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Svelteb:
Hmmm....beautiful gesture. may God bless her 4 u nd she'll 4eva b a source of joy 2 u nd ur hubby.

Amen and amen.
Thanks!

Yesterday was my daughter's birthday, she just clocked 6. We didn't really plan any party, we just wanted to have a session of prayers to be followed by just eating and giving her siblings some biscuits with sweets, until hubby surprised us with a small cake and a pack of fruit juice made for kids. So, we didn't have choice than to involve the neighbour's kids to celebrate with us. So, after dressing up for her and was time for her to come out, i just noticed that she came out late and when she was coming out, she came with a bag of clothes. She called me aside, and said........"mummy, please help me to give out these clothes to those who doesn't have as much as i do, that is how i want to celebrate my birthday."

i was dumbfounded, i was humbled, infact, i don't know how to describe what she did. I know she has done beautifully well, but never expected such from such a very young girl of 6.


I'm proud of you, my angel!

With what the op and others have described here, i don't have the nerve to watch it, i can't even dare to because it'll ruin my day completely.

There are some sick people among us, so sick that Dangote's money is not enough to treat them.
On Friday, i went to the salon, i couldn't finish my hair-do, so, i went there to finish it yesterday. In that salon, there are about 6 apprentices there, one of them is a nursing mother, the nursing mother is relatively older than the rest, she should be around 22-24. Her baby is around 9 months old, so this baby crawls around, at a point, he was struggling to stand with the help of a chair, as he made the attempt, he fell down, the next thing i would hear from the MOTHER herself were horrible names on the innocent brave and agile kid.........names like........ode, oniranu, dindinrin, shaki nse bi ora, joo kosi danu, omo osi, para e, ko ku danu, immediately, i told their oga who was doing my hair to stop, and asked how could you call your child such horrible names, it was the oga who first responded that....haaaa mummy, o nba sere ni(she was playing with him), i said, playing with him? With such horrible and demeaning names, infact curses on him, i then faced the mother and asked, are you sure you're the mother, if yes, did you intend aborting it and people advised you against it, if not why do you hate this hansome boy like this, she said, i don't hate him o, he's my child, that's how i always play with him, then i advise that, that type of play is not fair, that she should rather bless him than cursing him.
As if that wasn't enough, the boy was reacting to something, so he cried, and the next thing i heard was...........whoa!.......a resounding slap......i just told the stylist, please leave my hair, i can't stay here again, if i have my way, i will get all of you arrested here for child abuse, since none of you see nothing wrong with what is being done to this innocent boy.
That was how i left the place, even without finishing my hair.

I wonder what such a person would have done to someone else' child.
So, some dangerous and sick people abound, may God continue to guide our kids wherever they are.

@missSlimbody, happy birthday to you....wishing you every good and beautiful things you wish yourself.



I wish my lovely daughter a beautiful and great birthday.......

Birthday party going on......

Just like yesterday.....na wa o!


Gbenga Adeboye Abefe Funwontan Jemgbetiele.
Alhaji, pastor, oluwo!
Continue to rest in peace.
I miss you so much!

I'm yet to see a multi-talented comedian like him all this while.

Love this thread.......
Not May-born but have plenty and wonderful mayborns around me......
Where do i start?

Ok, let me start like this........


My crown-27th.
My only daughter-2nd.
My last born-22nd (on my profile pics).
My MIL- 16th; the most wonderful MIL in the whole wide world (80 years old this year and still very agile and active).
My lovely SIL- 26th.
One of my nieces-13th.
My senior colleague/sister/friend/spiritual mentor- 13th.


Wow.....wonderful mayborns around me, so happy for them.
Congratulations and happy birthday to them all in advance.


@missslimbody......you and my only daughter are birthday mates.

tearoses:
Awww thanks babes
Shhhhhhh
This is tearoses a new NLander

Ewuro4, Damiso, Tayour & my sisters from another mother
and everyone else, hope you are all good
((hugs))

tearoses!
Our newest familylander
We greet you o!
Welcome to family section fun room, where all of us are one big and happy family, kindly introduce yourself before you're properly welcome into the fun room..........lol

happy to see you though!

Lol...see the teeth of the "sucker".........

Well, i think they both need attention and they've got it, because i'm sure milk aint coming out from that dry and sagged bosom.

In another way, both might be in a rare form of imbreeding.




Just remembered coogar now on his theory of breastfeeding, i think he's right on this one.................lol

taryour:
Have tried reaching her for over a month now can't get through. But am certain all is fine. Might pay a visit this week by the grace of God.

she's fine, very fine.
She deactivated for very personal reasons.
Thanks for reaching out.
How're you and yours ma.
Regards!

Congratulations dear!

And lovely pictures you've got there.

edwife:
what does omo pupa means?

fair in complexion lady.......
Yellowpawpaw woman....lol
Toyin tomato


pick your choice

Ewuro4:
Maybe she's omo pupa.

and what if she's omo pupa
I'm one o, be careful.
We omo pupas aint tempting o........lol

@op, i really sympathise with you because you posted the same thing about this very your wife in 2013, which means she has not changed yet. Well, I don't really know what i can say except that you keep praying for her.

But honestly, she must have been like that before marriage, and what makes me more confused is you going ahead to marry her despite knowing the kind of woman she is.

I wish you well.

@op, i feel you.
The joy of having kids is indeed an indescibable one.

Using this medium to pray for those who are willing and able to have this kind of feeling but are not yet able to for one reason or the other that this year shall not pass them by and that they shall also have cause to have this feeling and the feeling shall be permanent.

For those of us with children already, may they never be source of sorrow to us and may we never regret having them. Amen

And for the peeps screaming "i love you" "i love you"...........it is good and fine but please and please........say what you mean and mean what you say.

Let not your actions be the direct opposite of your expression.

@op, your post is on point. I love it.
Personally, i love actions more than words. Most time, you mean what you do than what you say. And besides, most men aint as emotional as most women, so, they prefer telling you through their actions that they love you dearly and that you're invaluable to them. However, if there are men whose wives loves the verbal expression very well, they should learn to verbally express it always. But as for some women, they prefer the actions more than the words.

And the best of it all is combining both action and words.

jemsi:
What will happen to him if he says it with his mouth also?

nothing will happen to him but some people are not just used to saying it. And it is better to show it than saying it and doing opposite.

plaetton:
But men and women are different in many many ways. Women, being the stronger sex, are molded by nature to be patient and resilient in the face of great odds.
Women are the backbones of the home, who can always pick up the pieces to mend and rebuild when the man's libido threatens her home and family life.

Therefore, whenever the woman decides to stray, the moment the thoughts come to her mind and she follows through, the home is finished from the moment, even if it takes a while for the man to find.

That's why by the time the man finds out, he knows he realizes that his home is already broken.

Its pointless trying to forgive a woman for infidelity, because, women go through many different emotional stages before they taken that leap. One of those stages is demonize and condemn their husbands, justifying to themselves that he deserves to be dishonoured.

That is why it is nearly impossible, and not advisable at all to forgive an unfaithful wife.

Really?

Nairaland/Nigeria men never disappoints!

dearpreye:
Forgive my cheating wife? I dey craze?

Make e no happen at all....

It's GAME OVER! !!!

but you will want your wife to forgive you if you cheat on her
Smh!

As for me, it has never happened to me, so, i can't categorically say this is what i'm gonna do but i pray it never happen.



There's a male colleague of mine who always say that if his wife cheat on him that he will forgive her because he too always cheat on her. He always say it with all seriousness, even though we don't what is in deep down his mind. But i think he knows that his wife can never cheat on him because i'm yet to see a man who forgives his wife of infidelity. However, if it happens and he actually forgives his wife, he has my respect because he knows he's the cause of his wife's infidelity.

My opinion, please.

We thank God o but how did you know? Are you one of the family members? Was the ransome paid? Are the kidnappers tracked and arrested? Is the housemaid found or arrested. Please we need mre update, please.
So many question waiting for answers but above all, thanks and praise to God.

Anyone who threatens me with hell fire has lost it. I will rather like and listen to the one who preaches love, in love and with love as well as without threat.

sexybaby22:
the mom is putting on green. she looks sooooo young. i hope to age like that.

no! Look very well, that lady is younger than the one in black. Please look at the picture again, but more carefully.
Love!

Look very well and you'll see that the mum is on black, to me this is very clear, maturity is written and seen all over her face and the body as well. Even the way she's holding her daughter too is also an indicator.





Haba! Why is this even an argument sef? Look very well, and see that the woman in black is even having some traces of stretch mark towards her armpit.

That she's taking good care of her self to look younger always does not means the obvious signs of a grown up woman should be overlooked.
It really surprise me sef that people can get this wrong.

@ifyalways, i agree with you, that amount is small, even ridiculous but i can bet it that even if 50,000 ngn is the bargained salary, and she's assigned to carry out this evil assignment, she will still do it. So, i don't think the action is a direct result of the poor payment but the intent of the maid and her cohorts.



Olorun ngbo, this country needs cleansing and deliverance.

Lord, please i beg you to touch the stony hearts of these kidnappers to soft hearts and let them release these kids unharmed and timely. In Jesus name i beg.

Gboliwe:
Greatgod2012, take a break from your easter chicken and savour this classic response!

Some people sha

Gboliwe dear.........
Happy Easter to you.
Please i beg of you....let this my Easter chicken go through the channel please. If you don't mind, i can pm some pieces to you.

On a serious note, i don't know why some human are just like this.....desperate to dupe people of their hard earned money by pronouncing evil upon themselves...........na wa!


Dr naijafresh.....God bless you for your response. Thank you for saving NLders from being duped.


@op, i pity you.

You were not wrong!

bennyrazz:
All those akata women/divorcee can keep ranting on NL over MILs. I know one thing for sure, their plans of poisoning the minds of good women here on NL and outside NL would never work. Their plans of making single ladies to have an inbuilt hatred on MILs they haven't even met will fail woefully. Just because your own marriage has failed or is failing due to your intolerant, wicked, self-centered and malicious nature does not mean others must fail or join you in your sinking ship. You haters of MILs and in laws, God is watching you cuz someday, you will be an in law.

You know what? Anybody that wants to take advice on this forum need to first ask for the spirit of discernment seriously before taking it. Sometimes when I see some advice on this platform, I feel like weeping for whoever that will out of ignorance take to such advice. Many of these advisers are so aggressive to the extent that you see their posts filled with screaming.
May God give us the wisdom to know which advice/counsel to heed to and the ones to discard. Amen

coogar:
the ones who are clamouring for intolerance & disrespect would soon get their comeuppance. what goes around comes around - all the DILs today would become MILs tomorrow & someone's daughter would disrespect them.

a woman slapped her MIL & some retärds were somehow justifying the action. if her mother was placed in the same scenario, would she have slapped her own mother? sometimes, you just have to assume some of the posts you read here are typed by animals.

coogar........respect!
Take this.....

coogar:
the ones who are clamouring for intolerance & disrespect would soon get their comeuppance. what goes around comes around - all the DILs today would become MILs tomorrow & someone's daughter would disrespect them.

a woman slapped her MIL & some retärds were somehow justifying the action. if her mother was placed in the same scenario, would she have slapped her own mother? sometimes, you just have to assume some of the posts you read here are typed by animals.

coogar........respect!
Take this.........

coogar:
the ones who are clamouring for intolerance & disrespect would soon get their comeuppance. what goes around comes around - all the DILs today would become MILs tomorrow & someone's daughter would disrespect them.

a woman slapped her MIL & some retärds were somehow justifying the action. if her mother was placed in the same scenario, would she have slapped her own mother? sometimes, you just have to assume some of the posts you read here are typed by animals.

coogar........respect!
Take this.....

coogar:
the ones who are clamouring for intolerance & disrespect would soon get their comeuppance. what goes around comes around - all the DILs today would become MILs tomorrow & someone's daughter would disrespect them.

a woman slapped her MIL & some retärds were somehow justifying the action. if her mother was placed in the same scenario, would she have slapped her own mother? sometimes, you just have to assume some of the posts you read here are typed by animals.

coogar........respect!

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