₦airaland Forum

I thought I'm the only one noticing.
Everybody on the road looking so sad.

Revolution loading..........

Why must you be expecting someone to buy something for you?
Don't you work?
Why can't you buy what you need by yourself?
Are you in relationship with him because of material gains?
And to think he has even bought you tablet before, you still want more, if he can't, then he doesn't love you, abi...........



And I'm sure you also will be shouting "gender equality" up and down..........
Mtcheeew

The summary of your writeup is HAVE PLENTY MONEY before having kids.



Not saying it's wrong to first make money before building a family, but in a case where the situation of the economy do not allow one to have enough so much money, are we saying such a person is not fit to have kids?

I'm also not saying kids should be brought to come and suffer, but I believe that with moderate and constant income, one can still go ahead and have few kids like two, remember, no condition is permanent.

The truth is that, if everybody wants to wait till they are able to have car/s, afford a separate apartment, be able to give a room to each of the kids, then, many, I mean, many will not get married not to talk of raising family.


Personally, teaching your kids good morals is more important than all that is listed here.

A child that is morally brought up will not despise his/her parent because they don't have a car yet.

A child that is morally brought up will appreciate his parent, even if they are in one room apartment.

A child that is morally brought up will always accept responsibilities for his/her action/s.


There is nothing wrong with humble beginning.
Money is good to make life comfortable for us all but money is not and will not be the most important thing to train a child adequately.


DO NOT DESPISE HUMBLE BEGINNING.
NO CONDITION IS PERMANENT.

There is power in prayer.

No matter how beautiful a prison cell is, no one should wish to go there. There is nothing comparable with one's freedom.

Haaaaa
See brain.....
Nigerians, why, why Nigerians, why can't we redirect this brain to something productive.

I suggest all coffins should from now be checked, to ascertain if the content is actually a copse.

This is just too extreme

Nice writeup.
I pray none of our children will be this stupid.

Lol......... The hunter has become the hunted!

This is how I serve my children till today. The eldest takes first, followed by the next, till it gets to the last

AleAirHub:

Everything In Nigeria Is Comedy

I tell you!

You are not alone, some people are like that, but you have to loosen up a bit, after all you're going to get married someday, ain't you going to eat foods prepared by your wife.

This is simple now!

Just do this.................. anytime she knocks at your door, respectfully tell her you're about to sleep and wouldn't want to be disturbed. On another day, respectfully tell her you're busy with something very important, and that you wouldn't want to be disturbed, that when you're through, you will call on her. After about 4 or 5 attempts, she will get the message. If she refuses to get the message, and still disturb you, tell her to wait for you outside, you will meet her there. After a while, go and meet her and tell her you prefer open place because of fresh air.


If after all these, she still don't get the message, I'm afraid, you will need to tell her that she needs to take care of herself more, that, that is the more reason you've been trying to avoid her. If she's a good person, she will take it as a good advice and work more on her hygiene.


Good luck!

Nigerians............. always turning things upside down, especially, when it doesn't suit them.




This is hilarious!

AleAirHub:
Really!!!.

Nigerian Are Tried Of The Word Moving Instead We Want To See It Implemented

I pray it will be implemented, unless they want to prove to us that their hands too are not clean.

Honestly, this is long overdue!

If this can materialized, our politicians will take it easy with embezzlement and misappropriation of funds. In fact, all sectors, both public and private would be sanitized.

Saying all men are cheat is an insult to the honest men and faithful ones.

HateU2:

See dis one
One guy don dey deceive u say 'na u b d only sugar in his tea abi'. Stay there oo.

With this mindset, I'm afraid you might end up with the type of guy you have in mind.
As a man thinks, so is he.

No guy can claim to love his wife and still cheat on her.
CHEATING IS A BETRAYAL OF TRUST

HateU2:
You can't do anything to pleaase a guy, he will always cheat

Not all guys. Stop generalising!

This is how my mum lost my sister's love till today. My sister still claim till today that she was able to end up with that monster called husband because of our mum's action that very day. Though, she claims to have forgiven her, but honestly, the bitterness is still very obvious.


Parenthood is not an easy task, we need wisdom and tact to raise these children. And the best way to get the best from our children is to come down to their levels, make them your friends and let them be free with you, that way, they will see their parents as their confidant.

Any parent whose child/ren cannot confide in, is not good parents.

Eeya, may his soul rest on perfect peace.
And speedy recovery to others involved.

This fuel matter is really something else.

No light and no fuel. This combination can kill.

Lord, help us.


But, honestly, Nigerians are being pushed to the wall, very soon, they will react, especially the youths.

Nice!


Life has always been simple, it's only the foools that makes it complex for themselves.

ExAngel007:
TRUE
We never like to see progress among ourselves
always putting blame on the federal government

That's we Nigerians for us
Highly hypocritical!

otokx:
Right in my colleagues front, an NNPC tanker loaded with product at East West Road near Jepthah used masking tape to cover the NNPC name and sold it to Independent Marketers were they will sell at 140 naira per litre.

Can you imagine o
When are we going to stop inflicting hardship on ourselves in this country?

Nigerians are the main enemies of fellow Nigerians.

The fuel marketers are Nigerians.

Our politicians who take pleasure in personalising the money meant to make Nigeria better are all Nigerians.

I'm not a politician o, but it's not a rocket science to know that APC is PDP rebranded!
Only that in this part of the world, we like deceiving ourselves, hence, expecting new and different thing.

Honestly, when are we going to get anything right in this country
Little wonder, everyone wants to travel abroad.

kachi19:
The Men Bible say: He who liketh nor admireth not a chick with Legit booty or boobs, surely is a gay :/

lol.....
why won't you be scammed with fake big booty and boobs with this mentality.

lol@ surely a gay.

@op, whether you admit it or not...................... YOU ARE A CRIMINAL!!!

Partiality, Favouritism! Is it because she's a colleague?
Personally, I've never heard of any accused person going to court with veil o. This is partiality. Anybody can hide under veil now. How are we sure it's the real her that's under the veil. This is totally unacceptable! Justice must prevail. May the soul of her husband she sent to early grave rest in peace.

See question o