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LiteratureRe: Find Your Unique Writing Voice by gracile(op): 11:55pm On Dec 09, 2019
millieademi:
I have six words for you gracile- thank you, thank you, thank you.

This was elucidating
Wow Millie thank you too for reading I’m glad you loved it!
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RomanceRe: Is It Your Size - Lady Show Off Her G - String Pant To Her Male Neighbour by gracile(f): 12:58pm On Nov 30, 2019
Okay..
CrimeRe: Can I Receive Transfer Alert Of 5M With My Savings Account. Help A Brother. by gracile(f): 12:46pm On Nov 30, 2019
As long as it’s a regular savings account it can take amount but if it’s a tier 1 acc i.e an account opened with incomplete documentation e.g corpers or students account they’ll be limits.
LiteratureRe: What Inspires You To Write? by gracile(f): 12:20pm On Nov 30, 2019
LarrySun:
I really can't tell, honestly. Stories just pop into my head and I write. But the more I write a story, the better the plots get. Also, I'm a fan of surprise endings; therefore, no matter what story I write, I try my best to infuse the surprise.

Perhaps I can say my inspiration is drawn from the fact that I want to prove to the world that Nigerians can also come up with great storylines.

I used to read a lot of novels while growing up. It got to a stage where I started feeling that I could write better stories than some of the novels I read. But I was scared of writing. I could only read, I didn't believe I could write. Indeed, I couldn't speak anything grammatically-accurate. At a time, I debated about the idea of writing in my local language, but hell, I suck at that too. Yet, the stories forming in my head couldn't leave me alone.

Ironically, I was the best English Language student in my class, but I couldn't speak the language perfectly. Funny but true. I didn't believe in myself. I saw writing a story as a very big deal. I didn't know I had to start from somewhere.

The ideas in my head eventually took over. I started with a very short story, an incomplete one. I showed it to some of my friends, but they didn't show interest in it because they weren't accustomed to reading stories. The story went without a single person reading it. But that first attempt helped me a lot. It helped me to start believing in myself. It inspired me to go push further. If I could write something like that, then I should be able to write something better.

I started my first novel in 2007 and ended it in 2010. It was my most fulfilling three years. Nobody knew I was writing a story. I would lock myself in my room and write. I finished it within the first year, of course, but I spent the remaining two years polishing and repolishing it, adding and subtracting ideas. When I was done. I locked it away in my shelf. No one knew about it. I told nobody.

In 2011, I had a girlfriend. Lol! She encouraged me further. I came out of my shell and told her I wrote a story. I think it just came out unexpectedly. She wasn't a novel-reader either, I had no reason to tell her. But it slipped out. As soon as I said it, she got interested. She begged me to read it to her. I was scared. A lot of things bothered me. She might be bored like my initial friends. The last thing I wanted to do was to shove what I had done down the throats of people who gave no damn. But she continued begging me to read it to her. I decided that I would give her the manuscript to read herself. I was sure that she would drop it after the first page like my other friends had done with my initial short story. Besides, I didn't have the best handwriting in the world.

She insisted that I read it to her. She wanted something romantic, hearing me read to her was her idea of a perfect romance. Perhaps she thought I wrote a romantic story. But what I wrote wasn't Romance, it was Detective Mystery. Surely, she would sleep off, or just ask me to shut up, please!

I started reading while she lay on my laps. Oh Lord! For hours, I was reading the story to her. She listened to me quietly. When I thought she had gone to sleep, she would ask me a few questions just to show that she was following. By the time I got to a few chapters, she was no longer laying her head on my laps, she was sitting and resting her head on my shoulder and watching my mouth. Lol! She was probably seeing the characters and actions from my speech. Halfway, she was totally enthralled. By the time I finished, she had cried and laughed and jumped with happiness. She confessed that it was the best story she had ever read. From the way she said it, I believed her.

That statement is what has been keeping me going till today. She believed in me when I didn't even believe in myself. Although I am not yet a complete writer, I still have a lot to learn; but I owe everything I am today to her because she is my first reader. We are separated but we are still very good friends.

After that, I started nursing the idea of typing the story. I couldn't afford to pay to get it typed, I would go anywhere I could find a free PC to type. To cut everything short, I discovered Nairaland shortly after typing it in 2012. There were a lot of like-minded people here posting their stories. I was initially scared that my story would be stolen if I posted it online. After much thoughts, I decided to give it a go.

Mehn! It was one of the best decisions I had made. Almost everyone who read it loved it. They all inspired me. It became such a sensational NL work that a lot of other people plagiarised it on their various platforms. Someone even publicly claim ownership to the work. Lol! To be honest, I never thought I would write any book after that one. I only wrote it to prove that I could write a better story than some of these bestselling writers. But the raves from Nairaland inspired me to write a sequel, which a lot of people told me was even crazier than the first book.

I apologise for this long epistle. Lol! I just want to tell you that anyone who desires to become a writer can be. There's nothing stopping you except you. You have to believe in yourself. If I can do it, then you can definitely do it. Forget about the fear of being mocked for errors. You will only get better. If you have that story in your head, WRITE IT! However, whichever, whenever!

Peace!

LSD smiley
You Larrysun, divepen, repogirl, tiffanyj, Roy we there was this other guy that writes fantasy/adventure I’ve forgotten his name but we got an acronym for his story then OMG his name is at the tip of my tongue anyways I was going to say literaturelanders especially the people I’ve just mentioned were my first inspiration to write.

What drives me personally is the fact that books have done a whole lot to me. I’ve read books like Francine Rivers that made me cry like really reflect and cry.
Books have brought me where I am today. Books are powerful and are capable of changing lives forever, a book like alchemist etc have made lifelong impacts in my life.

That’s what I want, make someone better or be a part of someone’s joy or success story through my writing smiley
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PhonesRe: Things That Make Your Phone Memory Always Full by gracile(f): 12:05pm On Nov 30, 2019
Especially videos
Emails too, people are fond of leaving their emails to pile up. I always try to delete unnecessary emails, less emails equals less clutter, more space and less stress
RomanceRe: I Think A Girl Cursed Me And I Fear For My Fate by gracile(f): 11:48am On Nov 30, 2019
You’re not cursed. Get a church or a counselor or someone you can confide in to talk to and pray along side with. It’s important you change your mindset about the whole thing. You’re experiencing the trauma that comes with sexual abuse, so many have been there and are healed. You too can be healed. It’s well with you!
LiteratureRe: 5 Odd Places To Get Writing Ideas by gracile(op): 11:40am On Nov 30, 2019
joseph1832:
gracile. You're a hood girl? How hood are you?
Hood hood grin
LiteratureFind Your Unique Writing Voice by gracile(op): 11:38am On Nov 30, 2019
Hey guys, it’s been a minute (okay a few weeks technically) and I have missed you. For the record, it wasn’t deliberate. It’s been one helluva ‘break’ so let’s just call them unforeseen circumstances. Losing my phone and the delayed arrival of my laptop were definitely not planned but then, shit happens right? So I’m back yeah, got my acts together. Like I’ve made a list of interesting headlines we’ll be talking about for the next couple of weeks so sit back and let’s get into today’s topic already.

Growing up I had a lot of writers who I fancied. And when I read their books, I would subconsciously begin to talk, act and/or write like them. I remember that whenever I read James Hadley Chase I became uptight and a little too cautious. James Patterson on the other hand always influenced my sense of humor. I soon realized that just as no two persons are the same, no two writers write the same. And the most terrible if not the worst thing that could happen to a writer is to lose their uniqueness.

Now everyone appreciates unique right. Maybe it’s because everyone is unique – from our anatomical differences to our innate abilities, we are all, well, unique. But in a world where the quality of writing is fast deteriorating, a lot of writers have lost their unique writing voice. It’s sad.

When I pick a book or a write up, I want to be blown away. And I’m sure that’s the case for so many others. Especially with creative writing, the reader craves for original, natural, crazy, raw, humorous, fun etc. it’s why we (I) love Mark Manson and so many others. If it’s going to be worth our intention, then you better be interesting.

And here are 7 ways I think any writer can incorporate in retracing or finding their unique writing voice

Be yourself


There is nothing more unique than the cliched ‘Be yourself’ mantra (ignore the irony). The next thing you want to do after knowing yourself is to become it, in its fullness. Technically, that’s the best you can be. It’s fun. People only struggle with personality and acceptance issues because they aren’t being or haven’t loved being themselves.

Know your audience


Bear your readers in mind when writing. This makes it easy as you’ll know what your readers expect. You want to put yourself in their shoes. So next time you choose a headline to write on, ask yourself, “if I wanted to read something on this, what do I expect?”

Be Spontaneous


Okay rules are cool, but they suck too. I also find them limiting, and since writing is not speaking, it makes even more annoying to follow up on rules. I want to be conversational, I want to sound like I’m talking life to my readers. No sugar coating, cancelling, and all that chaos in my head. Then I must deal with punctuations and figures of shit and all that crap. Yea I think I just broke some of them. Noticed the many jargons in this point? Just write.

Let others read your work


This is important. Getting someone on the outside to read your work, gives you an idea of what your readers see or think about your write up. There is a reason we all (most of us) wanted someone to read our amazing write up when we first started.

Be your first fan


Most definitely sis (man, bro etc),love your write up and what you’re all about then others will follow. I’m my number one fan whatever the case. You shouldn’t be complacent, but you should give yourself some credit too.

Be versatile


Be known for something but don’t be limited. You’ll eventually narrow down to your favorite niche but don’t let that limit you. Imagine you ate say, rice everyday from the beginning of the year, you’d get bored eventually that’s if you even made it past the first 3 days.

Get crazy


Don’t be afraid of being crazy sometimes it’s like in the real world, the more loosened up you are the more fun you’ll have and the authentic you are perceived to be. James Patterson, one of my favorites is a good example of crazy, it’s probably why I’m always on the lookout for his novels.


I feel like most of the points highlighted are intertwined. But I know you got what I’m trying to say. The point is, uniqueness is in simply being authentic. Whether you’re the crazy, reserved, weird or natural, nerdy Just… be it �

Please subscribe to my blog for more juicy posts on book reviews, stories and all things literature. Link on signature

See ya �
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LiteratureRe: 5 Odd Places To Get Writing Ideas by gracile(op): 6:34pm On Jul 28, 2019
[quote author=joseph1832 post=80694489]Seriously? [/quote
Yo I'm a hood girl cool
LiteratureRe: 5 Odd Places To Get Writing Ideas by gracile(op): 6:34pm On Jul 28, 2019
CsRockefeller:
You are back my Jos babe
Hey luv how have you been?
LiteratureRe: 5 Odd Places To Get Writing Ideas by gracile(op): 8:30pm On Jul 27, 2019
joseph1832:
How about a brothel? The happenings there is enough to give one ideas that burn brighter than the Sun.
That is so true funnily enough I live in a neighborhood with lots of them. Definitely, checking on or two out now (8
LiteratureRe: 5 Odd Places To Get Writing Ideas by gracile(op): 8:29pm On Jul 27, 2019
Royver:
Hey babe, I'm still here. Trying to make a comeback, can you beleive it? That's life i guess. smiley
Oh Royver I've missed your stories!
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LiteratureRe: 5 Odd Places To Get Writing Ideas by gracile(op): 10:00am On Jul 27, 2019
TiffanyJ:
Madam, where you go hide? It's been ages!
It's been ages I swear cheesy don't mind me been trying to be an adult lol
I was so proud to see our series (TRB) on Okadabooks congratulations cheesy
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Literature5 Odd Places To Get Writing Ideas by gracile(op): 8:52am On Jul 27, 2019
Hello y’all! It's been a minute cheesy and I've really missed you guys especially literaturelanders.
I want to mention names like Oluwabuqqyolo, Rachael, Tiffanyj (my mama), Royver (my author crush) agapecharis, etc but I won't be surprised if they aren't active here anymore like myself and that's even if I got the monikers right grin (it's a miracle I still remember the codes for smileys).
Alright so aside trying to catch up on old friends and hopefully making new ones, I'm here to advertise my blog. I know right, I finally got one lol. So enough already and let's get down to brass tacks.

There are various ways we get our inspirations from. For some (and many) it’s music, books, movies to others, it might be real life experiences or purely imagination. And those are valid ways as I use them myself but then, I found that we still sometimes, run out of ideas or inspiration to write or do whatever art it is we do. We’ve all been there. So if you’re familiar with writers block, you’re at the right place. Because the truth is inspiration to write is everywhere around us and one only needs to be observant and curious enough to leave the comfort (regular) zones. Like trying something new maybe odd �.

There are so many odd places to get writing ideas from however, I’ve selected only five (5). Whether it’s content writing, creative writing and in fact, generally arts you do. I’m about to broaden your options on getting ideas.

Eavesdropping

Yo! Time to get your ears up fellas. People dispatch plenty of information when they talk and the good thing is, you don’t even need to creep on them or spy on their conversations. You just need to follow on an interesting chitchat from two ladies or guys, in a bus or on a random queue. Trust me, you could learn a story or two to write about.

Animals

Weird right? Of course, we’re talking odd. I know for a fact that animals are a very fascinating creature to observe and even learn a few things from. Countless times I have caught myself watching an animal do something even as mundane as regurgitating, and then my brain go spinning several scenarios and patterns associated with the act. I try to imagine what goes on in their head when I see them exhibiting a certain behavior. Take my cat for instance, Tabby perfectly knows how to carry herself and still cherish her comfort, so I learnt poise from her. She’s also charming, now ain’t I? *flutters lashes* lol.

So when next you see an animal, be it your pet or kangaroo in the bush, stop and watch them with keen interest, you never know, that may be the answer to your next genius story!

Market place

I always say that the market is where you see all caliber of persons. From the mildly insane to the extremely insane to those that are just insane, by default!

A few times, I’ll stand by and watch, intrigued by the movements, dress, body language of diverse people, brushing shoulders, breaking sweat, spewing curses hauling germs in a rush to buy and sell! There are so many amusing characters to talk about in the market; definitely not a bad idea for comic write ups.

Gym

You already know that people think clearer when they’re fit plus funny ‘stuffs’ do happen in the gym. I once heard a weightlifter died after a bench press fell on his neck (this is not funny though).
Now, you may want to maximize your next work out session so, instead of ogling at that hot lady’s behind or that dudes abs when you’re on break, get yourself a story to write about. Ogling a lil bit don’t hurt too though.

Taking walks

Oldie but absolutely a goodie. Especially, in our contemporary world where walking is seen as a punishment reserved for the ‘broke’ or stingy folks. Now not only is this activity healthy but it also allows one ample amount of time to think, reflect and meditate. Instead of jumping into the next available motorcycle or cab, take a walk. You also get to burn some calories and save some change for ice cream later �

Now it’s your turn, what unconventional (odd or weird) ways or places do you get ideas from?

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LiteratureRe: Pun Story by gracile(op): 7:12pm On Apr 24, 2019
teamwilly:
Konji
wink
Technology MarketSocial Media URLS by gracile(op): 5:50pm On Apr 14, 2019
Hi guys, been a while here.

Who knows how I can fetch my instagram and twitter account URLs, I need to paste the links somewhere and have been able to get for LinkedIn, facebook and Pinterest. I just don't know how to go about that of twitter and instagram.

I'll appreciate your timely help. Thank you!
EducationRe: Curvy Teacher Sets The Internet Ablaze With Her Hot Curves(Photos) by gracile(f): 2:36am On Feb 06, 2019
It could be that she just doing a photoshoot, schools don't let their staffs were Jean or sleeveless
RomanceRe: What Was The Dumbest Thing You Ever Did To Impress A Girl/guy? by gracile(f): 2:28am On Feb 06, 2019
amaniro:
Lool armatures grin
Amateur
RomanceRe: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by gracile(f): 2:21am On Feb 06, 2019
Reginald or whatever, tajbol4splend, ioswhite you guys can you stop shoving your opinions down people's throats? It's not only childish but irritating please.
Live and let live!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 2017 KPMG Graduate Trainee Recruitment Thread by gracile(f): 12:03pm On Jan 13, 2019
Temimayowa:
Pls anybody with KPMG PAST QUESTION, Should pls help a sister and forward it to this email, temmyluv62@gmail.com,,, God bless you as you help me,,,I have test on DEC 1 2018
If you got it please help a sister

Thank you
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 2017 KPMG Graduate Trainee Recruitment Thread by gracile(f): 12:02pm On Jan 13, 2019
Please I need GMAT past questions and answers ASAP guys!
Here is my email : theolandgrace@gmail.com

God bless you Angel
CareerRe: Paypal Account Name by gracile(op): 7:40pm On Jan 04, 2019
Mrceragem:
What PayPal details do I need to give to a buyer?
In order to receive money into your PayPal Account all you need to provide to the buyer is your email address. Your email address needs to be confirmed within PayPal for the money to be received. When you add an email address to your PayPal account, we send you an email to confirm that you own the email address.
Thank you Mrceragem.
I'll send my PayPal email account to asap, thanks alot!
CareerRe: Online Free Web Development And Entrepreneurship Training by gracile(f): 7:36pm On Jan 04, 2019
Extremely interested please

08136001687

Thank you
CareerPaypal Account Name by gracile(op): 7:33pm On Jan 04, 2019
Hello guys, please what do I provide as my PayPal account when asked for my PayPal account?
Do I give my email, account number or just my name?

Urgent please!

Thank you.
RomanceRe: What Should I Do, I Need Your Advice by gracile(f): 9:55pm On Sep 26, 2018
*Inspired by the guys signature up

Be brave, take risks.
Finger her without notice, if they slap you share I no send you
RomanceRe: Ops by gracile(f): 9:51pm On Sep 26, 2018
Tin? You mean like 'gongoni'huh
LiteratureRe: Pun Lovers Get In Here!!! by gracile(f): 7:30pm On May 06, 2018
Oh hi lay-dies and gen-tool-men
kiss
How are your weak-ends cum-ing? Hope y'all had fawn? Well as for me I had an a-maize-ing weekend, I cunt wait for next week!
RomanceRe: I Have Fvcked More Than 30 Girls Since This Year Yet Am Still Broke by gracile(f): 6:11am On May 06, 2018
CsRockefeller:
Hello Grace, good day, smileytrust d weekend has been splendid. I've been reading ur post and also went tru ur blog(nice write-up smileys/stories) though I'm also a writer, but my reason of chatting u up is outside that purview, you seem to be one of d very few cool heads here, and I wouldn't mind if we could be friends.
Thanks Rockefeller for visiting my blog
Leave a message here @ theolandgrace@gmail.com
My nairaland mail account is inactive for now. Looking forward to us being friends. wink
LiteratureRe: Should We Call It A New Beginning? by gracile(f): 9:06pm On May 05, 2018
EvaJael:
Gracile!!! Oh my God! I've missed you too. How have you been?
Please tell me you have a new story on board, lemme dance for you
embarassed
None I've written yet, don't mind me the story been in my mind alright I'll just need to start pouring them out. Its pure laziness, i know you understand lol
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