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Good one @op!
People are becoming wiser on daily basis.
We now know that the end of wedding ceremony is the beginning of marriage!

Debt-free and stress-free wedding ceremonies is what every intending couples need to consider for the benefit of each other.
The "koko" is the marriage itself!

Good comments so far, except few!

Tallesty1:
Religion is not the reason I try as much as possible to remain faithful.


There is just one rule that guides my relationship.


Do unto others as you would have them do unto you...........


I know how I will feel if she cheats on me so I won't put her through it.

That's all.

are you sure you are not my husband?

May their souls rest in peace!


Btw, who poisoined them
And for what reason
And is the person satisfied now

I don't know what to say, just speechless!
@op, it is well with you!

Happy birthday, my dear sister!
You deserve to be celebrated!
Many, many many more years ahead in glory, joy and fulfilment.
Enjoy babe!

taryour:
Most definately egbon. Please send me a text with your number ma. Very very important and urgent. Been wanting to pass an info to you o, my phone crashed and I lost all my contact. Thanks sis.

Done!

k2039:
I wish you a joyful, bright, healthy, prosperous and happiest year ahead. Happy Birthday Greatgod2012.

awwww.....emi nikan tan!
Thanks, i really appreciate!

cococandy:
amen.


Here. Enjoy with love

Thanks, sis!

I love this!
Wine equates merriment.
May your life never be devoid of merriment!
Thanks!

cococandy:
happy birthday

You're blessed. Remain blessed

@ you too greatgod2012(hope I got that right)

Wow! Thanks, sis, you're awesome!
May you also be remembered for good things in Jesus name.
Na wine i need from you!
@taryour, i need big chocolate cake from you!
@Edwife, coolers of fried and jollof rice.
Thanks all!

edwife:
Greatgod Happy Birthday!

i am confused about the date but i know 3 of us are june babies.Never too late,never too early

My birthday wish for you is that happiness and love surround you, not only on your special day, but always.

https://www.picgifs.com/graphics/h/happy-birthday/graphics-happy-birthday-161793.gif

Awwww...thanks, my dear sister from another mother. I'm so honoured. It's 8th!


Happy birthday to you too.


Byvan, welcome back and happy belated birthday to you ma!
How are the boys ma!

We June babies rock!

I have learnt something today.........that it is not advisable to discourage bad handwriting, that it gets clearer with time.
I have done this severally but now i promise to stop and allow nature to take its course.

@op, thanks for this wonderful thread!

She's not in anyway committing any crime, just trying hard to make herself happy...... No biggie!

jaybee3:
What's your level of education homeboy?

you wicked gan

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I pity my fellow women who are looking unto God's face for the fruits of the womb! Very unfortunate! In every 8 out of 10 childless marriages, it is the wives that are usually accussed of barreness, it is the wives that would be subjected to various fertility tests, both medical and traditional, some are very painful, while some are highly embarrassing! It is the wives that are scorned in the society and even in the family, and the men, no, they won't go for any test o. They are automatically fertile.
Ok, wind don blow now, we don see fowl yansh............men, go and do fertility tests on your selves before accussing your wives of barreness!



Very educating piece, @op.

I pity my fellow women who are looking unto God's face for the fruits of the womb! Very unfortunate! In every 8 out of 10 childless marriages, it is the wives that are usually accussed of barreness, it is the wives that would be subjected to various fertility tests, both medical and traditional, some are very painful, while some are highly embarrassing! It is the wives that are scorned in the society and even in the family, and the men, no, they won't go for any test o. They are automatically fertile.
Ok, wind don blow now, we don see fowl yansh............men, go and do fertility tests on your selves before accussing your wives of barreness!



Very educating piece, @op.

With these photos, i doubt if anybody can still disprove the fact that GEJ is a good and peaceful man!





Honestly, the only problem GEJ had was that, he was too soft, and those he surrounded himself with took his "too softness" for granted, because they knew he wouldn't complain or frown at their foolishness.


GEJ has my respect any day, any time and history will not forget him positively!

Some of the reasons are reasonable though, for example, the one that always deficate inside pots every weekend need counselling and therapy and if he refuses, needs to be left alone, honestly.
Also, the big butt's and boob's lover are justified, they're deceived into the marriage by false endowments......but, i don't think divorce should be the next......what is silicon there for?........lol



these ones are just been funny and crazy.............no tangible reason at all.........
And the funniest to me, imagine the one who said he's not allowed to beat his wife to coma.....what a miserable man
Another funny one is the one who divorced his wife because he didn't bring in any kitchen utensils into his house.....what difference does it make if he's the one who bought the ones they are using at home
And the one who divorced her husband because of shoe odour.....not body odour o, but shoe odour.....imagine.......what a funny excuse

And the one with house-chore excuse........lol......


In short, diverse people exists!
(orisirisi eniyan lo wa)!

Funniest reasons indeed!


Marriages aint as sacred as it was ordained by God again. Very pathetic.
People no longer put the seriousness it deserves in it again.

Some even believe it's a drama, as in, you can act married today and single or divorced tommorrow!
Na wa oh!



It wouldn't have bothered me if a marriage comes to an end due to reasonable excuses like physical abuse or infidelity.


I still however prefer singleness to being a divorcee based on petty and funny reasons like these.


On a last note, please, all singles, both bachelors and spinsters, before saying "i do", please ask and ensure that you really want to get and remain married. It'll save you a lot of headache and embarrassment.
Thank you!

Something is seriously wrong with this man. Instead of him to shower his wife with love and gratitude for loving his children like her own, he keeps misbehaving. I don't blame him, if the woman is one of those wicked ones, i doubt if he would still be alive to be vomitting this gilberish!

To be honest.....it is we women.

We most times want our men to read our minds. Instead of us to say what we outrighly want or not want, we most times want them to know without telling them, assuming that they should know. For example, when we're moody and we're asked what's wrong, a typical woman's answer is an "unconcious nothing" Unlike men, most of them say whatever they want to say the way they want it. I think this attitude make us to be hard to be easily understood. Even between male and female children, you'll still see this trait.

However, with age, it gets better, atleast, i've conquered mine.

Though, some men too possess this trait but it's more common with we ladies.


This is not a women bashing thread o, just the unique way God made us. All of us can not be one-way traffic.......lol....

My sister, sorry o.

I can't outrightly ask you to end the relationship now. You claim you love him, right, if that's true, then help him through this hot temper syndrome. For now, cancle your traditional wedding date until further notice now. You said, he's still begging you, tell him the only way you can forgive and move on with him is if he's ready to deal with his anger problem. Suggest counselling to him. He needs it badly. If he agrees, it means he has some iota of respect for you. Then, he should start counselling class, you can join him too. Let him pour out everything to the counsellor, what and where he needs serious help, he can also add anger therapy with it. The counselling should be thorough seriously, towards the end, you will start seeing changes. After the counselling period, then you can go and pay him visit for some days again (like practical examination of all his lectures) and observe if he has really changed. You might be the angel God will use to turn his life around for better. But if you just go like that without helping him out of his predicament, it means you don't really love him to be healed of his "but".

On the other way round, if you suggest counselling to him, and he refused to yield, then, that means he's not ready to change, in that case, run as much as your two legs can carry you.


Why i suggest you help him is that, if you just run away without helping him, another woman may mistakenly marry him, and you know what that means for her. No woman deserves a hot tempered man.
We've heard enough cases of spouse killing the other spouse..

Accept my condolence.
May she rest in perfect peace!



As for your question, let me tell you, no matter the worst case, life continues. No matter how worst you can describe it, we will always cross when we get to the bridge. One way or the other, it will be handled.
I have learnt a long time ago that, no matter how important, nice, wealthy, fame, etc, a person is and he/she dies, life won't stand still for a second, life will continue. And you know what, time is always a healer. Time heals everything.
With time, you will get over it.
Sorry, once again!

Separated over 10 years

If the sick partner is still concious, it's another thing, but no, he's not. So, why bother? Even, if she does it, she won't be appreciated, she might even be accussed of fast-tracking his death. It doesn't worth it. They both have moved on for a long time. Let it remain so, so that she won't be termed hypocrisy!
Sleeping dog should be left to lie please!
Personal opinion, please!

AnyibestDede:
U hv never had one before but u then went for 2 at ur first trial? Bloody liar!

Imagine! Two at a time. Good this he has apologised to them for bringing them up wrongly and has prepared to reunite his family. Lesson learnt!

For a father to patronise prosti tutes show the kind of training her daughters got.
He shouldn't worry himself, afterall, we all pray that our kids are bigger and greater tha us. His prayers has been answered!
He just reaped what he sew in his daughters!

Her parents!


A wise parents gets their children educated before handing them over to men. As such, the lady in question will have her self esteem intact and not be treated anyhow by the husband. Failure to do that, is one of the reasons wives aint been respected much by their husbands.

What is strange there? Are they not educated enough to useone or they are too old to use one? Because, i don't understand why this is a news!

Or is what they are watching there a problem?

Mirror head!

As if he would have done differently if he was the one!
Mtchew......

You people have started again!
He knows who he's referring to. Stop speculations!

It's good to be associated with success!