and welcome to my son's birthday mate, he is blessed and secured in christ's blood IJN

BS to be submitted soon.

congrate ma.

Pweetiebabe:
Thanks so much mamas for all the prayers and wellwishes, i can't start mentioning names but i pray for you all your joy will never turn to sorrow...

Angeltolly my cappo, thanks for been the cappo and to the remaining team May and all preggo mama the lord will make it easy for your in jesus name...

4realwoman i hope u re ready to receive the batton

congrat ma

Moringa seed or bara, the bara looks like a ball of Mellon this will definitely make you purge

This is really touching... May God keep your babies for you..for every woman trusting God for the fruit of the womb, may God answer you all

Is so frustrating oohh

dancok:
call me when u are going to collect ur own,we go together.

lol I hear we all need it

That's mY church God bless you daddy and mummy

BligsMiss:
Update. .. Thank you All. I'm healthy this morning, baby is fine and kicking now. I was told its "umbilical cord compression", that's what decrease the movement. And thank God i notify the hospital immediately i suspect decrease in baby's movement. Contraction as stop. But my heart rate is fast(maybe cos I'm thinking and haven't sleep) will sleep and switch off my phone now. Thank you for All your prayers and will appreciate more...

TeamJuly Supernatural Birth..

thank God you are OK now teamie may God keep you

[quote author=BligsMiss post=89183517]Updated !!

I'm presently on admission

I went to the hospital to check why's the baby not moving and the heartbeat. The baby was beating good. But still not moving, she was monitored for more than 1hr, all same. I did series of test and the doctor said i may go into labour soon. I'm worried and sad, my husband as left, I'm only here on admission to monitor if I'm still having contraction and heavy discharge like draw soup (dont knw the meaning ) the next 48hrs. They gave me steriod injection to mature the baby's lungs and some drugs if she's going to come and to be on a safer side it's midnight now, cant sleep and i have bn crying. I need your prayers please [/quote
God will see you through the dear.. You will carry ur baby to full term..

delaveres:
Cappo, no be small elephant walk o. i just dey drag myself to walk now. Thank God we're getting closer. Hope you're doing well

mama I sent you pm please reply ...how is the pushing

The wise once are wearing a mask

spixytinxy:
Team July 2020 roll call (May)
hope we r all gud?

Moniker.................... EDD.............. Sex

1. Aitee1.................... July 24
2. Ohemababy ...........July 4 ..........XX
3. Fruitfulvinee ..........July 25.........XX
4. Mzora ....................July 14
5. iListen ...................July 29
6. Graciamore
7. Blex444
8. Spixytinxy ............ July 3rd.........XX
9. Kosibaby ............... july 25...........XX
10 Vinoj0225 ............ July 10
11 bomgirl ................ July 6 ........... XX
12 delaveres .............. July 3........... XX
13 ijeije123 ............... July 24
14 Izbanda01............. july 27
15 teebee22 .............. July 13 ......... XX
16 BligsMiss ............. July 20 ......... XX
17 ladun27 .................July 20......... XY
18 perfectella .............July 15......... XX
19 toriaking ................July 31.........XY
20 EloWChi ................ July 18 ....... XY
21 pinkandpurple .......July 21.........XY
22 nikkyshyne .............july 25
23 hardeyolatee ......... July 16.........XX
24 slimvee ....................july 13

Hello teamies, how waddling? Me I yaf started elephant working ooo, now I know what it means to be heavy, any small Waka like dis I will be breathing like someone that just finish marathon, sleep nko? Chai dis left side sleeping no b my thing at all, we sha dey push am, hope we have started preparing for baby arrival by getting the needed stuffs, may God provide for us so that we can give our kids d best in life. For those of us that don't av much for now, plz shop in bit, before u know it u will b done with everything. Remember to stay safe. I love u all.

#teamjulyforsupernaturalbirth
#teamjulyforsneezeanddeliver
#teamjoyousjuly
#teamjulyforamazingbirthstories
#teamjuly for easy and swift deivery


Team July to sure, pregnant mama with grace. Happy bumping

Team July rocks

If u didn't see ur moniker, please notify me. Please also update me with edd and sex.

thank you mam spixytinxy for checking on us. I am doing fine., and we bless God for the journey so far,edd is 25th sex not know yet

EloWChi:
I am doing well ooo. Just that the waist pain or na pelvis pain no be here ooo.

I can't just wait to see my baby.

Moregrace and @the end we will rejoice. I will be going to market next week to buy some baby things.

Amen Amen

Squirrel01:
Which school is paying you 14k?

is a private school around my area

Ifyjos:
Op and the guy that confirmed are both partners in crime , scammers. May thunder fire you criminals

my dear sister are you for real? You are a woman fa? This life is not all way smooth journey to for everyone, despite the hard work things may still be hard for some..pleasw don't conclude on her case like that...i know how it feels. May God help us all

LadyMessi:
Good morning mummies in the house,
Congratulations to all the new mamas, congratulations in advance to the waddling mummies, to all our ttc members, you the next in line.


Please mummies in the house, lets say a word of prayer and encouragement to our sister Patking (April captain) for the loss of her baby. We pray that God will give her double for her loss and affliction will not arise the second time in Jesus name, Amen.

My fellow April teamies, big congratulations to those of us that have meet our Los, and for the remaining mamas, we await your testimony.

oh my God this is heart heart breaking, my capo that year 2018', mama patking may God heal you. Is going to be double for all your trouble. Is well dear

goldenone:
BS
My pregnancy started as an easy ride to the Glory of God, got my BFP 4 or 5 weeks after wedding. Morning sickness came at six weeks and lasted till 14 weeks thereabout. I had different Edd's varying from 18th to 21st to 25th to 27th but I decided to go with 21st. I was able to work through the pregnancy, took bike through bumpy roads to and fro every day yet God remained faithful. Fast forward to 32 weeks, I did a scan that showed cord around neck, reported at my clinic and was told all was well. At my 34 weeks appointment a doctor saw me and told me I needed to be worried cos I was having painful contractions too. I did a doppler and it showed all was well. However, from 35 weeks I just started having negative feelings and at times I won't feel the baby move for hours. I would tell my husband and he would say I was worrying abou nothing. Due to the corona virus pandemic, the last clinic I attended was at 34 weeks I think. My hospital closed antenatal and were only attending to emergency and labor cases. At 36 weeks I started taking ewedu and chewing 4 dates daily in my mind to prepare my cervix. At 37 weeks plus 1 day, I started having very painful menstrual cramps and I was excited that labour was beginning to start. Two days later I went for scan as I felt there was reduced movement and I still had painful contractions. Scan showed all was well with baby and cervix still closed and my husband was like I told you. That night and the night after I had serious Braxton Hicks and didn't feel baby move all through so I decided to call my doctor that Thursday morning. She told me to report to the hospital immediately, keep track of the movements and keep an open mind regarding CS. We went to the hospital, I was sent for a doppler which came back normal but I was still having contractions, however that particular doppler showed that I had a slightly elevated amount of amniotic fluid. Cervix was checked and was closed so I was admitted to be monitored for contractions. Fetal vitals was checked all through till the following morning and I was to be discharged. The doctor that was to discharge me came around to check fetal vitals and discovered fetal tachycardia. He immediately told me to prepare for emergency CS. He called my husband who had become very scared and told him the things to do and forms to sign. I was moved to labor ward, fetal vitals came back normal again so they strapped me to a CTG machine. It kept showing normal vitals till about 3 hours later when the heart rate started going up and coming down dangerously. I was moved to the theater 12 hours after the first diagnosis was made. While in the theater the devil struck, first spinal anesthesia failed, I was told if the second failed I would be knocked out. Second one was successful an the operating table gave way after with my head almost falling and all the doctors had to quickly grab me. Procedure was successful to the Glory of God. Baby came out screaming his lungs out at 9:11pm weighing 3.2kg. Spinal Headache lasted for days and in all I'm grateful to God for this bundle of joy.

congrats mama.

Bontia:
I know so many people are going through a very tough time during this pandemic and the lockdown. I am not a rich guy but just being empathic. Nairaland is a forum I have benefited so much from in terms of information so I am giving out N5k each to 10 random people here. I just need people who are in real need of the money. Just genuinely type in here why you need the N5k and you may be just be among the 10 people.

By the special grace of God the world shall overcome this virus and the economic hardship.

Thank you.

please Bontia look my side they did not pay us before the lock down small salary fa 14k. Please I will appreciate if your kind gesture thanks 3058464286

Bontia:
I know so many people are going through a very tough time during this pandemic and the lockdown. I am not a rich guy but just being empathic. Nairaland is a forum I have benefited so much from in terms of information so I am giving out N5k each to 10 random people here. I just need people who are in real need of the money. Just genuinely type in here why you need the N5k and you may be just be among the 10 people.

By the special grace of God the world shall overcome this virus and the economic hardship.

Thank you.

Amen....Thank you, please I sincerely need it for food. 3058464286 first bank private school teachers are really feeling it hot

quadfire:
Done

Thank you thank you thank you I appreciate, God bless you