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Good for her!



But I hope she's ready for the drama that may later erupt in the future.
Polygamous family for sure, since it's involves a traditional ruler, more wives may still be married by the king.



Polygamous house=house of war!

rheether:
Stay away from yoruba men. They are evil..

Not all of them please! Stop being tribalistic on every issue.
@ op, in a simple term, your hubby is simply fetish. What is written there is not a mission to harm you, but he's only seeking favor in a fetish way.

@op, are you on WhatsApp?

So, having s3x always is what Yoruba's call "gbogbo nise".
OK, I've heard you.
I'm not saying regular s3x between married couples is not good o, but curing all these illnesses, mba,. I don't believe.
I believe some but not all.

No one can stop anyone from doing anything, except the person himself.

A man who has decided to cheat can never be stopped except he repented by himself. Likewise the woman.



P.S........only responding based on the title, yet to read the article.

God bless all amazing mothers and all caring fathers.
This reminds me of this .....

LoJ:
I am probably the one that shloud be grateful. I always try to stop by and tell people how great they are and how the very simple things they do/say have great impact. And in this case, I don't even know how I came about to know you, but I've been reading your post faithfully. I am truly blessed and enlightened by the simple obvious but deep truths you drop passing by.

May the living God reward you with more strength wisdom, and grants you far beyond what you ever positively wished to anyone in this forum and elsewhere. Love is the key.

Thank you

oh! I'm honored!
Thanks so much.
Amen to your prayers and wishing you same and more.

LoJ:
Hello. Why should you leave? Your input is very much appreciated. I am one of those who (in secret) take great delight in reading your posts and receiving the light and love that flows out of them. Please post, and post more regularly. The world, and Nairaland need more of people like you.

wow! thank you sir.
Just that I'm always so busy, and we all know how addictive NL is, if I don't log out,I won't be able to attend to my busy schedule.
Thanks once again.

ayokunlei:
Wcm back... Been a while I saw ur update

Thanks for your observation! Really appreciate!

Lol, will soon run away again......

Your wife is threatening to get her satisfaction elsewhere if you don't find solution to your problem? That's sarcasm, right, or she's damn serious with it

Well,the problem you have might be psychological and in that case, all you might need could be counselling and/or therapy.So, that means you need the services of psychologist and a therapist. And of course, you need all the support from your wife not threat.

Moreover, you need to take easy with drug intakes, too much of which can have adverse effect on your internal organs.

And then. take a lot of fruits like banana, watermelon,vegetable like tomatoes, etc.
It is well!

Imagine!


God, give us the wisdom to train these kids aright and grant these kids listening ears and right doing hearts. Amen.

Very very intelligent question!
They don't trust their maids, yet, they entrusted them with their most treasured thing!
They don't love their maids, yet, they entrusted them with their most loved person-their kids.
They don't appreciate their maids, yet, their most appreciated treasure is in their maids'care.
They don't want their maids get closer to them, but they want their kids to be closer to their maids.
What a confused person!

Please, if you will not treat your maids like your kids, don't employ them because what you sow on your maid, your maids will sow them back on your kids too. And you will ultimately reap it on your kids.
Remember, karma is a bitch!

@op, you're very right. So many women looking for already made men.
However, Some men too are in this category but unfortunately, when it's men, we tends not to call it gold digging, but believe me, there are gold digger men.

My advice, instead of looking for riches as one of the criteria for marriage, it's better to look for a person with prospect, and I'm talking about both men and women, because no one wants to be entangled with a perpetual liability a wife or husband.

"men are not good on apron"
But some men earn their living from putting on aprons, they are called chefs.

If you don't like yourself with aprons, its not bad, but saying it as if it's a taboo is totally wrong.
My own opinion too.
Peace!

Hello everybody! @kinkimbo, congratulations! Regards to your Wife and the baby.

I love this thread, not those scaring threads about marriages.



As for the question, no perfect person anywhere nor can you find perfect marriage as well. As much as the weaknesses are what the other partner can tolerate and live with, no problems.
I will marry him over and over again and again, his strengths are much more, very much more than his weaknesses and his weaknesses are what I can live with.
Ten years and still counting, it's like we're still dating , the rate at which the time is fast self, it's like someone is fast forwarding the clock.
Much more patient and matured!

Let the baby sleep beside you on the bed.
And as for the sleeping directly under the ceiling fan, it is not advisable, it could lead to cold and/or respiratory problem.
Peace!

You never can say or know what his mother went through for him to be and still be alive, maybe when he tells you, you will relate with the feelings. So, don't be nervous yet.

My advice, be a good wife to your husband and a good mother to your kids and by the time you hear your kids telling their spouses the same, you will understand better.
Moreso,loving his mother does not mean you're not also loved.
Peace!

xoxom:
Hello all

I wanna thank u all for being there for me and my family.
Don't wanna mention names.
U all rock.

I know I won't be difficult to recognize.

Happy holiday and celebration to our Muslim family(hope I'm not late)

Idowuogbo pls come and gist me about ur owambe. The one wey u wear tight gown

.YPP, you're a very strong woman!
Welcome back!
Happy to have you back dear.

@R231, hope it's not too late? Happy birthday sir! Wishing you every good and beautiful things life can offer. Igba odun, odun kan ni!

This is just to remind us all that anyone can die at any time and any age, so,we got to live our lives as if today is our last day on earth.







May their souls continue to rest in perfect peace!

This can't be true!

But if it is.............
Their life, their choice, their problem!

@Fhemmy, long time.

To be honest with you, i dont do funeral parties. What i believe to be funeral is getting casket and burying in ground. It's not about religion but of personal principle and ideology.

I would rather use the money for such celebrations to touch the lives of less privileges ones in the name of my dead beloved ones, like giving out scholarships to orphans, empowering the poor and the needy ones, visiting orphagnage homes, paying bills of sick one, etc., in his/her name. I personally believe that such acts is more rewarding than all those unnecessary merry-merry.


Anyway, each to his own.

5minsmadness:
Good point. Thanks.
The issue I think has to do with exes whom you had a cordial breakup with. How do you tell an ex who is also a friend to fvck off? Thier breakup ended in a friendly way and they've been pals ever since.

An ex
Can someone please remind me the meaning of "ex"
And to make it more funny, a cordial break up with an ex
You guys are just too funny sha!

If you were so cordial and the friendship is mutual as you claimed, why did she become an ex?

Abeg, no good ex with good intentions, who is aware that you're married would be comfortable with being around when your wife isn't around or be comfortable with being lodged in a hotel without the knowledge of your wife.





On the other hand, if it's your wife that did what you just did or are doing, would you like to know, and if you know, what will be your reactions?
Be sincere, please!
Regards!

@freecocoa, I broke my silence because of you.



Why does he or she wants you there?

To rub it on your face
Please, don't go.
Send a congratulatory message to them on the morning of the D-day, and wish them well.


It can't be very comfortable for neither you nor him.

@op, have you paid Seun for this advert?

Moca, it's well with you! Please, accept my condolence! May his gentle soul rest in perfect peace!

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cyprus000:
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E pain you abi?.

I think she deserve whatever she get.

What happens to her behaving lyk a gentlwoman and tell him that she want out and get a divorce. Instead of sntiching on the innocent soldier.

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Pained
You're funny!

Well, I still maintained that what the wife did is very wrong, but if you deeply and critically examine what the soldier did,you'll realize that, it has more traumatic effect on him because of his relationship with her. He should have simply divorce her and let her be traumatized by her conscience.

Well,each to his own!

spellingcheck:
if you were my wife and you cheat on me, i'll blind you, humiliate you, and then divorce you and marry your sister.

First of all,get some facts right.........
1. I can never be your wife!
2. I can never cheat on my husband!


Now to the matter, what the wife did is very wrong, but for the soldier to humiliate her like this shows he didn't think deep before taking his action. He took the action while he was still furiously angry.
There is no way the wife would be described and the soldier's name will not be mentioned.
He should have divorced her straight away. That would have been the best punishment for her, she'll be the one to be telling people her reason for being divorced.

Anyway, each to his own!

And the soldier just embarrassed/ humiliated himself with this his action! Abi is this not the same woman he's been knacking and banging all these years! What happens to gentleman approach of simply divorcing the so called cheating wife? What exactly does he stand to gain from this show of shame. The to-to he has always been crazy about all this while is the one he's now exposing to the whole world to see, His common sense is not common at all. Not supporting the useless cheating wife, though, but honestly, this man humiliated himself by himself............ lol..... Smh

And the soldier just embarrassed/ humiliated himself with this his action! Abi is this not the same woman he's been knacking and banging all these years! What happens to gentleman approach of simply divorcing the so called cheating wife? What exactly does he stand to gain from this show of shame. The to-to he has always been crazy about all this while is the one he's now exposing to the whole world to see, His common sense is not common at all. Not supporting the useless cheating wife, though, but honestly, this man humiliated himself by himself............ lol..... Smh